Influence and Change Someone's Mind or a Decision They Made

LMFan · Unread post by **LMFan** » Tue Apr 28, 2009 9:37 am

What combination of oils would you recommend to Change Someone's mind? Any recommendations would be appreciated!
Thanks

carolina_dean · Unread post by **carolina_dean** » Tue Apr 28, 2009 4:33 pm

Hi LMFan,

Without knowing the specifics of the situation I would generally say a 50/50 mixture of Controlling Oil and Compelling Oil. You can read more about each of these products here...

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-controlling.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/compelling.html

Carolina Dean
56 (G)

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Apr 28, 2009 9:00 pm

influence oil...bend over and do as i say oils are good too

LMFan · Unread post by **LMFan** » Wed Apr 29, 2009 6:35 am

This is my first foray into mixing my own oil combinations.. I'm doing Influence and Road Openener.. The first to influence a change of heart and the second to open the way for it to happen? I'm thinking maybe I'll add a little Controlling to it now

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Apr 29, 2009 3:23 pm

add controlling oil, calamus or licorice root

LMFan · Unread post by **LMFan** » Thu Apr 30, 2009 5:30 am

Thanks Stars.. I added some controlling oil last night, candle is burning like a house a fire!Not sure if that's good or not-- I'll let you know if/ what happens

LMFan · Unread post by **LMFan** » Sun May 03, 2009 7:30 am

Thanks! It feels good..

LMFan · Unread post by **LMFan** » Sat May 16, 2009 6:40 am

Well update.. it's been 2 weeks with nothing -- I'm thinking maybe I need to up the ante a little bit -- maybe use a 7 day Vigil candle instead. Any recommendations?

jwmcclin · Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat May 16, 2009 7:06 am

I am not familiar with 'influencing" oil. Is this for love? pay back of money?

Literarylioness · Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sat May 16, 2009 12:18 pm

jwmcclin wrote:I am not familiar with 'influencing" oil. Is this for love? pay back of money?

It can be used for any situation where you want to influence the thoughts of others. Here is the link to the oil: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

Mary

kechara · Unread post by **kechara** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 9:50 am

Ok my last topic post got a bit long so since I’m sure my first order with LM is going to be a big order again I want to make sure I am purchasing supplies that I need.

Have a situation where I want a person to change his mind/decision to go on a trip with someone. I want my uncle not to go on this trip with his wife, no amount of discussing, pleading and asking him not to go has gotten me nowhere. I want to change his decision of yes we are going to such and such a place to a big fat NO WE ARE NOT GOING on this trip.

Read on a few other topic threads that Do As I Say, Influence & Essence of Bend Over oils would both be ideal to anoint a piece of paper with said person’s name and place the anointed paper in their shoes, not sure if I read those topics well enough but is there another way to conduct a trick of this type in a another discreet way…maybe anointing a purple taper candle with my uncle’s name on it with all 3 of those dressing oils and take the remainder of the purple candle wax and place it in both his shoes ( or do I place it in his right or left shoe??), would that be enough to change his mind????

Thank you all again for fielding my questions.

Turnsteel · Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 10:13 am

kechara wrote:\
Read on a few other topic threads that Do As I Say, Influence & Essence of Bend Over oils would both be ideal to anoint a piece of paper with said person’s name and place the anointed paper in their shoes, not sure if I read those topics well enough but is there another way to conduct a trick of this type in a another discreet way…maybe anointing a purple taper candle with my uncle’s name on it with all 3 of those dressing oils and take the remainder of the purple candle wax and place it in both his shoes ( or do I place it in his right or left shoe??), would that be enough to change his mind????

Thank you all again for fielding my questions.

You put the name paper in YOUR shoe, so every step you take your walking all over them, not in there shoe.(Tho there are many many many tricks where you do get something into their shoe.)
And you tell the person what you want, so if you think you can look your uncle in the eye and order him not to go on a trip with his wife then go for it...

I would do a skull candle, name the skull candle for you uncle, load it with some of his hair, dress it with Commanding oil and burn it over nine nights when he is asleep and tell the candle what you want as if it was your uncle.

kechara · Unread post by **kechara** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 10:23 am

HailDiscordia wrote:
You put the name paper in YOUR shoe, so every step you take your walking all over them, not in there shoe.(Tho there are many many many tricks where you do get something into their shoe.)
And you tell the person what you want, so if you think you can look your uncle in the eye and order him not to go on a trip with his wife then go for it...

I would do a skull candle, name the skull candle for you uncle, load it with some of his hair, dress it with Commanding oil and burn it over nine nights when he is asleep and tell the candle what you want as if it was your uncle.

