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Love Spell with Alcoholic Drug Addict Violent Abuser

Unread postby MsHooDooPrincess » Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:14 pm

My fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober. He is verbally abusive when he is drinking.We fought and I want to reconcile. What do you recommend?
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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby Jaime Banks » Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:19 pm

MsHooDooPrincess....

Hellooooo??? Where have you been at? Look at this link and read the paqe...http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
'Nuff is said.....

Buy the spell kit, chinese wash your house, clear the alcohol cabinet, dust your lover's carseats with the powder, oil some white candles RUBBING DOWNWARD, dust his shoes, the alcohol cabinet and the drivers wheel to rid him of buyinq alcohol, dust his wallet and the money so he'll be uninfluenced to purchase any alcohol, talk to him and qet him into some AA meetinqs where he can analyze his issue....

Probably order a WHITE SKULL CANDLE, and use some CLARITY AND KINGSOLOMON wisdom so he can see clearly how he acts and qain true insiqht on what he is doinq with himself, with you, and other specific situaitons that you both are qoinq thru.
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html


FIRST AND FOREMOST THOUGH....you should order a RECONCILIATION HoneyJar, and some RETURN TO ME products to employ....buy them and try to qet him to reutrn, if he is refusinq, try and qet some of that INTRANQUILTY qoin thru to him dammit qurl....he needs to see his ways and chanqe for the better....but also YOU are doinq 50% of the work tryinq to make him into a BETTER MAN, he needs to be able to WANT to chanqe as well, buy a purple jumbo candle, put in your personal concerns, order some SAGE, KING SOLOMON SEAL ROOTS, and some DEERSTOUNGUE and add them in the candle and anoint the candle with Crucible of Couraqe and burn it for 9 days....you can also order a 9HERB bath so you can qain some insiqht and clarity of your own added with some wisdom, do the bath before doinq the jumbo crucible of couraqe candle...this will qive you the couraqe to say to him how you feel with communication
Here you qo:

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-return-to-me.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/sage.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/solomons-seal-root.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/deers-tongue.html

Hopefully This Helpes In Someway :) [P.S....don't forqet to purchase a STAY WITH ME kit] to keep him home, and some STAY AT HOME supplies to keep him there too qirl and stop his ass from them 24 hour liquor stops in the morniinq...]!
http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-stay-at-home.html
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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby MissMichaele » Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:24 pm

TBanks91 gave some good magical advice -- although why would you want to reconcile with a mean drunk? I'd work the Cast Off Evil and King Solomon Wisdom first.

And don't forget to work the practical side: get him in a program! Alcoholics Anonymous is the best-known, but there are others.

Finally, get him tending to the underlying spiritual issues. Most people tend to this at church, but some people define spirituality much more broadly.

Lastly -- or maybe this should be first -- be sure that drunkenness isn't just an excuse for him to be mean to you. He may be an abuser first and a drunk second.


Hope this helps,

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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby MsHooDooPrincess » Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:35 pm

Thanks sweetie, and I'm trying. The first program he was in he did good for 4 weeks, and relapse.

I will also tell him about the AA program and encourage him to join, thanks sweetie
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Unread postby Jaime Banks » Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:41 pm

lol Thanks Miss Michaele, such kind words...., well.....she did say that he's ONLY mean when he drinks, so I think if he is a better person sober, have him STAY Sober with those products....I think people can chanqe their ways if they qet rid of their bad influence, and seek help....find the root to the problem, have him see a Psycholoqist or a Therapist for some quidance too....if he doesnt wanna pay to see a Doc,

....there's always Jesus lmfao....ahaha.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html#catholic

If you don't wanna spend money to spiritually contact him, he's free.....lol, just attend Church...

-TBanks91 lol.

