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Unread post by eagerbeaver88 » Sun Mar 04, 2012 6:59 pm

I have a situation not sure what would be the easiest spell to do for this but my new girlfriend and i are both annoyed by her ex who keeps popping up everywhere its like she hasnt gotten over her, she still contacts and hangs out with my girlfriends family because she just cannot let go, what can i do to get her to stop talking to the family and my gf and just go away and let us be?

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Unread post by Mary Bee » Mon Mar 05, 2012 4:18 am

Banishing products would be good to use; they are gentler than Hot Foot:

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Unread post by eagerbeaver88 » Mon Mar 05, 2012 10:24 pm

thank you , what color candle would i use and what would i have to do ?

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Unread post by Mary Bee » Tue Mar 06, 2012 4:03 am

If you have direct access to this ex's property or where they live, get some Banishing sachet powder. Mix it with the local dirt so it blends in, and sprinkle it around the ex's property, commanding that he/she be banished from your lives. When you get home, cleanse yourself spiritually with a bath made from Hyssop herb. Rub your body downward while reciting the 51st Psalm; this work is enemy work and you need to cleanse yourself from any sin.
If you wanted to use a candle, black is good. Carve the name of this person into the candle with a nail or sharp instrument, then dress it with some Banishing oil and light it.


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Unread post by Madame Pamita » Tue Mar 06, 2012 12:36 pm

Just curious, Mary Bee, why you see the need for a Hyssop bath after Banishing. This work is not a Hot Foot and it's not Break Up work. I think it's alright to be "better safe than sorry" but I'm not seeing this as war work. Not contradicting you - just wanting some insight as to why. I love your posts - you always offer such useful information. Thanks!
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Unread post by Mary Bee » Fri Mar 09, 2012 4:28 pm

Hi Pamita:

I just automatically use a cleansing bath after doing any kind of work that may negatively affect another person. It's not written in stone, but I never take any chances :) Thanks for your compliment; I really appreciate it!

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Unread post by eagerbeaver88 » Mon Mar 19, 2012 8:34 pm

thanks ladies this is great information!

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Unread post by eagerbeaver88 » Mon Mar 19, 2012 8:36 pm

oh p.s...is it ok to burn a banishing candle inside the home? not sure if this is considered to a "breakup" spell, but i heard any kind of negative spells or candles should be burned outside the home rather than inside because of the negativity, you dont want it around you..not sure if this is true or just a preference.

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Mon Mar 19, 2012 9:51 pm

You can burn it inside the home. Just make sure you cleanse your space afterwards.
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Unread post by Skindog » Thu Apr 19, 2012 7:31 am

First of all, hello. Long time lurker, first time poster.

There is a girl I would like a relationship with and I feel it's almost imminent, but there is a pretty big obstacle in the way. She tells me she still has strong feelings for her ex and she cannot commit as it wouldn't be fair on me. I'm needing advice on a spell for her to get these feelings out of her head or get him out of the equation. The thing is that I do not know anything about her ex, she will tell me nothing about him, not even his name, so his name or photo is out of the question..

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Thu Apr 19, 2012 7:39 am

Skindog, Lucky Mojo has two types of spells that are designed to break ties with the past. Cut and Clear Spiritual Supplies < http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html > and The Black Walnut Spell. Read these links for forum discussions on the two cut-and-clear-question-t16661.html
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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Thu Apr 19, 2012 10:56 am

Cut and clear is a personal spell. Its been noted on the forum that it would be better if the person the spell is for did it on their own behalf. Personally, I would work with banishing products. I would get a black candle with her name on it, and the command "remove feelings of ex" I would get some brand new open scissors and face them towards the black candle asking that they cut the ties with the old lover.

www.luckymojo.com/products-banishing.html

You can follow this up with some healing products as well.

www.luckymojo.com/products-healing.html
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Unread post by Skindog » Fri Apr 20, 2012 1:10 am

Sorry, Cut and Clear is not what I wanted in this case. Thank you for that Stars, i'll get on the case.