Unfortunately Hail I'm gonna have to stick to tape candles (cause I can't keep too many big spell ingredients products hidden in my room).
I have plenty of purple ones that I am going to divide up into 7 knobs but my question is: Are Do As I Say, Influence & Essence of Bend Over oils enough to get this decision to come out NO to the trip after burning the purple candle 7 days also is there a specific cycle of time I need to follow like moon cycles to make my spell last long and more potent or do I need to keep lighting candles every day to keep his answer still NO???

Thank you so much for you help again Hail.

ConjureMan Ali · Unread post by **ConjureMan Ali** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 11:21 am

If you are unable to work a skull candle I'd burn a purple candle carved with your intent and dressed with commanding oils (Essence of Bend Over, Do As I Say or another of your choice) on his picture.

Get yourself some of the sachet powders and sprinkle where he will walk.

Good luck!

kechara · Unread post by **kechara** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 1:12 pm

ConjureMan wrote:If you are unable to work a skull candle I'd burn a purple candle carved with your intent and dressed with commanding oils (Essence of Bend Over, Do As I Say or another of your choice) on his picture.

Get yourself some of the sachet powders and sprinkle where he will walk.

Good luck!

ConjureMan I am going over my list of anointing oils I am going to purchase for this candle spell...

would you be able to tell me which combination of these oils are most strong to change a person's mind from a yes to a no... there is Essence of Bend Over, Do As I Say, Influence Oil, Compelling Oil, & Commanding Oil? Which of these oil or oils pack an decision altering kick?

Not sure how many of these I even need...

Lucylookingskyward · Unread post by **Lucylookingskyward** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 3:29 pm

Hi, Kechara!

If I wanted to change someone's mind I use a scull candle fully loaded with hair of the intended, Do As I Say Oil, Commanding Oil, Influence Oil, various herbs of mastery, and a petition paper. You can also load up a regular purple candle in the same way. I would also get the sachet powders that correspond to the oils I listed above, and sprinkle them in key places where you know your uncle is going to tread. This is also easier for you to hide in shoes.

I like the format of the honey jar petition paper, with the names crossed (In this case, since you're looking to master someone, his name first three times, yours crossed over it three times, and the command in an unbroken circle surrounding it) mostly because it encircles the target with your will.

In addition to doing these things, it might suit your purposes to create a bottle spell like the one I mentioned (search "easiest bottle spell in the world") to strengthen your spell. Doing this spell together with others sometimes helps focus intent all the more, as you'll be interacting with the bottle spell as well as allowing your other ritual to work.

Good luck! I hope all works out for you.

ConjureMan Ali · Unread post by **ConjureMan Ali** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 10:07 pm

Which oils you use its up to you. Contemplate the different qualities of each and pick the one that suits your needs; Influence=gets people to listen and agree with you, gives you sway over them etc; Essence of Bend Over= dominates them and gets them to "bend" to your will etc etc.

kechara · Unread post by **kechara** » Fri Mar 19, 2010 5:23 am

ConjureMan wrote:Which oils you use its up to you. Contemplate the different qualities of each and pick the one that suits your needs; Influence=gets people to listen and agree with you, gives you sway over them etc; Essence of Bend Over= dominates them and gets them to "bend" to your will etc etc.

Ok Conjureman that why I askebfore which of these oils render more of a staying power to have a person chnage their YES we are going on this trip to a NO we are NOT going on this trip???

Do As I Say, Compelling Oil, & Commanding Oil are they harsher than the two you've explain up in your previous post (otherwise I am going to spend money I don't have on all 5 oils just to get to this relative to keep his mind/decision to stay on a NO)....not looking to hurt the guy just reverse his stupid decision about this trip. I just hope anointing his shoes with a big fat NO in them will work & keep it that way for a littel while

just don't want to lose the potency of this trick after a few hours.

Thanks again ConjureMan and thank you too Lucylookingskyward

jwmcclin · Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Mar 19, 2010 5:59 am

Do As I Say and Commanding are considered harsher than Compelling as compelling is more like 'make good on your promise' whereas the two previous are 'do what I say.'

kechara · Unread post by **kechara** » Fri Mar 19, 2010 6:43 am

jwmcclin wrote:Do As I Say and Commanding are considered harsher than Compelling as compelling is more like 'make good on your promise' whereas the two previous are 'do what I say.'

Gotcha jwmcclin....I now know what to order Bend Over, Do As I Say and Influence oil.

Thank you all for helping me make an informed decision.