[also hoodooprincess, you can remove the luckymojo print off the cast off evil bottle, tell him to wear it as a perfume, do it to some PROTECTION oil too qirl, you'll be qood. :)]
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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby MsHooDooPrincess » Thu Nov 03, 2011 3:04 pm

TBanks91 wrote:lol Thanks Miss Michaele, such kind words...., well.....she did say that he's ONLY mean when he drinks, so I think if he is a better person sober, have him STAY Sober with those products.
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[also hoodooprincess, you can remove the luckymojo print off the cast off evil bottle, tell him to wear it as a perfume, do it to some PROTECTION oil too qirl, you'll be qood. :)]


Good ideal, I will try that, thanks sweetie. I need to stay with him for financial reasons.
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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby Miss Tammie Lee » Thu Nov 03, 2011 6:29 pm

The problem with mean drunks is that-- they often get dangerous.
It's great to try to help people you love, but not with your life.
I really like the combo of Protection and Cast Off Evil.
All of the above shared advice was very good.
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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby Jaime Banks » Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:10 pm

HooDooPrincess,

Yea I'm there too, I'm flat broke, but what type of person would I be if I don't take my own advice? lol, now I recommend that you order a MONEY STAY WITH ME kit, or a MONEY STAY WITH ME [TRIPLE] STRENGTH mojo hand for better financial stability, you can employ that with some MONEY DRAWING oil and ATTRACTION oil to draw the money to you and keep it to you literally...

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojo-3x-money- ... th-me.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/moneydrawing.html [i'll qive you a warninq, it has a stronq scent to it, lol but ilove it]
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

Are you employed? If not....try the STEADY WORK spell kit, to help qet you a qood job, and keep one...you can read it on this thread on how to do tricks with my tips...in order for you to $pend $$$, you have to make $$$ fir$t...lol
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-steady-work.html
need-a-full-time-job-t16349.html

Now also...I did see what Miss Tammie Lee was sayinq in the post before yours....now you may do these tricks that were qiven above I recommended, but you have to ask yourself...is this worth the $$$, the time, the torture I'm qoinq thru with this man....its mostly a personal issue, we are all human, so you have to think of it in a perspective eye. Can he chanqe? Would he chanqe? WILL he qo to the meetinqs? Will he stop drinkinq? Can he be a better lover, partner, husband and father? If you think you CAN do better and want to qet rid of him and move on to someone who'll follow your wishes and honor your love, then kick him out and let him ruin his own life, incoorporate a CUT N CLEAR spell kit, and conjure a COME TO ME SPELL kit to brinq someone new into your life. Thats a thouqht you know :) just look deeper into your situation and decide on whats better FOR YOU and HIM....
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-cut-and-clear.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-come-to-me.html

Be Careful, and stay blessed ok? Best Wishes,
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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby Miss Tammie Lee » Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:11 pm

MsHooDooPrincess,,

I was hoping you would post back. One dollar or nothing at all, one child or no child-- get to a safe place. That is the most important.

Verbal abuse --is abuse-- and quickly turns physical especially when there is an outside factor making the mood swing.

Cut and Clear is what I wanted to say earlier. Please look into the AIRR Pro Bono Fund and the Crystal Silence League. Above all stay safe, and get out of his way before something happens.

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... _Bono_Fund
http://missionaryindependent.org/crysta ... eague.html

Take Care.
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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby MsHooDooPrincess » Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:14 pm

Thanks again Tbanks :)
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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby MsHooDooPrincess » Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:17 pm

Miss Tammie Lee wrote: get to a safe place. That is the most important.
Verbal abuse --is abuse-- and quickly turns physical especially when there is an outside factor making the mood swing.

Cut and Clear is what I wanted to say earlier. Please look into the AIRR Pro Bono Fund and the Crystal Silence League. Above all stay safe, and get out of his way before something happens.

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... _Bono_Fund
http://missionaryindependent.org/crysta ... eague.html

Take Care.


Thanks sweetie :D
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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby Jaime Banks » Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:24 pm

lol @ Miss Tammie Lee -- I know riqht? lol. I'm happy we can TaqTeam on this situation lol.

HIGH FIVE! LMAO.
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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby aura » Fri Nov 04, 2011 11:12 am

Hi MsHooDooPrincess,

while things may work out in the end, if you do work toward reconciliation and with Cast Off Evil rather than go the Cut and Clear route, set a firm time limit on how long you're willing to accept this kind of behaviour from your fiancé. There are many fish in the sea and there's without a doubt one of them out there that is sweet all the time and who could shower it all on you.

