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Spells to Drive Ex-Lover-Ex-Spouse Away from My Lover-Spouse

New postby hawaiiansilky74 » Mon May 18, 2009 4:21 pm

Hello. I need to know what I should do to keep my man's ex-girlfriend away from him. She wants him back and is trying to ease her way back into his life by phonecalls, text messages, and emails. What can I do quick?
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Re: Keep a woman away from my man

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Re: Keep a woman away from my man

New postby hawaiiansilky74 » Sat May 23, 2009 2:42 pm

Thank you very much. I will give these websites a try.
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Re: Keep a woman away from my man

New postby Miss Bri » Sun May 24, 2009 9:14 am

Hi there,

Check out this page: http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
It gives you a break up spell and tells you all about the materials used in it.

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Re: Keep a woman away from my man

New postby starsinthesky7 » Sun May 24, 2009 6:13 pm

I think you need to hot foot her, and send her away.You could consider making her suffer everytime she communicates with him as well. Perhaps a clear cut spell would work more so than doing a break up spell kit. I think a clear cut would work on him to cut the feelings he has for her. You could probably try this on her as well. I think the follow me boy, and stay with me products would work. I think you need to do a spell to convince him that he does NOT want to be with her. You could use I dominate my man products,bend over, or commanding products to get him to do what you want him to do. You could do this as well for her. Also, you could try a fidelity spell on him as well so that he stays faithful to you.

As for her, I would hot foot her, and Also, you might try attracting her to someone else.
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Re: Keep a woman away from my man

New postby dws » Mon Jun 01, 2009 6:00 pm

starsinthesky7 wrote:I think you need to hot foot her, and send her away.You could consider making her suffer everytime she communicates with him as well. Perhaps a clear cut spell would work more so than doing a break up spell kit. I think a clear cut would work on him to cut the feelings he has for her. You could probably try this on her as well. I think the follow me boy, and stay with me products would work. I think you need to do a spell to convince him that he does NOT want to be with her. You could use I dominate my man products,bend over, or commanding products to get him to do what you want him to do. You could do this as well for her. Also, you could try a fidelity spell on him as well so that he stays faithful to you.

As for her, I would hot foot her, and Also, you might try attracting her to someone else.


Hi starsinthesky7, can you recomend which LM product can I use to attract someone to someone else? Would I need to know the other persons name or picture if they are together right now but she is still trying to get my husband back?

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Re: Keep a woman away from my man

New postby sammywel05 » Mon Jun 01, 2009 6:17 pm

I am in sort of the same situation you are in right now. I dont know whether to hot foot or cut and clear her out of his life. Him and i arent speaking yet and i am doing reconcile work and honey jar on him, but she is the main problem and a few friends of his that are getting in the way of him coming back quicker. I have set some cut and clear candles for the other friends. I am wondering if i should have a hot foot candle set or cut and clear set to send her and keep her the H E double hockey sticks away from him ? I will also be doing a lemon spell that was recommended on here as well and throw it out to a crossroad to have them travel away from one another.
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getting rid of a boyfriends ex

New postby NessaNessa » Thu Nov 26, 2009 9:36 am

What can I do to get my boyfriends ex out of the picture? I'm not sure that anything is going on but she's ever present in his life these days and I'm fed up with it. I don't have any contact with her and I know she isn't spending time at his home so what are my options?
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Re: getting rid of a boyfriends ex

New postby Devi Spring » Thu Nov 26, 2009 9:53 am

You could try Hot Footing her using her picture and info - if your boyfriend still has any items that belonged to her, or that she gave to him, you can also use those as a link.

You could also try a freezer spell on her, to freeze her out of his life.
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Re: getting rid of a boyfriends ex

New postby starsinthesky7 » Thu Nov 26, 2009 11:16 am

I would get a reading and understand whats the context of their relationship. It seems like your boyfriend might be the one trying to be nice, and keep her around.
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Re: getting rid of a boyfriends ex

New postby ConjureMan Ali » Thu Nov 26, 2009 12:50 pm

While I'm not against exs remaining friends, especially since sometimes people were friends before they became lovers, but generally one of the two parties at least has some latent feelings of desire. Its also a matter of consideration to your current lover to not put them in an awkward situation, but maybe i'm old school. Now, all the previous options are great. You can hotfoot her by deploying the conjure on her picture, at her place of residence etc. You can freeze her out of the picture. I'd also work some conjure to keep her from coming around his some. If you are really fed up and feel particularly angry, baptize a teddy bear in her name and then rip it up with a knife, while whispering in its ear that if she doesn't back off that this is what will happen to her. You can toss the bear into a crossroads without looking back. Make sure to bind it up before you toss it. You can also create a jar spell with lots of hotfoot powder and toss it into a running river and pray that as that river runs so will so and so run and run right out of your life and his.
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Re: getting rid of a boyfriends ex

New postby Devi Spring » Thu Nov 26, 2009 1:26 pm

ConjureMan wrote: You can also create a jar spell with lots of hotfoot powder and toss it into a running river and pray that as that river runs so will so and so run and run right out of your life and his.