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Unread post by hapinys » Fri Apr 20, 2012 4:20 pm

Great idea

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Unread post by MorningMoon » Tue Jul 10, 2012 11:23 am

Hi All,
Sorry for the long post in advance but heres the story, been with a man for 5 years he started to drift away and began cheating with the mother of his youngest child. I started a love doll, honey jar and things started to look better for us then again he disappeared with her for 2 weeks. I got a reading and she mentioned that the other girl was doing work on him to try and keep him and even on his mother so that she would favor her and recommended hotfooting her out of the picture. She stated that our relationship would be triumphant. I did a moving candle spell and a breakup jar all the while still burning lights on my honey jar. Things have been great up until the past two weeks he has been completely psychotic. I mean paranoid that every man is looking at me sexually, saying I dont love him, one minute we are laughing and the next he is mad about nothing. Last night we had a huge fight a really bad one about him "thinking" I didnt think he was a man and he got his things and left. I immediately got my honey jar out and began working it in hopes he wont lose the love for me. Matter of fact i am burning a red candle dressed in love me oil on it right now as I type this. Do any of ya'll think that the hoodoo made him crazy? Is this possible? What should I do?
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Unread post by Piseog » Tue Jul 10, 2012 7:33 pm

I would not think hoodoo made him crazy. Hoodoo, properly used, is a good set of tools, honed for specific results.

In my experience, however, working magic in general amplifies situations in sometimes unpredictable ways. Human situations, especially in matters of the heart, are complex. My strong suggestion would be to get a reading from one of the AIRR folk here before proceeding further, in order to get perspective on the larger situation from an objective source.

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Tue Jul 10, 2012 9:17 pm

I second your recommendation Piseog.
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Unread post by MissMichaele » Tue Jul 10, 2012 9:54 pm

Piseog wrote:I would not think hoodoo made him crazy. Hoodoo, properly used, is a good set of tools, honed for specific results.
Well, there are plenty of old-timey spells specifically to run folks crazy. Somebody might have thrown that into the mix as part of their efforts to break you up.
My strong suggestion would be to get a reading from one of the AIRR folk here before proceeding further, in order to get perspective on the larger situation from an objective source.
Yes - it's quite possible that these insecurities go deep into his history, whether he's been hoodooed or not.

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Unread post by Piseog » Wed Jul 11, 2012 6:54 am

Well, there are plenty of old-timey spells specifically to run folks crazy. Somebody might have thrown that into the mix as part of their efforts to break you up.
Yipes, yes. Thank you Miss Michaele, for the greater clarity and precision. I knew I hadn't phrased what I said very well. It is certainly possible to make somebody crazy through spellwork intended to do so, but a love spell shouldn't have that kind of random side effect, as such. There could be other magic at work here, or random side effects could occur by putting increased pressure, magical or psychological, on an already unstable situation.

Besides getting a reading to increase understanding of what's really going on, MorningMoon, it might be useful, rather than doubling down on the love spells, to take interim measures to calm and stabilize the situation, starting with yourself. Taking a bath in sea salt and burning sage are two of the most very basic ways to get calm and otherwise hit the magical reset button.

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Unread post by MorningMoon » Wed Jul 11, 2012 7:14 am

[quote="Piseog"][quote]
Besides getting a reading to increase understanding of what's really going on, MorningMoon, it might be useful, rather than doubling down on the love spells, to take interim measures to calm and stabilize the situation, starting with yourself. Taking a bath in sea salt and burning sage are two of the most very basic ways to get calm and otherwise hit the magical reset button.

Piseog,
I am definitely going to go take myself a cleansing bath right now. I do not have any sage but do have some holy water I will also incorporate into my cleansing ritual. Will it then be safe to continue with my honey jar? Im wondering if I should dispose of the sour jar I had created on the baby mother perhaps this is giving off some bad vibes? (it is hidden in the back of a closet I do not use)

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Unread post by Piseog » Wed Jul 11, 2012 8:00 am

I am definitely going to go take myself a cleansing bath right now. I do not have any sage but do have some holy water I will also incorporate into my cleansing ritual.
Yay!!!!
Will it then be safe to continue with my honey jar? Im wondering if I should dispose of the sour jar I had created on the baby mother perhaps this is giving off some bad vibes? (it is hidden in the back of a closet I do not use)
Again, seek a reading, and the perspective that comes with it. But also, magic does have logic. And here is the magical logic I see, without knowing or properly reading your situation, but reading your words.

This is a guy who is apparently torn between you and another woman with whom he has a child. You are doing work to get him back and hold onto him. She presumably also wants to hold onto him (and has reason to do so. Child involved and all). There is heat, pressure, and mixed emotions all around, centered on a guy who is uncertain of what or whom he wants.