Keep in mind that an addict is cheating on you. His mistress is his drug (or bottle!) of choice. He's been in that relationship probably quite a bit longer than he's been with you - and she's a tough broad to face off with.

Make sure you work Clarity and Tranquility for yourself throughout the process and ideally, once finances permit, get a short reading from an AIRR member to see what long term prospects exist for you and this man.

For finances, there's a great forum thread on easy and low cost money spells you should look at (if you haven't already that is): easy-low-cost-money-spells-t989.html

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Re: Fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober

Unread postby autumnalflower » Fri Nov 04, 2011 11:26 am

MsHooDooPrincess,,

I suggest that you also look into AlAnon, it's a great support group for family members and friends of alcoholics.
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Abusive BF Wall of Steel Around His Heart Destroys My Stuff

Unread postby Faith14 » Mon Jan 30, 2012 7:27 am

i need clarification please.

my bf has a wall of steel around his heart. he's been thru two bad marriages/divorces, and rough childhood. He refuses to let his guard down.

I 've read where people say cut and clear can be done on behalf of someone and others say the peson themselves need to do a cut and clear spell.

he is not open to this so thats defiently not an option. can someone please clarify- can i do a cut and clear on his behalf?

otherwise because alot of this stems from being hurt, not having a father growing etc how can i break his resistance and see that i wont hurt him? i live with him so i cant do skull candles - night time work. needs to be something i can do at day when he's at work.

i was thinking king solomon and clarity so he can see clearly that i wont hurt him and see me for who i really am? but can i do that without a skull candle?

i also made a poppet out of a plastic doll so i can do baths and not destroy it.
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Re: breaking down resistance, letting his guard down

Unread postby Devi Spring » Mon Jan 30, 2012 8:17 am

faith14,

No, Cut and Clear is a personal spell that one must decide to work for themselves.

Since his resistance stems from emotional traumas, what he needs is Healing work - through baths and candle working. The King Solomon Wisdom & Clarity would be a nice complement to that. You can have MISC set the lights for you if you cannot do it yourself, then bathe the doll in an appropriate mix of bath salts. Keep it in a box filled with Healing herbs, and Love herbs.
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Re: breaking down resistance, letting his guard down

Unread postby nena1974 » Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:48 am

I havent been on here in a long long time. But years ago my situation was similar to yours. This kind of work takes time, it took me over 2 years of steady work and dedication.

I worked a doll baby, and a skull candle that I burned whenever possible. I also annoit regular decorative candles because I also live with him and dont have the freedom I would like for candle work. I made my doll baby, out of his dirty t shirt, and stuffed it with some of his personal concerns.

Show your doll baby love, talk to him, give him healing baths....slow and steady he will come around.
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Abusive Boyfriend Destroying My Property

Unread postby Faith14 » Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:18 pm

My BF threw out my Hoodoo Herb & Root Magic book that Miss Cat wrote.

Besides Eucalyptus what also herbs work well if working a vigil?
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Re: Abusive Boyfriend Destroying My Property

Unread postby Mama Micki » Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:22 pm

Faith14,

Maybe you should throw your boyfriend out if he can't keep his hands off your stuff.

I'd suggest getting some Cast Off Evil oil and dressing your candle with it.
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Re: Abusive Boyfriend Destroying My Property

Unread postby Joseph Magnuson » Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:54 pm

Faith14: I use Eucalyptus and Hyssop.

May I ask why your boyfriend decided to throw out your property?
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Re: Abusive Boyfriend Destroying My Property

Unread postby catherineyronwode » Wed Feb 29, 2012 8:38 pm

Faith 14,

You will not be happy living with a man who destroys your property. He will only get worse. Leave now.

For what REASON are you "working a vigil"?

(I'm not even sure i know what "working a vigil" means. I know about fixing a vigil light and i know about setting lights. but to me "working" means messing with or manipulating something, like working a jack ball or working with a dollie. Vigil candles are just set there -- which is why setting them is called "setting lights.")

Anyway, if you are fixing a vigil candle for your abusive boyfriend to change his no-good ways, you will want different herbs than if you are fixing it for protection from an abusive boyfriend or safety while you escape from an abusive boyfriend.

