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Unread post by June » Sat Jun 16, 2012 7:38 am

Hi, I would like to peacefully separate a couple. Along with Separation oil, which herbs should I purchase to complement the work? Thanks

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Unread post by aura » Sat Jun 16, 2012 9:32 am

Hi Melissa,

others will no doubt have some additional / better advice on this one, but herbs you could include would be:

1-broom straws (to drive them away from each other, place them between two candles or doll babies of the couple, but in a not particularly aggressive way): http://www.herb-magic.com/broom-straw.html
2-calamus root (to keep you in charge of the situation and control them): http://www.herb-magic.com/calamus-root-chips.html
3-cedar wood (to drive them away from each other, place them between two candles or doll babies of the couple, but in a not particularly aggressive way): http://www.herb-magic.com/cedar-wood-chips.html
4-chia seed (to keep people from saying mean things throughout the separation): http://www.herb-magic.com/chia-seed.html
5-cloves (if you want the partners to remain friends despite the separation): http://www.herb-magic.com/cloves-whole.html
6-knot weed (to control their actions): http://www.herb-magic.com/knot-weed.html
7-sage (so everyone makes the best decisions during the separation): http://www.herb-magic.com/sage.html

Hope this can give you a few ideas!
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Unread post by roguedeer » Mon Aug 06, 2012 3:17 pm

I am wondering what kind of work I can do to help myself stop feeling guilty for things I've done long in the past. They are wrongs I have righted and/or apologized for, or personality traits I have moved on from, but I keep replaying the old events over and over in my mind and feeling bad about them. Makes it difficult to move on and be a better person.

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Unread post by Wild at Heart » Mon Aug 06, 2012 5:53 pm

Products from the "Cut and Clear" and "Cast Off Evil" line will help with your initial goal, and "Clarity" and "King Solomon's Wisdom" will help with longevity.

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Mon Aug 06, 2012 8:43 pm

I'd suggest a hyssop bath and reading Psalm 51 to cleanse yourself from past sins and mistakes.
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Unread post by roguedeer » Wed Aug 08, 2012 7:42 am

Thank you so much for the advice.

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Unread post by roguedeer » Wed Aug 08, 2012 10:05 am

For a hyssop bath, would hyssop essential oil work? Or should I use dried hyssop?

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Unread post by ArcherGirl1 » Fri Aug 10, 2012 7:28 pm

OP, you can I are in the EXACT same boat! So glad I did a forum search.

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Sat Aug 11, 2012 4:49 pm

Any form of hyssop would be fine.
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Unread post by cmsnider1 » Sat Aug 11, 2012 5:18 pm

I'm hoping someone can help me!!!

It's a very long and complicated story but I really need to separate a person from his friends permanently. But I'm not sure what's the best spell to do that? I wasn't sure if it is correct to use a break-up candle since these people are just friends. Can someone please help me?

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Sat Aug 11, 2012 5:38 pm

Breakup can be used for breaking up friends, family, or lovers, causing them to argue and fight. If you would like them to just go their separate ways peacefully, use Separation instead.
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Unread post by Psychic Mimi » Sat Aug 11, 2012 11:05 pm

I'm kind of in a similar situation, and I was thinking about trying the fixed candles. Is one candle enough? There's two people that need to hit the road, but one is a friend while the other is family. Do I use one candle to send off the family member and another to send off the chump friend? I don't care if they go off into the sunset happily or unhappily, I just want them to go.

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Sun Aug 12, 2012 11:13 am

What is "enough" will vary from person to person and from situation to situation. For some a candle dressed with oil is sufficient, while others cannot acheive their goals no matter how many candles and how much incense they burn, how many baths, how many tricks they lay down, etc. Factors include the skill of the worker, the resistance and protection of the target, unknown factors, and God's will.
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Unread post by roguedeer » Tue Aug 14, 2012 3:41 pm

ArcherGirl1, I hope you find the peace you deserve.

Thank you for the answer, MamaMicki!

