Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello, msklee ,
St Martha and the divorce candle.
Please keep us posted on the progress
Take care
St Martha and the divorce candle.
Please keep us posted on the progress
Take care
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello,
I searched the forums and couldn't seem to find what I am looking for, so I am asking. Please excuse if this has been answered already.
My lover and I have been together for two years, he is good to my kids but he is a hard drug addict. I was praying that our love would help him find his way away from the addiction. That being said, it hasn't, and I can't anymore, my spirit and heart cannot take this anymore. Last night we got in a huge fight and he grabbed me, pushed me against a wall and spit in my face. Sorry to put that on here, I hate sharing badness but I figure this would be the best way to get some help.
I want a clean break from him. I told him last night we are done. I want the strength to remain done. I am sure I am strong enough. However, we live 50 yards from each other. I will see him every day and I will watch him dying from his addiction. My heart will want to feed him, help him, care for him. I can't do it anymore. I have to stay strong enough to not.
I don't want him hurt or cross him in anyway. In all reality, I want him to get clean, to live, and be happy. However, I want to be strong enough to not try and help him when I see him dying.
I feel like this is a ridiculous post but I am asking for help. Any thoughts would be great.
I appreciate your help and wish you all happiness.
I searched the forums and couldn't seem to find what I am looking for, so I am asking. Please excuse if this has been answered already.
My lover and I have been together for two years, he is good to my kids but he is a hard drug addict. I was praying that our love would help him find his way away from the addiction. That being said, it hasn't, and I can't anymore, my spirit and heart cannot take this anymore. Last night we got in a huge fight and he grabbed me, pushed me against a wall and spit in my face. Sorry to put that on here, I hate sharing badness but I figure this would be the best way to get some help.
I want a clean break from him. I told him last night we are done. I want the strength to remain done. I am sure I am strong enough. However, we live 50 yards from each other. I will see him every day and I will watch him dying from his addiction. My heart will want to feed him, help him, care for him. I can't do it anymore. I have to stay strong enough to not.
I don't want him hurt or cross him in anyway. In all reality, I want him to get clean, to live, and be happy. However, I want to be strong enough to not try and help him when I see him dying.
I feel like this is a ridiculous post but I am asking for help. Any thoughts would be great.
I appreciate your help and wish you all happiness.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello mistycrow,
Your post is not rediculous at all. I am sorry you are experiencing this. It is always hard to see people we care about make terrible choices or not be able to break free of addictions.
I would recommend some Cut and Clear work (http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html) to help you emotionally separate form this. In some cases this kind of work will cut all emotional feelings but in your case I have a feeling you will still feel for this person but I believe this kind of work will help you have enough emotional distance to not keep getting caught back up in the relationship. I believe this is important in particular here because it sounds like his addictions are turning him into an abusive person and you need to look out for your own safety as well. I am glad to hear that you are not living in the same houe. Another thing you can do is do some Blessing and maybe Healing work on him. (http://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html) (http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html)
I know this may seem slightly counter intuitive with the Cut and Clear as you will in a way be investing some energy back into him but I feel like you will have a hard time not doing anything to try and help and this will allow you to do something for him without needing to engage with him directly. Don't even tell him you are doing it. Honestly I would keep this really simple. Just anointing a white candle with Blessing and or Healing oil and lighting with a little prayer for him once a month or once a week, whatever works well for you.
Now alongside this work I would recommend finding a therapist of some sort to help you sort through your feelings and emotions around this. Magic is not a replacement for for these things but more of an aid for these kinds of things and a good therapist will be able to give you good coping skills to help with the emotions around letting a person you care about make poor choices.
Wishing you the best.
Nathen
Your post is not rediculous at all. I am sorry you are experiencing this. It is always hard to see people we care about make terrible choices or not be able to break free of addictions.
I would recommend some Cut and Clear work (http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html) to help you emotionally separate form this. In some cases this kind of work will cut all emotional feelings but in your case I have a feeling you will still feel for this person but I believe this kind of work will help you have enough emotional distance to not keep getting caught back up in the relationship. I believe this is important in particular here because it sounds like his addictions are turning him into an abusive person and you need to look out for your own safety as well. I am glad to hear that you are not living in the same houe. Another thing you can do is do some Blessing and maybe Healing work on him. (http://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html) (http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html)
I know this may seem slightly counter intuitive with the Cut and Clear as you will in a way be investing some energy back into him but I feel like you will have a hard time not doing anything to try and help and this will allow you to do something for him without needing to engage with him directly. Don't even tell him you are doing it. Honestly I would keep this really simple. Just anointing a white candle with Blessing and or Healing oil and lighting with a little prayer for him once a month or once a week, whatever works well for you.
Now alongside this work I would recommend finding a therapist of some sort to help you sort through your feelings and emotions around this. Magic is not a replacement for for these things but more of an aid for these kinds of things and a good therapist will be able to give you good coping skills to help with the emotions around letting a person you care about make poor choices.
Wishing you the best.
Nathen
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Thank you very much for your advice and words.
I will head over to LM this afternoon and pick up some stuff needed.
I do not think it is counter intuitive at all. The reality is I need strength to not help him but I would be overjoyed to send him healing and blessings. I don't plan on telling him anything, we will not speak.
I cannot express my gratitude for your response enough.
I will head over to LM this afternoon and pick up some stuff needed.
I do not think it is counter intuitive at all. The reality is I need strength to not help him but I would be overjoyed to send him healing and blessings. I don't plan on telling him anything, we will not speak.
I cannot express my gratitude for your response enough.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
I have one more questions.
While reading the Clear Cut spell, it says to take the black walnuts to the crossroads, there are no cross roads around me (and I want to put it even further). However, I do live next to two rivers, could I take the walnuts and wash them away at the river - never to mention them again?
Thank you again
While reading the Clear Cut spell, it says to take the black walnuts to the crossroads, there are no cross roads around me (and I want to put it even further). However, I do live next to two rivers, could I take the walnuts and wash them away at the river - never to mention them again?
Thank you again
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hi mistycrow,
It always astounds me when I hear people say there are no crossroads around them. We all live in locations where roads intersect, and if not near us then certainly within a short enough distance to make access possible.
Even if you have to walk or drive a little ways away, you will likely find a crossroad. I would stick to what the spell kit advises, and use crossroads for this purpose.
Good luck.
It always astounds me when I hear people say there are no crossroads around them. We all live in locations where roads intersect, and if not near us then certainly within a short enough distance to make access possible.
Even if you have to walk or drive a little ways away, you will likely find a crossroad. I would stick to what the spell kit advises, and use crossroads for this purpose.
Good luck.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Thank you Miss Athena,
I live in Cloverdale, a very rural area, there are plenty of tee roads but I can't seem to think of one crossroad. That being said, you are probably right and I will drive around this week until I find one... far away from my home and one I do not cross often.
Thank you for your answer and have a wonderful day.
I live in Cloverdale, a very rural area, there are plenty of tee roads but I can't seem to think of one crossroad. That being said, you are probably right and I will drive around this week until I find one... far away from my home and one I do not cross often.
Thank you for your answer and have a wonderful day.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
I looked through all the pages here and didn't see an exact direction to go...