This is actually one of my favorite tricks!
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Getting rid of ex's influence (long)

New postby mona Q » Wed Jan 13, 2010 5:55 am

Hello LMers..
I am a lurker, for over a few months , and have done some spells with good reesults ( mostly candles and petitionining saints)..I got a half way decent job and some other interesting perks!
But I have never felt confident enough to advise, or do any heavy duty ones..so finally now i am here to ask some advice:
My husband's ex is causing us a lot of misery. In their relationship he ( and now we) are the disciplining, tough love parents and she gets to play Santa Claus. After their divorce (6 years ago)she got a good chunk of cash , spousal support and child support..however the kids ( nice kids btw) were always with us , cuz she was 'too busy'..so essentially we paid her to take care of kids, but we also ended up paying for them anyway as we took care of them 24/7..school, sports, hobbies, vacations, healthcare, EVERYTHING

In the last 6 yrs she burned her way thru 100s of 1000s of $ and approx $1000,000 in debt and foreclosure of 2 homes that she got herself..filed for bankruptcy, did not have a credit line anymore, so kids or no kids, she ran off..now lives in monaco ( yeah , the monaco in Europe) off her rich dad's largesse...
What bugs me is she arrives unannounced, demands kids at all times of the day, and if we cite school or other after school work she threatens to call her lawyer or the police for 'trying to alienate her from the kids', goes around to all the mutual 'friends' and gossips about how mean and spiteful we are to poor 'single ' mom , who is 'hard at work' trying to earn for 'future for her children'..she stays for 3-4 days about twice a year , takes them to movies and all sorts of expensive places to eat out, and tells them that if it were not for their dad they would live like this everyday...yeah right.. when she lived here, she routinely got up in the afternoon, the kids fed and let themselves out of the house and got the bus to school..if they asked for a hot breakfast she yelled and said 'i'm not your servant...so its not like she did not have the opportunity to show what a great mother she could be, she had them for 1/2 the time for the time the custody battle was on and while she could get another credit card...she still has shared legal custody and we dont have the money or the inclination to fight her...apparently she gave birth to the kids and so it entitles her to be a pain in the A.

..Now she calls EVERYDAY to tell them to 'drink your milk', eat something hot in the mornings, eat your multi vitamins, or make sure you wear a jacket'..yeah right like who's been THERE and DOING it for them for years and years now..'remote control mothering', my DH calls it...essentially acting like we dont exist ( i believe the psych term for this is 'invalidation' )

my DH is shit scared of losing the kids, because her father (lives overseas, and was deported from US due to white collar fraud) can finance his daught to fight us in court till kingdom come..we dont have the luxury of that kind of cash

so what do i want?
1. that she shut up and not gossip about us
2. That all her aggravating behaviour is turned on her and she feels what it is like to treat other people like the way she does
3. That she does not come to see us more than once an year...and she continues to live overseas for the rest of the time the kids are minors ( they are in early teens now so 5-6 more years)
4. if possible she treat us with a little more civility..although this is far out..she cannot say 2 sentences without abusing us, and i really dont care about her opinion of us anyway..

what should i do and what can i do?
also what is the best way to cleans and purify a house and the people in it?

MQ

thanks..i would appreicate any insight...
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Re: Getting rid of ex's influence (long)

New postby CopperFox » Wed Jan 13, 2010 7:41 am

I would hotfoot this woman all the way back to Monacco. Make a doll baby and use that to work your conjure. Use that in conjunction with the hotfoot spellkit -- that is going to give you all the necessary supplies plus instructions on how to lay your trick. You may also want to get the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church to set a light for you.

You will also want to work a protective conjure on the kids and yourself/husband. On the LM webpages there is a variation of the Fiery Wall of Protection Spell that encompasses an entire family; find the information at this link: http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html . In closing, for such a complex and serious situation, it would be wise to get a reading beforehand to determine how best to proceed.


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Re: Getting rid of ex's influence (long)

New postby mona Q » Wed Jan 13, 2010 11:07 am

Thanks Michelle,
Its good to hear back from someone. God bless you, and may all your conjures be super effective!
I am not in a huge rush, for me, permanence and effectiveness is of greater import than speed. ..I am currently doing a job/money spell and i dont want to do something with 'negative' overtones at the same time..i will gather the materials in the meantime and do it at the waning moon..I would like to consult cat if possible for a reading. Do you know if i can email a request for a reading or how does it proceed?

Also I am not interested in getting the woman out of her kid's lives... just minimal and civil and responsible interaction till they are old enough to decide for themselves where they want to be.

I also read with interest your experience with your landlady who gossiped a lot and i was thinking that would be something i could do..treat the dolly kindly but SHUT HER UP...when i do something like that do i need to do any cleansing afterwards? and if yes, what would you recommend?

I made a note of your 'doll stuffing' :lobelia (gagroot), slippery elm, licorice, calamus and bistort plus a receipt she had signed...dressed the dolly with bergamot oil, ...when fashioning the face, sew its mouth shut with 3 cross-stitches --would you recommend the same for me..and if so does LM carry these herbs ? I will check but dont recall seeing in inventory. I have LM's stop gossip, banishing and bend over oils..i might use them ( first time ever for me)..i can get a picture of her and keep it inside the doll..

do you recommend also putting it in the mirror box with the intention of reflecting her mean-ness back to her?..any precautions i need to take here...and where do i put the entire thing..at home? we have so much snow right now i could not possibly bury it anywhere..

please anyone else also do advise me...I will be very grateful as i have never been stirred to do anything like this before,s o i want to do it right.
Thanks,
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Re: Getting rid of ex's influence (long)

New postby CopperFox » Wed Jan 13, 2010 2:02 pm

Mona,

You can call the shop to schedule your reading or I believe there may be an email link through the AIRR site where you can initiate the process. I can understand your perspective of not totally wanting to hotfoot the RCmom away entirely; you are clearly a kind woman and thinking of your children first and foremost. That, to me, is the indicator of who is truly mother to these children. I would encourage you to get your reading with Ms. Cat, as she may prescribe an entirely different course of action than the one I have recommended; however, for your information and so that you may research your options, I will elaborate on the dolly and mirror box.

