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Unread post by ConjureMan Ali » Tue Apr 12, 2011 1:42 pm

Saint Martha is great to include in these petitions and she can really keep them apart. I also love freezer jars for this to keep the relationship with the ex from progressing.
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Unread post by Tengotodo » Tue Apr 12, 2011 4:03 pm

Hello Everyone,
My fiance has an ex that will not give up on gaining her back. Its complicated but basically he has taken advantage of her in many ways. In fact he will not return a huge amount of money that she invested with him, It frustrates her and when it happens it affects our relationship. Now, the jerk has invited himself to the Philippines on our trip because he knows Im coming. She loves me and he thinks he can buy back her love with all his money. She cares for him but thats it. But,the thing is she has a kind heart and she will feel guilty and feel responsible for him if he comes. Now, shes contemplating canceling the trip. So whats your advice? I want this jerk out of our lives. Its tough now because we live in different states which compounds things. At times she wants to give up because he is so determined to ruin everything and it wears her out. I have pictures of both but not his last name or birthday. I purchased 2 Candle services, Hot Foot for him and Healing for her today. The healing is for her to rid her past of her divorce. Her ex-husband had cheated on her. Our trip is scheduled for July and already I can sense her frustration which its taking its toll. We love each other so much and this jerk just doesn't get it.
Any additional spells or advice would be greatly appreciated. I was even thinking about a spell for him to fall in love with someone else.
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Unread post by jwmcclin » Tue Apr 12, 2011 6:56 pm

You can work a spell for him to fall in love with someone else but it seems he will still have his sense of entitlement with her. She could work the Black Walnut spell (http://herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html) used to break the power of the past. Although the Hot foot candle spell is strong, I would get the Hot Foot Spell Kit, because it includes protection and instructions especially if you are not accustom to this type of dark work and believe me it is strong.

It sounds like she needs strength as well to deal with his advances; I would include Crucible of Courage for her gain the strength to deal with him.

Also read the discussions on both spells here in the forum...

black-walnut-bath-t3523.html
hot-foot-spell-kit-question-and-answers-t5101s30.html
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Unread post by Tengotodo » Thu Apr 14, 2011 3:46 pm

Will it make a difference with the Hot Foot Spell if I don't have his last name? I have a photo of him but I dont know where he lives. I want him out of her life so when wording the petition do I include myself or just him and my fiance? I'm trying to figure out the best way to phrase it.
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Unread post by lovingme1 » Sun Apr 17, 2011 12:05 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We live together along with our two sons, (both from previous relastionships).

Our issue is his ex-girlfriend and mother of his son that lives with us. She has never got over their break up and do not want to let go. She has caused him issues not only with me but previous relastionships he has had before we meet. It's so bad that she has a reputation around town for being obssesed with my boyfriend. His family even made me aware of how she is and that she will say anything to try to make me upset so I will leave him. He has told her a million times he do not want to be with her, but she ignores this.

She has told me several lies about her and him being together. I know they are false because the dates and times she named were times he was with me. She will even go as far as calling to tell him that she is going to kill herself if he don't be with her. She recently even told him that she was dying of pancreatic cancer (which we found out later to be a lie)!!! She has been to conseling and was on anti depressants at one time.
She is crazy and I am sick of it and so is he. She is driving us crazy! If someone else has had a problematic ex causing problems please let me know what to do.

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Unread post by JayDee » Sun Apr 17, 2011 6:28 pm

id get a reading on this women and what to do as he does have a child with her and the kid, regardless of how insane mom is, still has a right to his mother. that being said hot foot products come to mind to send her away.
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Unread post by ConjureMan Ali » Sun Apr 17, 2011 7:34 pm

Since it is the mother of his child there will always remain some bond between your man and her, even if it is only one of a courteous face for the child, or one of financial support. However there are ways of getting her to move on.

