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Unread post by Dr Johannes » Tue Sep 15, 2015 12:19 am

Innocense,

Take some of his hair and put in the refrigirator or freezer with a prayer that his hot head should cool down a bit.
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Unread post by Innocence » Tue Sep 15, 2015 7:34 am

Mezan, thank you. I am burning a candle today on the honey jar again, also burning one on a picture box I made yesterday. My ex's been fed menstrual blood two days in a row before the fight but has shown no sign of being affected. He's been nice most of the time and watched tv shows with me often and even behaved amorous at times through the past two weeks mixed with a few strange sporadic outbursts of hostility (that it stressed him out to see me in the house, he just wanted to move on with his merry life and that he wanted me to move out asap, saying he didn't wanting food from me and then later on asked me for food when he's hungry), I felt that he's very resistant and wonder if he's been protected by his Santera relative back in his own country. Yesterday he triggered the fight by mentioning about my moving out soon, the mention of which always upsets me. I should have stayed quiet but my temper got the best of me and I answered back, then he said the most hurtful things. I was still extremely angry about the things he said when we went to bed while he tried to appear lighthearted. After I kept provoking him and even telling him I wish he'd die, he's determined to stop sharing the same bed from now on and also blocked me online. I know I've totally set back any progress that the honey jar might have done. I don't know what's the best thing to salvage the relationship AND help me feel better from the emotional torture. At this point we both hate each other but I still love him at the same time and have a gut feeling he still does too deep down inside.

Dr Johannes, unfortunately it's very hard to get hold of his hair, I did make a freezing spell for all possible rivals yesterday though. I wonder if the negative energy was making us both more irritable.

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Unread post by Mezan » Tue Sep 15, 2015 8:45 pm

It's very important to stay calm throughout the process, so you don't sabotage your own work. Is there somewhere you can stay or spend a lot of time at so you're at his place less?
It sounds like both of you really need some space, and hanging out with a friend or picking up a new hobby (or getting back into an old one!) will help you detach a bit from the situation.

Get a reading with an AIRR rootworker to see if he's susceptible to spells, and if so what kind. They may also be able to tell you if he's protected.

Keep up your work, but please stay calm and confident in it.
Lighting a vigil candle dressed in Healing Oil can help you heal from the past hurts or even your own negative thoughts.
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Unread post by Innocence » Wed Sep 16, 2015 6:12 pm

Mezan, thank you so much for your encouragement. I've started a reconciliation vigil candle. My oils came today (love the scents!) and I started wearing them around him. I will also anoint my next honey jar candle with them. Do I also keep an eye out for signs in the next three days for the oils to work?

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Wed Sep 16, 2015 11:59 pm

Hello, Innocence,

I don't like to actively watch for signs.

Things rarely come when you look for them

Just relax. Spells take time

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Unread post by Innocence » Sat Sep 19, 2015 11:34 am

So I got a reconciliation/return to me candle burning at MISC since Thursday and I burned my own candle on my honey jar on Friday and the same night he acted friendly and came back to our room to sleep!

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sat Sep 19, 2015 12:40 pm

Hello, Innocence,

Congrats!!
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Unread post by BellaLupa » Sun Sep 20, 2015 5:49 pm

Big apologies if I'm posting this in the incorrect place, but I could really use some advice.

This past Monday, my long distance boyfriend broke up with me. We were so happy for the majority of our relationship but a couple of weeks ago, he told me that due to some immense chronic exhaustion, stress, possible health problems, etc. he was not feeling 100% about our relationship. He's not feeling much about ANYTHING. I took it calmly and tried not to take it personally and told him that since we usually communicated a lot everyday, he was free to take some extra space and time for himself to focus his energy on his current demands. After doing so, he called and broke up with me, saying that I'd done nothing wrong, that I was amazing and the best thing that had ever happened to him, but he felt that he couldn't be in a relationship at this time.
He wants to remain best friends and I will likely see him in a few weeks because I'll be staying in his city for a month.