My BFs ex-wife is definitely over him, she is disgusted by him (she lost weight he didnt) and presumably got bored. She is hellbent to do her "indepent-single-mom-who-does-it-all-without-a-man" ACT, which is not even true. It's like she's trying to prove how competent she is to the world, but we know better... They had and have a volatile relationship (like instant argument every time they talk, and he puts her on speakerphone all the time, so I know it) a big factor for him was that she refused pretty much ANY sex at all... I believe him particularly because his daughters birthday is 9 months after valentines, that is when everyone gives in. But he has told me that he would get back with her for the sake of his kids... I don't have children so it is ludicrous to me. He claims he never cheated on her, but who can really know. I want to believe him. She spent them into mega-money problems and cheated on him too.
I need to do a spell to cut or banish the emotional bond they/he, has/had. They have to see each other because of the kids, but I don't want him holding out, even in the back of his mind, for them to get back together, it is very disrespectful to me and makes me furious that he is being so pathetic when I clearly love him most.
I just placed an order here on LM but I did not get the cut and clear, I kind of wish I had now. I can do any spell, but it needs to be something I perform, he can't know what I do. I certainly don't want him to get any big ideas to do magic, well, now that he is not 100% in my circle of trust... I want to do this so we ALL have peace of mind (me, her, him and the kids). Would banishing oil possibly be effective? I just don't want any negative energy intercepting me and him... I want him to feel untied from her, I don't want to create more fighting or calm them, just make him not feel any emotion toward her. I could bring a dressed candle to his house and burn it while we eat dinner and go into the bedroom... as "mood-lighting"... but more like a non-carved, only oil dressed taper or tealight... I could very probably get him to light it as well.
Also, I'm living at my moms because we broke up temporarily but are back together, just not to the level I want (1-2x per week and no sleepover)... are there and specific spells or oils to use to make someone ask you to move in/back in with them? I did not find an answer for that either... or do I just keep at him with my love oils, I have commanding and domination. I feel that follow me boy oil has been super effective. I love this stuff! I ordered I dominate my man oil... I have like almost 40 oils at this point, I seriously want to take the course here. Move in with me oil would be super ideal!!
I started reconciliation/return to me from day 1.5 of this fiasco on April 21st, it's still baby steps, but I'm in it for the long haul... I have A LOT of stuff going on for him. I want to post it all, but once I am officially living with him again. I was able to get literally EVERY personal concern of his but the length of string (I have naughty tissues though) I obtained his blood on a napkin "helping" to wipe off his new tattoo... that's a good and super stealth one to remember... I'm hoping to get the string next week.
Thank you Miss Aida in advance
You always answer my super long questions.
My BFs ex-wife is definitely over him, she is disgusted by him (she lost weight he didnt) and presumably got bored. She is hellbent to do her "indepent-single-mom-who-does-it-all-without-a-man" ACT, which is not even true. It's like she's trying to prove how competent she is to the world, but we know better... They had and have a volatile relationship (like instant argument every time they talk, and he puts her on speakerphone all the time, so I know it) a big factor for him was that she refused pretty much ANY sex at all... I believe him particularly because his daughters birthday is 9 months after valentines, that is when everyone gives in. But he has told me that he would get back with her for the sake of his kids... I don't have children so it is ludicrous to me. He claims he never cheated on her, but who can really know. I want to believe him. She spent them into mega-money problems and cheated on him too.
I need to do a spell to cut or banish the emotional bond they/he, has/had. They have to see each other because of the kids, but I don't want him holding out, even in the back of his mind, for them to get back together, it is very disrespectful to me and makes me furious that he is being so pathetic when I clearly love him most.
I just placed an order here on LM but I did not get the cut and clear, I kind of wish I had now. I can do any spell, but it needs to be something I perform, he can't know what I do. I certainly don't want him to get any big ideas to do magic, well, now that he is not 100% in my circle of trust... I want to do this so we ALL have peace of mind (me, her, him and the kids). Would banishing oil possibly be effective? I just don't want any negative energy intercepting me and him... I want him to feel untied from her, I don't want to create more fighting or calm them, just make him not feel any emotion toward her. I could bring a dressed candle to his house and burn it while we eat dinner and go into the bedroom... as "mood-lighting"... but more like a non-carved, only oil dressed taper or tealight... I could very probably get him to light it as well.
Also, I'm living at my moms because we broke up temporarily but are back together, just not to the level I want (1-2x per week and no sleepover)... are there and specific spells or oils to use to make someone ask you to move in/back in with them? I did not find an answer for that either... or do I just keep at him with my love oils, I have commanding and domination. I feel that follow me boy oil has been super effective. I love this stuff! I ordered I dominate my man oil... I have like almost 40 oils at this point, I seriously want to take the course here. Move in with me oil would be super ideal!!
I started reconciliation/return to me from day 1.5 of this fiasco on April 21st, it's still baby steps, but I'm in it for the long haul... I have A LOT of stuff going on for him. I want to post it all, but once I am officially living with him again. I was able to get literally EVERY personal concern of his but the length of string (I have naughty tissues though) I obtained his blood on a napkin "helping" to wipe off his new tattoo... that's a good and super stealth one to remember... I'm hoping to get the string next week.
Thank you Miss Aida in advance

Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello, cinnamongirl9,
First of all, keep a vinegar jar going on them at all times. After a couple of months, deploy the jar and start another one. Vinegar jars will also cause arguments and distaste. I always put war water inside of mine also http://www.luckymojo.com/warwater.html.
The cut and clear by proxy (which means that you are doing it for someone else) is a little harder to perform. Your best bet is to have MISC do at least a run of 3 while you work your vinegar jar
You say that you are working in "baby steps" (which I prefer). So, your first step would be: Stay With Me: http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
Then, continue your other work.
Yes, it's a long haul but, the baby steps is a strategic way of planning and doing your spell work and has a much better chance of success
Wishing you the best and please keep us posted
take care
First of all, keep a vinegar jar going on them at all times. After a couple of months, deploy the jar and start another one. Vinegar jars will also cause arguments and distaste. I always put war water inside of mine also http://www.luckymojo.com/warwater.html.
The cut and clear by proxy (which means that you are doing it for someone else) is a little harder to perform. Your best bet is to have MISC do at least a run of 3 while you work your vinegar jar
You say that you are working in "baby steps" (which I prefer). So, your first step would be: Stay With Me: http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
Then, continue your other work.
Yes, it's a long haul but, the baby steps is a strategic way of planning and doing your spell work and has a much better chance of success
Wishing you the best and please keep us posted
take care
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Thanks for the reply. I need to reaearch the vinegar jar, it's not something I've done yet.. im confused by what you mean here
"Your best bet is to have MISC do at least a run of 3 while I work the vinegar jar"
I pretty much do everything myself...
As far as the mundane goes, it's mostly down to me behaving myself (the break up was really my fault, I'm annoyed to admit that, but it's true) and get a new job so I can help with the bills. I have a honey jar and bound babies among other things... it will be a crazy long post when I do get to writing out all that I'm doing.
"Your best bet is to have MISC do at least a run of 3 while I work the vinegar jar"
I pretty much do everything myself...
As far as the mundane goes, it's mostly down to me behaving myself (the break up was really my fault, I'm annoyed to admit that, but it's true) and get a new job so I can help with the bills. I have a honey jar and bound babies among other things... it will be a crazy long post when I do get to writing out all that I'm doing.