The stuffing herbs listed for the doll baby are all available through LM. They are added to the actual filler material, which is traditionally cotton or spanish moss. If you can acquire an article of her worn clothing to utilize as stuffing, that would be an excellent addition. Depending on your personal preference, you can either attach a photo of her to the dolly for the face or you can fashion the face yourself with stitchery, fabric paints, etc. Given your circumstances you will want to pay particular attention to the mouth. Either leave it out altogether (or blacken it out in the photo) or "sew it shut" as I did. Since you need this conjure to be as strong and lasting as possible make a good effort to get several good personal concerns -- hair, clothing, her signature and/or a photo will assist you in linking the dolly to your target. Once you have assembled the doll to your satisfaction, it must be baptised in her name. I am attaching the following link for your information:
http://www.luckymojo.com/esoteric/occul ... ltips.html .

Once the doll baby is assembled and baptised you can then begin to work with it to bring about the results you need. The condition oils you have are all appropriate -- remember that banishing is less harsh than the hotfoot formula and can be used with the intention of lessening, but not totally ending her contact with the children. Another complementary conjure you can work along with the doll baby is to get an LM skull figural candle, inscribe it with her full name and your command, then annoint the mouth area with stop gossip and the top of the head with bend over. This is done with the intention of stopping her inappropriate comments and allowing you to dominate her actions where the family is involved. You can toss the dolly into the freezer when you need to "cool her off" but you don't necessarily want to keep her there, since you are not interested in actually freezing her out. Once the doll baby is finished, I'm sure you will come up will all sorts of symbolic actions you can take upon her to help bring about a change in the situation. Just remember -- the doll baby is her and you are going to exert your will upon her. Yes, the acts are symbolic, but the energy and intent is carried through the subtle planes into the mundane world. That is how magick manifests itself.

You can also prepare a mirror box for keeping the dolly in to deflect her rotten ways back to her. In fact, I would recommend the dolly live in the mirror box whenever you are not actively working with her. The following link will give you details for making the mirror box: http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html . While the specifics given on this webpage are for a harsher uncrossing work, it can easily be adapted to meet your needs.

As for your concerns about cleansing for yourself and the family -- it is an absolute must. You should establish a regular regime of cleansing if you are regularly working any type of conjure. That goes double if you are engaged in any sort of work intended to deflect negativity or for protection. Not to mention you need to ward yourself against the bad energy she is sending your way on a constant basis. You can easily incorporte cleansing into your regular house cleaning. The family would benefit from having spiritual soaps available to them -- two good ones are the Parrot Botanicals #333 and the Bee & Flower Sandalwood soaps. You can also dress their laundry as you see fit by using the appropriate bath crystals in the rinse cycle of your wash or by adding some of the Lemongrass based laundry soaps to your wash. (LM sells two traditional lemongrass laundry soaps; you can also use these for personal cleansing, but they are not as mild on the skin as the bath bars.) You, as the conjurer, will need to be a bit more thorough in your personal cleansing. Take a cleansing/purifying bath before beginning your work and follow that with regular use of spiritual soaps. Pay attention to your energy/intuition to see if you need to step up your cleansing efforts.

I hope I have been able to provide you with the information you need to begin your research. Please do get a reading before beginning this work; you will be dealing with this woman for years to come, so it will be wise to have every advantage you can muster in dealing with her.

Take care & please let us know how it goes for you,

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Re: Getting rid of ex's influence (long)

New postby ConjureMan Ali » Wed Jan 13, 2010 5:47 pm

You definately want to get a reading for this one to find out the best course of action. If you decide on miss cat she can walk you through a whole plan on how to go about acheiving the results you seek.

While hotfooting may be one solution, I think it may be difficult in this situation because the bonds of mother, yes even a bad mother, are strong to her children. She'll always be in their lives, or at least show up from time to time.

In my opinion, the best course of action would be to use a two pronged approache, one carrot, one stick and to have a third option prepared. For the carrot, use a honey jar that sweetens her to you and your husband, while keeping her somwhat under control. You can combine elements like Slippery Elm to keep her from gossiping, Licorice and Calamus to give you the upper hand, Lavendar and Basil for peace in your home, Rosemary to give you dominance in your home, and Pennyroyal. Alternate between a white and blue candle dressed with Stop Gossip, Peaceful Home, and Controlling. Two commanding oils and one soothing will work on different levels to bring about the effect you seek.

Now for the stick, get a black devil candle or female figurine candle, baptize in her name, carve out the mouth and stuff filled with Slippery Elm, then bind it up with black string all the while telling her that everytime she goes to speak ill about you her words will get tripped up and her mouth will be bound. Then shove a pin in her mouth while repeating the command. Anoint with Stop Gossip, Do as I Say, and Controlling Oil (you may also use Confusion oil instead of Do As I Say). Circle the entire thing with Slippering Elm and Stop Gossip powder. Pray over your candle and light that thing. This is an alternative to the dollbaby. Both will work well, but its up to you if you prefer to work with a candle or a dollbaby. I've worked both methods with great success. Toss the remains in the river and ask that as the river runs so to will all the bad said about you guys run out of your lives.

Finally as a back up, prepare a few Banishing and Hotfoot products. This can be your last resort, along with a Court Case conjure if it comes to that. Simply keep this in mind and the look it up when you need it, or ask your reader or on the boards.

And of course, don't forget to cleanse and protect the children and your house. The methods have been mentioned, but 13 Herb bath, Chinese Floor Wash, burning Sage, and anointing your windows and doors with FWP are all common methods.

