So,after reading almost all the posts in this thread,thought I'd share my "doll baby aventure" as I'm beginning to work with it.
It is for this woman I have the huge hots for
and for various reasons (one of them being I'm a Libra she's an Aries),communication has its flaws and setbacks,with some hot&cold blowings now and then(nowadays it's blizzard cold).
She's 100% Aries with all their good and not so good parts and I am somehow oversensitive and find some sayings unbelievably violent(Aries's bad points).
So after having started a red skull candle work (I'll let you know about the outcome of this),I have decided to work on a doll baby(which is new for me,I've worked other types of spells & containers,sometimes with great results,some other times so and so).
Now the funniest thing ever
is that at some point I thought about looking for some Barbie girl looking like this woman. And oh to my hugest surprise,I have found quite quickly one ressembling to my target like you cannot believe it. Red hair,glasses,even the clothes are extremely similar to what she's wearing ,to a point where I thought of this "finding" to be some sort of sign or invitation to work with that doll.
I'm still waiting for some Calamus root,I already have licorice powder but I've ordered some Licorice chips after hearing ConjuremanAli talking about writing target's name on a tiny slice of Licorice root and using it as the relying spinal cord.
Aries's ruling body part is the head&the brain so I though it would be a very nice addition to the doll baby as well as to the skull candle work (burned after worked for several days on a honey jar).
I'll be using Fire of Love oil( aries is a fire sign so this might help),Follow me Girl, Bewitching , Lavender drops, Return to me and as soon as I can afford more,some Influence oil(for the doll) and Kiss me now and Crown of success oil on my hair/head(for me to wear) ,some deer tongue (incredibly hard to find in France). Deer tongue which I'll use with sugar as she already has a "free" not-always-nice worded mouth. And spikenard which already have.
I'll be using on myself damiana,catnip and for the doll cardamone seeds,cubeb berries,some juniper and grains of paradise,rose petals,just a pich of lavender,a tiny bit of ginger(for her ginger hair looks:),and her photo and handwriting (only personal concerns I've come up with so far,but as soon as I can get some hair,I'll make extensive use of it).
I'll let you know all about the progress of this "journey" of me and my doll (thinnking I have never played with dolls while being a kid,this is quite funny actually to start doing this on my early 40's).
Any comments are welcome