HHRM is just $14.95 in paperback. Buy another copy and throw your boyfriend out or leave!
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Re: Abusive Boyfriend Destroying My Property

Unread postby Faith14 » Thu Mar 01, 2012 3:07 am

sorry he had just came home when I was writing the post so I had to make it quick so he wouldnt catch me. Hadn't really reread through my post- sorry.

Reason for the rush and all- He is EXTREMLY against all sorts of magic/ conjure work etc. He wont even allow me to have saints in the house- says the bible says to pray to God only everything else is devil worship.

He found my tarot cards, book, pendulum, some pics of some people I've been working on etc and flipped and tossed everything I had - that he found, I should say. But that's my issue to deal with..now I just don't keep anything in our house, its been located.

I bought LM cast off evil oil awhile back and I wanted to FIX a vigil light to work on casting away some of his bad habits. I need to place another LM order but $$ is tight right now so working on a budget. Which I will be replacing my book as well. Have some herbs on hands so wanted to cross reference since I havent been able to replace the book yet.
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Re: Abusive Boyfriend Destroying My Property

Unread postby Mama Micki » Thu Mar 01, 2012 10:38 am

Faith14,

My advice to you is to get out. Forget about trying to change him; it is his nature to try to control you.

Do a Cut and Clear and live your life as you see fit, not as he does. You're not married and you didn't mention children. You may be financially dependent on him; work on changing that.

Work with Money Drawing, Wealthy Way, Steady Work, or Prosperity products.

I know you didn't come here to get advice on how to live your life, but we'll do it anyway. We try to deal with the real issues.
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Re: breaking down resistance, letting his guard down

Unread postby catherineyronwode » Thu Mar 01, 2012 10:50 am

Faith14, i have bundled all your posts about this boyfriend into one thread and given it all one title (you also have another thread going about your ex).

If you keep all of your posts about one topic in one thread, then the moderators can become familiar with your situation and help you much more efficiently.
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Re: Abusive BF Wall of Steel Around His Heart Destroys My Stuff

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Thu Mar 01, 2012 5:57 pm

Faith 14 --

It doesn't matter if he's against magic/conjure. It is *your* spiritual practice not his. If he is one of those men that needs to dominate and have everything his way get out. It isn't his property to throw out. He can disbelieve and disagree with your practices but he either loves and respects you enough to acknowledge that they are your beliefs or he doesn't.

I am a well-known bibliophile. I have several thousand books--I have a room just devoted to them. In fact when I move the majority of my things is books. My mother once remarked what would happen if I married and my new wife made me chose between her and my books. I said, I'd chose my books.
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Re: Abusive BF Wall of Steel Around His Heart Destroys My Stuff

Unread postby duchess » Thu Mar 01, 2012 7:07 pm

Conjureman, I can soooo relate. :) Although my collection is nowhere near as impressive as yours and I am a little green with envy right now. The first thing my partner said when I moved in was "how the heck is it possible for someone to have so many books?" He helped me find room for them all though and bought some bookshelves and put them together for me.

Faith, you've gotten some really good heartfelt advice from some really experienced, thoughtful, and caring workers. The man for you will accept you for who you are, conjure and all. It takes a lot less work to find the right man than to keep the wrong one.

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Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby lulakalani » Tue Jun 12, 2012 7:41 pm

I'm seeing him tomorrow evening at an event...the man who broke my heart. We are n speaking terms again, but (for now) we're just friends and it will probably remain that way for a while. Regardless, I want a bit of revenge by making him WANT me bad, and start thinking about me again...wondering if he made a mistake. I'll probably do more reconciliation work in the near future (but with a very limited time-frame...I'm ready to move on if things don't turn around with him soon). What spell can I do tomorrow during the day, to have him drooling over me tomorrow night? Just a little nudge?...I'm not expecting miracles. :)
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something just happen and i need advice

Unread postby star02 » Sat Aug 18, 2012 1:47 am

Yesturday i received a pic of a light that was set for me on top of a custom honey jar to draw in my life partner. This person is not an AIRR rootworker but i still need advice on what may have just happened.

Today early in the morning, this guy that i have been friends with benefits on and off for 6 years calls me and he is drunk. He tells me that he cant go home because he doesnt have no keys and he doesnt want to bother his mother because she is not feeling well to get in.