Now I can't wait to get all these goodies.

jwmcclin · Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Mar 19, 2010 6:55 am

Hey! Bend over actually tops all of them in terms of cohersion. I must have mis-read you.

gbenson · Unread post by **gbenson** » Fri Mar 19, 2010 7:11 am

I want someone I don't know to tell a friend (they know each other) that they think they look fine in their appearance. The person is being quite nasty and its upsetting my friend, a kind word would go a long way in helping her fight an issue she has.

kechara · Unread post by **kechara** » Fri Mar 19, 2010 7:16 am

jwmcclin wrote:Hey! Bend over actually tops all of them in terms of cohersion. I must have mis-read you.

ohhh ok even better you just saved a few dollars bless ya...bend over is just enough thanks jwmcclin

desesperada · Unread post by **desesperada** » Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:22 am

Hi everybody, I am new to this forum however I know the website previously.
I need your help: I just got married three months ago, when finally I found the right relationship my husband insists that he doesn't want kids, he says he is too old to have kids (we both are 45 years old, I know it is a risk but want to give it a try)
How can I change his mind about this issue and not harm him? Please as a woman, understand my situation….Your answers would be of a great help.

Thanks to all.

MightyAphrodite · Unread post by **MightyAphrodite** » Tue Apr 13, 2010 3:05 pm

desesperada wrote:Hi everybody, I am new to this forum however I know the website previously.
I need your help: I just got married three months ago, when finally I found the right relationship my husband insists that he doesn't want kids, he says he is too old to have kids (we both are 45 years old, I know it is a risk but want to give it a try)
How can I change his mind about this issue and not harm him? Please as a woman, understand my situation….Your answers would be of a great help.

Thanks to all.

Hi desesperada. Welcome. You'll get more replies if you start a new thread with a descriptive title about wanting to change your hubby's mind about having kids. As far as the topic goes, I suggest you look into sweetening spells to open his heart to the idea.

desesperada · Unread post by **desesperada** » Thu Apr 15, 2010 6:02 am

Thanks MightyAphrodite for the advice, I have no idea how does this work but I'll give it a try..
Thanks again.

MightyAphrodite · Unread post by **MightyAphrodite** » Thu Apr 15, 2010 12:46 pm

desesperada wrote:Thanks MightyAphrodite for the advice, I have no idea how does this work but I'll give it a try..
Thanks again.

There's a small learning curve, but you'll get the hang of it. Here's how you make a new post:

1. Go to the appropriate forum category.
In this case, you want "Ask for Help with Your Situation." Here is the link: ask-for-help-with-your-situation-f24.html

2. Click on NEW TOPIC. It's in red, on the left side about the topic lists.

3. Name your post something very clear, such as "Persuade my husband to have a child" so people can tell at a glance what your question is about.

desesperada · Unread post by **desesperada** » Thu Apr 15, 2010 1:42 pm

Thank you MightyAphrodite.
I don't know what I would have done without you...I just made the new post, the information you gave me was real helpful

BarefootHoodoo · Unread post by **BarefootHoodoo** » Thu Feb 10, 2011 8:39 am

I have found the perfect house for our family to buy. Problem is, my husband does not believe in having debt, which I understand. I would love to be able to get him to see my side of the issue- that our family needs a bigger house, and it would be impossible in this day and age to be able to buy a house without a mortgage. Even if it's not this house we buy, I want him to want to purchase a bigger house for us. I thought Essence of Bend Over might be too harsh...I just want him to see my side of things. Any thoughts would be appreciated. Thank you so much!

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Feb 10, 2011 3:09 pm

You can try this trick
a-spell-to-help-influence-others-t4452s1800.html

Or you can do an influence another's mind for any good purpose sweet jar which you can find here

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

1love · Unread post by **1love** » Sat Nov 19, 2011 11:16 am

Instructor threatening to fail
by 1love » Sat Nov 19, 2011 12:10 pm
Its a bad situation from the start. I've been told that my instructor has accused some of cheating on an exam. I believe that some are wrong for cheating but he's wrong for cheating them as well. He really does not teach anything he always tells us stories about things he has done in the past. For example he told of a story when he was at a party and claimed a girl as his girlfriend, he told us how someone stole from him in college, the splitting up of his marriage, his mom with Alzheimer's, his stand about the president, his Fb page, getting into fights ..etc. I really could go on but I'm not. Cheating is bad either way but not teaching is cheating your students. He should just shut up about it and move on. There are 3 classmates that I know he is referring to, I'm Not One of them but I do feel it's unfair. We go to lecture and he lectures about his life. It's crazy. He does not have a right on this one bc he really was not doing his job. So whether we read as opposed to those who don't we both are cheated. I want to shut him up. They r wrong but so is he. Need something quick bc she says he's doing something this week.
1love

Khi Armand · Unread post by **Khi Armand** » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:59 pm

Hi 1Love,

If I were you, I'd consider something along the lines of a Lemon Freezer Spell to "put him on ice" so to speak. He sounds like someone who shouldn't be wielding the power he has and this type of working is good for cutting off his influence and freezing his ability to cause harm.