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello, cinnamongirl9 ,
We will be ore than happy to read your progress. But, please, no: "Crazy long posts".
Since you do all the work yourself, I personally prefer that you put your concentration on the break up. Then, later (if needed) do the cut and clear. But don't do both at the same time yourself.
Wishing you Great success with your spell work.
take care
We will be ore than happy to read your progress. But, please, no: "Crazy long posts".
Since you do all the work yourself, I personally prefer that you put your concentration on the break up. Then, later (if needed) do the cut and clear. But don't do both at the same time yourself.
Wishing you Great success with your spell work.
take care
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello I have been trying to end my current relationship but he gets really anxious and depressed so I feel bad about it and don't know how to do it without making him suffer, we have a child together, so I would like to end the relationship in a peaceful way, from what I have read so far, separation is what I should use but I'm not sure what type of spell I should use, I would like to avoid candles if possible. Thanks.
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello, lilyf ,
Unfortunately, there is no quick spell.
You could certainly try using powders: www.luckymojo.com/powders.html
www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html
You might also want to try bringing a girlfriend to him with attraction spells.
here's a page on love spells (that include attraction): www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
Otherwise, the spells listed here are the best we can suggest
take care and wishing you the best
Unfortunately, there is no quick spell.
You could certainly try using powders: www.luckymojo.com/powders.html
www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html
You might also want to try bringing a girlfriend to him with attraction spells.
here's a page on love spells (that include attraction): www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
Otherwise, the spells listed here are the best we can suggest
take care and wishing you the best
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Thanks Miss Aida... I'll try to keep it to the point haha! I just ordered some coffin nails and I will continue to gather the vinegar jar ingredients. I'm kicking myself for not taking some of the ex's clothing when we were at their old house, no one would have noticed!
I have read in a few places that people keep the jars wrapped up a few times in case the jar explodes from built up gas pressure. Would it be ok to just for a second, periodically crack the jar, not removing the lid, just to let possible pressure escape? Or would using a corked jar be a better idea? Maybe it wouldn't build up?
I have read in a few places that people keep the jars wrapped up a few times in case the jar explodes from built up gas pressure. Would it be ok to just for a second, periodically crack the jar, not removing the lid, just to let possible pressure escape? Or would using a corked jar be a better idea? Maybe it wouldn't build up?
- So far I have my list to add
*his and her hair (for him ill make a little packet out of his underwear then put his hair, semen and blood papers in there)
*vinegar (I have read that people use oil as well to simulate the separation)
*9 each: pins, needles and the rusty coffin nails
*Red pepper flakes and whole red pepper pods
*LM hot foot & LM breakup powders (I don't want to use Goofer...I don't want this woman to get sick etc., because then the children could potentially end up living with me and him all the time, so she needs to stay healthy and productive on her OWN and continue thinking he is useless, disgusting etc... and obviously I want my bf to stay healthy.)
*Cat & Dog hair
*sulfur... I read to add that, I don't know if it interacts with the vinegar, but better safe to double check.
*black separation candle to burn on it... I read to hack it apart with a cleaver after it burns, I can do that
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hey cinnamongirl9,
In order to keep this thread on topic, I'm going to recommend that since you have quite a few questions about vinegar jars, you should visit the thread about vinegar jars: general-vinegar-jar-questions-and-answers-t5581.html
There are 47(!) pages of information there, so take a look through all that and see if your questions have already been answered.
Here is a useful page about Four Thieves Vinegar that contains a sample vinegar jar spell: http://www.luckymojo.com/fourthievesvinegar.html.
If after all that you still have questions, feel free to post in the vinegar jar thread and we'll answer you.
Good luck!
In order to keep this thread on topic, I'm going to recommend that since you have quite a few questions about vinegar jars, you should visit the thread about vinegar jars: general-vinegar-jar-questions-and-answers-t5581.html
There are 47(!) pages of information there, so take a look through all that and see if your questions have already been answered.
Here is a useful page about Four Thieves Vinegar that contains a sample vinegar jar spell: http://www.luckymojo.com/fourthievesvinegar.html.
If after all that you still have questions, feel free to post in the vinegar jar thread and we'll answer you.
Good luck!
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Ok I will do that... I have the HHRM book, honey jars, reconciliation and the black folder... I will refer to them as well. Yeah the Four Theives seems like something I need to consider. I'm going to have to place another order anyway, it seems. Thanks sisterjean : )
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
We've been off and on for 7 years now. Both have cheated and lied repeatedly. I haven't wanted to be with him for a long time, and there is someone else who is good enough that they won't be involved until I am single(they have no baring on my wanting to leave, that started years ago before we ever reconnected).
My biggest problems are that:
He is the father of my two children and has said he won't see them for a while if I left him.
He refuses to accept anyone I date being in our childrens' lives and he won't move on from me.
He recently did a 180 with his emotions and decided to be fully dedicated to me out of nowhere, when I now want nothing to do with the relationship.
I want him coerced into leaving the relationship himself, so it can be on mutual terms and we can both move on easier and with as little issue relating to the children as possible. I've done a couple candle and poppet rituals for us to separate but remain civil, but I don't know if anything I've done will be strong enough considering how long we've been together.
My biggest problems are that:
He is the father of my two children and has said he won't see them for a while if I left him.
He refuses to accept anyone I date being in our childrens' lives and he won't move on from me.
He recently did a 180 with his emotions and decided to be fully dedicated to me out of nowhere, when I now want nothing to do with the relationship.
I want him coerced into leaving the relationship himself, so it can be on mutual terms and we can both move on easier and with as little issue relating to the children as possible. I've done a couple candle and poppet rituals for us to separate but remain civil, but I don't know if anything I've done will be strong enough considering how long we've been together.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello Tactickat,
I merged your post into a thread that deals with mutual or peaceful separations of couples. Look over this thread to see what people have done before as you will likley find just what you are looking for. If you have more specific questions about how to use a particular product or method just let us know!
Peace~
Nathen
I merged your post into a thread that deals with mutual or peaceful separations of couples. Look over this thread to see what people have done before as you will likley find just what you are looking for. If you have more specific questions about how to use a particular product or method just let us know!
Peace~
Nathen
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Would the vinegar bottle work for what I'm trying to do? He lives with me still and I was thinking to do that and maybe hot foot his work boots so he'll have it on him when he's out of the house.
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello, Tactickat ,
Good choices!!
Take care
Good choices!!
Take care
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Ok, um, update?
Did the vinegar jar yesterday while he was out. He came back late last night, but has just sent me a text that he'll be staying out tonight to give me space. He's been practically sewn to my side for two weeks, so this is a huge difference. I suppose it's already manifesting?
Did the vinegar jar yesterday while he was out. He came back late last night, but has just sent me a text that he'll be staying out tonight to give me space. He's been practically sewn to my side for two weeks, so this is a huge difference. I suppose it's already manifesting?
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It definitely seems like its already manifesting, looks like you did some good work here.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Here's to hoping my honey jar works as fast on my true love lol.
