General Honey / Sugar / Sweet Jar Questions and Answers

[mastersirius678]

Ok, some questions that I can't find answers anywhere

1. How would I do a honey jar on someone's behalf? This is for someone (person A) I know who recently got into an argument with her friend (person B), and her friend ended up blocked her everywhere on social media. This person (person A) knows that I do magick, and she asked me to help, as she do not have any experience with magick. Do I have to taste the honey and say the required words? Or can person A get her own honey and do the tasting ritual part since she do not live in my immediate local area?

2. Can I use a honey jar to sweeten my own personal life in a specific area the honey jar was designed for? Can I buy a Crown of Success honey jar and the Love herb mixture and combine them as a double purpose honey jar for myself?

3. Regarding handwriting as a personal concern, can it be a picture or screenshot of an oil painting the target made, or a handwriting in digital format, as in written with a touch screen device or surface, not with actual pen. For example, the signature you have to do on a credit card machine after you made a purchase.


With all these questions being said, I do have a target in mind that requires the traditional ritual of the honey jar, but I won't go into details since most of the question I had for that was already answered in Miss Cat's Honey Jar page and past posts from this thread.

[Miss Athena]

Hello mastersirius678,

To answer your questions:

1. You can make the jar for Friend A and give it to her, whereupon she would be the one to use the honey on Friend B. Or you could work it for her and Friend B together, but you would not need to taste the honey, bake with it, etc. as you are not yourself in the jar.

2. Yes, that sounds good.

3. Digital reproductions of handwriting are a weaker link to that target. Same with a digital version of something they made. You can try it, but I wouldn't expect the same results as you could get from their actual signature or hand-made item.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[mastersirius678]

Yes Miss Athena, these answers are very helpful, thank you for your time to answer them.

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[RisenRaven]

It has been suggested to me that I add some poppy seeds to my honey jar to make someone kind of woozily in love. But I believe in this thread I saw Conjureman Ali and Miss Aida advise against that. Perhaps they meant poppy flowers... would it be all right to use poppy flowers in a honey jar in that case?

[Miss Athena]

Hello RisenRaven,

Do stay away from poppy seeds in a honey jar, as they create confusion (not "woozy love"). You can include poppy flowers, which are known for inducing psychic vision and may lead your target to dream more sweetly about you.

I hope this helps. Good luck!

[carolinaXKE]

Hi everyone,

Potentially silly question here (forgive my ignorance!) but I had trouble finding the answer on my own...Can honey jars and vinegar jars be worked on the same target, for different purposes?

Allow me to explain: my ex-husband and his girlfriend are causing issues in my life and harming the relationship between my children and I. Since entering a relationship with this new woman, she has made my ex-husband hostile and difficult to co-parent with. I did a vinegar jar on each of them around a month and a half ago. I want them to drown in their own negativity and create discord between them in hopes that it ultimately would lead to a break-up. I did put her in the freezer, too (lemon, alum, poppy seeds, red pepper, soaked in my urine for self-protective domination). I have had some signs this last one in particular has had some success.

However, recently I've felt an urge towards making him easier to work with in the form of a honey jar. I don't like spending time being "at war" with someone I'm permanently stuck having some connection to due to have a living link to (our children) and still a few more years of having to work with. I had done a lot of controlling work on him but wasn't seeing much movement there. A little, but not enough. I wanted him to feel positively towards me and even wish for reconciliation (putting aside grievances, soothing of animosity, etc.) and friendship.

My thought process in all of this was that I want his life to be difficult, driving him to see a friendship with me as a positive "refuge" from all of that. Almost herding him in the direction of my intention, which is to put a stop to his malicious behavior and make him do what is needed to make up for the trouble he's caused. Does that make any sense or am I on the completely wrong path and sabotaging my goal?

Thanks in advance for any advice/words of wisdom!

[Miss Athena]

Hello carolinaXKE,

Both a honey jar and a souring jar worked on the same target at the same time are at odds with each other. Pick one direction and stick to it, otherwise you may find yourself having no luck with either.

I would decide which is the bigger priority for you and serves your best interest for the long haul and go with that.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[RisenRaven]

Wait... you shouldn’t do a break-up vinegar jar on a person and their SO at the same time you are doing a honey jar on the person for yourself? Or is it specifically that Carolinaxke mentioned doing separate vinegar jars on them each? Because facepalm if the former.

[carolinaXKE]

Hi Miss Athena,

Thank you very much for your feedback. I'll take your advice and try it out

[Miss Athena]

Hello RisenRaven,

You could certainly work a break-up jar on a couple and a honey jar at the same time to attract one of those people to you. It is a very traditional way to work.

However, it would be counterproductive to work a souring jar on an individual (to "make his life difficult") while simultaneously working a honey jar to sweeten that same person to you. That is the distinction I was making.

I hope this helps to clear up any confusion.

[RisenRaven]

Yes, very much so Miss Athena, thank you for clarifying!

[CuriouslilThing]

Hi everyone!

I’ve done honey jars before but never for this specific situation.... I do catering under the table for a man my friend knows. I would like to work for him on a steady basis. She has more of an ‘in’ with him because she is his wife’s best friend. I’ve only been in the picture about a year and was getting used frequently but then COVID happened and all jobs stopped... He’s been getting a handful of jobs now though and I would like to be at the top of the list of someone he calls for a gig.

What should I put in my honey jar aside from the petition paper and honey. Can you think of any herbs that would help me jump to the top of his list? I looked at the Boss Fix forum but didn’t feel like that suited my situation since we are on good terms. I have his signature and today a picture of us was taken together but we are wearing masks (does that matter?) so I could add that too.

My petition is ”Sweeten John Smith, born ----, owner of ----, to me. Have him favour Jane Smith above all others that work for him”

Unless you think that sucks and I should word it differently.. Thank you for your help! Stay safe!

