Balm of gilead is already in reconciliation powder and oil. So you really dont have to add it. Personally, I would do a contact me spell along with this work since you want him to contact you.contact-me,-call-me,-reconnect-spell-questions-and-answers-t2982.html
You could simply put the reconciliation honey jar in the middle...and create a triangle of candles around it to help increase the powder and emphasize the work. I would include a road opening candle, a brown candle dressed with tobacco,and compelling or compelling oil and deer's tongue, and red candle dressed with return to me. Light each candle (doesnt matter which candle is in which place. But you are going to light them clock wise and say my my roads be opened for john doe to return to me as a friend, then light the tobacco candle and say " may john doe be compelled to contact me" and light the return to me candle and say "may john doe return to me as a friend" and then light the honey jar, and say " may our friendship be healed and may we forgive each other"
Thank u St. Martha for everything you have done on my behalf.
Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!