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Ok, this took a weird turn. Came home last night after work to find his book he writes his prayers in under a candle(it was a yellow candle I had made for my own use) lit on top of it. He had has written to his goddess diety to help make me love him more. So now this is a spell war it seems. I've added hot foot to all his shoes now and the vinegar jar is worked on nightly after he's asleep. But now I'll also be working a black candle anti love spell against him(photo, broken chain, and oil as well) to fight against whatever crap he's trying to pull back on me. There will be a clarifying and cleansing bath tonight as well.
Looks like I'll have to pour even more energy into this to get him to finally go away.
Looks like I'll have to pour even more energy into this to get him to finally go away.
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Hello Tactickat,
Maybe he's starting to feel that distance between the two of you and is trying to pull you back? Either way, it sounds like the work you're doing is excellent, keep it up.
Maybe he's starting to feel that distance between the two of you and is trying to pull you back? Either way, it sounds like the work you're doing is excellent, keep it up.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
I really hope so.He managed to call my true love and talk to him about the "true me" according to him...
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Oh wow, and I just saw that he has gone through my phone and deleted my loves number and all traces of communication we had. I'm prepared for battle at this point.
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Hello Tactickat,
Oh that would get under my skin, for sure. Can you password-protect your phone? I'd do that in addition to magical work. And if it hasn't been suggested yet, I would say using Separation oil on any candles you're burning for this situation. It can peacefully separate two people and is especially useful if children are involved.
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
And here is a thread with useful ideas on peaceful separation:
spell-to-separate-loved-one-from-bad-fr ... -t175.html
Good luck to you.
Oh that would get under my skin, for sure. Can you password-protect your phone? I'd do that in addition to magical work. And if it hasn't been suggested yet, I would say using Separation oil on any candles you're burning for this situation. It can peacefully separate two people and is especially useful if children are involved.
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
And here is a thread with useful ideas on peaceful separation:
spell-to-separate-loved-one-from-bad-fr ... -t175.html
Good luck to you.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Woo yeah I'll be using that at all times now. He claims that I'm forever bound to him by ancient magic that he's cast on me, and that I'll never have anyone but him in my life now. He's kind of gone super crazy now and I think it's him fighting his hardest against what's happening.
All he did was write on a piece of paper for me to love him and burned a yellow candle over it. He then showed it to me stating that I can't do anything about it now.
I'm remaining civil with him in person, but I'm still doing my work as strong as ever.
All he did was write on a piece of paper for me to love him and burned a yellow candle over it. He then showed it to me stating that I can't do anything about it now.
I'm remaining civil with him in person, but I'm still doing my work as strong as ever.
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello, Tactickat ,
Thousands of time in the past, people will perform a weak spell or no spell at all.
But, they will tell you that they did. And you know what happens?
Our minds wander from worrying and we believe it and we actually make it happen.
I am so VERY pleased that you are strong enough to realize that this is Bullshit. And very proud of you
Wishing you the best
take care
Thousands of time in the past, people will perform a weak spell or no spell at all.
But, they will tell you that they did. And you know what happens?
Our minds wander from worrying and we believe it and we actually make it happen.
I am so VERY pleased that you are strong enough to realize that this is Bullshit. And very proud of you
Wishing you the best
take care
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That means a lot to me. I actually went to my therapist yesterday with a recount of this last week(where he held an unloaded gun to his head and clicked it before showing me it had no bullets), and she has told me to build my case for custody at this point and that he now has no leg to stand on against me.
I feel that normal guilt that comes with "breaking up a family" and I'm keeping status quo at home while I do this for now, but at some point things have to end completely.
I feel that normal guilt that comes with "breaking up a family" and I'm keeping status quo at home while I do this for now, but at some point things have to end completely.
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
OMG, Tactickat,
I am so very sorry that you're going through this.
I'm so sorry.
I am so very sorry that you're going through this.
I'm so sorry.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Thank you for that. I have a decent support system and I'm spending this waxing moon to do some protection and healing work for myself and my kids.
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
So interesting bit of an update. He's continued to be vindictive and has tried hacking into all my online stuff, but his words have taken a 180 from last week. He's now sleeping on the couch by choice some nights and has started saying that he'll leave if he feels unwanted. This is the same guy who tried to bind me recently and said he's never leaving and that he's the only one who will ever love me.
I've done some heavy duty cleansing on myself and I've been adding some separation herbs to his food when I cook, as well. He seems to be slowly relenting to this now and I feel optimistic about how things are heading now.
I've done some heavy duty cleansing on myself and I've been adding some separation herbs to his food when I cook, as well. He seems to be slowly relenting to this now and I feel optimistic about how things are heading now.
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Hello, Tactickat ,
Keep up the TERRIFIC work!
Congrats!
Keep up the TERRIFIC work!
Congrats!
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Ok I apologize in advance bc this is a little complicated. I have posted in the general forum before with questions but not on this specific topic. I have been with my husband since 1992 ( married 1995). He has a history of emotional abuse , controlling behavior and depression that goes and comes. All of these negative things seem to come in cycles depending on how hes feeling about his career (physician).when he is happy hes great.
In 2000 (we lived in CA) he went into business with 2 colleagues and they bought a very expensive building to work in ( bad business advisors). He wound up splitting off from the group in 2002 and was legally indemnified against being responsible for the building .
In 2008 we started getting notices in AZ ( we moved here in 2004). summoning him for back rent on the building. Our lawyer said not to worry we are indemnified.
Well it has kept on happening and going up in the legal chain til the court system here finally was able to attach our wages. I have been having my wages garnished since October 2015. He is self employed so they haven't figured that out yet.
A lawyer here said it is community debt so I am responsible and only way we can get out of it we need to get divorced and I have to file personal bankruptcy. He has finally ( as of yesterday) agreed to get divorced "on paper" meaning we still live together and try to beat the system. Plus we have a 10 year old daughter so I need to minimize the trauma for her.
I need to know the most effective way to get him to cut his emotional bonds with me so he will be willing to move on once the divorce is final. and that it is all his idea ( ie hes not in love anymore)
I have the cut and clear kit ( bought awhile ago in case I was ever able to use it). I also have some separation and hotfoot supplies. Should I do a moving candle separation spell in conjunction with the cut and clear? how about court case jar? I want to do things in the right steps for maximum effectiveness.
Thank you!!
In 2000 (we lived in CA) he went into business with 2 colleagues and they bought a very expensive building to work in ( bad business advisors). He wound up splitting off from the group in 2002 and was legally indemnified against being responsible for the building .
In 2008 we started getting notices in AZ ( we moved here in 2004). summoning him for back rent on the building. Our lawyer said not to worry we are indemnified.
Well it has kept on happening and going up in the legal chain til the court system here finally was able to attach our wages. I have been having my wages garnished since October 2015. He is self employed so they haven't figured that out yet.
A lawyer here said it is community debt so I am responsible and only way we can get out of it we need to get divorced and I have to file personal bankruptcy. He has finally ( as of yesterday) agreed to get divorced "on paper" meaning we still live together and try to beat the system. Plus we have a 10 year old daughter so I need to minimize the trauma for her.
I need to know the most effective way to get him to cut his emotional bonds with me so he will be willing to move on once the divorce is final. and that it is all his idea ( ie hes not in love anymore)
I have the cut and clear kit ( bought awhile ago in case I was ever able to use it). I also have some separation and hotfoot supplies. Should I do a moving candle separation spell in conjunction with the cut and clear? how about court case jar? I want to do things in the right steps for maximum effectiveness.