The best would be a moving candle spell where you move her to a new lover. Use a combination of figure candles to move her away from your man and to a new lover for her. You can use a white candle to represent a new unknown lover. A picture to help you see what I'm talking about can be found here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

Use Separation products instead of Break Up to bring some healing to the work and without causing the usual fuss of break ups. Come to Me would be great to draw her to a new person and for a four part moving candle spell where she's move away from your man to a new lover while your man is moved closer to you, you'll get the added benefit of strengthening your own relationship while driving her away.

Afterward mix some Separation products with Lemon Leaves and and lay those out for her to walk on so as to break her connection to him while ending any vesitges of the relationship.
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Unread post by Shany » Sun Jun 19, 2011 12:06 pm

I started dating my boyfriend 2 months ago. He is a very sweet, honest and caring person.

The problem is he broke up with his ex at the end of last year and he couldn't let go of her even though he told me he knew he had to since she had moved on. After their breakup, she ignored him completely and wouldn't talk to him. It broke his heart and left him feeling guilty and he has been blaming himself on everything that went wrong with their relationship.

About a month after we met each other, I went aboard for a family reunion and I have been away from him for a month now. He sent me messages saying he needed me more than anything he ever thought of and he was in love with me and wanted me to get back earlier. I changed my ticket to go back on June 29, 2 weeks earlier than planned. We talked and agreed we should move in together when I get back because both of us need to move out and we want to spend time together more.

But last night, I noticed he has added his ex-girlfriend to his Facebook friend list again (which mean she has also accepted him as friend). I worried they was talking and things would go out of control since I know he still has feelings for her a lot. When asked, he told me she started talking to him last night, only to ask how has he been. It made him feel much better he said, though he believed she has moved on still and only wanted friendship. When I asked if he still wanted to be with her he said he didn't know because he had mix-feelings for her still but he cares for me so much. He then told me not to worry about it because she had moved on but then I asked, "she might have, but you haven't!" and he said "no, I haven't... it is so hard, I'm trying but I just couldn't."

I don't know what the heck is going on between them but I hate the smell of it.... I just want this woman out of his life completely! I know his feelings for her are mainly guilt and questions for an unfinished relationship because it's only pain when he talks about her. I want them to stop talking to each other and him finally moves on from the feelings and guilt and lets go of the past and focus on our relationship right now. She lives in a different state and I don't know her address so I don't think I can hotfooting her. What should I do?

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Unread post by Miss Ida Lundin » Thu Jun 23, 2011 12:32 am

Hi Shany,
I would suggest you work with separation products.
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html

And follow up that work by doing some love drawing work for the two of you. You can do a love me spellkit, or a honeyjar. Or both, to strengthen the bond between you.

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Unread post by WickedRussian » Mon Aug 22, 2011 8:06 pm

Hi

I'm new to this forum,

I know that my boyfriend loves me dearly and that I can trust him with his ex-wife but its her I dont trust.

Ive not jugded or pressured him but encouraged and supported his dreams. Since being with me he has allowed himself to be himself but now I'm aware that his ex is a little annoyed because he has changed. The ex wife and myself got on okey. I'm always polite and will go out of my way to say hello, but recently she's been acting a little stand offish but has become very obliging to her ex husband (my boyfriend).

They have two children together and he wants to keep things between them on good terms which I respect.

I feel his aware of her feelings but doesn't say to much to me, what is so annoying is that I know whats shes up to but dont know what to do!!! I feel that she's manipulating and seeing if she can push my buttons. I guess Im a pretty easy going nice person...well try to be.

I wish no harm to anyone or anything.I just dont want someone playing me behind my back. :x

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Unread post by Dr Johannes » Tue Aug 23, 2011 1:54 am

Search the site for "Nation Sack" or use "Stay With Me" products on your husbands underwear.
Coffin nails, and her picture wrapped around a Black Penis Candle loaded with his pubic hairs may also be nice. Drive the coffin nails through the picture and into the candle and pray that his penis will never like the nearness of the ex. wife again.
Seal the pussy of the ex. in a similar manner by using a Cowrie Shell, his picture, coffin nails, Graveyard Dirt and some glue.

