hey

so Ive read through your story, and congrats on the great work you have done!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this thread actually gave me a few ideas myself lol, you have gotten GREAT advice from very respected people on this forum, and you are using the best products you can, there is just one theme Ive noticed, and that is that you have been doing "love" work, and yea from what you say I can tell he loves you, but I havent seen much of passion work in what you wrote (you may have done this and not wrote about it, im just going with what I have read

) and hey, from a guys point of view, what mary said is GREAT advice, about leaving him alone at times, this is my guys point of view, just trying ta give you what I have experienced in my life, I hope this helps but im not saying to use me as a example :p cause we all are different, but from my experiences with dating ( im 25 btw) every single time Ive dated a girl that became all about me, tried her hardest to please me, did everything for me, I got bored, I lost interest, there was no "chase" no "work" to be done to gain affection, passion, desire, maybe im just a jacked up individual, but of all the girls Ive dated, the only ones Ive fallen head over heals with, were the ones who made me "work" for it, didnt act like things got to them, wasnt jealous, if I was in a dif country wouldnt be nagging me about who I was with and what I was doing and all that jazz.
hey I dont know ur relationship with this man, and he seems older than me and ive noticed with age things change, I used ta go for a girl with only a pretty face and body but since i was younger Ive changed a lot and started to look for more, basically I guess I just wanna tell you, dont stress over every detail so much, the more forceful you are, the more we resist

its in our genes, kinda like tug of war, its not as much fun if you just go up to the rope and pull them in, yea its rewarding, but we like some sort of a struggle, some feeling of achievement when we are done, think of it this way, if someone gave you 1 million dollars, would you respect it as much as much as if you had to bust your ass for a year to make the same amount?
hey ur on the right track, I wanted ta give you some male insight, like I said we are all different so dont look into much about everything i said, use ur gut about him and who he is, like everyone has said about his depression, healing can go a LONG way... and ur in the right community witht he best products to do the work you need