You can read more about this type of working here: http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

You could dress your petition paper with Bend Over, Commanding, and / or Shut Up products, as well as the lemon and any thread you may use in the working. I'd also suggest using some Alum in the work to really shut him up and prevent his words from harming others.

Hope that helps!

Blessings,
Khi Armand

1love · Unread post by **1love** » Mon Nov 21, 2011 1:26 pm

Thank you for your help.

1love · Unread post by **1love** » Sun Dec 11, 2011 1:40 am

It worked completely. Thanks

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu May 24, 2012 4:39 pm

I'm trying to get a friend to come to a trip with me that starts in a few weeks, but her family/co-workers are creating obstacles, as she is having trouble obtaining permission. They are glued to their words. What can I do to change their decision so she can come with me? Preferably to expedite...

Mary Bee · Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu May 24, 2012 4:57 pm

Use some Influence products and Road Opener (to literally "open the roads" to your friend traveling with you).

Get some Influence sachet powders, mix it with the local dirt, and sprinkle it in the path where your friend's family members walk, and pray as you do so that they will allow her to travel with you.

http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu May 24, 2012 5:03 pm

Thank you for your suggestions, MaryBee. So just the sachet powder, or would I need oils/candles, etc? The main problem is her mother...

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu May 24, 2012 5:10 pm

Also, I was thinking about the Bend over spell as well, but do not have a personal concern of the mother.

Doctor Hob · Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Thu May 24, 2012 5:35 pm

If the mother is the primary obstacle, you might consider putting together a honey jar on her. Along with the Influence work Mary Bee suggested, you could work a sweet jar for mom, and burn candles dressed with Influence oil on top of it. Bend Over is pretty stern work. Gentle persuasion might be easier here than a spiritual shoving match with a strong-willed person.

Regarding personal concerns: you could use a sample of her handwriting, or her picture. If your friend visits the mother at home, picking hairs out of a hairbrush is a pretty standard way to collect concerns. Barring all else, you can get by with just her name, but a stronger link is better.

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu May 24, 2012 6:03 pm

Mister Hob wrote:If the mother is the primary obstacle, you might consider putting together a honey jar on her. Along with the Influence work Mary Bee suggested, you could work a sweet jar for mom, and burn candles dressed with Influence oil on top of it. Bend Over is pretty stern work. Gentle persuasion might be easier here than a spiritual shoving match with a strong-willed person.

Regarding personal concerns: you could use a sample of her handwriting, or her picture. If your friend visits the mother at home, picking hairs out of a hairbrush is a pretty standard way to collect concerns. Barring all else, you can get by with just her name, but a stronger link is better.

Hello, I'm not sure how I would prepare this honey jar? Would the 'Influence Another Person's Mind for Good Purpose' HoneyJar kit work? For personal concerns, I do have a picture of her. She is coming to my house sometime in the second week of June, but I doubt I can snatch a strand or two of hair from her head.

Mary Bee · Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu May 24, 2012 6:10 pm

That honey jar kit would absolutely be perfect for your situation. You're trying to influence her mind to a "good purpose": the good purpose of you and your friend traveling together. The personal concern of a picture is fine to use in the jar.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu May 24, 2012 6:36 pm

MaryBee wrote:That honey jar kit would absolutely be perfect for your situation. You're trying to influence her mind to a "good purpose": the good purpose of you and your friend traveling together. The personal concern of a picture is fine to use in the jar.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Thank you for your suggestion!! So I should discard your earlier suggestion then, or use both in conjugation (in hopes that it will be stronger and work faster)?

Mary Bee · Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Fri May 25, 2012 3:14 am

You can use both suggestions! It's very common to work with multiple tricks to get the results you want

Good luck,
Mary Bee

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri May 25, 2012 3:26 am

Roxthefox,

I would get the influence honey jar spell kit for the mother. I would definitely work a road opener vigil light with this along with a van van to change the luck she is having with her mother. You can definitely use her picture. I would buy some influence powder and dust it on some junk mail or on the porch or near the car where the mom is going to step.

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Fri May 25, 2012 8:41 am

Thanks for the suggestion. Actually now I feel like my friend is starting to make excuses too. What could I use for her?