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Unread post by JayDee » Tue Aug 14, 2012 7:35 pm

Both products suggested work, also i find doing a crucible of courage ( to let go) and a blessing candle in addition a great additive to help boost your moral while doing it. As a person who struggled letting go before I can tell you its hard, but its also a mind set, litterly you have to be stronger then the urge, once you feel it fight it off and think of something else, listen to music, read a book, at first its hard, but trust me in a week you will be thinking 1/2 as much as you were. Other thing that helped me was doing a goot high intensive workout like a long run or lifting, really cleared the mind. Try using magic and mundane together to reach your goal.
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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sat Aug 25, 2012 2:25 am

I agree with Mama Micki. It seems like you need to get a reading to determine how to get the family person away.
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Unread post by Morwyn Kettlegrey » Mon Oct 08, 2012 10:54 pm

So I've been going through a bit of a tough spot, unemployed, and husband is out of work as well. It's been pretty scary lately. I've had some good prospects but nothing yet. I've tried lots of basic candle work to get things flowing.

I do a banishing once a week to try and keep things clear and outside of finances I enjoy my life.

A friend suggested today that some of the blockages I have might be caused by influence from my grandmother who I was extremely close to as she had the same sort of relationship with money.

So my question is how might one clear blockages that come from generations of issues with abundance?

I so want and need everything to start flowing.

Any suggestions would be helpful!

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Tue Oct 09, 2012 7:38 am

I would suggest a 13-herb bath, which removes crossed conditions, whether they originate from outside sources or from within one's self. Cast Off Evil would also help to get rid of negative behavior and thought patterns, which can lead to financial problems.
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Unread post by divaluck » Mon Oct 29, 2012 8:30 am

I am having a bit of trouble ending a relationship and would like some advice on what I can do to get my partner to see that parting ways is the best thing and not fight the separation. Any ideas?

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Unread post by heartexalted » Mon Oct 29, 2012 8:57 am

I believe this is what you seek: http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
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Unread post by Zora » Wed Nov 07, 2012 10:45 am

If a couple is already separated but haven't filed for divorce yet. What would be the best spell kit to use? They currently live in 2 different states and she visits the house they jointly own once a month to ensure he is taking care of the property. The delay in the divorce is waiting for home values to improve so a profit can be made on the sell. We want her to realize she has a new and better life where she is and she's done and doesn't care about any settlement.

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Unread post by medusa » Mon Nov 12, 2012 11:14 pm

Greetings all!

Ok, so I need to gently and steadily move a couple that is NOT in love (together for business/finances only) to gently separate. This couple is legally married, but did so for financial/business reasons, not love related. Although there is moderate mutual respect, to some extent, one of the parties wants out to be with someone they love. I do practice on my own, but to be frankly honest, rarely have people come to me for such a request.

I have used the LM separation oil a few times before, but honestly, I am more experienced in actual Breakup work. That (breakup) is way too strong for this situation...

My questions:

1) Would lighting a simple Separation candle at the missionary independent spiritual church with the two individuals photos be more instantaneous than a 7-knob candle? OR-- is it subtle enough to push them away from the other without causing too much of a stir?

2) Would you advise me to use, as I am more inclined to do, a 7-knob candle with separation oil and perform the work on my own? This way, again, I feel I would have more control to gauge how far & fast to go, but your insight and knowledge are an invaluable resource. I welcome any ideas you may have.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Tue Nov 13, 2012 12:31 am

1. A vigil candle can not be claimed to be "more instantaneous" than a 7-Knob candle. It may work quickly, or it may not. The kind of candle is not the greatest factor here; the intensity of purpose,use of plant spirits or other spiritual allies, and the righteousness of the cause are greater factors.

2. If you feel drawn to do the work yourself, then by all means do it!
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Unread post by Stampede » Thu Nov 15, 2012 7:36 am

I have a good friend who is in a bad relationship. It's not abusive or controlling, it's just really unhealthy because he's much older and in general acts more like an uncle than a boyfriend. She's been with him for over a year now and is miserable, but can't break it off no matter how much me or anyone else who cares about her tries to help. She's now become convinced that if she gets him to marry her, it'll all work out.

I saw the breakup spell on the web site, but that seems like an especially nasty one, and since she has poor health I think I'd better tread lightly. What sort of spell might help here?

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Thu Nov 15, 2012 8:57 am

You can try Separation products instead for a more peaceful breakup. However, I'd suggest a reading first.
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Unread post by medusa » Sat Nov 17, 2012 2:29 am

Absolutely! Thank you, Miss Catherine, for your insightful reply! :-)

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Unread post by sweetnshort767 » Mon Nov 19, 2012 5:23 am

Good Morning,

I am not sure if this type of question has been answered before because I could not find it. If you could direct me to that thread or help me with the situation I would appreciate it.

