Come To Me Spell Kit Questions and Answers

Devi Spring · Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 9:17 am

You should start with a combination of Reconciliation spell kit and honey jar to start mending the fences and drawing him back in, with a freezer jar aimed at freezing the other female out of his life.

MunecaDePana · Unread post by **MunecaDePana** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 2:01 pm

Do I have to get the reconciliation kit if we have remained in contact by txting? I was told by my mom that he has been "making eyes" with a girl that he works with as well. We've been broken up since Nov 21st, 2011

Dr_E_ · Unread post by **Dr_E_** » Tue Dec 20, 2011 11:43 am

Texting is not good enough for staying in communication. The emotional component of your voice is missing in the text and he can't hear how much you love him in your voice. I'd recommend using phone calls instead of texts. You can also powder gifts with Reconciliation Powder and send or give them to him so he is hit on a physical level with your magic.

Another good idea is to just hot foot the other woman out of the picture. Use a black female figural candle, cover it with Hot Foot Oil. Powder it with Hot Foot Powder. Put pins in the butt and in the head of the candle. Burn this down on top of a photo or name paper of the other woman and cuss her out telling her to "Get the hell out of his life once and for all". Once the candle has burned all the way down, gather the wax remnants and her photo, then go to a river that flows out of town. Toss the photo over your left shoulder into the river with an "AMEN!" then walk away and don't look back. This will help get rid of the other woman. Couple this along with the reconciliation and commanding work on him and you'll have a greater advantage to get him to commit and stay with you.

MunecaDePana · Unread post by **MunecaDePana** » Wed Dec 21, 2011 10:59 am

Thank you so much Dr. E! I will definetly do this...will hot foot work for more than one woman? Because theres a girl (lives in London) that he says he has feelings for and then theres another girl which is the girl he was making eyes with. Can I use 2 names when preforming this?

cassandre561 · Unread post by **cassandre561** » Tue Jan 03, 2012 12:07 pm

we were in a committed relationship and now he's confuse between his babymomma and me. i want him all for me. i purchased the stay at home oil and the purple candles. Now how to use them and succeed at the spell? i love him so much. i want his baby but we haven't been intimate.

Mary Bee · Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:35 pm

You can get a personal concern from your ex boyfriend and make a honey jar out of it, while burning the purple candles on top of the jar dressed with Stay At Home oil. You can dress his shoes or something he will touch with Stay At Home oil, praying that he will stay with you and only you.

Please do NOT get pregnant by this guy until and/or unless you have a full commitment from him, in terms of love and monogamy. A man who was acting like a dog once will act like it again unless you get him housebroken.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Tue Jan 03, 2012 10:14 pm

Love this. And I just received my recon spell kit : )

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Thu Mar 01, 2012 8:28 pm

I need help and have questions for the Come to Me Spell Kit. The directions say to to write your name on one name paper and your target's name on a separate piece of paper and write them nine times for each name. I thought you were supposed to cross your name with your target's name. which is the best way to go? It doesn't mention anything about using a photo of your target. It says to put your concern under one lodestone and the target's concern under the other lodestone. Could I put both my photo and targets photo under them? I have the Come to Me Spell Kit, but haven't started it yet, because the directions have me a little confused.

Devi Spring · Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Mar 02, 2012 7:21 am

There's no one way to write a petition paper. Use the method outlined in the instructions.

If all you have to use as a concern as the pictures, then, yes, that is what you put under the lodestones.

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Fri Mar 02, 2012 8:09 am

Thank you Devi for your quick response. I understand it better now, except for the part that says to make two squares cross when making an 8 or nine point star with the sachet powders. Would writting the names on back of the photos make the spell stronger?

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Sun Mar 04, 2012 11:54 am

I have another question about the Come to Me Spell kit. If I wanted to could I crisscross over the targets name with the command "Come to Me" over it.
Also Do I carve my name on the candle going up or going down?

Star_princess · Unread post by **Star_princess** » Mon Mar 05, 2012 7:58 am

I'm a newbie at hoodoo and I have a question for the Come to Me Spell Kit.

Do you carve your name on the candle from base to wick or wick to base or does it matter?

Before I start the spell kit, would it still work if I put Come to Me oil on the door handle where my target works or goes for lunch?

Joseph Magnuson · Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Mon Mar 05, 2012 10:36 am

unluckystar: Did you receive the instruction sheet with the spell kit?

I always carve the name from bottom to top (just like washing upwards to draw) to draw to me or my client. Yes, it will still work if you additionally put Come To Me oil on his door handle. Remember to add some to the handle as, and after, you are working the spell kit as well.

Star_princess · Unread post by **Star_princess** » Mon Mar 05, 2012 3:25 pm

Thanks for your reply Joseph.