I'm utterly heartbroken and wish he'd just lower his walls enough to let me continue to be there for him as his partner during this difficult time. Due to childhood trauma, he tends to be very hard on himself and reject support from others, even though he's always appreciated it from me. I'm convinced that he's scared of "failing" me even though I'm willing to accept that he doesn't have a ton of energy to put out toward a relationship at this time. I'm pretty understanding and low maintenance. He's just so damn stubborn and I fear he's suffering from depression, which is making him push away the only person he really has. He's the love of my life and I'm so hurt that he's thrown our partnership away.

I've got a honey jar that I've previously used on him with good results and I'm considering starting a new one geared toward reconciliation, but the only thing I have of his is an unwashed shirt that he sweat in a good deal. Could I snip a small piece of fabric from the armpit area and use that as an effective personal concern? I'm hoping if so that I can take the jar in my luggage when I travel up there and continue to work it.

I've also ordered a reconciliation spell kit from LM which I'll hopefully receive before I leave. Not sure how fast the store ships.

I was also inspired to reach out to Martha The Dominator and lit a white vigil candle with her picture taped to it, prayed to it to establish a connection with her, and laid a cup of coffee as well as Florida water. On Tuesday, I'll be officially petitioning her for reconciliation. Since I'll be out of town soonish, I'm considering trying a 9 straight day petition instead of 9 Tuesdays. Could that still work?

Any other suggestions would be really helpful. Any ideas I could do to assist with his physical and emotional strength? I don't have a ton of $/time to spend at the moment on another order from LM at present.

Many thanks I'm advance.
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Unread post by Miss Aida » Mon Sep 21, 2015 12:03 am

Hello, BellaLupa

Wow, that had to be devastating for you. I am so so sorry

Yes, you can definitely snip from this fabric and use it.

As far as St Martha is concerned, I know you want to do this in a hurry but please do it as Miss cat prescribes.

Here is a webpage that Miss cat wrote on love spells. You might find something of further help without costing money that you don't have:

www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

Also, you may want to consider healing spells for him: www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

I hope and pray that he returns to you.
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Unread post by BellaLupa » Mon Sep 21, 2015 6:38 am

Thank you so much.

I've decided to just continue talking to St. Martha generally to cultivate a relationship with her. In the meantime, I'm doing a reconciliation petition to St. Anthony instead since I've worked with him before.

I will be making my new honey jar on Wednesday, but decided to work the existing one today, burning small pink and blue (for healing) candles dressed with Come To Me oil I already had on hand. Unsurprisingly, the pink one burnt down much faster than the blue, but they both resulted in a clean swift burn.

Re. the new honey jar for reconciliation: Would it be helpful/appropriate to wrap strands of my hair around the small scrap of fabric from his shirt? I also thought I'd include a small printed photo of us kissing. I also have a small printout of a symbol he drew once that combined the letters of our first names, so I thought I'd write out my petition on the back.

I've previously added rose quartz to a jar, but I have a small raw emerald I was thinking of adding to this one, which is both his birthstone and supposed to be a symbol of love and faithfulness/devotion.

Finally, I wanted to try that trick I've seen on the forum before where you combine the working of the jar with 2 orange candles dressed in Road Opener oil and rolled in Deer's Tongue, but for the life of me, I can't find any Deer's Tongue to buy anywhere around here. Is there another herb that would be a suitable substitution?

Again, thanks so much. I want so much to do what I can, especially before I see him in a few weeks.
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Unread post by Miss Aida » Mon Sep 21, 2015 6:47 pm

Hello, BellaLupa ,

All of your ideas are great

Lucky Mojo sells the deer's tongue.

Find it here: www.herb-magic.com/deers-tongue.html

Wishing you the very best

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Unread post by 1mpurities » Tue Sep 22, 2015 6:16 pm

hello im new here. when I saw this topic..I was so happy and glad..for manage to find this..I broke up with my ex and I rly do wish to reconcile bck with her..I wish to cast spells on her to return to me..but now..she with with a relationship with someone else....its been 17 days..we didnt contact each oth...I rlt want to reconcile back with her...... :cry:

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Tue Sep 22, 2015 9:00 pm

Hello 1mpurities,

Welcome to the forum! When you get a chance (and assuming you wish to do so), please introduce yourself in the Introductions thread.

