Break Up Vigil Candle Questions and Answers

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jul 27, 2015 9:25 pm

Hello, Merienda ,

Yes, deploy it with the wax.

Take care

KookieMari · Unread post by **KookieMari** » Wed Jul 29, 2015 2:36 pm

I would like to have the break up candle burned on the altar for a particular couple. My boyfriend continues to play games with me and this other woman, which is unfair. I yearn to be vindicated. I do not have a pictures only names and his bday. How many candles do I have to request to be added on the altar for this to be a permanent separation between my boyfriend and this other woman?? How long should the duration be?

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Jul 29, 2015 5:33 pm

Hi KookieMarl,

The duration is hard to predict. Some people see success with a single candle if a breakup is on the horizon, others need months of spellwork to achieve the desired goal.

I would suggest you order a length of run corresponding to the budget you feel most comfortable spending, then wait to see the results. If more work is indicated, you can always add more candles and other breakup spellwork as needed.

Good luck.

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Star Anise · Unread post by **Star Anise** » Sat Aug 01, 2015 5:09 am

I'm wondering if I should consider a break up spell for my target and the girl he's been seeing, who I believe is on and off with her current partner. They have not been seeing each other for very long, but he says he can see it going somewhere with her and that his feelings are getting more intense. I've always been concerned that break up spells or candles will give some kind of karmic backlash to the caster... Is this true?

I genuinely don't want to cause harm to them, and I would like this girl to find happiness, just with someone else or her current partner with whom I've heard her speak very fondly of and she seemed confused and a bit saddened by the state of their relationship. I've already started a honey jar to sweeten my target to me to reconcile and rekindle his love for me (which I believe is still there, just clouded by the distraction of this other girl.)

Is it in my best interest to light a break up candle? Should I also do a return to me spell with figure candles, guiding him back to me and guiding her back to her partner? I just worry I will become spiritually exhausted by doing all of this work, or that everything will cancel each other out.

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Aug 01, 2015 11:40 am

Star Anise,

Karma is not a concept in hoodoo either the work takes and is effective or it falls to the ground ie not effective and dont work. If you want your man then you need to break them up, seperation is less intense of a product can be worked same way. But ultimetly you want to end this relationship. You can dress two figure candles backs with break up and the fronts with love oil, move his candle to a figure candle of you dressed in love oil and her candle has her other mate which moves to him. once the candles seperated put sharp objects between them to prevent coming back together. Once touching tie his candle to yours with red thread.

Star Anise · Unread post by **Star Anise** » Sat Aug 01, 2015 11:51 am

Thank you j82,

Would Break up Oil be recommended over separation? Ideally, I would like their separation to be amicable, but if Break Up Oil is stronger, I'll go ahead and get that.

As for figure candles, I intended to use Adam and Eve candles for my target and I... Should I use an Eve candle for this other girl? Or just a clothed lady figure? I don't think they have been intimate with each other (not that I'd like to know) and I'm not sure if that matters or not.

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Aug 02, 2015 9:53 am

Star Anise,

Not so much as being stronger but a different outcome. Example separation could be where they just stop talking and go away. It is not as volatile as break up. Break up is to make them fight like cats and dogs, filled with anger for one another, bitterness etc. I prefer break up over separation in love work because it causes the fighting, the backbiting, the anger. My issue with separation is they may get distant and then come back, after all nothing really went wrong? the break up oil has items such as black cat and dog hair so they fight like cats and dogs.. etc. As for the candles you can use either one, it dont matter if they have been physical the eve candle represents a women, sexual or non sexual. I would use nude eve. Carve the names in the candles , baptize the candle naming it after each person, load the bottom of his candle with any personal item you have of his. I also like to print a photo of their face and pin it to the candle over the face of the candle. It will most likely fall off during the work or burn but thats ok, it serves the purpose at the time.

Star Anise · Unread post by **Star Anise** » Sun Aug 02, 2015 10:55 am

Thanks for all the info j82,

In a perfect world, I would like for them to stay on good terms, even be friends... But just friends. I don't know her investment in their situation, she doesn't seem to be super interested in more than just friendship or a hang out buddy, so I think I'll try separation, but I'll order break up oil just in case.

Thank you again for the recommendations!