You're working lots of love and holding magic, to get him to want and focus on you, thus increasing heat and pressure in an already unstable situation. The magic by its nature heats and magnifies emotion and desire. Him wanting and focusing on you so much that it amplifies into seemingly random possessiveness and jealousy is the logical extreme of that kind of magic in this kind of situation, especially if your tendency when it's not going as planned is to step up the heat and pressure.

Magic should get you what you want, and hoodoo is built for that. Presumably, possessive, jealous and crazy is not what you want. But that is what you are getting, either through your current course of action or some other factor.

Everybody loves honey jars--what's not to love about sweetening? But a course change, dialing back, cooling down, getting more information before doing anything that creates more heat and more pressure, and minimizing your influence on the situation until you can act with greater calm and clarity, seems to be in order.

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Unread post by MorningMoon » Wed Jul 11, 2012 8:10 am

:shock: u have just opened my eyes to something. It helps to have an outside view on the situation and sometimes the best course of action is NO ACTION. True enough he is torn and I have wasted alot of time and energy holding onto something that doesn't want to be held on to. I think for the sake of my own sanity it is best I let this crazy undecided man go. After all there are plenty of men out there who are sane and want to have the same things I desire in a relationship. I can not thank you enough!!!!

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Unread post by Piseog » Wed Jul 11, 2012 11:28 am

Glad to help. I hope that plenty of peace and love come to you soon.

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Unread post by mallika » Sat Aug 04, 2012 10:06 pm

So i've been with my man for 8 years all of sudden his ex has come in picture last year wanting to break us up. From the reading i got done she is evil and doesn't want him for love to her it's just a game and she is good with her words so she is confusing him. We live together still and are physically involved as well. but the part i don't like is her sending him e mail every day and in those e mails sending horoscope and asking so have you been able to tune into your feelings? ""can you take the risk of loosing me" etc. not to mention she;s even sending him trip ideas asking if he wants to join her to take vacation for her birthday.... :( please help we were talking about marriage and kids this year and she has caused a lot of trouble for our relationship. i do not want my man to have anything to do with her and no communications at all i want him to step up and cut her out or if you can guide me to use right products where she would leave forever and never return in our lives. Thanks

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Unread post by aura » Sun Aug 05, 2012 3:39 am

Hi mallika,

If you can get her full name and picture off face-book (or personal concerns if he has some), consider working a vinegar jar to sour their relationship or the Break-Up spell kit which can be used to break-up friendships as well as relationships. Here are some threads and pages of information on those:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-break-up.html
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Unread post by mallika » Sun Aug 05, 2012 3:52 am

Thank you. I sure have her picture that’s about it. I hope once I perform it's more simple than it looks. out of all which one would you recommend kit or the vinegar jar spell? Also once i perform the break up spell is there something else i can do to make our relationship bond stronger to the way it was. Because we live together and he's been relying on porn as to coming to me i feel because of this distraction of his ex he's not fully committed to our relationship like he was before her coming in the picture. I don't say much to him anymore because he just doesn't want to do anything most likely due to confusion of his ex and there’s me who he was just talking about marriage he knows she's playing him and I hate the fact he is playing the game of " o now you want me I guess in a sick way you can say he got ego issues" He doesn't talk to me much about things that bother him or issues he's having it's like he has shut him self off our communication is not same like before so I don't know if this would open up by using road opener products? And how do I use the getting rid of bad habit or addiction you may call it of watching porn. It’s not just once in a while I checked his computer history it's at 3am. 8 am 6pm with in 1 day so I don't think it's normal pretty much every day. :(

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Unread post by aura » Sun Aug 05, 2012 3:59 am

If it's your first time working, then I'd suggest the Break Up spell kit as it comes with all the materials and instructions that you need to do the work. You'll also have supplies left over.