Have you read through this entire thread on reconciling with a past love? There are lots of good ideas and advice here to get you started. If you still have questions after reading through the thread, feel free to ask them here.

You could work a break up spell in tandem with your reconciliation work. You could put your ex and his new girlfriend into a break up jar, to get them to part ways with each other. I would recommend the Break Up Spell Kit, as it has everything you need as well as full instructions, to make it as simple as possible.

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-break-up.html

You could also consider doing a moving candle spell, to draw your ex towards you and away from the new rival. Here is the thread on that subject, to give you information on how to perform that spell:

moving-candle-spells-figural-plain-ques ... t9265.html

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Unread post by gypsywitchxxx » Wed Sep 23, 2015 5:35 pm

Hello,
It's been awhile since i have posted on here but here's my lament. I was in a deep relationship with this guy that was extremely obsessed with me (to the point that it turned me off & I felt smothered). His neediness pushed me away yet I still love him. Well when we met I dropped some of my menstrual blood in his whisky at a party discreetly & then later told him about it & it didn't really freak him out or anything but he told others about it. Anyways so he & I became volatile with each other (mostly him to me bc he was emotionally abusive due to his drinking. We were back & forth over the summer until I told him to go away & found out that a mutual friend of ours supposedly undid the menstrual blood spell I did on him a year ago at that party which he then started seeing this new girl & has moved VERY fast with her. He doesn't want me anymore & it's killing me. I miss him & love him. I tried to talk to him twice now to which he says he's not in love with me anymore & he wants me to find happiness. He doesn't look happy with her, she's gross looking & not his type. He told me that it hurt him to see me at the club that night i tried to talk to him. I want him back asap. Can the menstrual blood spell really be broken ?! What spell can I do to get him back?! Help!

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Unread post by BellaLupa » Wed Sep 23, 2015 5:55 pm

So a quick (and hopefully not premature) update:

I've done the St. Anthony reconciliation 3 days in a row so far, kept working the old honey jar with pink, blue, and yellow candles, and continued cultivating a relationship with St. Martha. I haven't had a chance to do the road opener candle trick or make the new honey jar yet, but when I've been working the old jar and prepping the candles, I've been specifically asking for reconciliation and renewal of his feelings.

Interestingly, once our agreed-upon week of "radio silence" ended, he was right back to messaging me throughout the day like he did when we were together. (This coming from the guy who thought that putting effort into our long distance relationship was too taxing for him.) He even sent me a link to an event today that happens the day after I get into town for my one month stay because he knew I'd really be interested and we plan on hanging out at the event. He's also sending me random funny photos he took and links to articles he thought I'd enjoy, just like before.

I'm trying not to jump to any conclusions just yet... he hasn't expressed any desire yet to get back together, but he clearly misses me and is thinking of me. A lot of his stressors (his need to find a new apartment, his exhausting commute, the promotion he was worried about getting, and his possible health issues) seem to be resolving rapidly since he broke up.

Funny enough, just cultivating a connection with St. Martha without asking her for anything seems to have strengthened my resolve and self-esteem about the situation. So, I'm sticking with the plan, intending to do the Reconciliation Kit I ordered when it arrives soon, and seeing how things pan out.

I really love him and just want him back. Wish me luck.
Thank you St. Helena, Expedite, St. Anthony, St. Martha, and St. Cyprian.

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Wed Sep 23, 2015 10:18 pm

Hi gypsywitchxxx,

If someone wishes to undo any spells done on another person, they can do so by cleansing or uncrossing that person. So yes, your menstrual blood spell could be undone by another. Having said that, it's been my experience that menstrual blood spells are not long lasting, so that could have been an entirely empty threat from your mutual friend.

I would focus on reconciliation work to get him back, and the Reconciliation spell kit would be a good start.

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html

Good luck.
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Unread post by Miss Athena » Wed Sep 23, 2015 10:20 pm

Hi BellaLupa,

That is fantastic news and a very good start towards reconciliation! Keep up the good work and I hope you get your man back!

Good luck.
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Unread post by BellaLupa » Fri Sep 25, 2015 11:49 am

Oh wow.