That may keep them from having sexual interest in each other behind your back.
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Unread post by Shany » Thu Aug 25, 2011 5:18 pm

I want my boyfriend's ex to just leave him alone! She doesn't contact him so often but every time she does, she messes our relationship up badly. Is there a way to keep her completely away from him and prevent her from ever contact him again? I would also be thankful if there is away to help him move on from her completely. Thank you.

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Unread post by Devi Spring » Thu Aug 25, 2011 5:33 pm

You use a freezer spell to freeze her out of his life forever.
freezer-spells-questions-and-answers-t8676.html

If your boyfriend wants to completely move on from her, he can perform the Cut and Clear work to remove any remaining emotional bonds to her.
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Unread post by Shany » Thu Aug 25, 2011 5:57 pm

Thank you Devi Spring. My boyfriend doesn't believe nor he likes the idea of hoodoo magic... is there any other way to help him move on? :(

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Thu Aug 25, 2011 6:44 pm

Shany, you are on the Lucky Mojo Forum. We are here to help customer use various types of magic to positively or sometimes negatively affect a situation. This includes hand made spiritual supplies for those who cast magic spells. You are asking what to do without magic?
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Unread post by Shany » Thu Aug 25, 2011 8:16 pm

No, I just want to know if there's any way I can do the cut and clear spell or any other spell that would help him moving on instead of having him doing it?

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Unread post by Turnsteel » Fri Aug 26, 2011 2:27 am

Shany wrote:No, I just want to know if there's any way I can do the cut and clear spell or any other spell that would help him moving on instead of having him doing it?
You can't do a Cut and Clear on or for someone, they have to make the choice to do it. In general you can not force someone to move on, that decision must come from within them.
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Unread post by WickedRussian » Mon Aug 29, 2011 8:46 pm

Thank you so much Johanne,
I will get on to that straight away with the Nation Sack.
I dont feel that there is any sexual interest on his be half as she told him numerous times that he made her sick but I do feel that even if it did repulse her she would just try it on to see where she stands.I get the feeling that the sex maybe wasnt that great, but it maybe worth me investing in this spell just incase.
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Unread post by Shany » Sat Sep 10, 2011 12:35 am

But I know he wants to move on, just doesn't have enough will power to do so.

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Unread post by mumma » Sat Sep 10, 2011 3:40 am

Maybe time will do the trick? If he really does want to move on, he will in time.

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Unread post by wilsmi2000 » Thu Oct 20, 2011 6:29 pm

My current girlfriend was involved with a guy for about 4 years but she quit him because he's a low life. I have a history with this woman for about 16 years. So she and i got together again about 4 months ago when she broke up with this other guy. Things had been going really good even though we live about 7 hours . I go down to see her on weekends or holidays. Everything was going great until a couple of weeks ago. I went to see her and things seemed really different ...We made love 1 time, but it was quick and short. Not at all like the passionate love making weekends we had before. I got a reading from a psychic and was advised that this guy has a spell on her to bring her back to him. I don't know what to do because i feel the love between us but know that he's manipulating the situation.

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Unread post by Devi Spring » Fri Oct 21, 2011 7:18 am

I'd start with a reading and consultation from a an AIRR rootworker. That way you can be 100% sure that the assessment of the situation is truthful (as some "psychics" like to scam people by telling them that their love is cursed in order to get them to spend lots of money; see this article for more info: http://www.luckymojo.com/blackgypsies.html#fraud), and you will ALSO get advice on what magical actions will be most effective for your situation. :)
You can find a list of AIRR workers at http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

If there is some work in place, you'll need to do some Uncrossing work on your lover, followed by some Protection work, and something to neutralize the actions of the ex. Once you have eliminated the competition, so to speak, you can then work on strengthening the love between the two of you.