My husband has a friend who I would like to keep him away from. His friend's intension are not the best. He uses my husband at every opportunity he gets but my husband does not realize that. I pointed it out several times but he does not seem to see it my way. But whenever that friend is talking to my husband or meeting him, my husband tends to spend a lot of money on him, or ends up doing his dirty work for him.

How do I keep them away from each other? I understand this is not like the usual separation from a significant other, or a romantic partner therefore, I would like some guidance here. I appreciate all your help.

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Unread post by ProfessorAmes » Tue Nov 27, 2012 7:29 am

It sounds from your last sentence that she is hanging onto something more than the real estate value. If so, then I suggest using the cut and clear line of products. If she just needs to shake off this relationship and move on, then perhaps the Clarity line would be good. I'd suggest annointing a skull candle to help her clear her mind and re-focus on a new life ahead. But don't overlook the financial value of a settlement for starting that new life. Walking away from the profit on house could help her transition with a lot less pain.

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Unread post by Joseph Magnuson » Tue Nov 27, 2012 7:36 am

Great advice, Professor Ames! I have witnessed the real power of the Cut and Clear spell working wonders.

Zora: Make sure that the Cut and Clear spell is appropriate in this situation as it will REALLY Cut and Clear. I like the idea of starting with the Clarity and then moving "up" to other work from there. Very effective advice.
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Unread post by ProfessorAmes » Tue Nov 27, 2012 7:44 am

I think you can use a break up spell even if they aren't romantic - I just was recommending this one to someone.

http://www.herb-magic.com/black-dog-hair.html. Just be cautious if using some of the hot foot powders, etc. that you use them only toward your man's friend. Perhaps on his car or places that only he would be.

It gets them to argue, and frankly, it's usually in arguments that the truth of the matter can sometimes come out. My other suggestion is to work on your husband with some clarity products, so that he sees this situation is not in his best interest and that he's being used. You'll also want a contrasting work to keep him home - Stay With Me, Peaceful Home, etc.

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Unread post by Devi Spring » Fri Nov 30, 2012 4:39 pm

Yes, definitely Separation products are the way to go.

You could work with them in many different ways, though I recommend that you dress your bed-sheets with the Separation bath crystals (either by adding some to the rinse water &/or by dissolving some in water, straining out any plant particles, and then putting the water into a spritz bottle and spraying your bed and any other places in the house where the two of you often spend time - like on the couch in the living room ) and dressing them each day while praying for a peaceful parting. Also burn some Separation incense or diffuse some Separation oil in an oil burner to "scent" the whole house - it has a nice lemony smell.

Keeping the house continually dressed this way will help a great deal in the process.

I would then back up that work with some candle work.

One trick that has worked for several clients of mine, is to get two figural candles and load them with your concerns. Place them back to back and dress them with Separation oil. Tie a string around the two candles, one for each year or month (which ever is less) you were together. Get a pair of scissors and run them through Separation incense, while praying that they be an instrument of peaceful partings. Each day, cut one of the strings while praying for that parting. Once the strings are all cut, start walking the two candles apart. When you have enough room between them, place the open scissors between them, then burn the candles down while praying that your remaining relationship be dissolved as the wax dissolves.

Take the remains of his candle, and wrap it up in a white handkerchief with some Blessing powder. Then take it to some running water, and throw it into the water, while you pray that he be removed from your life and be brought towards a new positive life without you. Take the remains of your candle, and plant them in your backyard (if you wish to stay where you are, or in a potted plant that you will take with you wherever you will go).


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Unread post by jwmcclin » Fri Nov 30, 2012 9:59 pm

Good recommendation Devi; divaluck, I'm adding this one to my notes and I hope ou find success in your work. Cut and Clear an alternative.
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divaluck wrote:I am having a bit of trouble ending a relationship and would like some advice on what I can do to get my partner to see that parting ways is the best thing and not fight the separation. Any ideas?
Meditation and Mind Exercises are a good place to start. Try to see his point of view. Take time to learn how he feels and sees you, and the relationship. If the aim is to part on good terms, then time and patience is a very good thing.

Get into his thoughts, and learn what kind of subtle clues you can give him. To lead him to a Separation, that he is ready for. Temperance is key to your success.

Consult your Tarot Cards, and spend time having frank, honest, but yet "un-bonding" conversations with your partner.

