Im going to have to split this into a 2 parter post. I like to get really detailed about it because i know if theres anyone out there like me, sometimes terms i know what i mean when i say them, other people get confused easily and dont know what i mean. and visa versa...
Moving Candle Spell to bring a loved one closer
Materials I Used:
1 Male Figural Candle, Red
1 Female Figural Candle, White
2 Female Figurals Candle, Black
1 Male Figural Candle, Black
Pictures of everyone involved
Cast Off Evil Oil
Hot Foot Oil
Hot Foot Powder
Cut and Clear Oil
Love Me Oil
Stay With My Oil
Dixie Love Oil
The RED Male/Female figural represents yourself, the WHITE figural candle represents the one whom you care for. The BLACK candles represent those whom you want to banish/draw away from the one you care for or yourself. Inscribe your name on your red candle, the one you care for’s name on the white candle, and the names of those you want away from the two of you on the black candles. Print out descent head shots/pictures of all involved. Yourself, your loved one, and the people you wish to get out of the picture. Place them under their candles. It’s a plus if you can get a strand of hair, or nail clipping belonging to the one you care for and run it up through the wick hole of the candle, or load it in the bottom of the one representing them (white). If you don’t have either, a picture and the name inscribed will suffice.
I personally start the candles off, the red on one end of the table, and all three black ones in a slightly horded position, ( lll ) kind of surrounding the white candle (your loved one), which all 4 will be approx. ¾ across the other side of the table from your red candle.
I anointed the red candle (representing yourself) with Love Me oil, Dixie Love Oil, Stay With Me Oil, and Reconciliation Oil. The White Candle (representing your loved one) anoint the front of it with the same as what you anointed your candle with. (don’t worry, you don’t need to anoint it at all, but it’s a plus) Now, the back of your loved ones candle (white), anoint it with Cast Off Evil Oil, Cut and Clear Oil, and Hot Foot Oil. Anoint the other candles of the ones you want away from him/her, (black candles), with the same (Cast Off Evil Oil, Cut and Clear Oil, and Hot Foot Oil).
In the materials, I listed what I needed as far as figurals , (2 female, 1 male), you can use whatever you need for your particular situation. 15 male, 80 female. It doesn’t matter. This is what I needed for mine.
Another thing, you don’t necessarily need figurals… it’s a plus, but the first time I did this, I used 9x3” candles and made sure to define a front, and a back to them, and prayed over them what I wanted. The front is usually defined with the name inscribed on it. But like I said, figurals are better to use, not a must.
MAKE SURE! That his/her candle is facing you, and you are facing him/her. At this time, it is ok to have the black candles facing you, as long as your loved one isn’t facing them. After lighting the candles when you start the instruction process below, make sure that while visualizing every couple of visualization process, take the time to move his/her candle a little closer to yours while lit (I would inch mine because its over a 7 day process depending on how big your table is). And while inching him/her closer to yourself, inch the black candles away. Every time you inch them away and your loved one closer to you, start to turn the black candles more and more to finally, their back is facing him/her as they are moving away. Meanwhile your loved one is still moving closer facing you. Don’t move your candle. After all, you want them to come back to you/come closer to you. Like I said, I would inch them closer. Another thing I added into my version that a lot don’t mention, is every 5 to 10 minutes, I would still be focused, and I would call out (this doesn’t matter what your religion is, you are speaking to the energies and the universe which also have laws of attraction). I would say, “Thank you energies and the universe, for bringing _____ back to me, thank you for getting them away from the terrible bad people/influences in their life, thank you for allowing her to be with me and want to be with me, thank you energies and the universe for surrounding her with my presence, my energy, my scent, my taste, my touch, my smile, my laugh, thank you for engulfing her in sweet thoughts of me so that she knows, its me with her. Thank you energies and the universe for making her see. Ect ect.” You don’t have to include this, nor do you have to say it like I did. This just gave me piece of mind incase my visualization didn’t suffice in my subconscious. At least while saying it, it brings your thoughts, wishes, and wants to reality. And throughout my day, I would say under my breath to myself the same things. Now, on the seventh night, your candle, and the one you love most should meet together, and melt together. Let the wax harden. And once completed, the next day, barry your candle and your loved ones candle in your back yard together, and if you don't have a backyard in a potted plant inside your home. That is goodness and you want to keep it close. Take the black candles of those you want out of the picture, and there are several ways to dispose of them. At a crossroads, running water, barry them in a distant place far away from your fused together candles, dispose of it in a manner that will take the friends and their influences away from the two of you. I have read some places you can take the black candles, place them in a bag, (brown paper bag, zip lock, doesn’t matter), then put cast off evil powder, and hot foot powder in the with them. Bring the bag to a river and cast it in over your left shoulder while praying that those people leave you and your partner alone.
Light all candles. Sit there for a moment, take in 3 to 10 deep breaths. Breathing through your nose, and out of your mouth, really try to focus and clear your mind of all thoughts. Focus on your breathing, while doing so, imagine white smoke (positive emotion/energy) being inhaled through your nose, and while exhaling out of your mouth, imagine black smoke (negative bad emotional energy/stress) coming out. Do this as long as necessary; there is no set time period. But while doing this, imagine more and more while doing it, the black slowly dissipating to grey, light grey, until its coming in white, and leaving white. Then you are ready and relaxed enough to focus.
Now, me personally, its really hard to keep negative, vile/vulgar thoughts out of your head, especially if this involves a situation to where you know something has happened between your loved one and another that’s involved in this. Try your best to focus on future events that are positive between you two that have yet to happen. Don’t think about the past, and sometimes, you cant think about the current, if you find yourself wondering off into lala land with those thoughts, immediately stop and regroup with a happy positive thought.
Allot of people like to do it in silence, I personally feel its whatever makes your able and capable of thinking about you too. Me, I liked listening to our song, or a song that reminded me of good times that I visualized or good memories. Allot of people say, 15 to 30 minutes of visualizing. I set my timer on my phone before beginning and just let it run. 15 minutes is usually the minimum. I go for 30 to 45. However, it will drain you if focused and done right the longer you go. But the more effective it is.