Thank you!!
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Hello, Arielsdream ,
I m so very sorry that you have endured the emotional abuse and being the target of your husband's horrible behaviors. Ad so happy that you are getting out of it. Your ideas are perfect! Also, here is what SisterJean said in another post (which is EXCELLENT advice):
"...I would say using Separation oil on any candles you're burning for this situation. It can peacefully separate two people and is especially useful if children are involved.
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
And here is a thread with useful ideas on peaceful separation:
spell-to-separate-loved-one-from-bad-fr ... -t175.html...
Please take a look at the court case page for more ideas on how to handle this.
www.luckymojo.com/courtcase.html
But, I have question: Isn't the lawyer who gave you the wrong advice responsible for that? I would at least report him to the State bar Association for the hell he has caused you with his wrong advice.
Wishing you the very best
take care
I m so very sorry that you have endured the emotional abuse and being the target of your husband's horrible behaviors. Ad so happy that you are getting out of it. Your ideas are perfect! Also, here is what SisterJean said in another post (which is EXCELLENT advice):
"...I would say using Separation oil on any candles you're burning for this situation. It can peacefully separate two people and is especially useful if children are involved.
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
And here is a thread with useful ideas on peaceful separation:
spell-to-separate-loved-one-from-bad-fr ... -t175.html...
Please take a look at the court case page for more ideas on how to handle this.
www.luckymojo.com/courtcase.html
But, I have question: Isn't the lawyer who gave you the wrong advice responsible for that? I would at least report him to the State bar Association for the hell he has caused you with his wrong advice.
Wishing you the very best
take care
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
I'm doing some work for a friend of mine who wants to divorce her husband. They've been married 25 yrs, but she's never been happy. She was only 18 when they got married. The problem is he don't want the divorce and thinks she's just mad and trying to get attention. She been wanting a divorce for years but has stayed for the kids; however, she's ready to move on. She don't want to hurt him, and wants to remain friends because they have 4 kids together; 3 children still lives at home. She hasn't filed yet because she trying to convince him it's the best for both of them. Additionally, they can't afford to live in separate homes until their house sells, so they're still living together, but has separate bedrooms. What is a good trick to do to get him to accept the divorce, and move on. She's going to bury a St Joseph statue and preform that trick to sell her house. I thought she could do a honey jar after he's agreed to the divorce. I don't want to sweeten him up to her since she's so miserable with him. She don't want to give him any hope because she's determined to divorce and move on. Is there a good trick to help him see how unhappy she is and agree to let her go.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
I sent a question concern a situation that is very similar. I will try this for my friend. Thank you.
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello,Cool Beans ,
I really don't think that a honey jar is a good idea.
But, she could lay tricks around the house. Influence sachet powders would be helpful
www.luckymojo.com/infleunce.html
And you could perform the influence skull candle spell on that page (for her) at your home. That way, you are performing the actual spell and she is laying tricks of the same nature. You'd be doing it together.
I hope this helps
I wish your friend the very best outcome
Take care
I really don't think that a honey jar is a good idea.
But, she could lay tricks around the house. Influence sachet powders would be helpful
www.luckymojo.com/infleunce.html
And you could perform the influence skull candle spell on that page (for her) at your home. That way, you are performing the actual spell and she is laying tricks of the same nature. You'd be doing it together.
I hope this helps
I wish your friend the very best outcome
Take care
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
HI Devi
I'm trying to help a friend have a peaceful divorce from her husband. I was reading your reply above, and I'm wondering what is separation salt? Also, what do you mean when you say dress the bed sheets? I have separation powder. Do I have her sprinkle a little on his sheets?
I have figural candle, and plan to dress them with separation oil, tie 7 strings loosely around them and follow the rest of your instructions, but I plan to do the spell over 7 days instead of 14 because my figural candle are kind of small. Is 7 days okay?
Additionally, I have a white skull candle. I plan to write accept divorce, and dress it with influencing, and separation oil.
Should my friend dress the sheet before I start burning the candles?
Thanks for your help.
I'm trying to help a friend have a peaceful divorce from her husband. I was reading your reply above, and I'm wondering what is separation salt? Also, what do you mean when you say dress the bed sheets? I have separation powder. Do I have her sprinkle a little on his sheets?
I have figural candle, and plan to dress them with separation oil, tie 7 strings loosely around them and follow the rest of your instructions, but I plan to do the spell over 7 days instead of 14 because my figural candle are kind of small. Is 7 days okay?
Additionally, I have a white skull candle. I plan to write accept divorce, and dress it with influencing, and separation oil.
Should my friend dress the sheet before I start burning the candles?
Thanks for your help.
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello, Cool Beans ,
Devi has not been moderating on the forum for a very long time.
You may want to contact her through the AIRR webpage:
http://readersandrootworkers.org
Take care
Devi has not been moderating on the forum for a very long time.
You may want to contact her through the AIRR webpage:
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Take care
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Okay thanks.
Do you know what she means by dusting the bed sheets. I think it's just lightly covering the bed with separation and/or influencing oil.
Do you know what she means by dusting the bed sheets. I think it's just lightly covering the bed with separation and/or influencing oil.
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Hello Cool Beans,
You can't dust sheets with oil, it just doesn't work that way. Anytime you "dust" something you're talking about using a powder that relates to what you're trying to do. You can find all of Lucky Mojo's sachet powders here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatpowders.html
You can't dust sheets with oil, it just doesn't work that way. Anytime you "dust" something you're talking about using a powder that relates to what you're trying to do. You can find all of Lucky Mojo's sachet powders here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatpowders.html
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
This may have been posted and asked before so I apologize if this is a repeat...
I am doing a break up/separation jar for a client. This is the first time I am doing this for someone else so I have no ties to these people she is wanting to break up. She is wanting to break up an already hostile and unhealthy marriage so she can move on in there and snag this man. I don't want to destroy anyones life, but I want these people to part ways ammicably. Since this is for a client, where do I perform this working and keep the jar? I don't want to contaminate my main working altar (or would it if i gave it a thorough cleanse?), and I don't want to put it on the toilet cause I don't want their life to "go down the toilet" so to speak... just their relationship. I want to make sure this doesn't interfere with my life and I don't get my hands dirty most importantly. Also, should I take a hyssop bath after the working is completed or right after I start the working? Thanks so much guys!
I am doing a break up/separation jar for a client. This is the first time I am doing this for someone else so I have no ties to these people she is wanting to break up. She is wanting to break up an already hostile and unhealthy marriage so she can move on in there and snag this man. I don't want to destroy anyones life, but I want these people to part ways ammicably. Since this is for a client, where do I perform this working and keep the jar? I don't want to contaminate my main working altar (or would it if i gave it a thorough cleanse?), and I don't want to put it on the toilet cause I don't want their life to "go down the toilet" so to speak... just their relationship. I want to make sure this doesn't interfere with my life and I don't get my hands dirty most importantly. Also, should I take a hyssop bath after the working is completed or right after I start the working? Thanks so much guys!
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello, imtempel ,
I do these spells all the time.
I just use different altars for different types of work.
I usually have a different area for negative work. But, honestly? It should not affect anything.
I do spray my area with FLorida Water or Holy Water once I am finished and I do take a hyssop bath
Wishing you the best
take care
I do these spells all the time.