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Unread post by lala007 » Sun Dec 09, 2012 3:08 pm

I have a problem where my BF is acting very badly and hanging out with his friends and this young girl...whom i think something is going on with...i would like to banish or remove these people..HELP

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lala007 wrote:I have a problem where my BF is acting very badly and hanging out with his friends and this young girl...whom i think something is going on with...i would like to banish or remove these people..HELP
Hello lala007,

I would try using a combination of Commanding on your boyfriend, while using Hot Foot on these other people. Try putting some Hot Foot powder down where these friends of his will walk over it, and washing your boyfriend's clothes with some Commanding Bath Crystals.

Make your prayer clear while using these products and keep faith to your goal. Believe in what you do, and that is where the power lies.
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Unread post by Little Death » Mon Dec 10, 2012 5:49 pm

Hi,

I am new to this, so I apologize if the answer to this question is obvious.

I have been married for about 7.5 years and have difficulty with a wife who is controlling and can be mean. Over the years, I went to a marriage counselor who recommended divorce, a personal counselor who recommended divorce, and a second marriage counselor who asked why I didn't consider divorce. I have tried to leave several times, but she always talks me out of it. She isn't receptive to my studying magick and Tarot, but I have been doing so regardless. I am ready to just walk out of this marriage, but am still hesitating. I turned the cards and they show the situation can be helped with magic.

Can anyone give me any magical advice with my situation?

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Mon Dec 10, 2012 6:36 pm

Cut and Clear can help you cut emotional ties. Power and John the Conqueror can also develop your self-esteem so you can leave your unhealthy relationship.
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Unread post by lala007 » Tue Dec 11, 2012 10:57 am

will Banish work for now I don't have any Hot Foot yet, also I did a freezer spell...something is starting to happen the main (friend) has gotten is some trouble so that 's kinda halting...but there is still others around . Also the young lady he's been kinda different to her.I will keep working this all.. Thanks and keep the suggestions coming

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Unread post by JP_ » Mon Dec 17, 2012 8:55 am

Hello All,

I would like to thank everyone on the forum for all the great questions and responses as they are immensely beneficial to newcomers like myself.
I have a similar situation to the one described in this post, except we have a toddler and are married. I'd like to part ways peacefully as we've grown apart due to many faults on both our ends. I'd like to find a middle ground where we're both happy in anything having to do with our child. I just want him to move out and we can share custody of our child. I'd like to see him happy and I'd like for him to be happy without me. I do not wish in any way to prevent him from seeing his child, but I cannot continue to live with him. We don't speak much but when we do it turns into an argument. This is not healthy for our child to see. I absolutely love the advice posted by Devi Spring and have a couple of questions.

We rarely sleep together, him on the couch me on the bed (and sometimes our toddler falls asleep with me on the bed and I'll put her back in her bed later), so if I dress the sheets will this have any impact on my toddler?

Also with the burial of the remains of my candle, if I decide to move in the next few months, should I just bury the remains in a potted plant now? Or should I plant them in the backyard now and move them to a potted plant if I move?
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
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Unread post by Mama Micki » Mon Dec 17, 2012 5:39 pm

If he is sleeping on the couch, there is no point in dressing the sheets. Put a few drops of Separation oil in a cup of laundry detergent and use it to wash the clothes you both wear. You can use bath crystals if you prefer.
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Unread post by JP_ » Tue Dec 18, 2012 6:46 am

Very good. Thank you Mama Micki!!
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Unread post by DreamCatcher » Sun Jan 27, 2013 3:30 pm

I need to also hot foot my guys friend. He is a drug user and an alcoholic. He is a leech and drags my guy away from our family. If my guy says no I don't want to go out tonight, he will practically throw a tantrum. My guy feels sorry for him and well....i don't. I purchased a hot foot vigil candle and cast off evil. I plan on lighting the candle, burning the petition then scattering the ashes at a crossroad to the four winds. Then light a series of smaller candles with cast off. Can I include all his negative friends? Like, May all Joe's friends who negatively affect our family get the hell out of our lives. Thanks so much

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Unread post by MissMichaele » Thu Jan 31, 2013 9:50 pm

Rookiebinx wrote: I plan on lighting the candle, burning the petition then scattering the ashes at a crossroad to the four winds. Then light a series of smaller candles with cast off.
Don't burn the petition. Keep it to place under all the other candles.