Until the supplies arrive, take a copy of her picture over which you write your petition for her to stay away, place it in a zip-lock bag with water, poppy seeds, hot pepper flakes and alum if you have some, and then place it in the freezer to stop her in her tracks. This is a simple ice-box/freezer spell. You can read more about them here: http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html
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Unread post by Psychic Mimi » Sun Aug 05, 2012 8:05 am

Here is another good link for you to look at... aside from the freezer spell, you could attract someone else to her so she is too busy with someone else (and thus leave your man alone), as well as turn his attention to you:

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Unread post by parfait1 » Mon Aug 06, 2012 5:55 pm

In the past four months I got back together with my ex-boyfriend. Recently his ex-girlfriend of three years broke up with her new boyfriend of seven years. She has started trying to get in contact with my boyfriend and asking him to go to lunch etc. She knows we are back together. She was his first love so he is unsure what to do about the situation. Is there something I can do like a cut and clear to just get her to back off and stay away? I don't care if they ever speak again, but I don't want any bad karma. I just hate having that feeling of what if she tempts him at just the right time? I don't trust her at all.

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Unread post by Kate2012 » Tue Aug 07, 2012 9:37 pm

I have a similar situation, but my question is a little different. I really have looked for the answer on the forum, but no luck. I did a vinegar jar but accidentally (not really thinking) put hot foot powder in it. I'm so mad at myself! During the time I have worked the jar I have worked it and prayed over it w/ the conviction that they separate and she get out of our lives for good- which I know believing in your work is an important part of the process. I've been working the jar for a few days. Eventhough I am working with the conviction that they will fight and break up, I want to dispose and start over, but want to dispose of it properly. I can't find anything that clearly tells me how to dispose of this vinegar jar ONLY because i've MESSED it up and want to start over. At a crossroads doesn't make sence, nor in a body of floating water, or burrying it either.. burning doesn't either as it has nails and glass, etc. But I'm kind of new at this. I just don't want to mess up :( . I had a reading w/ Cat last week and she strongly believes that this woman has some sort of "work" on him. So I need my work to be as clear and well done as possible. If I were finished w/ the vinegar jar and I had done it properly, I'd know what to do w/ it.. but I simply would like to start the jar over and keep the hot foot out. This is just a mess up I need to correct. Help.. :(
Worse part about all of this.. she doesn't love him and she is not a good person - even before Cat's reading I and everyone who knows her knows she's not a good person (devil card was the first one Cat threw down for her).. and he and I do love each other.. but there is this "unexplained" hold, attraction, "something" where he can't let her go.. this may very well be the "work" Cat was talking about..

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Unread post by mallika » Wed Aug 08, 2012 5:56 am

Thank you for your help guys. Can't wait to get through this rough time.

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Unread post by mallika » Wed Aug 08, 2012 2:02 pm

Kate, i hear u hang in there i have same situation his ex doesnt even love him wants him now because we bought a house and she is jealous because she never had anything with him or got to how much i have in my relationship. From my readings i was told her main goal is just to make him unhappy and only want him because of financial security since he has a job now while i was the one who hung in there for 4 years when he has no job... I think from my readings what i remember on forum u can mix things up so even though you put hot foot i'm pretty sure it's fine because thats just making your spell stronger if i am not mistaking. I was told to do the freeze spell in that i use hot footer so after reading ur post i'm second guessing myself but i would say 98% its ok t mix things up. i don't know about discarding the jar but you can always call lucky mojo they are really helpful and will till you what they know. =)

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Unread post by Mary Bee » Thu Aug 09, 2012 3:28 am

You can use Separation products to keep them apart without fussing or fighting. You can have a Separation vigil light set at the shop altar and send in a picture of your man and this other lady, so they can tape it to the candle and personalize it.

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Unread post by moneytakea » Sat Sep 01, 2012 7:46 pm

I must say you can hot foot her as well if you know where she lingers around or just do a clarity spell to open his eyes up that you are the one he's with and happy with and that he's already moved on.

If its really serious then I recommend a root worker's advice.

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Sat Nov 17, 2012 8:02 pm

The black walnut spell will remove someone from your life permanently. Since the children are grown, there is no reason for your husband to have any contact with her.
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Unread post by fouargent » Sun Nov 18, 2012 5:03 pm

Thank you very much Mama Micki. My husband does not have any communication with his ex at all. She is the one constantly bothering him.Can I perform black walnut spell for my husband -- like taking the bath for him?? Or Does he has to take the bath?? I am trying to be as discrete as possible in this matter. I do not want my husband to know anything about magick or spell. Thank you very much.

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Unread post by Devi Spring » Mon Dec 03, 2012 7:23 am

You could also use a freezer spell to freeze her out of his life.
Or if you don't feel justified in using something as harsh as Hot Foot, you could use Banishing products instead.