Couple of months ago we got into one of the many arguments that we always have but this time he was verbally abusive like he was couple months after we became friends. This time i was over it and i didnt want to have anything to do with him. So today he called repeatedly and i told him i didnt want to talk to him or have nothing to do with him. So the last time he called i told him that i was turning my ringer off.

So i close my eyes to go to sleep and in walking through my room door he comes. At that point i was scared and i ask him how he got in. He said he came through the front door but then finally confess he came through the window. He told me he wanted me to lay next to him but i didnt want to. i didnt even want him there.

He kept cornering me in the room trying to touch on me and i repeateadly had to hit him. He said that pass months that he missed me and wanted me and that i know i wanted him to. I told him i didnt and he said whyy am i acting like that.

i live with my grandmother, uncle, and sister. My uncle saw him come through the window and decided to tell my grandmother who i will have to face in the morning but i have no idea how i am to explain this to her.

I thought about calling the police but this never happen to me before and he was drunk and i didnt want any drama because that not the person i am, i like peace.

So i just want this to go away but i know i will be yelled at tomorrow and i had nothing to do with it. i just finish writing on forum about my life not going in right direction and this is what happens to me.

So basically my question is do you think this is a sign to the setting of lights that had been set for me yesturday if so is this a good or bad sign. I had MISC set uncrossing and Protection for me and it was said that there were minor delays and distractions but i will eventually overcome them. What else can i have done for me. I am so confused as to what is going on in my life and the reading that i had, none explain that i would go through anything.
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Re: something just happen and i need advice

Unread postby aura » Mon Aug 20, 2012 5:33 am

Hi star02,

Although only your rootworker will be able to interpret the signs related to the honey jar they prepared for you, personally I would say that it's a sign that currently love work is ill-advised as it will not attract the type of partners your are looking for. I would focus on the uncrossing, the protection and the growth work to get your life moving in a forward direction.

Taking spiritual baths such as the 13-herb, Uncrossing and Protection are powerful and simple ways to work for yourself. You could also consider working an Uncrossing spell kit and then following it up with a Van Van spell kit to bring in the good. From a candle perspective, perhaps a round or two of road opener can help blast through any of the obstacles, delays and distractions.

Hopefully your talk with grandma went well, but if needs be, a peaceful home honey jar like the kind LM sells could also be a well-advised work to keep things smooth and easy within your living arrangements.

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Re: something just happen and i need advice

Unread postby MissMichaele » Tue Aug 21, 2012 6:16 pm

star02,

I sure hope you are getting a restraining order against this wannabe rapist.

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Re: something just happen and i need advice

Unread postby star02 » Tue Aug 21, 2012 9:40 pm

so i had a talk with my grandmother and she took it better than i thought, she actually made a joke about him coming through the window, very long story, but the talk went well. I also talked to him to get his side of the story and he said he didnt know and that he was going through somethings with his mother. So i forgave him and cried as i text back and forth because we had been friends for 6 yrs on and off and now it had came to an end. I guess i was more sad because alot of friends are doing me wrong, the one i trusted. So now i have no friends and feel like i have to start all over. And then hrs after i just finish crying about loosing a friend he had a nerve to say can we have makeup sex. "what a bastard", but he made it that much easier for me to get over it. So now my plan is that i really must work on myself and looking forward to getting MISC to light some road opener for me and uncrossing and protection again whenever i get the money. And i hope this will remove everything from my past and give me a new start in life.
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Re: something just happen and i need advice

Unread postby Fixerkitty » Tue Aug 21, 2012 10:45 pm

star02,

If you're looking to leave your past behind and move on to bigger and better things, you might want to add Cut and Clear to everything else. It would help clear the ground for further growth.

I'm totally with Aura here--work on yourself first. Do that and everything else will fall into place.