I just use different altars for different types of work.
I usually have a different area for negative work. But, honestly? It should not affect anything.
I do spray my area with FLorida Water or Holy Water once I am finished and I do take a hyssop bath
Wishing you the best
take care
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Thanks For clarifying Miss Aida! I was actually hoping that you in particular would respond to this as I 100% trust your judgements on these type of workings.
Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Thank you for your kind words, imtempel!!
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello everyone! I need some help. I am married and I am ready to leave the relationship. Every time I have a conversation with my husband about it, he gets upset, says he's going to plan his move but then the next day or so he will pretend like we never had the conversation. My last straw was when he started shoving me, grabbing me and cussing me out in front of our 8 year old. He also punched and broke a door. Told me he rather that than punch my face. Our son was hysterically crying the whole time. I want a peaceful separation for the sake of our son. I would like for us to eventually even be friends or at the very least friendly when it comes to co-parenting. He acts like he would be nothing without me and I am very scared of what his reaction will be when I finally take the legal steps towards divorce.
I went to this link: http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html but didn't see any information on separation products and spells.
I just need some guidance on how to properly execute a separation spell or use the separation products. I have already started collecting hair from him. I also would probably need something for courage and strength because honestly this is one of the hardest things I been through in life.
Thank you so much in advance.
I went to this link: http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html but didn't see any information on separation products and spells.
I just need some guidance on how to properly execute a separation spell or use the separation products. I have already started collecting hair from him. I also would probably need something for courage and strength because honestly this is one of the hardest things I been through in life.
Thank you so much in advance.
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Hello Delta Witch,
I'm so sorry you are dealing with all this
My first thought about this situation is it doesn't sound like you are safe in that house. If he is shoving you and saying he'd like to hit you in the face, that is flat-out abuse, and it sounds like things could get worse. From what you're saying, it sounds like you need to take immediate action to get you and your child out of that house and somewhere safe, or at least report him to the police. And if it were me, I wouldn't be gentle with this guy at all. But that's your call. If you are scared of him though, that's a huge sign.
For ideas on how to peacefully separate from someone, scroll up through this thread and read through the other posts (there are lots of posts that talk about those Separation products), and also check out this thread:
spell-to-separate-loved-one-from-bad-fr ... -t175.html
I would also get some protection up on you and your child, but I really hope you back that up with real-world action:
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
To give you the courage you need to get out of all this and act, look into Crucible of Courage products:
http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
Good luck to you, and stay safe.
I'm so sorry you are dealing with all this

My first thought about this situation is it doesn't sound like you are safe in that house. If he is shoving you and saying he'd like to hit you in the face, that is flat-out abuse, and it sounds like things could get worse. From what you're saying, it sounds like you need to take immediate action to get you and your child out of that house and somewhere safe, or at least report him to the police. And if it were me, I wouldn't be gentle with this guy at all. But that's your call. If you are scared of him though, that's a huge sign.
For ideas on how to peacefully separate from someone, scroll up through this thread and read through the other posts (there are lots of posts that talk about those Separation products), and also check out this thread:
spell-to-separate-loved-one-from-bad-fr ... -t175.html
I would also get some protection up on you and your child, but I really hope you back that up with real-world action:
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
To give you the courage you need to get out of all this and act, look into Crucible of Courage products:
http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
Good luck to you, and stay safe.
Thank you saints and spirits!
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Thank you so much for your advice Sister Jean. I'm going to order some separation products and use them in our home to see what happens. I saw that some people recommended using the separation oil with a moving spell or a divorce candle. I will explore those options if dusting the sheets and other things like putting the products in the laundry detergent doesn't work.
Thanks again.
Thanks again.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
My fiance and I have been together for 3 years. We have a baby girl together who is fixing to turn two.
We want to get married but he is having trouble getting a divorce. He hasn't been with his ex for 6 or more years. He's been trying to get a divorce from this woman for 5 years. She refuses to give him or the lawyer her information so we can file the paperwork for divorce. He doesn't have access to any of her information.
She says I'll call the lawyer, I'll go fill out the paperwork as long as you come get me, etc. She said she would go to the lawyer's office but on the day she is supposed to she won't answer her phone, text, or facebook messages. He has been going through this cycle with her for years trying to get a divorce.
I really need help
I'm not sure what to do
We want to get married but he is having trouble getting a divorce. He hasn't been with his ex for 6 or more years. He's been trying to get a divorce from this woman for 5 years. She refuses to give him or the lawyer her information so we can file the paperwork for divorce. He doesn't have access to any of her information.
She says I'll call the lawyer, I'll go fill out the paperwork as long as you come get me, etc. She said she would go to the lawyer's office but on the day she is supposed to she won't answer her phone, text, or facebook messages. He has been going through this cycle with her for years trying to get a divorce.
I really need help

Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello, Southerngirl38220 ,
Sounds like she doesn't want a divorce!
You might want to try some domination spells on her
See this page:
www.luckymojo.com/domination.html
There's quite a few links on tis page. Some links have spells and others don't. So, click on all of them
Wishing you the very best
Take care
Sounds like she doesn't want a divorce!
You might want to try some domination spells on her
See this page:
www.luckymojo.com/domination.html
There's quite a few links on tis page. Some links have spells and others don't. So, click on all of them
Wishing you the very best
Take care
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Ok so here goes,
My boyfriend and I have been together for some time now and one issue that we have is his EX. They have a 3yr old daughter together and she has a 8yr old son from a previous relationship that he helps her with since his biological father has never been involved. At first she accepted me, and said she had no problem with me, well now apparently she does. Her daughter had spent time with me and came home and told her how she loves me, and wants to live with me and not her which sent her into a frenzy and she kept her daughter away from my boyfriend for 2 week. Things had seemed to blow over and around the daughters birthday I got her a gift and took it to her. She got very upset and told me it was their daughter and I have no business being involved with her, talking to her, or buying her things and if I did she would "fight me". Here's the deal, I have no desire to take her place, I just believe if two people are involved then the kids from previous relationships are a package deal and should be included and loved as well. I expressed this to her from the very beginning. Now she does things like calling me and hanging up, she has called crying saying she cant handle the kids and is going to drop them off some where, when him and I are out she calls and says things like the daughter has been hurt and to get to the hospital quick (which has been a lie every time), that the kids are missing and have ran away, etc SHE ALSO CALLED ME AND TOLD ME SHE DOESN'T WANT HIM BUT SHE'S NOT GOING TO LET HIM BE HAPPY. Recently she started a job where she has to be at work early and wants him to come over to get the kids up and ready, and take them to school and daycare. She has also threatened to take him to court if he doesn't pay for everything for the kids (clothes,daycare, extracurricular activities,anything else related to their happiness). I feel like its all ridiculous AND HE FEELS LIKE HE HAS TO COMPLY. I don't like it all. I have two kids as well and now we dont do anything as a family because his kids cant go with us and we both feel guilty about it.
I know that I cant get rid of her because of the kids and I dont want to. But she is being ridiculous. I dont feel like he should have to pay for everything and I feel like its inappropriate for him to go into her home to get the kids up and ready. Thats not appropriate co parenting in my opinion. There's enough time for her to get them up and ready and we can pick the kids up and take them to school/daycare when I take mine. Its putting some stress on our relationship and he feels like he has to do as she asks so she wont keep his daughter away from him again. Its also causing him to be depressed.