KookieMari · Unread post by **KookieMari** » Wed Aug 19, 2015 2:31 pm

I am planning on ordering a separation and hot foot vigil this week at the church for my man and the other woman he's dealing with to get her out of the way. My question is even though I am the one paying for the work to be done on my behalf, "will this come back on me?" I feel I am justified in doing this and I am doing it bcuz he's a liar and then some. On top of it all she's an enabler and his little cushion he keeps running back to and she lets him do whatever. That's why he continues to do a lot of the things he does that's not right. So I want to remove her immediately and he won't have her as an outlet anymore to do whatever whenever. I am so scared and worried about evil backfiring on me in the future. How will this affect me?

RedSnake · Unread post by **RedSnake** » Sat Sep 19, 2015 8:34 am

Hello all,

I have a Break Up Virgil candle and I would like to light it tonite but I don't have the other woman's name or picture. All I have from her is her hair. I have my man's name, picture and different personal concerns. How can I write the petition and use what I have without her name? Thanks

MissMichaele · Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Sep 19, 2015 10:58 am

RedSnake, write "the woman whose hair this is AND all other love rivals."

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

RedSnake · Unread post by **RedSnake** » Sat Sep 19, 2015 12:01 pm

Thank you Miss Michaele!
One more question... Do I write 2 seperate name papers for them and put them separately under the candle? If so where do I write Break Up/ my petition? Or should I just write their names/description, petition and include both of their hairs together in one piece of paper?

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Sep 19, 2015 12:42 pm

Hello, RedSnake,

Please read through the pages here for your answers:

post175787.html?hilit=Petition papers#p175787

Good luck

Jaime Banks · Unread post by **Jaime Banks** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 4:35 pm

Normally I know signs from candle work, but I did a Breakup Vigil on a couple. I fixed it on my own before Halloween. But the issue im having is the candle is dark and soot black all over the glass. I'm sure that means I may have to start over or the work isnt going to manifest right?

TBanks91

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Nov 01, 2015 10:43 am

Hello, TBanks91 ,

No, that is a "no" on that candle.

Definitely resistance.

based on our private conversation, let's wait and see what happens

take care

luckylady · Unread post by **luckylady** » Thu Dec 17, 2015 1:21 pm

Hello! I need some serious advice. My cousin has been dating a guy that have almost killed her 4 times. My family have done everything we can do to keep her from being with the guy and she still wants to be with him. Two days ago she went with him to Walgreen and when the both of them went to his car, it was on fire. The fire department had to come and put the fire out. My cousin walked home and he called somebody to pick him up. I see if my cousin go and be with him she is going to die. I need some advice on some spells I can do for him to leave her because she is not strong to leave him. Thanks

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Dec 17, 2015 7:02 pm

luckylady!!

Oh My God! Oh My God!

How horrendous. How terrible

Please please PLEASE talk to a counselor at a shelter for abused women so that they can give you some advice on how to handle your cousin. She is in complete denial and he's got her convinced that he loves or needs her. This calls for professional intervention.

ALONG with the NECESSARY advice above, here is the link: www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

You may also want to consider a mirror box spell on him. Find the picture here: www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

And please use protection spells on her: www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

And, also, please YOU be careful with him. watch yourself. If he thinks that you're going to disrupt his nest, he may try to hurt you. Protect yourself also and BE ALERT.

be safe and take care

Blue02 · Unread post by **Blue02** » Tue May 24, 2016 1:51 pm

If I had a break up spell cast by someone, do you think it would be ok to use this candle too? The intent of the candle is in line with the spell and I know vigil candles can be used to back up other spell work. I was told a vinegar jar in addition to the spell would be ok. I just don't want to mess anything up and am very interested in what the candle will show.

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue May 24, 2016 3:59 pm

Hi Blue02,

It is reasonable and customary to back up spellwork with other spells. Yes, this candle is appropriate to use, and a vinegar jar is a good, complementary choice. Hit the subject from all sides and you can increase your odds of success.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

LadyWtch · Unread post by **LadyWtch** » Mon Jul 25, 2016 9:33 am

Hi everyone,

I just received my LM Breakup Vigil Candle.

Is better to place the personal concerns into the wax of the Breakup Vigil or just underneath it with the petition?

Lw

ProphetAvery · Unread post by **ProphetAvery** » Mon Jul 25, 2016 1:07 pm

Hi LadyWitch,

Either or would be fine, however, on a practical note, I like placing it, under/near my petition as it still provides a connection to the client while also allowing you to use it afterwards for more work in the future.

LadyWtch · Unread post by **LadyWtch** » Mon Jul 25, 2016 4:57 pm

Thanks ProphetAvery!!!