There are many approaches here. Use divination, or have some divination done on the situation to find out which approach will work best for your.
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Re: Hot Foot to Drive Away Ex-Lover-Ex-Spouse of My Lover-Spouse

Unread post by Jude » Wed Dec 26, 2012 3:13 pm

My boyfriend's ex-wife is a complete nightmare and her antics are putting a huge strain on our relationship. She has his daughter (not her daughter) turned against us having a relationship and uses her to "spy" on us and report back to her our goings on. She is continually threating him that he will lose his relationship with his daughter if he continues to see me which has led to him not including me in things that involve his family. Furthermore the house in which he lives is in his ex wife's name and she is continually threating to kick him out and sell the house if he continues to see me or doesn't do what she asks for example give her money or help pay her bills. She continually bad mouths me to him and has even gone as far as trying to befriend my family members to get information on me that she could use to her advantage. It is to the point where we cant even go out anymore because he is scared that someone might see us togather and tell her (which has happened) which just leads to a huge fight with them and her threating to sell the house and leave him homeless.
I have hot footed her and she did move about 6 hrs away. But now instead of her "spying" on us she just gets her friends to do it :( .
I did a topa boca freezer spell with the cows tounge to shut her mouth and stop her gossiping about me.
I am starting a honey jar on the daughter with cloves and sugar to sweeten her to me and a vinegar jar to sour her and the ex wife's (not her mom) relationship.
I have even tried hotfooting him out of the house but have only been successful in keeping him away from the house (eg. working lots of overtime, going out to eat alot, ect.) and not getting him completely out of the house.
I am at a loss as what to do to cut her completely out of his life once and for all. Anybody have any advice on what I should do. It would be greatly appreciated. Thanks and many blessings.

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Re: Hot Foot to Drive Away Ex-Lover-Ex-Spouse of My Lover-Spouse

Unread post by preppieroots » Wed Dec 26, 2012 6:50 pm

Hi Jude,

it sounds like a fairly complex situation, so my first suggestion is for you to get a reading from one of the ethical readers/rootworkers at AIRR. It's always best to have a look at the situation so as to know which paths to take to get the results you want. Getting magical coaching from one of the experienced workers at AIRR will help you avoid spending money on things that may not prove the most helpful in your situation.

That said, I would personally start researching mirror box spells for this ex wife, to deflect all of the crap she is doing back on to her. I'd also look into Doll Baby work, and combine that with the mirror box work. Or a doll baby work involving sending that doll to the far ends of the earth. (or buried in the cemetery and "held down" by spirit(s) you've asked for help).

I would also get a Fiery Wall of Protection spell kit.
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Unread post by Mira » Tue Jan 15, 2013 2:33 pm

My question is two part.

I suspect my boyfriend is in some kind of contact with his ex, and while I'm pretty sure this is only "friendly", I'm still not okay with it.

Weird history that I'm not sure is relevant and it's kind of long: He's been evasive about it before because because he didn't think it was a big deal and also knew I was feeling insecure and didn't want to upset me (going back in his mind to, because it's not a big deal)- however, the fact that he didn't disclose to me about it was a betrayal for me, one I've tried very hard to work through since I've had no indication he's strayed. Trust me when I say I'm 99.9% sure he's not doing anything other than texting, and that "as friends" still, they had an intense relationship, and I don't want that door open even a little bit or feelings redeveloping.

Anyway, after telling me he would be more open about when she was in communication with him, and he did tell me a few times when and what she texted, I've not heard anything in months - yet I think they are still in contact and I want him to come clean.

Would a compelling spell be appropriate here or would you recommend something else. I want him to feel guilty and come clear of his own volition, or somehow otherwise have the truth come out and drop into my lap. But I also think he might lack courage...so I can't decide if breaking his will or encouraging honesty is the best route to go here. My intuition right now tells me the former.

The second question - are there any spells that would break that relationship, cause them to drift apart, spells that would muss up communication?

Thanks for all your guidance.

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Unread post by Mary Bee » Wed Jan 16, 2013 8:02 am

Compelling mixed with some Influence (to influence him to tell you what's going on) could work well here.

I'd also recommend using Stay With Me products to increase the link between you and him and encourage him to stay with you rather than her.