What can I do about this situation? I would like to be able to have all the kids around each other? and im not for the coming over to the housing thing.
What can I do so that she accepts me and doesn't see me as an enemy? Can't we just get along and help each other out?
All help appreciated.
My boyfriend and I have been together for some time now and one issue that we have is his EX. They have a 3yr old daughter together and she has a 8yr old son from a previous relationship that he helps her with since his biological father has never been involved. At first she accepted me, and said she had no problem with me, well now apparently she does. Her daughter had spent time with me and came home and told her how she loves me, and wants to live with me and not her which sent her into a frenzy and she kept her daughter away from my boyfriend for 2 week. Things had seemed to blow over and around the daughters birthday I got her a gift and took it to her. She got very upset and told me it was their daughter and I have no business being involved with her, talking to her, or buying her things and if I did she would "fight me". Here's the deal, I have no desire to take her place, I just believe if two people are involved then the kids from previous relationships are a package deal and should be included and loved as well. I expressed this to her from the very beginning. Now she does things like calling me and hanging up, she has called crying saying she cant handle the kids and is going to drop them off some where, when him and I are out she calls and says things like the daughter has been hurt and to get to the hospital quick (which has been a lie every time), that the kids are missing and have ran away, etc SHE ALSO CALLED ME AND TOLD ME SHE DOESN'T WANT HIM BUT SHE'S NOT GOING TO LET HIM BE HAPPY. Recently she started a job where she has to be at work early and wants him to come over to get the kids up and ready, and take them to school and daycare. She has also threatened to take him to court if he doesn't pay for everything for the kids (clothes,daycare, extracurricular activities,anything else related to their happiness). I feel like its all ridiculous AND HE FEELS LIKE HE HAS TO COMPLY. I don't like it all. I have two kids as well and now we dont do anything as a family because his kids cant go with us and we both feel guilty about it.
I know that I cant get rid of her because of the kids and I dont want to. But she is being ridiculous. I dont feel like he should have to pay for everything and I feel like its inappropriate for him to go into her home to get the kids up and ready. Thats not appropriate co parenting in my opinion. There's enough time for her to get them up and ready and we can pick the kids up and take them to school/daycare when I take mine. Its putting some stress on our relationship and he feels like he has to do as she asks so she wont keep his daughter away from him again. Its also causing him to be depressed.
What can I do about this situation? I would like to be able to have all the kids around each other? and im not for the coming over to the housing thing.
What can I do so that she accepts me and doesn't see me as an enemy? Can't we just get along and help each other out?
All help appreciated.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
I made a mojo bag and I prayed for a true love, and on the 7th day of carrying it I ran into an old high school flame (Lee). After high school we went different ways, but started dating again when we were both 20. We dated 4-5 weeks, then suddenly, and without any explanation, he stopped calling or making plans with me. After a couple of weeks, I ran into his best friend who told me Lee got married. I was crushed. Twenty-seven years later, I learned he didn't love the first wife, just married her because she was pregnant.
Shortly after he married, I joined the Air Force, left the area, and didn't see him for 27 yrs. When we ran into each other we were at a bar so we were able to sit for hours and catch up. His first wife ran off to another state, with another man. He was a single dad of two. He claims being a single dad was the hardest thing he ever did, and soon realized his kids needed a mother. So he married a social worker (to help the kids with issues concerning their mother). Also, she didn't have children, and couldn't have kids (perfect for him because he didn't want any other kids distracting from his), but he didn't/don't love her either. He got a mother for the kids and she got kids, but now the kids are grown and gone, and they don't have anything in common, and no love between them.
He's been adamant that he was getting a divorce because they don't like each other. They respect each other, but everything he likes, she hates, and everything she likes, he hates. We live in Alabama, and this is where Lee wants to live. She's from Oregon and wants to move back there. That pretty much how far they are on every subject. So being convinced that a divorce was imminent I started spending a lot of time with him, but we haven't had sex. Oddly enough, neither one of us wants to do that until he's divorce. So I don't know if one can say we're having an affair or not. However, we are closer than we should be giving his marital status, but, all the sparks we had as kids are still there, we both regret taking different paths, and thought about each other over the yrs.
The problem is he wants her to file because he feels obligated to her for helping him raise his kids, and states he feels like a butt for divorcing her. Additionally, he thinks if she files he will come out better financially in the divorce. When I listen to him talk about their relationship I can tell they're both miserable, but, as a woman, I'm confident she's not filing anytime soon; however he's convince she's going to.
I had a reading with a local reader, and she confirmed they're both miserable, and both want a divorce, and have both wanted to end the marriage for a while now. She also stated Lee is being completely honest with me. I'm conflicted about doing a separation/divorce spell because I don't want it to come back and interfere with mine and Lee's relationship, or any relationship I may have in the future. Plus, I don't like doing negative work, but is it really negative if it's helping two people move on? Is there something I can do to make them agree to file jointly, to a agreed upon settlement. If so, will it still be negative work or can I classify it as helping two miserable people get out of something they hate and move on to enjoy life.
Shortly after he married, I joined the Air Force, left the area, and didn't see him for 27 yrs. When we ran into each other we were at a bar so we were able to sit for hours and catch up. His first wife ran off to another state, with another man. He was a single dad of two. He claims being a single dad was the hardest thing he ever did, and soon realized his kids needed a mother. So he married a social worker (to help the kids with issues concerning their mother). Also, she didn't have children, and couldn't have kids (perfect for him because he didn't want any other kids distracting from his), but he didn't/don't love her either. He got a mother for the kids and she got kids, but now the kids are grown and gone, and they don't have anything in common, and no love between them.
He's been adamant that he was getting a divorce because they don't like each other. They respect each other, but everything he likes, she hates, and everything she likes, he hates. We live in Alabama, and this is where Lee wants to live. She's from Oregon and wants to move back there. That pretty much how far they are on every subject. So being convinced that a divorce was imminent I started spending a lot of time with him, but we haven't had sex. Oddly enough, neither one of us wants to do that until he's divorce. So I don't know if one can say we're having an affair or not. However, we are closer than we should be giving his marital status, but, all the sparks we had as kids are still there, we both regret taking different paths, and thought about each other over the yrs.
The problem is he wants her to file because he feels obligated to her for helping him raise his kids, and states he feels like a butt for divorcing her. Additionally, he thinks if she files he will come out better financially in the divorce. When I listen to him talk about their relationship I can tell they're both miserable, but, as a woman, I'm confident she's not filing anytime soon; however he's convince she's going to.
I had a reading with a local reader, and she confirmed they're both miserable, and both want a divorce, and have both wanted to end the marriage for a while now. She also stated Lee is being completely honest with me. I'm conflicted about doing a separation/divorce spell because I don't want it to come back and interfere with mine and Lee's relationship, or any relationship I may have in the future. Plus, I don't like doing negative work, but is it really negative if it's helping two people move on? Is there something I can do to make them agree to file jointly, to a agreed upon settlement. If so, will it still be negative work or can I classify it as helping two miserable people get out of something they hate and move on to enjoy life.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello Cool Beans,
Since there is no Wicca-esque "threefold law" in hoodoo, if you do work to break these people up, that doesn't mean it's going to blow back on you and your relationships. You'd just want to spiritually bathe yourself afterward with hyssop, since you'd be breaking up a union that's blessed by God. If you're squeamish about causing a bunch of pain and drama between the two of them (which Break Up supplies would likely do), you could always use Separation products instead. These will just give them a push to go their separate ways:
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
Also, read through the rest of the pages of this thread; you'll find lots of ideas.