If you have some personal concerns from her, go ahead and start something like a Love Me honey jar kit for the two of you and start working it.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar
You can also go ahead and do a freezer spell on the ex to work to freeze him out of her life for good, just in case he actually is trying to get back in there.
freezer-spells-questions-and-answers-t8676.html

But you will want to get a consultation with an AIRR worker to confirm whether or not there is other work being done.
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Unread post by wilsmi2000 » Fri Oct 21, 2011 2:14 pm

I know for a fact that he's trying to get her back, he never stopped. The person who told me is very reliable , in fact she told me everything i didn't say anything. She told me how sweet and loving my girlfriend was in the beginning , and now how she is so unpredictable...one minute she loves me and next she doesn't know how she feels. The other thing is ...I only know his first name...but maybe i could do the sour pickle and put his first name and then in parenthesis put my girlfriends ex ???

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Unread post by Jaime Banks » Sat Oct 22, 2011 10:27 pm

I'd follow up with what Devi explained, next step she recommended, purchase a reading from a rootworker at the AIRR website she linked so you can get a clear reading on whats going on with this issue, if the other is causing problems, you may incoorporate the freezer spell, but if it seems to not be your cup of tea, do some HOT FOOTING or some BANISHING work to get him out the picture. Try to get his full name or birthdate if possible. I loved what Devi explained....also, she may need some clarity and king solomon wisdom on a white skull candle to handle the issue at hand too, after the uncrossing, cleansing and protection work, so she can be able to know what she wants and think clearly...


http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html [an end to confusion, see clearly]
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html [gain wisdom and insight]
http://www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html [get rid of something or unwanted people, milder of hot foot supplies]
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html [to rid someone from an unwanted person's life]

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Unread post by wilsmi2000 » Tue Oct 25, 2011 2:55 pm

I believe in God and have been reading psalm 91 for protection, psalm 66 and 37 to ward off evil doing. Psalms 98, 85, and song o solomon 1 vs 1- 7 for peace , mercy and love. Things seem to be getting a little better. I really thank everyone for the great suggestions ..I'll give them a try if my reading the word doesn't . Everyone here has been great and your assistance is appreciated from the bottom of my heart.

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Unread post by 1love » Sat Nov 05, 2011 5:47 pm

I've been dating this man. He's divorced with kids but the ex is causing all types of problems for him. She won't let him see his kids although she's with another. She wants him to suffer. She abuses his kids, telling them they can see him and then she don't let them. She made him lose his business so he's starting all over again but she is constantly at him. His kids are his eyes.

Just to add they hv court soon abt the children. I've witnessed the abuse to the children myself so please know this is not what he is telling me, it's also what I hv seen. He never believed she would do this and he is feeling used and betrayed.

This situation has caused more than problems with us. It's as if he is hurting her through me. He says he's loves me and he's not going anywhere and he believes the same of me.

His friends and family keep telling me to bare with him and that I hv something on my hands and he's damaged. He was not like this until she started in on the children.

He has turned to the streets, drinking, clubs, not answering the phone sometimes. I need help.

I love him and I want this situation completely resolved.

What can I do? St Martha? Who? How? how often?

Please someone help.
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Unread post by Mary Bee » Sat Nov 05, 2011 6:01 pm

Hi 1love:

First, you won't "remove" this woman completely from your man's life. They have kids together so until they're 18, he will have to deal with the ex.

If he has a custody agreement ordered by a judge and the ex is breaking that by not letting him see the kids, he needs to get a lawyer and take his ex to court to get the order enforced. You can work a Court Case honey jar or a Court Case vigil on that part of the situation: http://www.luckymojo.com/courtcase.html

To get this ex to shut up about you, him or stop her lying mouth, use Stop Gossipproducts.

If you want him to stay home and stay with you instead of going out in the clubs and drinking, work with Stay At Home products. Get a pair of his worn (not washed) underwear, tie it in a knot and bury it in the backyard; that keeps a man to stay home. If you don't live together, work with Love Meproducts. Feed him your menstrual blood in his coffee, tea or food regularly so he'll be sweet on you.