Take the leftover wax -- some of it -- to the crossroads and let the traffic scatter it.
Can I include all his negative friends? Like, May all Joe's friends who negatively affect our family get the hell out of our lives.
Yes, that sounds good.

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by indian_conjure » Mon Feb 18, 2013 12:03 pm

One of my gay friend has a BF who loves him very much but he does not love him right now and wants to end the relationship without telling or emotionally hurting him. So can anyone tell me how this can be done and my friend is also looking for a handsome sugar daddy kinda new BF now so what things can be done so that he might achieve this goal. Please help.

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Unread post by Mary Bee » Mon Feb 18, 2013 2:33 pm

I would recommend that your friend use a Cut and Clear spell kit to neatly cut the bonds between him and his BF.

http://luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Then for him to draw a "sugar Daddy" he can use Follow Me Boy, Q Oil, Cleo May, or a combination of those three formulas.

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by KrystalK » Fri Mar 15, 2013 7:05 am

Is there a gentler approach to removing someone out of your life rather than using HOT FOOT supplies.

such as pushing an ex away who wont let go...

or a family member who just goes from house to house to free-load..

any suggestions would be nice..thanks..


also the issue with an ex..I just perfomed a hot foot on him but as soon as I did i started to miss him(didnt see him for 3days) ...however(as of today ) he's around (he was becoming stalkerish) I dont want to get back with him at the moment so I just prayed that he leave the area if his intentions was to keep up strife and harm to me ..but I'm guessing that since he's still around he is someone cool headed. He knows I'm dating this other guy he just kept lurking the area hopeing to get back with me .

I have yet to do a cut n clear ... and hopefully we can be friends in the near future...i aslo uncrossed him from love work that I did to make our love stronger.

i have also been very irritable lately and will be doing a bath this morning..

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Fri Mar 15, 2013 7:58 am

Banishing is a gentler formula than Hotfoot. You may want to try it.
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Unread post by aura » Fri Mar 15, 2013 10:37 am

Separation products are another alternative. If you have HHRM, also look up the entries under cedar.
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Unread post by AnnieB » Thu Apr 25, 2013 12:07 pm

I'd like to ask for some spell advice regarding making two people be more distant towards each other, but not necessarily making them fight or dislike each other. Hotfooting sounds too harsh, I don't want these people to be enemies. I just need them to back off each other a little bit.

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Thu Apr 25, 2013 12:11 pm

Separation supplies will separate them without the fighting that comes with Breakup. Hotfoot is to make someone leave, not to break up a couple.

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Unread post by AnnieB » Thu Apr 25, 2013 12:18 pm

Thank you, Mama Micki, for your reply.

Just to clarify, I am not looking to separate lovers. They are just friends, and I do want them to remain friends. I just need to reduce the influence and closeness.)

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Unread post by Jibrael » Sun Apr 28, 2013 4:03 pm

I'm at present going through a very slow break-up. We've lived together 3 years, and I'm moving in September to begin seminary. I made the decision to go by myself, and for many reasons I don't want to try a long-distance relationship. He has no job (part of why I'm going alone), so we're still living together. This whole thing is painful, to say the least. I want to do some kind of work to help ease this process along.

I was looking at the broom straw separation spell on the Lucky Mojo page: taking two broom straws to a crossroads, sprinkling them with Separation satchet powder, and so forth. Would this help us move apart gently over the next few months? Or, since it's kind of inevitable that we're breaking up, should I do something else?

Also: on the Separation product itself, would Separation incense be the kind of smell I could smoke the house with, as a way to influence the situation? Is it a pleasant smell? I ask because we burn a lot of incense in the home, and it seemed this could be a way to influence things without him knowing what I was doing.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by jwmcclin » Sun Apr 28, 2013 4:30 pm

Separation (http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html) spiritual supplies are designed for situations where you want amicable departure, as it says on the website, "...calmly move apart or stop seeing each other..." Of course there is additiona information you might want to include. Read about it.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Pinkredblue25 » Thu May 02, 2013 2:34 pm

Here's my situation. There's this guy who I've known for years. We worked together and we liked each other, but I had a boyfriend. He then moved away and got a gilfriend. Well, he recently moved back to our city, and I know his family so we saw each other and we kept in touch. I really like him and he likes me but the girlfriend he got when he left is still in the picture. They're no longer a couple but they still hang out. They have some kind of friendship going on. He said that he isn't sleeping with her. Who knows. Well she goes to family events with him so all his family knows her and likes her so I see this as a huge obstacle for me. I have been doing a honey jar for like three weeks and started a red skull candle for loving thoughts. I am wondering if separation work would be necessary even if I'm doing all that other stuff. I don't want to do break up because it says it makes them fight like cats and dogs and brings pain and hurtful feelings. Should I do separation work? Also, if yes, what can I do to make them go their separate ways in a friendly manner. Thank you.