Yes I have the instruction sheet, but it didn't say what direction to carve your name on the candle.

The only concern that I have from my target is a picture, that's why I was wondering if putting oil on door handles would make it even stronger.

I also have my target's last name that he signed on paper, but he didn't sign his full name. If they only sign their last name, will it still work?

Thanks for your help

Mama Micki · Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Mar 05, 2012 4:54 pm

Since it is a real signature that he touched, it is a personal concern.

unluckystar, I suggest you change your screen name to something more empowering.

Star_princess · Unread post by **Star_princess** » Tue Mar 06, 2012 1:18 pm

Thank you Mama Micki!

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Sat Mar 24, 2012 4:41 pm

I thought when you carve your target's name, it was supposed to go from bottom to top of the candle??

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Mar 24, 2012 8:13 pm

That's the way most people do it.

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Sun Mar 25, 2012 7:18 am

Thanks Stars for clearing that up for me.

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Wed Mar 28, 2012 4:52 am

Do you light all the pink candles at once or one each day. Why would you pinch out the white candle right after lighting it?

4leafclover · Unread post by **4leafclover** » Tue Apr 03, 2012 5:12 pm

Hello all -

This is my first time doing this spell and I've done a simple come to me candle spell a couple of times and each time men from my past come around and NOT the ones I would be interested in dating again (they cheated, lied, disrespected me, etc) - it's never the ones that I would really like another chance with or anyone new. Is this a sign that I'm doing something wrong or I don't need to do this spell altogether?

ConjureMan Ali · Unread post by **ConjureMan Ali** » Wed Apr 04, 2012 1:24 pm

You might consider doing a Cut and Clear before you do this work to help remove any residual bonds with past loves that may be holding you back.

4leafclover · Unread post by **4leafclover** » Wed Apr 04, 2012 3:31 pm

Gotcha, thanks

markx · Unread post by **markx** » Mon Apr 16, 2012 4:41 am

Hi

I bought the Come to Me spell kit, and it comes with queen Elizabeth root.

I'm male, shall I switch the Queen Elizabeth Root for John the Conqueror?

I have it anyway.

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Apr 18, 2012 2:45 am

Queen Elizabeth is also called the love root. Its great for good luck in love overall. But it is typically used by women or a gay man to attract other men. You could use the john the conqueror to gain the love of a woman though.

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Thu Apr 19, 2012 7:46 am

I asked this question before on the same thread regarding the Come to Me Spell Kit, but so far no one has answered it yet. Do you light one candle each day or do you light them all at once?

jwmcclin · Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Apr 19, 2012 8:46 am

I have not used the Come to Me Spell kit but I do know that instructions are included that support your questions.

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Apr 19, 2012 11:15 am

The white candle goes in the middle, which represents the person you are trying to attract. Each pink candle represent you. You create a circle of pink candles around the white candle. I would recommend burning the candles over a number of days or you can burn them all down in one day. I would extra pink candles just in case.

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Thu Apr 19, 2012 1:02 pm

Thanks Stars,

I didn't know the white candle was supposed to represent the target. So can I either burn all the pink candles at once like for 15 minutes over a number of days or all in one day? I just want to make sure I have this right.

Thanks

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Apr 22, 2012 12:27 am

The spell kit comes with directions. But 15 may be too long for these candles. If not then just buy some extra candles. You can burn them down for a portion or you can burn them down all in one day. But you would need to burn extra candles.

Starbright · Unread post by **Starbright** » Sun Apr 22, 2012 10:38 am

Thanks Stars, but I read the directions and it wasn't really clear as to whether I should light all the candles at once or one candle a day. It's a little confusing.

Is it better to perform the Come to Me Spell over a 7 day period or doesn't it matter and just burn them down all at once?

jwmcclin · Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Apr 22, 2012 5:21 pm

Burning over a period of days increases the heat on the situation. When things get hot, they pop. For Come To Me, I would definitely want intense heat on it over a period.

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Apr 23, 2012 3:53 am

I personally would burn things down in 7 days. Its almost like you are repeating the spell 7times. You are adding your energy into the work. I find this effective especially if you are new to folk magic. So it just gives you the option of working things and adding more energy

Pink kisses · Unread post by **Pink kisses** » Sat May 12, 2012 10:39 pm

I'm going to ask this here, although it has to do with the come to me bottle spell, when looking to attract a new lover do you
1 write down the specific qualities you're looking for in a man? (as has been stated here), or
2 simply write what you're looking for? (as in 'future husband' 'perfect lover' etc)

I ask because when I did my honey jars, I put the specific qualities, but then I had a reading and was told to put what I was actually looking for (future husband), that was, however 3 months ago, & I'm not really working with that reader anymore.