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Unread post by 1love » Sun Nov 06, 2011 8:40 pm

Thank u for your help. I Never wanted to get rid of her I just want there to b peace and the children to b safe. I was a victim of child abuse with a mother who knowingly or unknowingly would do things to hurt my father by hurting me. Years later she apologized but I'm worried abt their children and his frame of mind.

I just realized the title of my topic I didn't put that.
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Unread post by MsHooDooPrincess » Mon Nov 07, 2011 11:01 pm

I might use some of these tips too

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Unread post by orchid » Mon Nov 28, 2011 7:41 pm

I have been in a relationship with a man for over 5 years. Its serious and we live together. My problem is that my partner's ex girl friend still is trying to come between us. They had a chaotic relationship and I know she is an evil person from my own experience with her and what people that have known her have said to me. I know she caused my partner a lot of pain. I don't want to get into details but she really hurt him and did really bad things. Among the number of things she did she took his checkbook and forged checks right before they broke up.

I know we love each other and I know that he wants to be with me. He tells me and shows, but becuase of emotional abuse this girl has done and her mental instability he feels like he can't rid himself of her completely. He feels he has to be her friend. I have been dealing with this for years and I'm fed up! I'm tiered of the control this girl has over him.

So my question is: I'm doing candle work on her. I'm burning a separation candle. I don't think he is very involved with her, but just to be safe I want to bring space between them.
I'm also burning a cast off evil candle so that he wont be influenced by her or feel he owes her anything.

I would like to know from those of you that have been doing this for a while if those two were good choices and if you recommend any other candle from your experience.

Thank you!

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Unread post by Devi Spring » Mon Nov 28, 2011 7:55 pm

I would make a dolly of her, bind it up, put it in a mirror box, and send her down the river and out of your lives.

Do some cleansing work on your partner - Uncrossing with Cast Off Evil is a good choice. See if you can get a pinch of those bath crystals into his shampoo/conditioner, body wash, etc.

Make an Influence honey jar on he and you, so that he will listen to you when you tell him how uncomfortable this all makes you, and to help him see clearly. You can work Clarity and King Solomon Wisdom on him as well - either some skull candle work, or a doll baby, or candles dressed in those oils and burned on his name.

You may wish to get a reading with an AIRR worker to make sure there isn't anything you don't know about that's keeping him so tied up to her!
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Unread post by orchid » Tue Nov 29, 2011 10:37 am

Thank you for the quick reply :)

I have never worked with a dolly before. Most of my experience is with candle work, but I would like to give it a try. Any advice on making a mirror box that will work well if I throw in the water? I don't live in a place where we have rapid rivers; I live near ocean.

The honey jar was a wonderful suggestion. I haven't worked on one in a long time even though it always yields nice results! I can't believe I didn't think about it !

But if I do the uncrossing will it erase/cancel the honey jar or any love candle that I do on him to keep him closer to me?

Again thanks for the advice. This girl is really getting out of control and I should of taken care of her years ago. But I didn't know she was lurking because of how sneaky she is. I was also a bit out of touch with my spirituality even though I grew up in a spiritual family. Now I realize that this is an important part in my life and how much it can help me control my life. I guess I was also in denile of how much people are willing to harm you!

I have a good idea why she has the mental/ emotional control over him. I heard it from someone in his family of what she did to him. I didn't know if I could believe it or if it was just a rumor (because I didn't want to here it) but then I got a reading from a trusted reader years later and it did come up without me even asking about it. She scarred him and that's what it impeding him from committing to marriage. He's basically scared that this will happen again. During these 5 years I've also had to work and prove that I'm trustworthy to him becuase of his trust issues. But aside from that we have a good relationship and I want to fight for it.