Take care.
Since there is no Wicca-esque "threefold law" in hoodoo, if you do work to break these people up, that doesn't mean it's going to blow back on you and your relationships. You'd just want to spiritually bathe yourself afterward with hyssop, since you'd be breaking up a union that's blessed by God. If you're squeamish about causing a bunch of pain and drama between the two of them (which Break Up supplies would likely do), you could always use Separation products instead. These will just give them a push to go their separate ways:
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
Also, read through the rest of the pages of this thread; you'll find lots of ideas.
Take care.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hello all! I'm new to the forum and this is my first post. I apologize for the length ahead of time...
I am in a relationship with a very controlling man and I need him to move out and leave me alone.
For example: I just changed careers into real estate and I am permitted to only deal/work with women, no men, or he flys off the handle. He gets angry and yells at me for very small things, and try as I may to avoid raising his ire, I always seem to step in it. He insists he is not a controlling or an angry person, but that everything that happens is my fault because I don't give him what he needs. Also, I have taken care of him financially for most of our year and a half together.
To be honest, we are still together because I'm afraid to speak when it might cause conflict. Though the other day I gathered the courage to let him know I didn't want this anymore. He was angry as a bee in jar but said he would find a place to go. Then he acted like everything was normal and like the discussion was never had at all.
I just need him to move out. And fast. That's my goal. But I need it to be as peaceful as possible. I know it won't be all rainbows and unicorns, but a semblance of peace. This may or may not be important to note- tho he has never been physically abusive to me, he was arrested for domestic violence when his last gf broke up with him. That's in the back of my head. Hence... Peaceful.
I have looked at Banishing because it seems more peaceful than Hotfooting, but it seems that there might be other components to include but I'm getting confused with everything available. Commanding or compelling elements? Fiery Wall of Protection? Separation? And in what order? or done all at once?
I am in a relationship with a very controlling man and I need him to move out and leave me alone.
For example: I just changed careers into real estate and I am permitted to only deal/work with women, no men, or he flys off the handle. He gets angry and yells at me for very small things, and try as I may to avoid raising his ire, I always seem to step in it. He insists he is not a controlling or an angry person, but that everything that happens is my fault because I don't give him what he needs. Also, I have taken care of him financially for most of our year and a half together.
To be honest, we are still together because I'm afraid to speak when it might cause conflict. Though the other day I gathered the courage to let him know I didn't want this anymore. He was angry as a bee in jar but said he would find a place to go. Then he acted like everything was normal and like the discussion was never had at all.
I just need him to move out. And fast. That's my goal. But I need it to be as peaceful as possible. I know it won't be all rainbows and unicorns, but a semblance of peace. This may or may not be important to note- tho he has never been physically abusive to me, he was arrested for domestic violence when his last gf broke up with him. That's in the back of my head. Hence... Peaceful.
I have looked at Banishing because it seems more peaceful than Hotfooting, but it seems that there might be other components to include but I'm getting confused with everything available. Commanding or compelling elements? Fiery Wall of Protection? Separation? And in what order? or done all at once?
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Hi RainbowsofAvalon,
Welcome to the forum! If you wish to, please introduce yourself in the Introductions thread.
I am so sorry to hear you are going through all of this! How horrible, and I am glad you are taking steps to extricate yourself.
I would work with Separation products, to bring about a peaceful parting. You can put the sachet powder in his shoes (lightly, to not be noticeable) and also dissolve some of the bath crystals in the final rinse if you do his laundry. You could also add just a few drops of the oil in his shampoo bottle, to keep that thought in his head.
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
You could do the same with Banishing, but I do think Separation would be the right thing to start.
Once he is gone, do a thorough cleansing of your home with Chinese Wash, to remove any residual negativity, and bathe yourself with 13 Herb Bath, to likewise get rid of any spiritual gunk that may be clinging to you.
http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html
http://www.herbmagic.com/13herb-bath-13.html
Finally, if you think you may have any cause to worry about him in the future, then put up protection for yourself and your home. Products and ideas are here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protection.html
Once you have done all of that, I would move on to Attraction work to bring in a new man who will be good for you. You've had enough abuse and manipulation, time for some kindness and respect.
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html
I hope this helps. Good luck, and please keep us posted!
Welcome to the forum! If you wish to, please introduce yourself in the Introductions thread.
I am so sorry to hear you are going through all of this! How horrible, and I am glad you are taking steps to extricate yourself.
I would work with Separation products, to bring about a peaceful parting. You can put the sachet powder in his shoes (lightly, to not be noticeable) and also dissolve some of the bath crystals in the final rinse if you do his laundry. You could also add just a few drops of the oil in his shampoo bottle, to keep that thought in his head.
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
You could do the same with Banishing, but I do think Separation would be the right thing to start.
Once he is gone, do a thorough cleansing of your home with Chinese Wash, to remove any residual negativity, and bathe yourself with 13 Herb Bath, to likewise get rid of any spiritual gunk that may be clinging to you.
http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html
http://www.herbmagic.com/13herb-bath-13.html
Finally, if you think you may have any cause to worry about him in the future, then put up protection for yourself and your home. Products and ideas are here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protection.html
Once you have done all of that, I would move on to Attraction work to bring in a new man who will be good for you. You've had enough abuse and manipulation, time for some kindness and respect.
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html
I hope this helps. Good luck, and please keep us posted!
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
Thank you thank you Miss Athena! That's exactly what I needed to know. Now I have the right place to start, and... I'll post my results 

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
I got a reading that advised me to peacefully break apart a toxic friendship that my partner has. I am instructed NOT to use any type of anger-inducing products! It is supposed to be a peaceful separation, so I can't use any tried and true anger tricks like Conjureman Ali's frying hot pepper name papers or shaking a vinegar jar for them. I'm going to do a moving candle spell and send his toxic friend away into a bucket of river water and then out into the river system, and move my partner's candle closer to me and our love.
I have separation and break up products, and I am ordering hotfoot and banishment.
My partner is going on an extended vacation with his friend for about a week; is it best to do the moving candle separation and have it done BEFORE they go on their trip, or DURING the trip when they are constantly together?
Doing it when they are together makes it easier to hide my working and it may hit harder/faster since they'll be together and it may spark reasons to end the friendship, but doing it ahead of time may build up energy to hit them when they are together. What timing would you folks recommend for this spell? While they are together or apart, and while they are awake or asleep?
I have separation and break up products, and I am ordering hotfoot and banishment.
My partner is going on an extended vacation with his friend for about a week; is it best to do the moving candle separation and have it done BEFORE they go on their trip, or DURING the trip when they are constantly together?
Doing it when they are together makes it easier to hide my working and it may hit harder/faster since they'll be together and it may spark reasons to end the friendship, but doing it ahead of time may build up energy to hit them when they are together. What timing would you folks recommend for this spell? While they are together or apart, and while they are awake or asleep?