P.S to cool a person's anger down the freezer method with a dolly is a great one, but make sure to take her out after a day other wise you're freezing that person out. Personally, I recommend keeping a person in the fridge vs the freezer to get them to cool enough. It won't freeze them, but is enough to calm a person down.
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Re: Getting rid of ex's influence (long)

New postby mona Q » Thu Jan 14, 2010 4:39 am

Thank you both so much , Michelle and Conjureman...I cannot imagine how you take such pains, thought and time to respond to someone's problems. God bless you! I have been so isolated and miserable in our little gossipy community, despite my best efforts to do the right thing, that I have forgotten that there are nice people in this world !

I do not know if I have a gift for this work, but my other spells and even prayers are answered well. Its funny I never thought of 'praying' or doing anything magickal for this issue until very recently, but since I did , its like I have so many resources I never tapped into. I am very hopeful that something will work out.

I am very relieved that her own habits led her to leaving the place and I dont need to hotfoot her away...I just want to work on her staying away...but tempting as it may be to jump into all this, I will get a reading from cat (if possible) on how or what to do...and do it once and do it right.

I will definitely keep you posted!

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Re: Getting rid of ex's influence (long)

New postby CopperFox » Thu Jan 14, 2010 7:34 am

You are quite welcome, Mona. Did I understand your post correctly that, for the time being, she has gone back to the glamorous life and left you "common folk" be? If so, that's wonderful! I would still get a reading, though, to get some insight as to what may be in store for you regarding this situation and how best to prepare for what may come.

I am happy this little community of ours has filled a need for you. We are all learning from one another here and in time, you will be sharing your conjure tips with the next person in need of some reassuring advice. In the meantime, keep praying, keep learning, keep well.

As that green-eye songstress Sheryl Crow sang, "Makin' miracles is hard work/ Most people give up/ Before they happen..."

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Re: Getting rid of ex's influence (long)

New postby mimiso » Thu Jan 14, 2010 9:20 am

Something I've found effective is if you write her name and bday on brown paper, and wrap a piece of her handwriting or hair,then wrap a black string around it. put it in some water, and freeze it on a saturday during the waning moon. she'll bug you less and less. and its not really harming her, but she'll leave you alone. i've tried it on multiple people and it works. if you'd like, you can sweeten the water so when or if there comes a time you encounter her, she won't be an outright !@@#. also, if you want the upperhand in talking to her, write her name and bday on brown paper, and put it in your left shoe, and tap it a couple times when dealing with her, but still talk to her in a civil way.
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Hubbies Ex Still in the Picture

New postby Crescent Moon » Fri Jan 07, 2011 2:59 pm

Greetings Hoodoo Fam! and Happy New Year to Ya!
Question for anyone that can help me out with my situation
My Hubbies Ex is definitely still in the picture.. he said they are just friends, they have a son that is so grown but, treats him as if he is still a child in need. I worry about this relationship. And not only that... she lives right down the street from us.
She calls him, text him when ever she wants. and he does the same. How I found this out is... I checked his phone one night when he was sleep. I feel in my heart that if anything ever goes wrong with us he will go running to her. I want so bad to trust this friendship but I feel that he still loves her. I know he loves me but I still just want her completely out the picture for good. He has two other children but not pay as much attention to them as he does this one. So what could I do to remove this forever.
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Re: Hubbies Ex

New postby jwmcclin » Fri Jan 07, 2011 3:06 pm

Are you saying you want to remove her or the feeling you have that something is going on?
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Re: Hubbies Ex

New postby starsinthesky7 » Fri Jan 07, 2011 11:00 pm

You can never get this woman out of the picture if they have a child together. Unless the child is over 18 years old, then I can see getting her out of the picture. If not, then you are going to have a hard time.

I would first get a reading to see if anything is going on.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.com

Now what I would do is bind your husband to you. You can do this through a nationsack.

http://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html

Here is another link to keep a man faithful
binding-and-tying-spells-keep-a-man-faithful-t9971s90.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html

Also, you can work with stay with me, and chuparrosa.

http://www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html


If you are worried about her, you can do some attraction work so that she can find another lover.
In addition, I would do some essence of bend over so that you can have completely control over her.
http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html

I mean you need to find out the nature of this relationship. If they are in fact doing something you can do separation work as well.

http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
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Re: Hubbies Ex

New postby Crescent Moon » Sat Jan 08, 2011 5:44 pm

jwmcclin, I want her completely out the picture.
starsinthesky7, Yes he is 27 years old. Sometime I get the feeling he is a little jealous of his father's and my marriage.
I don't think they are messing around. But, I think it could happen. If it hasn't already.
I asked my husband about their relationship. he always says that they didn't divorce on bad terms and they are only friends. To me he seems to keep her around because he feels that he did her wrong during their marriage and he is trying to make it up to her. He is too nice and too in tune to her and I hate it. I don't really get this at all. But, I do know she will be there for him if anything ever happened between us.
I would like to do something like find her a lover so she wont be so into our relationship.

Because she was the first wife, she does little things that get under my skin. Like always under and hanging around my mother-in-law and sister-in-law. Why can't she just get a life and move on. She showed up to hubbies B Day Party I gave him and I didn't invite her. you couldn't beat her trying to get him to hug and kiss her... but I Intervened it.
I don't know what to make out of this whole ordeal.
I just had a reading and nothing was said about it. but I was told to take epsom and vinegar baths daily, so I don't know if that means there is a crossing somewhere or not.
I just know this chic is getting on my nerves. Now I really don't like her. This have to be nerve reckon if I say I don't like someone. This never comes out of mouth. cuz I usually get along with everybody. This one I can't do.

Thanks you two for your advice
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Re: Hubbies Ex

New postby starsinthesky7 » Sun Jan 09, 2011 12:49 am

A reading is in order to end all of the speculation. I think that should be your next move. Perhaps you need a different opinion, or you need to ask more direct questions regarding this specific situation. The reader may not have picked up on it because you didn't ask directly.
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Re: Hubbies Ex

New postby Crescent Moon » Sun Jan 09, 2011 6:20 am

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How can I stop this woman calling my husband?

