Hello everyone, its been a while since I've been on the forum! O.o I have a question about using the peaceful home bottle spell,( I apologize if this is in the wrong section!)
So, I have my peaceful home bottle (fixed) which is really nice btw, it smells lovely. At first, I intended to only use it for me and those that live in my home. I purchased angelica root powder (the root is no longer available??) Borage, pyrite grit, lodestone grit, and was going to add:
-chamomile flowers (theres a plant growing right NEXT to my door, nice!)
-a tiny bit of alkanet
-hyssop or rue
-personal concerns of all in home
-and cornflowers, which grow wild here.
As well as, a few drops of holy water, florida water, and a few drops to a teeny tiny capful of used bathwater that I used a "money house blessing bath crystal" packet on myself and my little one. I was wondering if this is appropriate , since there is oil already in the bottle and the water wont mix well,
My other question is, I was considering using the personal concern belonging to my childs father FOR THE REASON of trying to heal his relationship to us, not necessarily make him come back, I dont want that. But just to not be so petty about his role as a parent,honor agreements, and to better coparent.
is this a bad idea? should i just make a honey jar on him instead? all i have is his footrack and some writing, photos- im scared the dirt will muddy the water and ruin the whole thing. (like he muddied our lives, quite honestly.) But i read that peaceful home is used to calm/heal family and ties, so i wanted to try the formula.
I intended to burn appropriately colored candles on it dressed with healing oil, and wanted to buy the oil used in the bottle (im assuming its peaceful home oil as well?? smells so darn nice
) and clarity so the truth can come out , but i dont know, too much? seperate both works and just use the bottle to mend my home and relationship with my little one? (as a single parent the stress gets on both of us. and i just want my child to be happy and be the best mom i can be.) Any thoughts and comments on this or suggestions are appreciated! thanks for your time! (sorry so long guys lol)