So I made the reconciliation honey jar today as I detailed I would above. I read the reciting some of the Song of Songs can be good, so while prepping the materials, I played an MP3 of Ofra Haza singing it (it's called "Love Song") in the background and then recited it while assembling the components and dressing the candles.

I got a hold of some Deer's Tongue and rolled two orange candles dressed with Road Opener in the D'sT, burned a dressed red candle and a dressed pink candle on the top with "Fire of Love" and "Follow Me Boy" at the same time.

Well, the orange candle on the right literally flamed up HUGELY and melted down within a matter of minutes (the one on the left was normal), but the candles ON the jar are bouncing energetically and crackling all over the place (melting at a normal pace, though).

I always make sure to trim the wicks and ensure that no drafts are present to mess with the burning, so it's pretty amusing. Given what I've read re: ceromancy on the site, I see this as a reasonably good sign.

The red candle burned down faster than the pink one, melted onto it, and left this lovely flower-shaped puddle of wax. I'll take it as a positive indication.

I only heard from him briefly yesterday and not yet today, but I also know he's been super-busy prepping for moving house on Monday. Crossing my fingers!
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Unread post by BellaLupa » Fri Sep 25, 2015 12:56 pm

*Wouldn't let me edit the previous post*

The red candle burned down faster than the pink one, melted onto it, and left this lovely flower-shaped puddle of wax. I'll take it as a positive indication.

Reason: Merged with post above
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Unread post by gypsywitchxxx » Fri Sep 25, 2015 6:46 pm

I'm currently working the graveyard dirt & vandal root wrapped up in hot pink paper with our names inside with our birthdates & have placed it under my bed. I've researched that this is more of a forced love spell than anything so i've got strong hopes that he will be returning very soon. I've also got a pink candle going that has his picture wrapped around it with his eyes facing in toward the flame so he will feel the heat. I also dressed the candle with follow me boy, reconciliation, and adam & eve oil. I burned come to me incense whilst doing all of this activity today. I'm feeling pretty strong about my work so far :) Is there anything more I can do with the vandal root to keep as much work going as possible?

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Fri Sep 25, 2015 8:27 pm

Hi gypsywitchxxx,

I have personally had great success with that graveyard dirt/Vandal Root spell, however the proper color for the packet is green, not hot pink. Where did you read that?

Otherwise when working with the love oils, pick a single one or simple combination to work whatever stage of your relationship you are currently in. You have many formulas going at once, and you don't want to overwhelm or confuse him.

If this were me, I would start with Reconciliation and/or Come to Me.

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-reconciliation.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-come-to-me.html

Then once he's back, I'd move on to Follow Me Boy and Adam & Eve.

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-follow-me-boy.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-adam-and-eve.html

Hope that helps.

Good luck.

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Unread post by misskitty49 » Fri Sep 25, 2015 10:06 pm

I have been doing love drawing work for the last 8 months. After a largely failed reconciliation attempt, I've moved on to a new target and was dating him for a couple of weeks. Due to ongoing and increasingly vicious slander against me, this guy has now dropped off the face of the earth. I have been working a doll baby and sugar jar, cleansing my home/body and dressing in oils and sachets each time I see him. I also began a vinegar jar between him and the woman who is slandering me. It doesn't appear to be working, in fact, things seem to have gotten worse in the last week. I am exhausted, frustrated, and devastated that this woman's lies are more powerful than all the damage control I've done, both magical and non-magical.

I do not really seem to get more male attention when I dress myself in oils and sachets or carry my mojo hand, and I'm wondering now if I am doing this correctly (tried Follow Me Boy, Return to Me, and Love me). I'm also wondering how this is happening, as I have had several readings since I begun my work and none of them indicated that I was cursed.

Any help is appreciated, just feeling very discouraged =/

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sat Sep 26, 2015 9:05 am

Hello, MissKitty49,

I would still do the 13 day bath (because you can still have negativity on you).

This is what I tell my clients: If you haven not bathed yourself in a year, and then wear perfume, you will still smell bad.