And I see it was mentioned on the 1st page, that you should include a personal concern of your own, but I thought if you added something like your hair, you should always match up hair from another person (that you're interested in), to make it 'even'.

Devi Spring · Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon May 14, 2012 6:03 am

I personally would include both in your petition - the list of qualities and whatever phrase encapsulates that for you "ideal mate" "suitable partner", etc.

You may wish to go back over your list and edit it. Look for what are needs and what are wants - try to narrow things down a bit to the most non-negotiable things that you desire from a partner. Sometimes there are qualities we think we want in a person, but are actually things we'd be more than willing to compromise on if the big important things were all present in a partner. So focus on those big important things.

jazzie · Unread post by **jazzie** » Sun May 20, 2012 9:50 pm

two main questions as to the come to me spell kit.

1. does someone have a diagram as to how the 8 point start should look like?
the instructions say, crisscrossing two squares. i dont understand what that means.
if someone could show me a picture or a link, that would be great.
there used to be one here, but apparently, this topic was either deleted or removed.

2. where do the lodestones go in terms of the 8 point star and the candles?
my plan was to have everything on the same tray.
but, the instructions state that i should save all of the sachet, waxes and so on in a bundle and place
the lodestones under the bed.
since ill have to save the remains from the tray, can i take the lodestones, put them on a separate
a white plate and leave them under the bed? or is the point that the lodestones should not be distrubed/moved
(left on a tray and place this exactly like that under the bed?

thx

Mary Bee · Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon May 21, 2012 3:50 am

The lodestones go in the middle of your work space, and they move towards each other over the 7 days of casting the spell until the 7th day, when they finally touch. It is in that touching position, covered with magnetic sand, that you put them under your bed. When I've done this spell for clients at a distance I will wrap the lodestones together in red cloth, tie it really well, and mail it to them with instructions to put under his/her bed. The leftover sachet and wax from the spell get wrapped up in red cloth and buried in your front yard to attract the target to your door.

If you are working the spell for yourself, you can leave the lodestones on a plate and put them under your bed in that way. However, I have pets that go under the bed so I put mine in a closed non-metal container so they can't be fussed with

Good luck,
Mary Bee

jazzie · Unread post by **jazzie** » Mon May 21, 2012 6:21 am

thanks marybee

thats exactly how i planned it.
i just wanted to know if the lodestones could be moved to
another container, i see that can be done.

what about the star?
do you know how this is supposed to look like?
esp. the crisscrossing two squares?

which one?

Mary Bee · Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon May 21, 2012 12:18 pm

The third one is two interlocking squares, that's the one you want.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

jazzie · Unread post by **jazzie** » Mon May 21, 2012 5:27 pm

thanks marybee

just one last question,
there is a venus retrograde going on right now.
it will last until june 27, do you recommend
waiting until the month of july then?
next waxing phase is from end of july till early august.
how important are venus retrogrades in hoodoo?

Drugopera · Unread post by **Drugopera** » Mon Jun 25, 2012 3:55 am

I received my Come to Me spell kit a few days and intend to cast the spell during next month's waxing of the moon. Having read through a few spells on this site, I noticed that the directions for baths, appear to be different from the ritual baths I've read about on the forum. The instructions advise me to bathe in the bath salts, but it doesn't mention me disposing of some of the water at a crossroads. Could someone kindly advise whether this is to be done, or whether I should just follow the instructions as sent to me and not bother with the crossroads part.

Many thanks in advance.

Papa Newt · Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Mon Jun 25, 2012 5:41 am

I personally haven't purchased a Come To Me Spell Kit (yet! lol), however, the free information provided on the Come To Me Page suggests taking some of the bath water and throwing the water to the East.

Drugopera · Unread post by **Drugopera** » Mon Jun 25, 2012 7:52 am

Thanks Papa_Newt.

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jun 25, 2012 7:54 am

That's one way. You can also dispose of the water on your front porch. This way is used as well because you want to draw a lover to you.

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu Jan 10, 2013 8:04 pm

I ordered the Come to ME Spell Kit, but I seem to have misplaced the instructions. I have tried looking all over the websites for instructions on how to use the spell kit collectively, but cannot find it. Can someone please help?

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Fri Jan 11, 2013 9:34 am

I received my Come To Me spell kit last month and I seem to have lost my instructions

I was hoping to perform the spell this weekend as I'm leaving for travels at the end of the month. I called the shop for instructions but unfortunately, the only way is for them to send it to me via mail which takes a month to get to Canada. Could someone PLEASE share their instructions with me? This weekend will be my only opportunity ;(

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Jan 11, 2013 9:49 pm

Roxthefox,

My dear, it does not take a month to get mail to Canada. We will not allow folks to post copyright-protected writing on the forum -- they will be banned for copying the texts of others. Ask the shop for the material. Good luck.

