My issue is definietly a reconciliation one but it is pretty deep.
First, it's long distance, we only met once but we have mutual friends and I am moving back to that area this year. The drain of the long distance became too much for me with my living situation and work load, and the same for him.
I had an outburst and he never talked to me again, I blame it on stress and pride as he was always very caring and attentive as our personalities allow, we are both internal people which means we can also bear a lot of pain and longing before making it known.
The other issues stem from him not being completely over his ex and his flatmates are real tools, they make fun of him for not being womanizing and what not. To top it off his mother is overbearing and when I had my episode, guess who he was with? I'm sure she talked him into not "needing" that kind of person or whatever. So there are a lot of issues but none of them were truly between the two of us.
I'm in no real hurry, I know that if things will work out it will be after I move and better myself.
Back to the candle reading. I lit a candle and partitioned it but after a day of burning to one side entirely I moved it to the tub knowing it was a fire hazard and I accidentally placed the wrong petition paper under it. So my intention went from a peace offering to St. Rita for my lost cause to one of ridding him of his negative influences. Well, everything seemed fine until I realized my mistake. I removed the 2nd petition and continued.
This morning (day 7) the candle was about 30 minutes from finished and I was researching on how to rid him of his crappy living situation. I know if it gets bad enough he will move and those assholes will no longer make him feel inferior. I began looking up recipes and suggestions for long distance influence, the second I had decided what course of action to take the candle exploded and wax went everywhere.

I will definitely set up separate altars from now on so the petition thing won't happen again. I probably should have put it out when I realized my mistake.
1) I know I confused the candle but although I think it may have been a good thing, could it be that perhaps St. Rita hates me now?
2) I know I can't take it as a total negative, but what should I make of this?
3) Should I give an extra offering to make up for my mistake?
4) Is there a way to buy vigil candles in bulk from LM to cut on shipping costs as I intend to keep this going until he moves on or I move there and whatever happens happens?