With the amount of stuff you have, you could do a couple of different things to increase your odds of success.
You could prepare the petition packet and glue it under her chair if you're sure she's going to be sitting in it frequently.
I would save some of her hair and yours, and create a mojo bag with it. Take your hair and her hair, and if both are long enough you can even braid them together (you know "make the two seperate people into one"
). Put that in a red flannel bag along with some love-drawing curios like a small pair of male and female Lodestones dressed with magnetic sand, some of your Come To Me powder or Attraction Powder (or both), a High John the Conqueror root (for male power and success)...there are lots of love-drawing and attraction type of curios, but those are just a few of the most common. Try looking around in the Lucky Mojo catalog for some.
As for the wax from your honey jars, the best and most traditional way to dispose of that is to tie it up in a red cloth with red thread and bury it near your front door, to draw the love you want towards you.
Hope this helps and good luck,
LM certified Practitioner #1562