I had divination locally a week ago and was told my former relationship was salvageable, but that there was someone standing in the way. I believe that I am going to need professional rootwork in order to unblock that. In the meantime, until I get hold of a professional rootworker (been trying all day to make an appointment without any luck) I have Placed an order yesterday for a reconciliation candle to be lit for me with photos and birth dates through the church (scheduled to light today) and a seven day novena candle on my own altar.
I started a red 7-day novena candle yesterday that I cleaned with Florida water and dressed myself with cinnamon, ginger, sugar and my own personal "essence". I placed my ex-bf's watch that was a gift from me that he has worn for several years around the Candle, between two photos of us together in each picture facing the candle, along with my special crystals on an altar cloth I made from his shirt. I carved his name into the candle and also turned clockwise and carved the word return across it. I prayed over it and spoke my loving intentions over it and also placed my handwritten petition beneath it (which was a poem about thinking of me while awake and while dreaming, and 3 statements beneath it about our love and returning to me).
I trimmed the wick slightly and lit the candle. My altar is next to my bed facing east and there is zero draft in this room. The flame started out very low and almost looked like it would burn out or drowned in the herbs or the hot wax, but I went into another room and let it be. I came back in to the room about an hour later, and the flame was VERY tall and VERY bright and dancing wildly like wind was blowing on it. It was absolutely the strangest thing I had ever seen with any of my candles. It did that for about another couple hours, then it went back to a normal fairly steady burn with a little dance to it but definitely a lower flame. I would call the flame normal to low at this point. And that is what it is like this morning as well. I interpret the low slow initial burn to be resistance, and the wild dancing burn to be that the work is getting through. So far, a clean burn on the glass with the exception of some light, filmy red candle wax stuck near the top in a crescent shape.
When we broke up a few weeks ago, he told me that as much as he still loved me and cannot imagine being with anybody else, he was going to block I'll contact so that we can get over this. He was true to his word and blocked my number from his phone and also blocked my email address as well. However he never blocked me on a texting app which I have since been able to view his activity on but never contacted him on. Well, this morning I also noticed that he had blocked me from that app as well. That was unexpected.
This morning from the time I left the house until just a few minutes ago, multiple random men have been noticing me like crazy and making comments. I have not done any work on myself, I am not wearing anything to attract any type of attention, and have pretty much been without make up, wearing my glasses, hair in a ponytail, sweatshirt and yoga pants on. I feel that something is not right.
My question is this: I have been told that "someone" is standing in the way of my relationship. However how do I get to uncover who this person or entity is? Does anybody know how I can work a spell to figure out who is standing in the way? Divination to this point has been vague and has only pinned it down to a female energy. Also I think that some work has been done on me as a diversionary tactic so that I will leave him alone and Like being distracted by other men. I noticed and felt the work immediately and it is definitely NOT going to work, but I definitely felt like something was attempted. Obviously not very strong in that regard. But to make him go out of his way weeks later and delete me off a texting app? That worked in their favor.
Hoping to get some insight from people on this board about what to do next, as I wait To schedule a reading over the phone with Miss Elvyra.