I will look into the recommendations you lovely people gave.
However, I must say that my relationship is not violence to the extent where I fear my life is in danger etc. Its just a 'blip of the moment' thing - where I threw his phone to the wall and made him upset...it wasn't like a heavy 'man slap' but a slap nonetheless.
I know this guy loves me and cares for me a lot - and we have been together for 9.5 years! I really can't let him go...
He came back on Wednesday and after talking about the issue he said - "it doesn't mean because we had a fight or I did something wrong mean that I will leave you. My love and support is always with you. I will never leave you for another woman, not in a million years. And I will never hit you again, I promise". He is currently going through problems and confusion with his family (where they expect a lot from him. An out of religion marriage will lead to him being disowned by them all. I think he is worried about be disowned). However he swear that he will never leave me, or marry anyone else.
The only reason why I wanted to do the mb magic is because I want him to be committed to me only (just to ensure that his family don't force another girl onto him to get married). Maybe I sound stupid and desperate - but seriously, a 9.5 years relationship is hard to let go simply because of someone else (i.e. his family).
Please advice...and I will look into the cleansing spell - but before I do anything, please advice me what you think.
@luckycat13 - please don't feel that you are telling me wrong. I know you are only trying to help and I really appreciate whatever you say!