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Unread post by ccrinc » Mon Mar 04, 2013 10:09 am

I have not been on lucky mojo in a while as my life has taken quite a few twist and turns...

The man that I have been in love with for almost 5 years and I moved in together 3 years ago. My daughter moved in and the two of them have bonded so deeply.

He is not divorced and the wife just moved out of the family home about 2 months ago now across country.

Yesterday OUT OF THE BLUE, he and I had a break down is what we are doing wrong because he is still married and has not given up "his past" as he calls it.

He says he does not want to hinder the growth of me and my daughter and did not want to be selfish anymore. He says he feels like we are not progressing financially as he was when he attended church regularly. He says that I do not deserve his indecisiveness and should be treated like a queen. He says he loves my baby and does not want to lose us but can't risk hurting us with his generational curses.

He has not indicated that he is moving away or wants to return to his wife, in fact says that he feels like he is tearing up people's lives.

I do not know where to start and it is difficult to perform spells, etc. in the house because he is Creole and has a concept of root work.

I need to save my family. Before I have to move back to a state that I am not fond of living in full time and send my baby girl back.

Please advise

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Mon Mar 04, 2013 10:20 am

I recommend a 13-herb bath for both of you, especially if he believes he is the victim of generational curses. If won't do a bath, make a doll of him and bathe it.

He is certainly free to attend church again. Take the baby and go with him.

If you cannot burn candles at home, use oils, powders, mojos, etc. and have lights set for you at MISC. You can also add menstrual blood to his food.

Use Influence supplies to get him to file the divorce papers, if he hasn't already.
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Unread post by ccrinc » Wed Mar 06, 2013 7:44 am

I did not want to open a new topic because I am sure what I need is SOMEWHERE. I have had a reading. My BF and I are living pretty well, based on both of our opinions. as I mentioned before he feel guilty about a number of things. he is still married and cares for her although she lives on the west coast now and we live in fla, they have 7 kids all adults he feels responsible for. At this point I need to dicreetly do some work to rid her influnce and reanimate his commitment here to me and my daughter. I thought of hot foot but there is no way to track it. I will have a honey jar worked for me, to sweeten him to me. I will do an ammonia jar to reverse the "sudden-feeling" lack of commitment here, and perhaps a second to reduce the commitment there. But I need this woman out of our lives for good.

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Unread post by MissMichaele » Thu Mar 07, 2013 10:31 pm

ccrinc wrote:is there a way i can bathe in with a walnut bath to break them and not us?
Make wax or clay doll babies on your man and his ex and bathe those.

I wouldn't get between him and his kids, though. You might even want to sweeten the adult children to you, but without doing any work to turn them against their mother.

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Unread post by ccrinc » Fri Mar 08, 2013 8:12 am

Ok I am building an order now...
I am thinking of doing quite a bit of work being that we are still in the home a relatively happy, I want to work it while our bond is strong.

I am ordering the walnuts for the bath and researching the doll babies.

I will also need a doll baby for the 13-herrb bath for him.

I am going to hotfoot their relationship by burning a candle anointed in hotfoot oil (??) for her engraving "HER NAME STAY AWAY FROM HIS NAME NOW!!"

I would also like to do a vinegar jar it has been very successful for me in the past, but it has been a while so if anyone has any sugesstions for supplies to add I am grateful.

I want to also tie and bury his underwear, but we live in an apartment any suggestions as to where to bury them as there is ALOT of concrete? can I bury them deep in a house plant?????

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Unread post by MissMichaele » Fri Mar 08, 2013 9:24 pm

ccrinc wrote:I want to also tie and bury his underwear, but we live in an apartment any suggestions as to where to bury them as there is ALOT of concrete? can I bury them deep in a house plant?????
You might have to cut the crotch out of his underwear and just tie and bury that.

You could put the whole underwear between the mattress and the box spring.

You could even stuff a doll baby with it and work that. Keep it deep in your underwear drawer when you're going about your daily life.

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Unread post by oneNonly » Sun Jun 09, 2013 3:48 pm

I just want to know if there is anything that can be worked on to cut the bond between two people who has a child together.

I dont want to break up the parenting relationship, i understand they need to have a good relationship for there daughter dont get me wrong, I just want to remove all past feelings for him and her.