New postby talovus » Sun Feb 13, 2011 2:41 pm

Hello I have a situation with this woman who was involve with my husband. Well back inn 2009 the woman approach me saying she had been with my husband for three years. And she has been interfering for a while. Well last year we got married on September 2nd and a lot of people was against well his only his mom, sister, and xgirlfriends. But to make a long story short she has been calling my husband saying she love him and miss him but I ask him a while back he swear up and down he never been with her. So im trying to debate what to do at this point cause she calling and I want him to reject her. When we got married last year his sister went around telling my cousins we was not married and he will always love this woman and he just with me because of our kids. I never caught him with her but she does call his phone and he knows I dont like this woman. He is with me evryday and night true enough but I dont want her to become a problem or a threat to my marriage. I want to keep this secure and under control at all times. And we been together 6 years and married only 4 months. So what should I do to keep things in order.
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Re: Women calling my husband

New postby jwmcclin » Sun Feb 13, 2011 4:00 pm

Lucky Mojo has a variety of conjure, however, I recommend a reading on this situation to find the truth; ask for recommended work, there is more to the story than what is being told. Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers
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Re: How can I stop this woman calling my husband?

New postby DaisyChain » Tue Feb 15, 2011 5:52 pm

I had a problem with a gossiping coworker who wouldn't shut up about me a little while back and I used a Freezer/Icebox Spell on her.
Fixed her up good it did!
If I were you, I'd try out the spell that use's an animal tongue to stop the person from talking (or calling) your husband.

Here's the link and best of luck to you!
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Spell To Banish An Ex Boyfriend

New postby Tengotodo » Tue Apr 12, 2011 5:03 pm

Hello Everyone,
My fiance has an ex that will not give up on gaining her back. Its complicated but basically he has taken advantage of her in many ways. In fact he will not return a huge amount of money that she invested with him, It frustrates her and when it happens it affects our relationship. Now, the jerk has invited himself to the Philippines on our trip because he knows Im coming. She loves me and he thinks he can buy back her love with all his money. She cares for him but thats it. But,the thing is she has a kind heart and she will feel guilty and feel responsible for him if he comes. Now, shes contemplating canceling the trip. So whats your advice? I want this jerk out of our lives. Its tough now because we live in different states which compounds things. At times she wants to give up because he is so determined to ruin everything and it wears her out. I have pictures of both but not his last name or birthday. I purchased 2 Candle services, Hot Foot for him and Healing for her today. The healing is for her to rid her past of her divorce. Her ex-husband had cheated on her. Our trip is scheduled for July and already I can sense her frustration which its taking its toll. We love each other so much and this jerk just doesn't get it.
Any additional spells or advice would be greatly appreciated. I was even thinking about a spell for him to fall in love with someone else.
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Re: Spell To Banish An Ex Boyfriend

New postby jwmcclin » Tue Apr 12, 2011 7:56 pm

You can work a spell for him to fall in love with someone else but it seems he will still have his sense of entitlement with her. She could work the Black Walnut spell (http://herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html) used to break the power of the past. Although the Hot foot candle spell is strong, I would get the Hot Foot Spell Kit, because it includes protection and instructions especially if you are not accustom to this type of dark work and believe me it is strong.

It sounds like she needs strength as well to deal with his advances; I would include Crucible of Courage for her gain the strength to deal with him.

Also read the discussions on both spells here in the forum...

black-walnut-bath-t3523.html
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Re: Spell To Banish An Ex Boyfriend

New postby Tengotodo » Thu Apr 14, 2011 4:46 pm

Will it make a difference with the Hot Foot Spell if I don't have his last name? I have a photo of him but I dont know where he lives. I want him out of her life so when wording the petition do I include myself or just him and my fiance? I'm trying to figure out the best way to phrase it.
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Issues with BF's ex that won't let go!

New postby lovingme1 » Sun Apr 17, 2011 1:05 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We live together along with our two sons, (both from previous relastionships).

Our issue is his ex-girlfriend and mother of his son that lives with us. She has never got over their break up and do not want to let go. She has caused him issues not only with me but previous relastionships he has had before we meet. It's so bad that she has a reputation around town for being obssesed with my boyfriend. His family even made me aware of how she is and that she will say anything to try to make me upset so I will leave him. He has told her a million times he do not want to be with her, but she ignores this.

She has told me several lies about her and him being together. I know they are false because the dates and times she named were times he was with me. She will even go as far as calling to tell him that she is going to kill herself if he don't be with her. She recently even told him that she was dying of pancreatic cancer (which we found out later to be a lie)!!! She has been to conseling and was on anti depressants at one time.
She is crazy and I am sick of it and so is he. She is driving us crazy! If someone else has had a problematic ex causing problems please let me know what to do.
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Re: Issues with an ex that won't let go!

New postby j82 » Sun Apr 17, 2011 7:28 pm

id get a reading on this women and what to do as he does have a child with her and the kid, regardless of how insane mom is, still has a right to his mother. that being said hot foot products come to mind to send her away.
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Re: Issues with an ex that won't let go!

New postby ConjureMan Ali » Sun Apr 17, 2011 8:34 pm

Since it is the mother of his child there will always remain some bond between your man and her, even if it is only one of a courteous face for the child, or one of financial support. However there are ways of getting her to move on.

The best would be a moving candle spell where you move her to a new lover. Use a combination of figure candles to move her away from your man and to a new lover for her. You can use a white candle to represent a new unknown lover. A picture to help you see what I'm talking about can be found here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

Use Separation products instead of Break Up to bring some healing to the work and without causing the usual fuss of break ups. Come to Me would be great to draw her to a new person and for a four part moving candle spell where she's move away from your man to a new lover while your man is moved closer to you, you'll get the added benefit of strengthening your own relationship while driving her away.