RoseStar21 · Unread post by **RoseStar21** » Wed Oct 05, 2016 9:49 pm

Hello everyone ,
I'm sorry to be a pain but I have been getting break up candles lit by the church to break up a couple, I want to be in a relationship with the man.
The first was clear but then the ones after that weren't , I also had destruction candles lit as well to destroy their relationship came back with soot on.
Well I had a blockbuster candle lit to remove all physical and psychological obstacles that prevent me and this man from becoming a couple and having a committed loving relationship the report came back saying it was a beautiful clean burn !
Their relationship is obviously a obstacle but am I right in thinking this would be cleared away because the blockbuster vigil candle was clean and clear?
Sorry again,
I just wanted to know if I'm right in thinking this .
Thank you.

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Oct 06, 2016 7:00 pm

Hello RoseStar21,

If I were you, I'd get a reading before jumping to conclusions. Because if the Break Up work hasn't been successful and they're still together, a clean Block Buster vigil candle after sooty Break Up/Destruction candles *could* mean that the man won't be prevented from starting a relationship with you even though he's with someone else! So, I'd ask a reader to confirm what this all means:

http://hoodoopsychics.com/
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Good luck to you.

RoseStar21 · Unread post by **RoseStar21** » Fri Oct 07, 2016 4:44 am

Hello sisterjean ,
Thank you for your reply. It wasn't that long ago I had the candles lit and I know I need to do some work myself again at home because my reader did say I would have to do lots of spells continuously if I was to break them up.
I had a reading not long ago with her so I'm in two minds of doing the spell work first then getting another reading.
I appreciate your reply thank you.

RoseStar21 · Unread post by **RoseStar21** » Fri Oct 07, 2016 10:44 am

I'm getting a reading lol

_Smiley_ · Unread post by **_Smiley_** » Sat Dec 10, 2016 10:15 am

I just lite 2 black break up candles thrusday and realized today that I rubbed bothe candles downward instead of upward. What can I do to fix this? I don't have the candles in my possession.

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Dec 11, 2016 1:58 pm

Dear _Smiley_,

It's not the end of the wold. Don't panic. It is indeed the custom to rub break up candles both ways, from the middle, both up and down, to separate the two people, but downward is owten done to remove conditions, and the condition you wish to remove is their union, so it's not all bad.

Traditional ways of working are passed down through both oral and written transmission, but not everyone gets the memo, so to speak, or even abides by the traditions once told of them.

scooty12 · Unread post by **scooty12** » Fri Apr 14, 2017 3:52 pm

It was recommended to another posted who did not know the name of a female who was involved with her bf to write "... AND all other love rivals."
Could this be done to breakup any all all connections my man has with a few women who send him what I deem very flirty texts/photos. Would it be recommended to write "to break up (name) from all my love rivals" or "remove all love rivals from my relationship with (name)" Or is it best to leave the "me" "my" statement out?

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Apr 15, 2017 7:57 pm

Hello, Scooty12,

Yes, keep your name out of it!!

I like your first idea: "..break up (name) from all my love rivals"

Wishing you great success with your magic!

Take care

Sox1111 · Unread post by **Sox1111** » Fri May 12, 2017 9:22 am

Hello, first timer here with a question about break up spell, specifically the vigil Candle I bought.

My ex has had a female lurking around. Let's just say she has multiple stolen identities and is helping the cartel traffic drugs to the US via her employer. Police confirmed a lot of this and they are watching her and building case for major bust. Last weekend I completed a black skull on her to leave m ex and find a man who will commit to her and give her citizenship. There have been signs and movement on this, as evidenced by new guys on her social media and my ex starting to like his FWB's pics again.

I still love my ex and he loves me too but we're not on speaking terms right now. However, work is being done to correct this.

On Tuesday, I started a breakup vigil Candle and it struggled. I scraped wax from glass and set it aside. I moved locations. It just won't turn around. Conversely, I started a DUME on her last night (telling my spirits that I'll remove it if she leaves my ex alone) and it is burning perfectly! I received more signs and movement via social media, namely she not in his top nine friends. My question is this: could the break up Candle be struggling because the break up has already happened?

natstein · Unread post by **natstein** » Sat May 13, 2017 6:18 am

Hello Sox1111

I would not expect a break up candle to struggle because a break up has already occurred, if anything I would expect the opposite though I can not say for certain. Only a formal candle reading would be better able to determine that.