I know she is always looking to be with him knowing we are together an its extremely disrespectful to me the things she says about me on FB. he doesn't let her talk bad about me he simply tells her he doesn't want to hear it and tells me not to look at her fb.

We are doing great as a couple just this black cloud over our heads constantly is bugging me Its been 4 yrs an she hates me she even did stuff to break us up so i put her in a mirror box but she refuses to move forward... she emails him all kinds of stuff and i just need her to go away (emotionally move forward
Anyways long story short she just doesn't give up.

I want her to move forward with her life and not feel anything for him romantically and not pursue him anymore.

I am not so concerned about him since he loves me n is with me all the time but i sense he feels this guilt since he knows she is waiting for him. I dont want any past feelings to arise for him and i want the feelings she has for him to be gone!

i know they are parents & they will be in each others life...) but ya any recommendations?
What can i do?

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Unread post by oneNonly » Thu Jun 13, 2013 9:46 am

If anyone can reply to my post I would great appreciate it. Thank you I wanted to do some work today since its Thursday .

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Unread post by MissMichaele » Sat Jun 15, 2013 4:54 pm

Have you thought of Stop Gossip work on the daughter and on the ex-wife's friends?

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Unread post by oneNonly » Sun Jun 16, 2013 12:44 am

Its more deeper then that. My reader said she was working on breaking me n my partner up. I noticed he has been distant recently n irriated for no reason... I think her work is affecting him to feel that way about me.. I just want to know what can I do to block out her attempts? I already did the mirror box. She plays the victim in front of him. He somehow will always end up doing what she says example. Say we have plans to go away for the weekend n he tells her oh I can't get my son this weekend I have some plans and she'll be like ok then after a few days right before the weekend she'll be like oo something really important came up n I need u to take him cause blah blah this always happens... I don't know what to do. Its so irritating. I just want her to really leave us alone.

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Unread post by cassiopaeia » Wed Dec 04, 2013 9:45 am

I'm trying to solidify a relationship with a man whose divorce has been in process for over three years because his ex simply will not cooperate. She wouldn't go to marriage counseling and she's been stalling on the paperwork ever since. It was determined that, especially since all this time has passed, she's not eligible for alimony (she has two trust funds and has been using her spousal support to make home improvements and buy her boyfriend a new car) but he offered her a settlement anyway just to get things over with. She accepted the settlement, which would have had their divorce finalized by the end of the year, but then she changed her mind so everything's up in the air again. In addition to her slowing down the legal proceedings she's also talking bad about him to their children, so chances seem good that she's talking bad about him to other people as well.

So some Court Case work is definitely in order here, and probably Stop Gossip as well, but does anyone have any ideas for what else I can do? She is a major source of stress in this man's life but since children are involved and there are geographical restrictions in the custody agreement I can't hotfoot her or anything like that.
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Unread post by MissMichaele » Wed Dec 04, 2013 1:10 pm

Do some protection and blessing work for the children, since you want your man to have access to them -- and since they are likely to spend time with you, too, if they are not doing so already -- so you will want them to be happy.

Consider doing a vinegar jar on the ex-wife and her counsel, so they can't get along or do effective work to get their way.

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Unread post by cassiopaeia » Wed Dec 04, 2013 1:52 pm

Thanks, Miss Michaele!

I think it's been established even by her own counsel at this point that she's being completely unreasonable, so the main concern with the case is just getting it over and done with. I'm just trying to figure out if I can ... neutralize her, for lack of a better word. I don't want anything drastic to happen to her but I know she's not going to stop causing problems even after the divorce is final.
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Unread post by greeneyes2 » Wed Dec 04, 2013 5:47 pm

As a standing faithful wife and mother..I would just like to make a comment... Please do not take this as judgement ..it is just my own feelings that I am passionate about.
Just remember, there are always 2 sides of the story. Reality and Perception.. Perhaps the estranged wife is being difficult for reasons she is passionate about. Perhaps this wound of hers and/or thoughts and feelings of hers goes back deeper & deeper than way before you even knew her husband..Yes I must say "estranged" since the reality is :until the ink is dry and the gavel is struck.. there still is not yet a final divorce decree.
Filing a petition to Divorce and being in the Divorcing process does not give one an automatic "pink slip " or free pass to erase their responsibilities,marriage or being a parent. Furthermore,filing a divorce or being in process or in "motion" still does not make one legally single,divorced or mentally & emotionally ready to establish other ties or relationships.