Doctor Hob · Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri May 25, 2012 9:07 am

A kick in the pants? Seriously, though, the question is if your friend is honestly having secong thoughts, or if the family ruckus is wearing them down. If they're starting to buckle under the strain, you could bolster them up with some Crucible of Courage or John the Conquerer work. If they're just rethinking going, the question becomes do you want them there if they don't really want to be there?

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Fri May 25, 2012 2:41 pm

Looks like LM has a backlOg and it will take 6 weeks. Think I'll just to make the honey jar myself

Doctor Hob · Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri May 25, 2012 3:23 pm

Maybe this will help:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Lord SP · Unread post by **Lord SP** » Fri May 25, 2012 3:56 pm

If her mom has a Faceboousak page you can actually print a picture of her and use that as a personal concern just a thought.Be Blessed now....u[

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Fri May 25, 2012 6:48 pm

I do have a picture of her mom already, but I thought we could only use objects that are linked to that person.

Doctor Hob · Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri May 25, 2012 7:29 pm

The closer a personal concern is, the better. Hair, bodily fluids, nail clippings, etc. are the best, but you can get by with something hand-written by them, their picture, or even just their name, lacking anything else. The more removed from the actual person the concern is, the further you move down the potency scale. Foot-tracks are good, too, if you can capture them.

Doctor Hob · Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri May 25, 2012 7:32 pm

Sorry, this might help:

http://www.luckymojo.com/bodyfluids.html

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Fri May 25, 2012 10:35 pm

Alright, I got hair as a personal concern for the friend and picture of a mother. I'm placing both in the jar along with two petitions (one for the friend to remove doubt and one for the mother to change her decision). I'm following the instructions on the LM page by crossing my name with the other persons name on both petitions and write the intent. Then put the personal concerns in the jar with petitions a d pour honey on top of it. I'm lighting one white candle and letting it burn. Please let me know if this sounds ok? Feedback welcome, thanks!

oneNonly · Unread post by **oneNonly** » Wed Apr 17, 2013 9:14 pm

I need to know What can I do to get someone to change there mind about throwing a party.
My bf wants to throw a event and I don't want him to some good reason. Is there something I can
Do to make him change his mind?

aura · Unread post by **aura** » Thu Apr 18, 2013 11:22 am

Hi FeelingaPerfect7,

Commanding, Compelling, Controlling, Do As I Say, Domination and Essence of Bend Over are all product lines you can work with to get him to change his mind. Working with a dressed and fixed skull candle would be one method of doing this. There's more about those products and how to use them in the links below:

http://www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/compelling.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/domination.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html

oneNonly · Unread post by **oneNonly** » Thu Apr 18, 2013 2:31 pm

@aura

Thank u so much!

what color would u suggest?

Destiny · Unread post by **Destiny** » Wed Nov 27, 2013 5:12 am

I have a situation my niece was at my house and she was accidentally burned by the radiator my 34yr daughter was in the room with her at the time of the incident. Her hands had blistered up & when they took her to emergency the doctor said it was a superficial burn & her hand would heal. Who would think that housing would have the heat up so high to the point where someone could actually get burned. When her mother took her to her original doctor she notified ACS. Now ACS has been coming to the house I did a honey jar on the worker, her supervisor & all other authorities involved. Now I would like to do some influence work on the the caseworker & her supervisor so that their decision is in my favor and I win the hearing

Destiny · Unread post by **Destiny** » Wed Nov 27, 2013 5:51 am

I also would like for the judges decision to be in my favor. Would a skull candle be best to influence their minds? To rule in my favor. What herbs should I order? I had the honey jar burning since they first came out, because they need to know that this was truly a accident and nothing more.

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Nov 27, 2013 8:23 pm

Hello, Roxthefox,
Sounds good!
Happy Thanksgiving

roxthefox wrote:Alright, I got hair as a personal concern for the friend and picture of a mother. I'm placing both in the jar along with two petitions (one for the friend to remove doubt and one for the mother to change her decision). I'm following the instructions on the LM page by crossing my name with the other persons name on both petitions and write the intent. Then put the personal concerns in the jar with petitions a d pour honey on top of it. I'm lighting one white candle and letting it burn. Please let me know if this sounds ok? Feedback welcome, thanks!

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Nov 27, 2013 8:26 pm

Hello, Destiny,
Wow. What a travesty of events. I'm so sorry.
Try this webpage or ideas: www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
It even has the skull candle instructions.
Wishing you the best
Happy Thanksgiving

Destiny wrote:I also would like for the judges decision to be in my favor. Would a skull candle be best to influence their minds? To rule in my favor. What herbs should I order? I had the honey jar burning since they first came out, because they need to know that this was truly a accident and nothing more.