Hello again, (sorry for the long post)
I had a crossing candle set in July, and completely forgot about it to let the work go ahead. I''ve just realised that what I've asked for has happened! The girl left the city I wanted her to leave, has no job at the moment, and is back living with her parents. In the meantime, she has contacted me, wanting to take a load off her head (her words) and 'make peace' for her stealing my bf and causing so much drama over the years. She also wanted me to speak to my ex, but I didn't talk to her. I want to be able to talk to him on my own terms, not through her and I have no interest in making her sleep better at night. I guess somewhere she is feeling that her bad luck is due to bad karma.
Anyway, somehow, I just started feeling that I should do something to cause fights between her and my ex. I just want her to be as miserable as she made me that time. I'm going to try the vinegar jar and the pan spell I read on the forum.
I can't do a break up candle with her name so I am kind of limited. Black candles suit her and they actually have worked in her favour rather than against. Also can't set a destruction candle, because I read that this is black.
Since the crossing candle worked for her before, I thought of setting one each for her (X) and my ex (Y).
The background is that he left her before (years before he met me), and at that time, he didn't stick up for her, made fun of her in front of their mutual friends, and she was left alone and feeling betrayed. I want him to act the same with her and for her to feel the same again.
With the petitions: I don't know how much I can fit in the petition box. But my idea was to do it from her point of view and from his.
X, your relationship with Y is crossed and destroyed. You fight like cats and dogs. He hates you and leaves you. He doesn't see you or talk to you at all. He makes fun of you to everyone just like he did before. You are betrayed, alone, and miserable.
Y, your relationship with X is crossed and destroyed. You fight like cats and dogs. You are not attracted to her at all. You hate her and leave her. You never see her or talk to her again. You make fun of her to everyone like you did before.
Does this idea make sense?
Thanks in advance for reading all this, much appreciated