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Unread post by lfs » Tue Dec 06, 2011 6:35 pm

Hi,
I need help in removing a man that has been living with my friends family! This guy went there on a temporary basic and now its been over a year and he has my friends wife convinced not to let her husband make him leave :twisted: ! he doesn't work and is now collecting disability. My friend can't even talk to his wife without this guy in their presences and its been tearing this family apart. My friend would do anything to get this man out of the house and enjoy his family.
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Unread post by Mama Micki » Tue Dec 06, 2011 10:01 pm

He can Hotfoot him out of there, especially since the man is causing problems in the home. The man needs to get a place of his own, not interfere in the marriage.
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Unread post by WillaBacchus » Wed Dec 07, 2011 12:09 pm

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Hi there,

I am at the end of my rope, so to speak- My husband went through a very painful, very spiteful and vengeful divorce, which was finalized about three years ago. Now, I have to preface this by saying that my husband and I were not the cause of his divorce. Readers must also know that he is a man that would give you whatever he had, in spite of himself, to ensure your safety and well-being. He is a volunteer fire chief and very devoted father of two children from his first marriage and one boy with me. He is very conservative and never saw the adultery on his ex's behalf coming. He tried all that he could to salvage his marriage to her, to protect the kids, but she has other plans.

Now, fast forward three years after the divorce was final... He and I are married, with a beautiful little three year old, and much support after this terrible circumstance. His ex is still in our very small town, and has even persuaded her new hubby (and the true cause for this divorce) to be the other fire chief in town. She has made sure that his children loathe him, now calling her new hubby their father, and has completely destroyed his good standing reputation by having their children lie to police, stating that he beat them.

My husband, though I know will not be through with this emotionally until his children are back in his life, is truly trying to move past all of this. We are about half way through alimony payments to her, and I feel like she has recently become aware of this, ultimately creating worse issues for my husband.
She will stop at nothing until he is completely broken in spirit.

She is a truly vile excuse for a human being. But, as I say this, I can't help but feel that she and I share some sort of karmic connection. When I do something, she does. When I think about doing something, she acts on it first. It's as if our lives are mirror images, that is to say, in reverse of one another. I can't seem to break the tie to her.

So, my question is this- bearing in mind that we are still financially tied to her for the next two years, how do I work to bring his children back into his life and also how do I stop any and all attacks on us coming from her way? I need her to feel that she no longer has control over any of us and that her actions are no longer acceptable.

Thank you so much. Any help will be so appreciated, as I don't know where to go with this anymore...

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Unread post by aura » Wed Dec 07, 2011 12:24 pm

Hi WillaBacchus,

you have a complex situation on your hands and a reading with one of the workers from AIRR (http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers) would help you ascertain all of the aspects involved along with suggestions for the most effective rootwork given the diverse factions.

A honey-jar with your husband's children and your family in it could begin the healing of the rift that's been created (http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html). It's soft, long-term work, that you can add the kids' personal concerns to as you can get them.

For the ex-wife, you can consider a freezer jar spell to stop her from acting against you both (http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html) and some stop gossip work or products in the freezer jar is also probably in order to keep her from wagging a vile tongue. Alternatively, you could consider some reversing work - like making a poppet of her with alum in the mouth (or even a chunk of solid alum to stuff the head), knotweed and barberry - and tying it into a mirror-box with reversing products. You'll find that spell in the following link on reversing products: http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Finally, some protection for your own family unit is probably wise.

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Unread post by lfs » Sun Dec 11, 2011 12:38 pm

Ok
Thank you very much, we'll try that.
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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sun Jan 01, 2012 2:30 am

No, in the uncrossing work be sure to include to uncross and cleanse him from the negativity from the ex girl friend.

Also, I would do a freezer jar to freeze this girl out. And you may want to think about hot foot if she is still not gone. Furthermore, I would do some fiery wall of protection to keep him protected away from her.
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Unread post by MissMichaele » Sun Jan 01, 2012 9:41 am

orchid wrote:I have never worked with a dolly before. Most of my experience is with candle work, but I would like to give it a try. Any advice on making a mirror box that will work well if I throw in the water? I don't live in a place where we have rapid rivers; I live near ocean.
Another alternative is to mail it to a foreign country, one that has General Delivery service. France is one -- and one of the old conjure traditions is to mail your enemy to Paris. You can get Google Earth to show you a map of Paris post offices complete with local zip codes.