So, a 13 day bath would wash away any negativity that is on you and then your spells may work better. www.herb-magic.com/13herb-bath-13.html

Then, use protection spells on yourself: www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

And then do something to that piece of work that keeps slandering you: www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

OR......

Revenge! www.luckymojo.com/revenge.html

I hope this helps.

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Unread post by misskitty49 » Sat Sep 26, 2015 12:58 pm

Thank you Miss Aida!

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Unread post by BellaLupa » Sat Sep 26, 2015 1:27 pm

I had to share this here just because it made me laugh SO hard... one of the orange Road Opener-dressed candles I've been using to heat up my honey jar melted down today into the MOST BLATANT UNAMBIGUOUS phallus shape I have ever seen rendered in wax. It's not even some generally suggestive phallus-shaped wax puddle... it's an anatomical-looking, uh, "at-attention" phallus, vertical even. Had I tried to SCULPT one, it wouldn't have looked that realistic. (I took a photo as evidence.)

I know that ceromancy readings aren't done here and I'm doing my own research for interpretations, but has anyone else ever had something similar when doing work like this on a male target? Did it portend something for you in particular?
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Unread post by ConjuringLove » Sat Sep 26, 2015 6:28 pm

Hi, BellaLupa!

UGhhh, I didn't think to take a picture! BUT, I just checked and I
still got it, though! My work was a chocolate jar though.

You ARE saying that it looks like a penis? Yes,
mine looks JUST like a penis it even has testicles...can I say that?
The first burn resulted in a heart shape. I figured that they were
GOOD signs. But I do wonder myself about it forming a penis with
testicles though. What could that possibly mean?

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Sat Sep 26, 2015 8:23 pm

Hi BellaLupa and ConjuringLove,

I would consider these good signs.

By the way, what is a chocolate jar?
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Unread post by gypsywitchxxx » Sun Sep 27, 2015 3:03 am

Thank you Miss Athena! So can I just switch the hot pink paper to green instead without having to dispose the graveyard dirt/vandal root that is already inside there? I had read that somewhere that Miss Cat had told someone that if she were doing the spell herself, she would've chosen the red or pink paper instead of green. I also wrote return to me in love on the paper with the vandal & graveyard dirt. Do I need to do it again with the green paper instead with only our names & birthdates written on it?Also, I'm currently working a red candle with his picture taped to the back so he can feel the heat from the flame, I'm using mostly reconciliation & dragons blood. I did however 5 spot the back of the picture with come to me, dragons blood, fmb, and adam & eve oils.

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Unread post by gypsywitchxxx » Sun Sep 27, 2015 3:07 am

Forgot to ask in my last post, Can I also add the vandal root & graveyard dirt to the inside of my red candle that I have going that has his picture taped to the back? I want to make it as powerful as I can :) Thanks

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Unread post by ConjuringLove » Sun Sep 27, 2015 9:04 am

Hi, Miss Athena,

A chocolate jar is another sweetening jar. I read somewhere on this forum
where someone used chocolate syrup instead of honey, I think because the target
did not like honey so she tried chocolate syrup. She said it worked very well.
So since my love likes chocolate, I thought I would try it.

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Unread post by gypsywitchxxx » Sun Sep 27, 2015 4:30 pm

Update: I noticed today that my red candle with his picture on the back I have going has developed some black soot over one of his eyes. Does this mean I am getting into his thoughts & the energy is manifesting already? I'm not doubting my work at all, I've just never seen this happen when burning a candle with a photo. I'm also using the green paper with the GD & vandal root as well.

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Unread post by MinervaBellezora » Sun Sep 27, 2015 7:23 pm

So, not too sure where to post this exactly, as my question and issue is multifold. A few months ago, my husband left me for our mutual girlfriend and her husband, (it was a poly relationship). The last few years between the three of us had been fraught with disagreements and lies, instigated mostly by the girlfriend. After he left I sought counseling for what I was told (by her) were anger management issues and found out that what the girlfriend had put my husband and I through was narcissistic abuse and when I stopped playing along with her games and started calling her on her BS, convinced my husband that I was being petty, selfish, and abusive in asking that their relationship come to an end and demanded he leave me. Since his departure, the girlfriend has left threatening notes on my door, attempted to get me fired from my job (I now have a new one at a place they know nothing of), and is spreading lies about me to our mutual friends, which is costing him their friendships.