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Sat Jan 19, 2013 1:28 am

I think I've made a mistake with my CTM spell. The instructions said to place the lodestones so the sides that are attracted are facing each other. I didn't know how to determine this, so I placed the two facing each other, and on the 7th day, when the lodestones 'meet', I discovered that I didn't put the two attracting sides facing each other. Will this affect the spell?

Princess_LoveDiva · Unread post by **Princess_LoveDiva** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 12:30 pm

Hi guys

I have an unexpected trip coming up next week and I won't be able to burn my candles while I'm there.

Any advice on what I could do to keep my come to me work ongoing? Will the results I've gotten already start to fade if I just leave everything until I come back? I'll be gone for 10 days.

Thanks in advance

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 1:21 pm

PrincessTumbles wrote:Hi guys

I have an unexpected trip coming up next week and I won't be able to burn my candles while I'm there.

Any advice on what I could do to keep my come to me work ongoing? Will the results I've gotten already start to fade if I just leave everything until I come back? I'll be gone for 10 days.

Thanks in advance

Prayer is a powerful thing, and having people pray for you is always great. Try putting your intention online for some help while on the road. Visit this website:
http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org

Its a great resource to have!

Princess_LoveDiva · Unread post by **Princess_LoveDiva** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 3:20 pm

Thanks apollo I'll take a look! And its true, prayer is a powerful thing. I will pray with an annointed photo of my love while I'm travelling.

MissMichaele · Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 10:24 pm

PrincessTumbles, you could also have the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church or a member of AIRR set lights for you while you are away.

Miss Michaele

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Sat Mar 16, 2013 12:18 pm

MissMichaele wrote:PrincessTumbles, you could also have the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church or a member of AIRR set lights for you while you are away.

Miss Michaele

An excellent suggestion! Find the MISC Candle Service Catalogue here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html

Princess_LoveDiva · Unread post by **Princess_LoveDiva** » Mon Apr 08, 2013 8:58 am

Sorry for belated thanks miss Michaele but I was away and I didn't want to visit the site on the pc where I was staying x

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Fri Jun 07, 2013 6:08 am

I recently used a come to me kit to attract a new unknown love out of the universe to me. Prior to this I did a cut/clear to get rid of negative character traits I had previously been looking for in partners and to sever the bond with an old flame so I feel like this will greatly help my endeavors in finding a new suitable mate that shares my values and treats me better.

When I carry the mojo bag, I have found that I get stares, lots and lots of stares and men just being wayyyy more friendly towards me. They seem to really like to touch me if they can. My arms, my back, anything haha.
My issue is, if this is to draw in an unknown person how will I know its the right person? I have drawn someone in, but its not someone I would consider dating.

If I only specified traits I was looking for and not a particular person, do they typically make themselves known to you and want to date you? I feel that things are definitely progressing along nicely because I am DEFINITELY getting more attention, so I am hopeful. I was just wondering how this has manifested for others (I know everyone is different). I am just a bit unfamiliar with this spellkit and wasnt sure if this caused MANY suitors to come to you or just the one who is meant for you?

momoko · Unread post by **momoko** » Sun Aug 18, 2013 6:58 pm

Hello,

I did a reading with one of the rootworkers and he advises me to do a come to me spell kit to draw my target to me . I am living with my folks and it would be impossible to set up a altar at home especially when i m sharing my room with other sibling. Can anyone advise me?

Thank you

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Aug 18, 2013 9:23 pm

Momoko,
Is this a permanent residence? If so, You can set it up in the bathroom (or another room where. Explain to spirit that you need to take it down when you leave the bathroom (and the reasoning). Make sure that you wrap everything securely, respectfully, and comfortably (as these are spirits that you're dealing with). Then, set it up again, etc.
You can take it to a park and do the daily rituals (at the same place daily).
You could do it at a crossroad (at the same place daily).
What about an Attic?

momoko · Unread post by **momoko** » Sun Aug 18, 2013 9:34 pm

Yes, permanent residence which is a condo without a attic. So bathroom is fine,but my bathroom alittle small and wouldn't it be disrespectful to the spirit? Can i put them in a box and cover it back each time I am done with it?

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 7:06 am

Hi, Momoko,
No, it is not disrespectful. Just explain to spirit that this is the only area that you have privacy. Trust me, spirit understands.
And, yes, the box is just fine. Just please make sure that the candle wick is cold and wax has hardened before putting them in box.
You'll do just fine!

Mama Micki · Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 8:03 am

Many people have to deal with limited space and other people in the home. Just do the best you can. You can burn a candle in sections if necessary and put everything away after you do.