Good Evening, Destiny,
If you're going to use 2 candles, then do it differently. I was under the impression that you were only using one candle.
You're obviously into candle imagery big time (excellent).
So, in your case, I would do something a little different.
If you are using a candle that represents you, then put the oils on the candle that you want to happen to you. EXAMPLE: ATTRACTION
And then put other oils on the candle that represent him (for EXAMPLE: Influence).
So, if you have the come to me candle and he has the influence candle, I would move his candle closer to your candle so that the imagery matches the intention of the oils on your candles and your petition papers.
I would write 2 petition papers and put one under each candle.
So, here's another example:
John Doe's petition paper would say something like: "Love Destiny" (of course, you would write out his name seven to nine times...I prefer 7 for love. And then cross it with: "Love Destiny" the same amount of times)
Your petition paper would say something like: "Come To Destiny. Or come to me (remember, no break in the words)".
www.luckymojo.com/oils.html
Just remember that most root workers use their own creativity with root work.
If I were working with only one candle, I would put the love oils on that candle while making my commands. More or less, suggesting that he will follow your commands based on the intention of the oils.
Go to the search engine on the upper right hand side. There's a white box in the dark green area. Write: Moving candle spells love and see what others have suggested. maybe something will appeal to you.
Hope this helps (and didn't sound confusing)
Take care