Afterward mix some Separation products with Lemon Leaves and and lay those out for her to walk on so as to break her connection to him while ending any vesitges of the relationship.
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My BF's Manipulating Ex-Wife

New postby WickedRussian » Mon Aug 22, 2011 9:06 pm

Hi

I'm new to this forum,

I know that my boyfriend loves me dearly and that I can trust him with his ex-wife but its her I dont trust.

Ive not jugded or pressured him but encouraged and supported his dreams. Since being with me he has allowed himself to be himself but now I'm aware that his ex is a little annoyed because he has changed. The ex wife and myself got on okey. I'm always polite and will go out of my way to say hello, but recently she's been acting a little stand offish but has become very obliging to her ex husband (my boyfriend).

They have two children together and he wants to keep things between them on good terms which I respect.

I feel his aware of her feelings but doesn't say to much to me, what is so annoying is that I know whats shes up to but dont know what to do!!! I feel that she's manipulating and seeing if she can push my buttons. I guess Im a pretty easy going nice person...well try to be.

I wish no harm to anyone or anything.I just dont want someone playing me behind my back. :x

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Re: My BF's Manipulating Ex-Wife

New postby Dr Johannes » Tue Aug 23, 2011 2:54 am

Search the site for "Nation Sack" or use "Stay With Me" products on your husbands underwear.
Coffin nails, and her picture wrapped around a Black Penis Candle loaded with his pubic hairs may also be nice. Drive the coffin nails through the picture and into the candle and pray that his penis will never like the nearness of the ex. wife again.
Seal the pussy of the ex. in a similar manner by using a Cowrie Shell, his picture, coffin nails, Graveyard Dirt and some glue.

That may keep them from having sexual interest in each other behind your back.
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Keep her way/Remove her from his life

New postby Shany » Thu Aug 25, 2011 6:18 pm

I want my boyfriend's ex to just leave him alone! She doesn't contact him so often but every time she does, she messes our relationship up badly. Is there a way to keep her completely away from him and prevent her from ever contact him again? I would also be thankful if there is away to help him move on from her completely. Thank you.
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Re: Keep her way/Remove her from his life

New postby Devi Spring » Thu Aug 25, 2011 6:33 pm

You use a freezer spell to freeze her out of his life forever.
freezer-spells-questions-and-answers-t8676.html

If your boyfriend wants to completely move on from her, he can perform the Cut and Clear work to remove any remaining emotional bonds to her.
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Re: Keep her way/Remove her from his life

New postby Shany » Thu Aug 25, 2011 6:57 pm

Thank you Devi Spring. My boyfriend doesn't believe nor he likes the idea of hoodoo magic... is there any other way to help him move on? :(
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Re: Keep her way/Remove her from his life

New postby jwmcclin » Thu Aug 25, 2011 7:44 pm

Shany, you are on the Lucky Mojo Forum. We are here to help customer use various types of magic to positively or sometimes negatively affect a situation. This includes hand made spiritual supplies for those who cast magic spells. You are asking what to do without magic?
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Re: Keep her way/Remove her from his life

New postby Shany » Thu Aug 25, 2011 9:16 pm

No, I just want to know if there's any way I can do the cut and clear spell or any other spell that would help him moving on instead of having him doing it?
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Re: Keep her way/Remove her from his life

New postby Turnsteel » Fri Aug 26, 2011 3:27 am

Shany wrote:No, I just want to know if there's any way I can do the cut and clear spell or any other spell that would help him moving on instead of having him doing it?


You can't do a Cut and Clear on or for someone, they have to make the choice to do it. In general you can not force someone to move on, that decision must come from within them.
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Re: My BF's Manipulating Ex-Wife

New postby WickedRussian » Mon Aug 29, 2011 9:46 pm

Thank you so much Johanne,
I will get on to that straight away with the Nation Sack.
I dont feel that there is any sexual interest on his be half as she told him numerous times that he made her sick but I do feel that even if it did repulse her she would just try it on to see where she stands.I get the feeling that the sex maybe wasnt that great, but it maybe worth me investing in this spell just incase.
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Re: Keep her way/Remove her from his life

New postby Shany » Sat Sep 10, 2011 1:35 am

But I know he wants to move on, just doesn't have enough will power to do so.
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Re: Keep her way/Remove her from his life

New postby mumma » Sat Sep 10, 2011 4:40 am

Maybe time will do the trick? If he really does want to move on, he will in time.
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Confused Love

New postby wilsmi2000 » Thu Oct 20, 2011 7:29 pm

My current girlfriend was involved with a guy for about 4 years but she quit him because he's a low life. I have a history with this woman for about 16 years. So she and i got together again about 4 months ago when she broke up with this other guy. Things had been going really good even though we live about 7 hours . I go down to see her on weekends or holidays. Everything was going great until a couple of weeks ago. I went to see her and things seemed really different ...We made love 1 time, but it was quick and short. Not at all like the passionate love making weekends we had before. I got a reading from a psychic and was advised that this guy has a spell on her to bring her back to him. I don't know what to do because i feel the love between us but know that he's manipulating the situation.
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Re: Confused Love

New postby Devi Spring » Fri Oct 21, 2011 8:18 am

I'd start with a reading and consultation from a an AIRR rootworker. That way you can be 100% sure that the assessment of the situation is truthful (as some "psychics" like to scam people by telling them that their love is cursed in order to get them to spend lots of money; see this article for more info: http://www.luckymojo.com/blackgypsies.html#fraud), and you will ALSO get advice on what magical actions will be most effective for your situation. :)
You can find a list of AIRR workers at http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

If there is some work in place, you'll need to do some Uncrossing work on your lover, followed by some Protection work, and something to neutralize the actions of the ex. Once you have eliminated the competition, so to speak, you can then work on strengthening the love between the two of you.