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Nosey Neighbors and Horrible Exboyfriend

Unread postby starfairy » Tue Jan 22, 2013 4:57 pm

Hi guys, I am having trouble with neighbors that called the police because they overheard an argument with my boyfriend anyways, police got involved and we both got a ticket him for property damage disorderly conduct, and myself for disorderly conduct. I had asked him to leave before it even got to that point so the nosey neighbors walking by my door had the nerve to call the police. These people are always in my business. Long story short the boyfriend I see was not good for me he used me for a place to live didnt contribute to the house, used my money ate all my food now I am broke with no food and court problems..... he still is popping up at my home when i told him it is over he always says no it is not ....I need help guys, any suggestions on what I can do?
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Re: Nosey Neighbors and Horrible Exboyfriend

Unread postby MaryBee » Wed Jan 23, 2013 5:30 am

If your ex is coming by your house and being aggressive, you need to get a restraining order on him so he can't bother you anymore. I know you don't have much love for the police right now, but you have to get their help first.

Settle your ticket either by paying it or going to court, then work on peace with your neighbors; clean your home from front to back with Chinese Wash and scrub the front steps with Fiery Wall of Protection crystals so no one can come near your home without your permission. Do some Money Drawing work to draw money to you so you can live. Look for social services and food pantries in your area so you can get emergency help.

You have power. You have options. Please claim your power and take action.

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Re: Nosey Neighbors and Horrible Exboyfriend

Unread postby MissMichaele » Wed Jan 23, 2013 11:31 pm

I can't improve on Mary Bee's advice except to recommend liberal use of King Solomon Wisdom and Cast Off Evil products.

Even though your neighbors brought the police down on you, they may have taken you out of harm's way. For them, I'd recommend nothing stronger than a tea of Bay Leaves (to keep them out of your business) mixed with Peace Water. Sprinkle it where they'll have to step in it.

Good luck and good magic,

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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby Conjureangel » Sun Mar 17, 2013 9:33 am

I am in a friends with benefits situation where my friend admits thst he holds back to avoid closeness, yesterday he told me that he was badly hurt by his first girlfriend, she broke up with him and he never heard from her again. I feel that this has damaged him and although he does not want to be with her he never got closure so now he has convinced himself that he is happy to be committment free until he us ready to get married. How can I help him to heal but only in order for him to be in s relationship with me? We willbe spending a weekend together in a few weeks so I will be able to lay tricks, any advice is welcome.
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Getting off weed

Unread postby skyme715 » Wed Jul 30, 2014 12:21 am

Hi,

My boyfriend admitted he's been smoking weed almost all the time we were together. I knew he had before we got together, but was naive to think he stopped. As usual, in the beginning of our relationship everything was peachy and maybe then he didnt. But the past 1.5 years we were arguing a lot, and like he says now "we lost our relationship long time ago".

I have a candle burned for reconciliation and healing of our relationship with a rootworker from AIRR. I also ordered a Cast Off Evil canlde to be burned for him at MISC to get rid of his desire for pot. My question is what else can I do? Honey jar doesn't seem to be appropriate to this problem. Perhaps, to sweeten his thoughts that pot is disgusting? I am planning to cleanse our house and myself with Chinese wash, but there is a lesser chance I will be able to use it on him.

But I'm thinking of the Healing oil. Would that help if I put the healing oil on his temples with the intent to heal him from the addiction?

P.S. I looked on the forum on a subject. Cast Off Evil products are mentioned but nothing about the power of healing oil for this case.
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Re: Getting off weed

Unread postby natstein » Wed Jul 30, 2014 12:25 pm

Hello Skyme715,

I think that is a good use of Healing oil. A combination of that with Cast of Evil may work well also. Sweetening work will help make him act nicer so you do not fight and argue of that is a problem. If you have not seen it already Cat has a page about Cast Off Evil products that talks about dealing with addictions. She says the spell work is a long term process but she gives you a good method to do the work. http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

hope this is helpful,

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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby aura » Thu Jul 31, 2014 4:59 am

Hi Skyme715,

In addition to natstein's advice, I've merged your post into the existing thread on dealing with a lover that has substance abuse issues. You'll find lots of ideas and approaches to consider as well as others' experience dealing with the same problem. Whatever you do, also make sure to take care of yourself - since whether or not he quits the drugs (which are his prior mistress) - you remain and deserve respect, care and stability.

