Just felt I should post here to give hope to others.
It's fair to say my work has reached a successful completion.
I should add though that I am still doing some mild work as needed to protect my successful work. By mild I mean that I am no longer spending hours at a time 5 days a week on spell work. For 3 months I did very intense sessions of love and cursing. There were also lots of other spells I did as my situation was so complicated. I had to hit it from so many angles. My current work involves sprinkling powders more than anything else and some talking to his doll baby.
Keep in mind this is a man that dropped me like a hot potato and told me that there is no chance of reconciliation - ever. Things were seriously dire - I can't stress that enough. The odds were massively stacked against me. Hopeless is how it seemed, but I refused to give up without giving it my all.
It's been 2 months since we got back together. There were some rocky patches, but now things are probably better than they've ever been in years.
The biggest problem was a meddling dirty gold-digging whore (usually is, right?). I cursed her, made a vinegar jar for them twice, froze her and hotfooted his property to keep her away. This whore soured things between us for a few years which is why I took so much action. It is hard to say for an absolute fact (people are sneaky!), but it seems that there is now either very limited or no contact between them at all. He swears it is no contact and that he has avoided her over the holidays.
I worked spells telling his doll baby and especially skull candles that he can't live without me, misses me and is unhappy when he is not with me. Sure enough, I found out from a close friend of his that he was depressed and sad during our separation. Apparently he kept saying how much he misses me!
During our time apart I found out that he was showing some interest in another woman.
Before they could go on their one and only date, I froze her and made a vinegar jar. Much later I found out that the date had been a disaster and he couldn't stand her!
He is now so scared of losing me, it is incredible! He never had this fear before. If he did he hid it well. My love work was heavily focused on how much he loves me and how "sad, lonely, miserable and depressed" he is without me and that he won't be happy again unless he is with me. This seems to have made a big impact.
He kept me away from his family for years. Now he is talking me with when seeing them - several times so far. He finally stood up to creep 'friends' of his that he was terrified of doing so for years! I should add that I told his doll baby during sessions that he is going to be brave and stand up to everyone that has ever caused trouble between us. I can't believe he has finally done so! He has made a clear statement to them that he and I are a couple regardless of what they think of it. He is no longer allowing himself to be bullied!
He is getting out and doing things with me that he refused to before and is making a genuine effort in general to keep me happy and build a strong relationship. I am stunned at the changes in him and others have commented on it as well.
I'm getting flowers again too and most importantly, for the first time since I don't even know when, he is telling me he loves me. Moving in together is a direction we are heading towards in the future.
Needless to say, I am very happy with this outcome. Make no mistake about it though, I worked incredibly hard for this. With a situation as complicated as mine, so many outside negative forces at work over a period of years, I had to work my butt off. I calculated my love sessions alone to be about 100 intense hours worth over 3 1/2 months (this excludes preparations). I am so glad that I kept my focus.
I know people going through something similar will want to know what really did the trick. It was a combo of things, but more than anything it was believing in my work. I would say that Follow Me, Boy is an absolute MUST HAVE in your arsenal.
Thanks to LM and the moderators (especially you, Miss Aida). I am sticking around on the board as it is such a rich source of information and I intend to make hoodoo a more prominent part of my life as I feel very comfortable with it and have seen the results of hard work and determination. I'll give updates and probably ask for more input too. For now, THANK YOU!