If you have some personal concerns from her, go ahead and start something like a Love Me honey jar kit for the two of you and start working it.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar
You can also go ahead and do a freezer spell on the ex to work to freeze him out of her life for good, just in case he actually is trying to get back in there.
freezer-spells-questions-and-answers-t8676.html

But you will want to get a consultation with an AIRR worker to confirm whether or not there is other work being done.
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Re: Confused Love

New postby wilsmi2000 » Fri Oct 21, 2011 3:14 pm

I know for a fact that he's trying to get her back, he never stopped. The person who told me is very reliable , in fact she told me everything i didn't say anything. She told me how sweet and loving my girlfriend was in the beginning , and now how she is so unpredictable...one minute she loves me and next she doesn't know how she feels. The other thing is ...I only know his first name...but maybe i could do the sour pickle and put his first name and then in parenthesis put my girlfriends ex ???
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Re: Confused Love

New postby TBanks91 » Sat Oct 22, 2011 11:27 pm

I'd follow up with what Devi explained, next step she recommended, purchase a reading from a rootworker at the AIRR website she linked so you can get a clear reading on whats going on with this issue, if the other is causing problems, you may incoorporate the freezer spell, but if it seems to not be your cup of tea, do some HOT FOOTING or some BANISHING work to get him out the picture. Try to get his full name or birthdate if possible. I loved what Devi explained....also, she may need some clarity and king solomon wisdom on a white skull candle to handle the issue at hand too, after the uncrossing, cleansing and protection work, so she can be able to know what she wants and think clearly...


http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html [an end to confusion, see clearly]
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html [gain wisdom and insight]
http://www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html [get rid of something or unwanted people, milder of hot foot supplies]
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html [to rid someone from an unwanted person's life]

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Re: Confused Love

New postby wilsmi2000 » Tue Oct 25, 2011 3:55 pm

I believe in God and have been reading psalm 91 for protection, psalm 66 and 37 to ward off evil doing. Psalms 98, 85, and song o solomon 1 vs 1- 7 for peace , mercy and love. Things seem to be getting a little better. I really thank everyone for the great suggestions ..I'll give them a try if my reading the word doesn't . Everyone here has been great and your assistance is appreciated from the bottom of my heart.
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Need Help Removing My Man's Problem Ex-Wife

New postby 1love » Sat Nov 05, 2011 6:47 pm

I've been dating this man. He's divorced with kids but the ex is causing all types of problems for him. She won't let him see his kids although she's with another. She wants him to suffer. She abuses his kids, telling them they can see him and then she don't let them. She made him lose his business so he's starting all over again but she is constantly at him. His kids are his eyes.

Just to add they hv court soon abt the children. I've witnessed the abuse to the children myself so please know this is not what he is telling me, it's also what I hv seen. He never believed she would do this and he is feeling used and betrayed.

This situation has caused more than problems with us. It's as if he is hurting her through me. He says he's loves me and he's not going anywhere and he believes the same of me.

His friends and family keep telling me to bare with him and that I hv something on my hands and he's damaged. He was not like this until she started in on the children.

He has turned to the streets, drinking, clubs, not answering the phone sometimes. I need help.

I love him and I want this situation completely resolved.

What can I do? St Martha? Who? How? how often?

Please someone help.
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Re: Need Help Removing My Man's Problem Ex-Wife

New postby MaryBee » Sat Nov 05, 2011 7:01 pm

Hi 1love:

First, you won't "remove" this woman completely from your man's life. They have kids together so until they're 18, he will have to deal with the ex.

If he has a custody agreement ordered by a judge and the ex is breaking that by not letting him see the kids, he needs to get a lawyer and take his ex to court to get the order enforced. You can work a Court Case honey jar or a Court Case vigil on that part of the situation: http://www.luckymojo.com/courtcase.html

To get this ex to shut up about you, him or stop her lying mouth, use Stop Gossipproducts.

If you want him to stay home and stay with you instead of going out in the clubs and drinking, work with Stay At Home products. Get a pair of his worn (not washed) underwear, tie it in a knot and bury it in the backyard; that keeps a man to stay home. If you don't live together, work with Love Meproducts. Feed him your menstrual blood in his coffee, tea or food regularly so he'll be sweet on you.

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Re: Need Help Removing My Man's Problem Ex-Wife

New postby 1love » Sun Nov 06, 2011 8:40 pm

Thank u for your help. I Never wanted to get rid of her I just want there to b peace and the children to b safe. I was a victim of child abuse with a mother who knowingly or unknowingly would do things to hurt my father by hurting me. Years later she apologized but I'm worried abt their children and his frame of mind.

I just realized the title of my topic I didn't put that.
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Re: Need Help Removing My Man's Problem Ex-Wife

New postby MsHooDooPrincess » Mon Nov 07, 2011 11:01 pm

I might use some of these tips too
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Spell work to get rid of My Man's Evil Ex GF

New postby orchid » Mon Nov 28, 2011 7:41 pm

I have been in a relationship with a man for over 5 years. Its serious and we live together. My problem is that my partner's ex girl friend still is trying to come between us. They had a chaotic relationship and I know she is an evil person from my own experience with her and what people that have known her have said to me. I know she caused my partner a lot of pain. I don't want to get into details but she really hurt him and did really bad things. Among the number of things she did she took his checkbook and forged checks right before they broke up.