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Unread post by Devi Spring » Sun Jan 01, 2012 6:21 pm

I think Johannes talked about a location in Sweden actually called "Hel" - so you can literally send them to hell. :D
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Unread post by Flora » Tue Jan 03, 2012 6:34 am

This is an old spell that I have used on more than one occasion to help get rid of someone who is causing all kinds of trouble in my life or the life of my friends. First you will need: a potato,a pen, some LM hot foot powder, a dirt dauber nest or spiderweb, black ribbon, a nail, flat mirror and a LM black candle - you pick the size candle. The best time to do the spell is on a dark moon but anytime will work in a pinch. First scrub the potato clean and slice it in half. With a pen write the name of the person on the inside of the potato and on the other half of the potato mark it with an X. Next rub the hot foot powder and some dirt from the dauber's nest or the spider web into the potato halves. Put the halves back together and stick the nail through them -this will hold the halves together. Wrap the ribbon at least three times around the potato and tie it in a bow around the nail. Set the potato on the mirror and put the candle at the head of the potato and light it. Repeat the name of the person you want gone three times and then say "gone from me evermore!" Once the candle burns out take the potato to a railroad track or busy intersection going out of town and drop the potato there. Then forget about the person.
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Unread post by Forest_Roots » Wed Jan 04, 2012 8:39 am

When you curse this person be sure to cleanse and protect yourself. the format I use is
-cleanse >protection>the curse>cleanse>protection- it is very important that you practice the crossing work safely.
Good luck and do not wait before you cleanse do it immediately when you perform the curse.

the spell flora described sounds quite useful.
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Unread post by loved57 » Thu Jan 05, 2012 2:34 pm

hi all

we have been maried for over 9 years now and i just found out he has been cheating on me for the last 7 months. we decided to stay together and going for counselling soon. he says he loves me but in love with the other woman. he says he's never been unhappy with me, i was perfect, can't why it had happened etc. but the connection with her was so strong. he is very sorry that he hurted me but can't say for 100% that he wish it never happened.

he finished with her, promise me to not contact her again.

what can i use to help him forget about her.

how can i make him come back to me again?

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Unread post by Flora » Fri Jan 06, 2012 7:11 am

This is a two part recommendation. The first part involves the ex and the second involves the mind of your husband. So for the first part you will need some king solomon oil, hot foot powder and devil's oil, a potato,pen, black ribbon or string and a nail large enough to go through the potato. You are not cursing the ex just making thoughts of her shrival up and go away. Cut the potato in half and in the meat of the potato carve with a pen "thoughts of ...insert ex's name..."; then rub her name with devil's oil. On the other side of the potato write three times "fade away". Sprinkly some hot foot powder in both sides of the potato and close it shut. Stick the nail through the potato so that it will hold closed then wrap it up with the black ribbon. Next take some king solomon's oil and rub it on the outside of the whole potato, ribbon and nail saying "My ...insert husband's name... is smart enough to forget this woman." Then take and put the potato next to a tree out away from your property and away from any place you or your husband would pass by regularly.
Part two is something a Curandera friend showed me to get a husband to change. You will need a baby food jar or small jar with a lid, seven peppercorns and a slip of brown paper from a grocery sack. Write your husband's name on a piece of brown paper bag and place it in the jar. Drop one peppercorn in the jar at a time saying "think of her and you will burn with sickness, think of me and you will burn with passion." Then fill it with water once you get all seven peppercorns in the jar. Don't forget the water!!! Everyday open the lid and tell your husband I know you are thinking of only me. Then you have to kiss you hubby with passion before sleeping everynight.
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Unread post by MissMichaele » Fri Jan 06, 2012 9:42 am

You can also spike your husband's grooming products and the laundry supplies with a few drops of King Solomon Wisdom and Cast Off Evil. If you suspect that she has worked some magic on him you ought to start with Uncrossing first.

