If you only used Hot Foot powder before, you could step up that work by doing a full-blown Hot Foot candle spell, which is described in the link that Miss Aida included in her reply. As for the freezer spell work, an animal tongue such as a cow's tongue is used to silence someone who is speaking against you. So yes, if this step-daughter needs to be shut up (say, if you want to stop her backtalking to her dad), you could go that route. If not, you could just create a petition paper for her and wet and freeze the paper packet like it describes on that freezer spell page to "freeze" her out of your life.
Hope that's clearer.
Thank you, St. Michael, St. Expedite and La Santisima Muerte!