I know we love each other and I know that he wants to be with me. He tells me and shows, but becuase of emotional abuse this girl has done and her mental instability he feels like he can't rid himself of her completely. He feels he has to be her friend. I have been dealing with this for years and I'm fed up! I'm tiered of the control this girl has over him.

So my question is: I'm doing candle work on her. I'm burning a separation candle. I don't think he is very involved with her, but just to be safe I want to bring space between them.
I'm also burning a cast off evil candle so that he wont be influenced by her or feel he owes her anything.

I would like to know from those of you that have been doing this for a while if those two were good choices and if you recommend any other candle from your experience.

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Re: Spell work to get rid of My Man's Evil Ex GF

New postby Devi Spring » Mon Nov 28, 2011 7:55 pm

I would make a dolly of her, bind it up, put it in a mirror box, and send her down the river and out of your lives.

Do some cleansing work on your partner - Uncrossing with Cast Off Evil is a good choice. See if you can get a pinch of those bath crystals into his shampoo/conditioner, body wash, etc.

Make an Influence honey jar on he and you, so that he will listen to you when you tell him how uncomfortable this all makes you, and to help him see clearly. You can work Clarity and King Solomon Wisdom on him as well - either some skull candle work, or a doll baby, or candles dressed in those oils and burned on his name.

You may wish to get a reading with an AIRR worker to make sure there isn't anything you don't know about that's keeping him so tied up to her!
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Re: Spell work to get rid of My Man's Evil Ex GF

New postby orchid » Tue Nov 29, 2011 10:37 am

Thank you for the quick reply :)

I have never worked with a dolly before. Most of my experience is with candle work, but I would like to give it a try. Any advice on making a mirror box that will work well if I throw in the water? I don't live in a place where we have rapid rivers; I live near ocean.

The honey jar was a wonderful suggestion. I haven't worked on one in a long time even though it always yields nice results! I can't believe I didn't think about it !

But if I do the uncrossing will it erase/cancel the honey jar or any love candle that I do on him to keep him closer to me?

Again thanks for the advice. This girl is really getting out of control and I should of taken care of her years ago. But I didn't know she was lurking because of how sneaky she is. I was also a bit out of touch with my spirituality even though I grew up in a spiritual family. Now I realize that this is an important part in my life and how much it can help me control my life. I guess I was also in denile of how much people are willing to harm you!

I have a good idea why she has the mental/ emotional control over him. I heard it from someone in his family of what she did to him. I didn't know if I could believe it or if it was just a rumor (because I didn't want to here it) but then I got a reading from a trusted reader years later and it did come up without me even asking about it. She scarred him and that's what it impeding him from committing to marriage. He's basically scared that this will happen again. During these 5 years I've also had to work and prove that I'm trustworthy to him becuase of his trust issues. But aside from that we have a good relationship and I want to fight for it.
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The Ex that keeps on taking...

New postby WillaBacchus » Wed Dec 07, 2011 12:09 pm

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Hi there,

I am at the end of my rope, so to speak- My husband went through a very painful, very spiteful and vengeful divorce, which was finalized about three years ago. Now, I have to preface this by saying that my husband and I were not the cause of his divorce. Readers must also know that he is a man that would give you whatever he had, in spite of himself, to ensure your safety and well-being. He is a volunteer fire chief and very devoted father of two children from his first marriage and one boy with me. He is very conservative and never saw the adultery on his ex's behalf coming. He tried all that he could to salvage his marriage to her, to protect the kids, but she has other plans.

Now, fast forward three years after the divorce was final... He and I are married, with a beautiful little three year old, and much support after this terrible circumstance. His ex is still in our very small town, and has even persuaded her new hubby (and the true cause for this divorce) to be the other fire chief in town. She has made sure that his children loathe him, now calling her new hubby their father, and has completely destroyed his good standing reputation by having their children lie to police, stating that he beat them.

My husband, though I know will not be through with this emotionally until his children are back in his life, is truly trying to move past all of this. We are about half way through alimony payments to her, and I feel like she has recently become aware of this, ultimately creating worse issues for my husband.
She will stop at nothing until he is completely broken in spirit.

She is a truly vile excuse for a human being. But, as I say this, I can't help but feel that she and I share some sort of karmic connection. When I do something, she does. When I think about doing something, she acts on it first. It's as if our lives are mirror images, that is to say, in reverse of one another. I can't seem to break the tie to her.

So, my question is this- bearing in mind that we are still financially tied to her for the next two years, how do I work to bring his children back into his life and also how do I stop any and all attacks on us coming from her way? I need her to feel that she no longer has control over any of us and that her actions are no longer acceptable.

Thank you so much. Any help will be so appreciated, as I don't know where to go with this anymore...
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Re: The Ex that keeps on taking...

New postby aura » Wed Dec 07, 2011 12:24 pm

Hi WillaBacchus,

you have a complex situation on your hands and a reading with one of the workers from AIRR (http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers) would help you ascertain all of the aspects involved along with suggestions for the most effective rootwork given the diverse factions.

A honey-jar with your husband's children and your family in it could begin the healing of the rift that's been created (http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html). It's soft, long-term work, that you can add the kids' personal concerns to as you can get them.

For the ex-wife, you can consider a freezer jar spell to stop her from acting against you both (http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html) and some stop gossip work or products in the freezer jar is also probably in order to keep her from wagging a vile tongue. Alternatively, you could consider some reversing work - like making a poppet of her with alum in the mouth (or even a chunk of solid alum to stuff the head), knotweed and barberry - and tying it into a mirror-box with reversing products. You'll find that spell in the following link on reversing products: http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Finally, some protection for your own family unit is probably wise.

Blessings and best of luck.
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