I started a honey jar spell over a month ago for my husband and myself to help soothe and heal our relationship, and that seems to be working as his temperament towards me has gone from nasty to civil and I can see the improvements there with our conversations. After some divinations, I am also working an Adam and Eve spell to help bring him back. My problem, however, is the girlfriend. She is increasingly controlling of him, gives him no privacy, and dictates how he lives his life, all the while under the guise that she is a "good soul that saved him." I'm trying to figure out a way to break the illusion that she puts up and try to reveal her true nature to him. The one thing about narcissistic abusers is that the majority of the time the victim doesn't see what the abuser is doing. I thought about doing a breakup bottle or candle but in my divination I was told that was not the course to take. I'm very concerned about my husband's well being in staying with this woman and want him to return home to me but I know any overt action or anything I say as of right now will be disregarded as she has a pretty firm grip on him right now. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I can do or should I allow what I have currently in progress run it's course? Thank you for your help, I appreciate it greatly.

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sun Sep 27, 2015 8:41 pm

Hello, ConjuringLove,

I was picturing a chocolate container (like those BIG Chocolate Easter bunnies that are hollow inside)!! LOL!!!

I had no idea what you were taking about

Thanks for clarifying!!

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sun Sep 27, 2015 8:43 pm

Hello, gypsywitchxxx ,

It depends on the ultimate outcome of what happens to the picture when the spell is complete

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sun Sep 27, 2015 8:45 pm

Hello, MinervaBellezora,

Without break up work, then all I can suggest is that you continue what you are doing.

Also, look at this page for more ideas: www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

You may also want to perform a clarity skull candle spell on him: www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
And tell the skull candle what she is doing to him.

Personally, I would do everything INCLUDING the break up (but hat's just me)

Wishing you the very best

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Unread post by MinervaBellezora » Mon Sep 28, 2015 12:09 am

Hello Miss Aida,

Thank you so much for your feedback, I appreciate it greatly. I shall do as you suggest with the clarity skull candle and will do a re-consult about the breakup spell. I was hesitant about doing the breakup because the divination said it wasn't the best course of action and the girlfriend is a practitioner as well. She is supposedly Wiccan, with a Norse bend, with some protections of her own going (I don't know the specifics) and I wasn't sure if the breakup would reflect back to me in a potentially negative way or not. If it won't, then that will be my next step as well.

Thank you again for your insight and wisdom,
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Unread post by Miss Aida » Tue Sep 29, 2015 8:31 pm

Hello, MinervaBellezora,

The please do what your heart (and Spirit) tells you to.

Wising you the very best
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Unread post by Innocence » Thu Oct 01, 2015 9:00 am

I am ready to make a reconciliation honey jar for my ex tomorrow and would like to use the love herb mixture in it, and of course I have to add a pair of balm of Gilead. So that's 9 herbs + one herb + one personal concern = 11 items in the petition packet. Is that too much or Should I even add two more herbs to make the number 13? Also is this simple repetition of "Forgive me return to me" appropriate when we actually are still living together and sharing the same bed?

Reason: Talked to my ex this evening he already forgave me! So I no longer need a reconciliation honey jar.

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Unread post by Babygirl47 » Thu Oct 01, 2015 5:47 pm

Hello i did a vinegar jar break up jar i had everything in it except 2 nails i didnt have and once i shook it and lighted the candle the bottle busted at the bottom what should i do

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Thu Oct 01, 2015 8:21 pm

Hi Babygirl47,

Welcome to the forum! When you get a chance (and assuming you wish to), please introduce yourself in the Introductions thread.

I'm sorry this happened. You will need to deploy that bottle in a ritual fashion and start a new one. Just collect everything you need ahead of time to make sure you don't leave anything else out.

Good luck.
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Unread post by Babygirl47 » Fri Oct 02, 2015 2:38 pm

Hi I did a 7 break up candle and 7 day love candle but it seems like my situation with my husband is getting worse he is still living with this lady and wants to come get his cloths tomorrow

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sat Oct 03, 2015 7:08 pm

Hello, Babygirl47,

I am so sorry.