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Thu May 02, 2013 3:32 pm

Yes, Separation products are for a peaceful separation, as opposed to Breakup, which makes the couple fight and argue. Dress a Divorce candle with Separation oil to start.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by hoodude » Sat May 18, 2013 9:58 am

Hi all,
I've been married for over 12 years. My wife and I were high school sweethearts and she remains my best friend, we have wonderful kids too. Over the past 3 years it has been clear that my wife is becoming increasingly unhappy with her life and its taken a toll on our marriage. We've gotten to the point of even saying the "D" word but then she becomes hysterical and starts claiming she'll kill herself if I were to leave. Then there's the kids. I was their age when my own parents divorced and I don't want them to grow up with a distant father and a mom who's emotionally unstable. That's what happened to me and I wan't so much better for them. My wife vacillates between saying she wants to run off and leave the kids and then when we become serious about the subject, she starts talking about how she'll make sure I never see them. If she's unhappy I want her to find happiness. I've suggested her going to the doctor or therapy or anything, but she refuses and then becomes angry because I'm suggesting she's crazy. I feel like something inevitable is coming. I've tried to fix things for years but with all her mood swings and the way she looks and speaks to me about how much she hates her life, and the implied blame she puts on me for not being the millionaire she thinks she deserves, I'm tired of trying to hold it together and it seems like it's gone past the point of no return. It's been months since we've been intimate and she doesn't even show affection to me or the kids when she gets in one of her moods. My kids seem unhappy, my wife's unhappy, heck even the pets seem unhappy. I'm looking for guidance on how to split amicably. If possible, is there a way to make her want to go, rather than just staying around and being miserable, so that I won't sit around all the time waiting to hear that she's gone and done something to hurt herself. Is their a way that would work it so that we wouldn't have to fight over the kids. I don't want things to get nasty and I would like for us to stay friends. Maybe it's not fair for me to even ask for this. As a father, I should try to keep us all together for as long as possible. But sometimes it seems worse to stay in something that's becoming so dysfunctional. I want us all to be happy but that just seems so far away now. Any suggestions would be great. And thanks for at least letting me vent.

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Unread post by aura » Sat May 18, 2013 10:27 am

Hi hoodude,

Although a reading can provide you with more clarity and detail with regards to the spell-work most appropriate to your case, working this situation on a few fronts simultaneously would be one way to do it.

1 - Work Separation products (Vigil lights set at MISC to back up some contact work done at home) to get you and your wife to split up amicably: http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html

2 - Have a St-Dymphna candle burned at MISC on your wife's name and wash her clothes in a combination of Clarity, Crucible of Courage and Healing bath crystals. Call her into the work as you do the laundry, speaking your prayers for her to find peace and happinness and to be open and available to the resources that will provide her with the help she needs. Here are the links to information on those:

http://www.luckymojo.com/saintdymphna.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

3 - Make a honey jar with her, you and the kids in it to sweeten the entire family unit and allow you all to maintain good relations throughout the separation and beyond. Bloodroot and Motherwort are good choices to make sure that she stays in contact and maternal with the children. Solomon seal root and sage will keep everyone thinking straight and deer's tongue can aid in communication. Finally, adding borage will help instill happiness and keep things pleasant and some lavender can help in that respect too. Those 7 herbs, personal concerns and a petition paper with you all in there and then burn white and blue candles anointed with Peaceful Home oil on the jar every Monday, Wednesday and Friday until things are smooth and regular both throughout and after the Separation.

Blessings and success to you in resolving your situation,
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by MoonBreath » Sat May 18, 2013 5:22 pm

Just wondering, have you done a home cleansing yet? Your wife might have a lot of negativity stuck around her and would feel better if those spiritual dust bunnies were swept away. I know a good house cleansing and cleansing baths can do wonders to lift the mood for the whole household.

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