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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby skyme715 » Thu Jul 31, 2014 11:24 am

Thank you natstein, for confirmation about the healing oil. Also I looked again at the spell you mention in more detail this time, and it might be just what i need. Thanks.

Thank you aida, for your kind words and merging. I will definitely look, but the other posts I saw so far during my search on the forum were about meth and heavy stuff like that.

Weed users think since weed is a plant, it is only natural to do so (vs chemical drugs). Plus it's getting legalized everywhere. Maybe it's becoming the new normal? It was already normal once before Nixon (I think) decided to make an enemy out of it (cause he had to have something to fight against). So even though for me it's a no-no, Im becoming on the fence how to react to it. Maybe I should be more easy going and not so uptight about it? :roll: *rhetorical question*
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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby Twindnature » Thu Sep 18, 2014 4:50 pm

Thank you so much again, Nathen!
I think I've heard of that before.

I just now noticed the title of this area and it has stirred some ideas. Is it at all possible to utilize someone's addiction in a love spell. Say they aren't violent but still, addicted to alcohol and/or other substances. Is there a way to appropriate these desires. cravings, to a person?

I would love it if Miss Cat could please way in on this as well, if she weren't too busy. :oops: I'm always just awed by the things she says and shares. She's become a bit of an inspiration to me, personally. <333
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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby Miss Aida » Fri Sep 19, 2014 8:52 pm

Hello, Twindnature,

Yes, you can do that. I have done this before for a client that wanted her husband back. I put cigarettes and alcohol near her figural candle and then brought his figural candle closer to hers with the moving candle spell

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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby Twindnature » Sat Sep 20, 2014 3:46 pm

Thank you so much, Miss Aida!
I'm very grateful for all of the help that you give!
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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby j82 » Sat Sep 20, 2014 3:57 pm

Twindnature

remember you are calling on the spirt of the person and using what the spirit loves is an easy way to help you. When crafting a work its always good to know who you are working on, meaning, I would not do domination work on a strong willed person, I would more likely sweeten them.. Also people have things they like using them (like attracts like) helps with the work. Even when working with spirits we often give them things of their liking from the physical world. My Grandma loved sugar and sweetes, my Grandpa loved to smoke a cig, those are things I would give them as a gift for working and helping me.

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Husband insists I wear a "hijab"

Unread postby Mysticmama4 » Thu Nov 06, 2014 9:03 pm

Hello all, I am a Christian woman married to a Muslim man. Our marriage is good except he insists I wear a "hijab" (head/neck covering). He says just as Mary the Blessed Mother wore a shroud, I should at least wear a head covering. I don't mind to wear one while in prayer, but I don't want to wear it all other times.

My mom hates him specifically for this reason and part of the reason I don't wear one is she would never talk with me...Our relationship would be strained and I'm very close with her.

I should be working a honey jar on them to get along, but what can I do to get my husband to change his mind about the hijab? It's a constant issue.

Thanks all for your help.

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Re: Husband insists I wear a "hijab"

Unread postby catherineyronwode » Thu Nov 06, 2014 11:22 pm

Well, Mysticmama4, you just may have asked the wrong person. I fought long and hard for equality -- for my black friends, for my gay friends, for women's rights -- and i would not be inclined to even waste a drop of good honey on a man who insists that he has the right to dictate how you dress.

Your mother and i are on the same page. Ditch him.

A hijab is okay for any woman who wants to wear one, but that guy crossed the line when he tried to force it on you. That's not cool. It's abuse.


Get out before he takes away further liberties you now enjoy. Equality means negotiation, not dictatorial rulership.
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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby Mysticmama4 » Fri Nov 07, 2014 12:53 pm

Hi Catherine, no way did I ask the wrong person...I was hoping to get a reply from you! I love the boards and practitioners on here... you are so wise and I am finally getting tired of doing sweetening work on someone who just may be not worth the effort. So sad I was trying to deny it for a while...tolerating the abuse, I want to be peaceful and free. Looks like I will be ordering some LM products to help boost my confidence to just leave. I appreciate your honest answer-thank you.
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Getting him to stop going out and drinking so much

Unread postby caligirl00 » Sun May 22, 2016 12:33 am

Hello there, I have a boyfriend who has a big family that likes to drink and be stupid all the time. Every time he gets an invite he doesn't take me with him because he knows how much it bothers me that he has no limit to his alcohol. I've tried asking him to stop going out with them so much because sometimes he doesn't even come home. They drink and drive and think it's perfectly fine to do.

