I'd like to share an experience I had.. Please excuse my shoddy english because my head's a little foggy from lack of sleep at the moment
I sleep with my mojo under my pillow every night, and wear it in my bra when I get up.
Once, I woke up late for work, and in my rush to leave, left my mojo lying forgotten under my pillow..
I have a live-in domestic helper (which, on a side-note, is quite common in the country I live in) who cleans up my room and does all the things like fluff up my pillows and re-making my bed.. So, remembering the "rule" that NO ONE should touch your mojo, I panicked. Being unable to stop her from finding it, I felt helpless and miserable (I mean, I couldn't exactly ring her up and tell her not to touch my bed, could I?) and just waited to go home to see what I could salvage from my dead toby.
I feel that I have a strong connection to my mojo in that I can sense it's emotions and needs, so when I finally got home (to find it neatly placed on my bedside table), I felt that it was weak, but not dead.
I burnt a red candle (the mojo is for love) anointed with a mix of the usual oils I feed it, settled the mojo in front of it, and reaffirmed what I'd always wanted it to do. I pierced my finger with a needle (not too deeply, though!) to draw blood, and dabbed a drop onto the mojo, telling it that it was bound to me now that I'd "sealed" it with my blood, and that no one else but me would ever be able to affect it.
I'm ashamed to admit it, but I'd accidentally left it at home about 2 more times, and am sure that it was touched by my helper. It's energy doesn't appear to be in any way changed, and it's as strong as ever.
I personally view this whole “if anyone touches it, it's dead” thing as more of a tradition than it is a set-in-stone rule, so this might also play a role in the “invulnerability” (lol!) of my mojo..
.. However, I'm still really careful to make sure my boyfriend doesn't touch it, just in case, since it's working on him, and I have his (hard-earned) nature tied up in it
So, that's my story! Sorry for the long post, and let me know what you guys think of it
Have a great day!