Separation and the Divorce process is and can be traumatizing. Just remember there are children involved in this..they must be protected at all costs not to be caught in any crossfires.

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Unread post by cassiopaeia » Wed Dec 04, 2013 7:29 pm

greeneyes2, I respect your position and I actually agree with you, but with all due respect you do not know my situation. And the specifics are really none of anyone's business, but I will say that I know for a pure fact that he is by far the more responsible parent and is not trying to take a "pink slip" from anything - quite the opposite, actually.

And perhaps I could have made this more clear, but I am very aware that there are children involved here and I absolutely do want what's best for them. I don't happen to think that their mother smack-talking their father to them has anything to do with what's best for them, and that's part of what I'm trying to figure out how to mitigate with my work.

Furthermore, I am fully aware that "filing a divorce or being in process or in 'motion' still does not make one legally single," but given the fact that her boyfriend of two and a half years gave her a diamond which she wears on her left-hand ring finger (not to mention the already-mentioned fact that she bought him a car), she at least is apparently "mentally & emotionally ready to establish other ties or relationships."

I did not have anything to do with the initiation of this divorce, I met him when they were already almost three years into the process. I'm just trying to do what I can to ease the rest of the transition for everyone involved, as well as try to facilitate a future arrangement in which everyone can be civil to each other like reasonable adults.
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Unread post by greeneyes2 » Wed Dec 04, 2013 8:16 pm

I would also like to add to the above poster ..according to several searches regarding the laws of your state....
The wife may not be the real one holding up the process and final Decree & Order.
The legal courts system and attorney's can also be the hold up.

A reading with one of the wonderful rootworkers here is in order...
They will be wonderful to offer you assistance on the LM hoodoo side of the best course of action.

Also..have you thought about or done some cleansing,healing and Protection for the entire family.
Perhaps some uncrossing and cut and clear is in order for the husband going thru the divorce process,
just remember he forever will be a Father and a Co-Parent to his children with the Mother and estranged wife.

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Unread post by greeneyes2 » Wed Dec 04, 2013 9:09 pm

cassiopaeia,

Warm Blessings and Wishes to you
Again there is no judging you from me... You are right ...I do not know all your situation with the man you want to solidify the relationship with.
I see you are in Pennsylvania, the wife has contested recently the Entry of order of Divorce Decree with a Counter affidavit? Which means:" is used oppose entry of a divorce and/or make claims that may include alimony, division of property, legal fees, expenses or other claims." ...Seems her attorney is throwing a wrench in this ... Most Family Lawyers are ready to get it over and done with and do not recommend stall tactics unless it is another item going on. Perhaps the lawyer has an axe to grind with the other lawyer..who knows.. 3 years seems like a really long time to be going thru the process
I know there must be a way to get this moving along quick.. St Expedite perhaps?

Wearing a ring from her "boyfriend of 2+ years" while still Legally Married??? Huumm (RED FLAG) she is not wanting to really be alone is she?
Talking bad about the kids father to them... there is a great deal of pain and unresolved resentment behind that..even though she has another man in the ready to launch position. Buying him a car? Is it in her name or his?

Had she gone to Counseling with the husband perhaps she could have let out all her issues and not involve the kids in her personal deep seeded anger.

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Unread post by cassiopaeia » Thu Dec 05, 2013 5:11 am

My understanding is that her lawyer is a bit on the slimy side and doesn't actively discourage her stalling because it means he keeps getting paid. But the two lawyers actually have a decent working relationship (or at least they did before this case :) ), so I think the only axes being ground are hers. She made the counter affidavit quite some time ago and then started stalling with her financial records, but when everything finally came to light about her trust funds and the car, as well as a few other sources of income that she has, it was determined that due to all of that as well as the length of the separation she won't be entitled to alimony. He made her an alimony offer in October anyway, in the hopes of just getting things done with - she accepted that offer, and then changed her mind a couple weeks later. So now it goes before the divorce master, and who knows how long that's going to take. I do like your St. Expedite suggestion, thank you.

No idea whose name the car is in, but if I had to guess I'd say it's in the boyfriend's name since the way the situation was phrased to me was, "she's making his car payments."

And as I said in my original post, she refused to go to marriage counseling with him. Additionally, their youngest child is in therapy and she has stopped attending those sessions as well.
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