[RisenRaven]

Hi curiouslilthing,

I’m sure someone will have more specific recommendations for you but as for herbs I’d like to refer you to Lucky Mojo’s sister site, Herb Magic. http://www.herbmagic.com/ It has a whole list of herbs carried by Lucky Mojo and their uses.

Indeed Boss Fix may not be suitable for your situation. Perhaps Look Me Over products on a candle or business cards would be appropriate. (I believe you generally want to keep the contents of your honey jar edible, save for your petition, and essential oils are not.) It is not only for love but is used in business as well.
https://www.luckymojo.com/lookmeover.html

Lucky Mojo also has Steady Work products and you could use a petition that you want steady work coming from him as well.
https://www.luckymojo.com/steadywork.html

I am still fairly new to this so I’d like you to keep checking back for more answers. Hopefully this will get you started!

[Miss Athena]

Hello CuriouslilThing,

Your petition sounds fine to me.

You can also use a bit of that honey in the next thing you cook/bake for this man's events, and offer him a taste. It's a traditional way of sweetening him to you, so that would be a wise choice.

I would also add some cinnamon, ginger and cloves to your jar, as these are good items to help increase attraction and fidelity to keep him coming to you for catering jobs.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[Cappygirl111]

My honeyjar cracked . It's a double layer glass jar and it seems only the outer layer has a crack... None of the contents have leaked.

Do i throw it out and restart.... I was doing it towards my manager to try get a pay rise.

[Miss Athena]

Hello Cappygirl111,

I would pour the contents into a new jar and continue your work.

Good luck.

[ConjureMan]

RisenRaven,

A honey jar isn't always the ideal solution for making some "woozy" in love. For a more dreamy-type of love you'd want to combine your honey jar with a doll baby or a skull candle.

[ConjureMan]

carolinaXKE,

I am in agreement with Miss Athena, it seems you are at cross purposes in your work. Making his life miserable while drawing him to you can be messy particularly because as a co-parent he'll be bringing that mess to you!

My recommendation would be to do souring work on them if you want to break them apart and then to do a bit of influence work that has some domination elements since you seem inclined to control him a bit. You can make a sugar jar rather than a honey jar and shake it up. I would include Rosemary, 3 thorns from a rose, and Licorice in addition to the other stuff you are using in your sweetening work. Add this to a jar along with sugar and shake it up while speaking directly to him telling him to listen and heed you.

good luck!

[Cappygirl111]

Warming up your honey jar.

I know the conventional methods of lighting a candle on it... Lighting tealight candles around it... But my question is can I use water. As in I have a small chocolate fondue set. I add hot water to the container... Add my jar and set a candle alight under it. Seems to keep the jar hot but not boiling for a few hours. Am I allowed to use this method.. I alternate it with lighting a candle on the jar.

[RisenRaven]

Thank you ConjureMan Ali! I was looking at the Herb Magic sister site of Lucky Mojo and also searching this forum, and I think the reader I was speaking to confused poppy seeds and poppy flowers. Herb Magic and (I believe it was) Miss Michaele said that poppy flowers are used “to confuse someone for love.”

http://www.herbmagic.com/poppy-flowers.html

That said, I am not necessarily jumping into wanting full-blown love yet. We are long distance and I’m still working on getting us a chance to meet up. It’s hard with the pandemic and all. I’m doing road opening and come to me work. Trying to be patient and wait for the waxing moon. Thank you again for your reply!

[catherineyronwode]

appygirl111 --

Sounds good to me!

[lawofattraction2000]

Hi all!

So i discovered that my honey jar is leaking- I have been working the jar since I would say June. Is it okay for me to pour the contents in a new jar? Can I add more honey to it as well? Also what do I do with the jar afterwards? Specifically the top that has the candle residue on it

Thank you all in advance!

[Miss Athena]

Hello lawofattraction2000,

You could pour the contents into a new jar. I would get one that fits the old lid so you can continue to build upon that wax. Recycle the glass from the old jar.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[lawofattraction2000]

Thank you Miss Athena! What if its not possible to find a jar that fits that lid?

[Miss Athena]

Hello lawofattraction2000,

Then transfer the contents of your jar to a new one and recycle the old one, including the lid.

Good luck.

[Lilyrue]

Hello everyone! I’ve just started my spiritual journey, it’s all so very new, with that being said I would like to know what I can do in order to get my ex boyfriend’s parents to like\love me again. I really miss all of them. Please advice about what type of honey/sugar/sweetening jar I can do to so they can be “sweeter” to me. Thank you!

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[Combat18]

To whom it may concern:
Is it possible I am just not cut out for conjure work? I was doing some reconciliation spells for a long while, then stopped. She started to come around and I did a honey jar spell to help keep her sweet to me and she disappeared again. I seem to be having better success with general spells more of European Grimoires for general things. My conjure work just doesn't seem to be up to par and I have been trying for many years now. I visualize, I pray, I give it time. It seems the harder I try it just doesn't seem to work. I feel like I even burned out my love life. Maybe it is the fact that I am even trying. I know things can be very subtle and take a very long time to work sometimes, but I feel like I am not any good at this. Any thoughts?
-Brandon

[Lilyrue]

Thank you so much for your response Ms. Catherine!

[Miss Athena]

Hello Combat18,

Not every spiritual practitioner will feel at home or adept with every magical system, so it's not unusual that you feel this way about hoodoo. Stick to the paths and traditions that speak to you and work for you, and you should be fine.

If you do have questions about why specific spells did not achieve your desired outcome, you could consider getting a reading for more clarity. You can find qualified professional readers here:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/
www.hoodoopsychics.com

I hope this helps. Good luck.