Please remember that spells take time to work.

I would encourage you to perform a break up spell: www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

In the middle lower right hand side of the page, there is a great moving candle spell that moves him away from her and toward you

Wishing you the very best

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Unread post by chocl8 » Sun Oct 04, 2015 9:46 am

About a month ago I started working my honey jar again after my boyfriend father of my child decides to pull away again. It took 2 weeks before he starts to call and text me about bs that he could have figured out on his own. On the 2nd week I had a separation candle burned to separate him from the new girl and I had been doing the feces trick, the pear trick and the rolled cigarette trick. On the third week which is this past Monday he calls to ask if I miss him then we talk for 2 hrs or so. He pretty much tells me that he does love me and it isn't that he don't want to be with me but he just needed to have some time to think and see other women. He then says he ready to settle down.

Skipping pass the rest of the convo he comes to see me amd he spends the night 2 days in a row. FF to friday he is quiet again so I ask him why has been so quiet. He tells me he loves me but he needs to think. So i know exactly what coming next. He calls me on Saturday we talk again. After we get of the phone he sends a text saying I just want to see you happy.

It seem I have a set back. Im getting a little frustrated now thinking i was almost at the finished line. I don't know what changed because he's not going to tell me and im blocked from his facebook page.

I have decided to have a blockbuster, return to me and follow me boy run. I am thinking once I get him back then i will have a stay
With me burned.

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Sun Oct 04, 2015 5:39 pm

Hi choc18,

Sometimes we do experience setbacks on our way to success, so don't be distressed too much. You have a good plan, so keep doing the work.

Good luck.
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Unread post by oshun auset » Tue Oct 06, 2015 11:20 pm

Okay,I really need help getting my ex/children father back we have been apart for 2years he lives in Atlanta I live in SC he comes to see me at least once a month and we still have sex I have underwear and several of his belongings we are not together because of his family they don't like me but he still loves me my children are suffering because of this I also have no support system his family takes nothing to do with my chidren.and his mother,father and sister were instrumental in the break up someone please help he is coming next we.oh what I want out of this is for him to come back home or for us to move to Atlanta

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Wed Oct 07, 2015 4:28 pm

Hello, oshun auset,

Welcome to the forum!

If you get a chance and wish to do so, please introduce yourself on the introduction thread.

You would start with reconciliation: www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

And here are many more love spells: www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

You have terrific personal belongings and can use them in the spells that represent him. And even consider making a love poppet.

Wishing you the very best

I pray that he comes back to you
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Unread post by Neon » Fri Oct 09, 2015 9:42 am

Hello everyone,
I am heart broken, I fell in love with a fellow girl, we have been together for 3 months, I have been there for her from sickness, hospital to her family issues. Now gradually she started slipping away to the point that she moved out of my house 2 weeks ago, but she texts me to see how am doing sometimes,to the point of asking me to leave her alone, I love her so much, am miserable, my heart is broken, she has called me all sorts of names and threatens to call the police if I show up in her house, I miss her a lot, I don't know how we got here. She is very heady and strong hearted.
Please I want her love and for her to come back begging. please help

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Fri Oct 09, 2015 7:54 pm

Hello, Nwaosy,

Welcome to the forum.

I am so sorry that this happened.

But, what is she doing to you? It seems like one minute she's asking how you are doing and the next minute she's threatening you.

This doesn't make any sense.

You might want to start FIRST with a Cast Off Evil Spell: www.luckymojo.com/spell-cast-off-evil.html

Just to get rid of whatever is causing her to behave so erratically. Then, a tranquility skull candle spell: www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html

After those spells, then work with reconciliation: www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Wishing you the very best

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Unread post by Neon » Sat Oct 10, 2015 7:48 am

Miss Aida,
Thank you for your time and reply, I really do appreciate you.
Yesterday I ordered a tranquility candle with missionary independent, do I still go ahead with the ones you mentioned?
IT's really hard to sleep, we have always been together and was really happy. Please I want her back like yesterday, please tell me a very fast acting spell to have her back. I am miserable.
Thank you again

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Unread post by Neon » Sat Oct 10, 2015 4:46 pm

Thank you Miss Aida,
I ordered an intraquility candle from the missionary independent. What else can I do to bring her back. Am miserable, What is fast working or faster acting.
Please help me.
Thank you

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Unread post by Neon » Sun Oct 11, 2015 9:18 pm

Please someone help me with some really good advice.
Thank you

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Mon Oct 12, 2015 6:42 am

Hello, nwaosy ,

Yes, you still go ahead with the ones I mentioned.

