I've decided to do a spell using a skull candle for love work. I plan to start this spellwork on Friday, using Follow Me Girl oil to dress it on that day, Bewitching oil on Saturday, Come to Me oil on Sunday, Love Me oil on Monday, Lavender Love oil on Tuesday, Kiss Me Now! oil on Wednesday and then Follow me Girl oil on Thursday again as I don't have any other love oils. Basically, I plan to dress the candle with oil while talking to it for thirty minutes everyday for a week. Then on the Friday of the second week, I shall start burning the candle while speaking to it, then snuff it out after a period of time. I plan to burn the skull candle for another week and I will allow it to finish burning on the third Friday. May I ask if this is a good idea?
In addition, would it be a good idea to load the skull candle? According to a YouTube video I saw, if I were to load a skull candle, I'd have to carve a hole below it, then load it with whatever I want to place in there. In my case, it would be some herbs, a petition paper and a photograph of my target. However, and I apologise for my lack of experience, but wouldn't the fire burn the items loaded inside the candle? And if I were to load it, would it be better to load it after the week of dressing the candle with oil? Or would it be better to load it before I have gone through the process?
Sorry for all the questions thrown at you, and thank you for taking the time to read this.