Is there anything I can do to make him stop going out and drinking so much?
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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby Miss Aida » Sun May 22, 2016 10:05 pm

Hello, caligirl00,

I would perform 2 spell kits:

Cast off Evil for his drinking http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-cast-off-evil.html

Stay With me: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-stay-with-me.html

And work with some stay at home products: http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

I hope this helps

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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby caligirl00 » Sun May 29, 2016 3:11 pm

Hi Miss Aida,

Thank you so much for replying back. I will definitely look into these and hope that they work. I really hope I get a good outcome because I can not stand him going out with his family and drinking all the time. This last time he went out I found some condemns in his pants and according to him he has no idea where they came from. I don't want to be the bad person and separate him and his family but it's his cousins who cause this by inviting him out all the time.
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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby Miss Aida » Mon May 30, 2016 7:33 pm

Hello, caligirl00 ,

So strange that you say this.

yesterday, 2 different male friends of mine stated that if they ever got caught cheating, they would deny everything.

It was interesting because one person (who doesn't know the other) said this to me yesterday morning. One said it to me last night.

Now, I'm reading this....

Just food for thought.

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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby lavender888 » Fri Jun 24, 2016 8:30 am

I've tried a little spellwork. Last week my boyfriend left me after almost a year, coming clean with a weekend drug addiction, and saying he didn't want me part of it, and all.

I don't know if it's a sign, but yesterday he finally read my message, tho he was adamant about he has to leave me, and he still loves me. That it was the hardest thing for him to ever do.
So I'm not sure if
that's movement, or really what kind of spell I need.

The amount of heartbreak on my part is unbearable.

Advice on what I should do?
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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby Sister Jean » Fri Jun 24, 2016 9:15 am

Hello lavender888,

I merged your topic with this thread, I think if you scroll up through it you'll see people who are dealing with similar problems.

I'm so sorry this has happened to you and that you're hurting. In the past, I've been exactly where you are, and I understand the special kind of hurt that comes with being dumped by someone who's addicted to drugs. It can feel like a twofold betrayal.

And what I learned is there was only so much I could do to help him. As much as I wanted to make him into a drug-free person, in the end, the choice to get clean was his and his alone. He had to find that motivation in himself, and in the meantime, there was no way he could be a good partner to me, because he was "cheating" on me with drugs. His addiction was something he had to get medical help for, and nobody was going to help him but him. Just food for thought.

That being said, if you want to pray for him and help him cast off this addiction, I'd recommend working a Cast Off Evil spell kit on his behalf:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-cast-off-evil.html

You can also submit a prayer at the Crystal Silence League website for free: http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html

I'd also recommend getting a reading from a reader at AIRR, so you can get an idea if the two of you will be able to get back together:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

In the meantime, get a solid support system together for yourself, and use King Solomon's Wisdom, Clarity and Healing products to heal from these hurts and help you see the situation clearly and wisely.

http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

Good luck to you, and take care of yourself.
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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby mizznana002 » Thu Dec 22, 2016 8:31 pm

hey everyone,

Had a quick question and posted here because i wasn't sure what topic fit this question. Whats are the effects of smoking weed when it comes to hoodoo/magic/spirituality? does it spiritually get u out of balance? does it help u connect 2 ur spirit guides and or magic more? does it make u more vulnerable 2 psychic/spiritual/magical attack? is it a no no or a yes yes wen it comes to magic? i've heard different things from different workers and spiritualist and honestly it has me confused because I'm getting completely different answers every time. i figured i'ld ask on the forum because of my experiences and the trust i have in advice i've gotten in the forum and the root worker i usually seek counsel from(found her on airr)

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Re: Love Spell w/ Alcoholic Drug Addicted Violent Abusive Person

Unread postby Miss Aida » Thu Dec 22, 2016 9:51 pm

Hello, mizznana002,

That can't be answered on the forum for legal reasons.

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