One step at a time and be patient.

Also, please do not post again after your question to ask that we answer you.

If we don't answer immediately, we will still answer you.

Wishing you great success

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Unread post by TGCA1985 » Mon Oct 12, 2015 1:42 pm

So my ex and I agreed that I could visit him for a few days. He was suppose to get back to me with the date I should come visit and he didn't. I. Believe he might be getting cold feet so I called and text him this morning and he has not respond which is so not like him so I think I'm going to burn a pink jumbo 5 r 7 day candle.


I'm thinking to write his name only and write my wish on a White paper in red ink and put it under the candle holder.

Is that OK or should I write both our names and use the wish paper or do you recommend I do

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Unread post by kittenmittens » Tue Oct 13, 2015 9:00 am

I've known this guy online for about a year. He expressed interest early on but I was hesitant early on due to long distance.

Fast forward to this June and he finally won me over. We were making plans to meet in December over the holidays.

This weekend he completely ignored me until I confronted him today and asked him to be honest. He said he feels like I'm not getting what I want from the relationship because he's always so busy and doesn't want to be with me. He said he feels so bad about it.

I don't like that he made the decision because I was fine but he said he can't make time. I told him I was happy and really liked him and that's all that should matter if we both like each other. I asked if he really doesn't like me or he's trying to be the nice guy. I said I would still be friends with him. He really is a good person. He hasn't responded as of yet but he's at work so it could take up to a couple hours for a response.

I want to make it work. There's tons of great kits on here but I dont know what to choose. It'll be harder because right now I have nothing of his to add to any spells so I'm going to need something strong and kick butt to make it work.

Any suggestions would be fantastic and really appreciated!

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Unread post by gypsywitchxxx » Tue Oct 13, 2015 5:45 pm

Honestly It's more about your true intent & how forceful you are with sending out that energy on whatever it is you're wanting to achieve. Personal concers are great & all but sometimes they can't be attained, just the nature of the beast in this art. Think positive like it is already happening & you'll be suprised at how fast that helps the magic along.

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Tue Oct 13, 2015 7:14 pm

Hello, TGCA1985 ,

Write his name and cross it with your wish

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Tue Oct 13, 2015 7:19 pm

Hello, Kittenmittens,

Welcome to the forum!

If you get a chance 9and wish to do so) please introduce yourself on the introduction thread.

You said: ".........so I'm going to need something strong and kick butt to make it work".

Here is the answer:

www.luckymojo.com/spell-come-to-me.html

If you have his pictures and his name and birthdate, that's fine. You can just use one of the three that I had mentioned but, the spell may be weaker. The more you have, the stronger the spell.

Wishing you the very best with this
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Unread post by TGCA1985 » Tue Oct 13, 2015 9:01 pm

OK Ms Aida

I understand it recommendation for the wish paper. But wat about the candle, do I write his name only or both of our names??

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Unread post by kittenmittens » Wed Oct 14, 2015 1:44 am

Thanks Miss Aida!

I will introduce myself as soon as I get the chance :)

I have all of those things so I'm definitely going to give it a go. Do you recommend just that or is there anything else I should pair it with to give it some more oomph? Then again I suppose I could always start with that and go from there :)

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Unread post by SCasas » Wed Oct 14, 2015 7:58 am

Hello all im new to the group i have a bit of a problem an need help. My situation is my wife an i have been married for almost 2 years. Weve hit a rough patch an now are separated... i hate it the problem is she doesn't want to talk to me she's ignoring me an she's talking about divorce... what can i do to win her back?

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