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Unread post by hapinys » Fri Jan 06, 2012 10:24 pm

I may need to do this as well.

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Unread post by ConjureMan Ali » Sun Jan 08, 2012 8:21 pm

Lemon Verbena can also be used to cut away ties to a previous lover.
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Unread post by hapinys » Tue Jan 10, 2012 7:44 pm

I have a bag Of Lemon Verbena - didnt know what to do with it...lol.
How exactly would i use it?
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Unread post by Mary Bee » Wed Jan 11, 2012 4:56 am

You can make a tea out of hot water and Lemon Verbena, pray over it ("May my husband forget about his former lover now and forever, Amen") and add the tea water to the rinse water of his laundry. Then his clothes will be dressed with your petition. You can also add the tea water to his toiletries (shampoo or body wash) and shake up the bottle, praying your petition.

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Hell is in Norway, Devi. :-)
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Oops! Sorry. :) Thanks for the correction, Dr. Johannes.
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Unread post by orchid » Fri Jan 27, 2012 4:40 pm

Thank you all for the great advice. I believe that I'm seeing movement! :)

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Unread post by Mezan » Tue Feb 14, 2012 1:18 am

I think my guy still hurts a bit about his ex. He avoids conflict to the point where he will ignore me if he knows I am annoyed at something he did, claiming that he doesn't want to fight because he's scared to "call me the wrong name" since he was so used to fighting with her at the end of their relationship.

What would be a good option, Cut and Clear? Or should I light a black candle on her? I just want her completely out of his mind.
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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Tue Feb 14, 2012 10:10 am

Mezan --

You are on the right track -- Cut and Clear is exactly what he needs!

Do not light a black candle on her. She is already gone.

You could perform the entire Cut and Clear spell in his name, and when you make the paper, list her name and all her qualities on her side and your name and all your qualities on your side and cut the paper apart.

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Unread post by Mezan » Wed Feb 15, 2012 4:33 am

Thank you, Miss Cat! What can I do if I don't know her name and can't ask? He doesn't know my ex's name either, and I kind of like that.
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Unread post by Mama Micki » Wed Feb 15, 2012 6:28 am

Just write "_____'s ex-wife" or "ex-girlfriend." If there is more than one, add something like " who is still troubling him."
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Unread post by MissMichaele » Thu Feb 16, 2012 9:49 am

Cut and Clear is a great idea -- probably necessary in this case. But your man also needs some COURAGE -- Crucible of Courage, and King Solomon Wisdom, so that when you need to resolve an issue or disagreement, you can bring it out in the open and either:
  • Discuss it calmly and rationally, like grown-ups, or
  • FIGHT FAIR -- which means viewing a disagreement as a problem to be solved, not a battle to be won.
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Unread post by dixie1 » Wed Feb 22, 2012 8:37 am

I have the "love me spell" powder, the "bendover " powder and also the "hot foot" powder and the oils also. I need to know how to use them to my benifit in regards to my husband to stop communication with his ex girlfriend and want to be daughter completely. Will these items work?
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Unread post by Mary Bee » Wed Feb 22, 2012 1:18 pm

Hi there:

If you want to stop your ex husband from communicating with his ex girlfriend, you could either Hot Foot *her* away using the powders, or you could use Essence of Bend Over powders to command him to leave her alone. Using Love Me powders to get him to love his daughter (I presume this is your daughter with him) might work, but you may want to make a honey jar using Reconciliation type products and some Blood Root, which will encourage your ex to honor his blood ties to your daughter.

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Unread post by dixie1 » Wed Feb 22, 2012 7:26 pm

Thank you for your advice now for how to use the powder, if my husbands ex lives out of town how can I use the powder of hotfoot on her?? I do have access to pictures of her and if course name. Also on the bend me over powder how do I use that? On me or on him? I really appreciate your advice and help with this issue that is ruining my marriage.
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