Peace~

Nathen

Sox1111 · Unread post by **Sox1111** » Mon May 15, 2017 12:26 pm

Thanks. Over the weekend, the break up Candle definitely improved and I saw movement in the real world. I added a black skull on her and a pillar candle for him and included hot foot and break up oils. I'm concerned that she might be pregnant as the reason for her resisting so much. Some wax formed in the shape of a baby from her skull Candle though I hope it was just my fear. I took the "baby" wax remnants, broke them up and put the pieces back in to burn again. I feel really bad about it- could this come back to bite me? Just want to add that the black magic is being done offsite at my storage unit and St. Michael vigil Candle is burning at my home for protection.

natstein · Unread post by **natstein** » Mon May 15, 2017 3:12 pm

Hello Sox1111,

I can not really say if the wax baby shape meant that she was pregnant or not. I personally would not have broken it up without getting more clarity on what it meant first. If you are considered I would recommend a bath with Hyssop to help clean yourself.

Peace~

Nathen

Sox1111 · Unread post by **Sox1111** » Tue May 16, 2017 8:44 am

Thanks. I just had a reading with an AIRR worker who confirmed there is no pregnancy. However, the root worker doesn't do breakup work so I'm doing it on my own. The current breakup work is in the final few days. Do you find it's best to just keep going with another round or wait and see? The girl is quite pesky and the biggest visible result (unfriending on Facebook) hasn't panned out yet. Is there a such thing as losing momentum in rootwork? Thanks for all of your advice as I'm still be to all of this.

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue May 16, 2017 9:48 pm

Hello, Sox1111 ,

Yes, I would definitely have more lit

Wishing you the best

take care

Sox1111 · Unread post by **Sox1111** » Fri May 19, 2017 3:36 pm

Miss Aida, Glad I took your advice on continuing. There were a few hiccups but I think I'm getting it back on track after starting this third round. I have more dressed and ready to start tomorrow. I've noticed that whenever I go a day without tending to the candles at my offsite location that the girl seems to get an edge. Obviously I can't spend the rest of my life doing spells to break them apart, so what do you think is a good stopping point? What tactics have you used successfully? Appreciate any input.

Get this. At my offsite storage unit where I work the dark spells I never see other vehicles. Except for today. The girl has a 12 year old silver car and most like it are in the junkyard now. A silver car just like hers stopped to enter a unit near mine. It spooked me! Of all vehicles! What do you think this means?

Thanks again for your help!

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat May 20, 2017 10:30 am

Hello Sox1111,

You're right, you can't keep doing Breakup work till the end of time. I'd recommend giving yourself a time limit and sticking to it, whatever it might be. "If this couple isn't broken up in a month, I'm done." Or, "If this couple gets married, I'm done." Give it your best effort, but be prepared to walk away if the union just isn't meant to be broken up.

The car could be a sign, but it could also just be a car. I wouldn't jump to any conclusions at this point, just keep doing what you're doing, and keep your protection up.

Good luck!

Sox1111 · Unread post by **Sox1111** » Sun May 21, 2017 1:05 pm

Thanks. I'm going until the end of May for now. Still having some good progress in the real world. I'm new to all of this and astounded at how powerful hoodoo is! I'd like to share a sign I had yesterday to give others hope and encouragement that they can do it too.

I added a black pillar candle specifically for her to boost the breakup vigil Candle. I announted it with hotfoot and break up oils. The wax melted into Mickey Mouse ears- several sets in the end. The girl is obsessed with Mickey Mouse. I'm simultaneously DUMEing her, justified per an AIRR rootworker a few months back. I've been studying Lenormand Cards and she appears as the mice. Well, there was a dead mouse right in the center of my garage yesterday. I'm trying not to read into it too much but it's scary and exciting, kind of like when I rode my bike without training wheels for the first time. Thanks to all on the LM forum for all of the awesome advice and support!

Newbygirl · Unread post by **Newbygirl** » Wed May 24, 2017 2:58 am

Before I started burning my break up candle I was burning a cleansing candle that was burning clear. I started burning my break up candle set and now my cleansing candle is black. What happened?

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed May 24, 2017 10:09 am

Hello Newbygirl,

What exactly do you mean by "cleansing candle"? Was this another type of glass-encased vigil candle sold by Lucky Mojo?

Newbygirl · Unread post by **Newbygirl** » Wed May 24, 2017 3:59 pm

No I didn't get the cleansing candle from lucky mojo. It's just a candle to clean the air of bad energy that may be lurking around. When I did the BU candle the BU candle burned clean but the cleansing candle went black.

RoseStar21 · Unread post by **RoseStar21** » Thu May 25, 2017 4:37 am

Hello Newbygirl ,
I'm no expert but maybe you could use sage or one of the lucky mojo incense ( i can't think which one at the moment.) to cleanse your environment of the bad energy.
Also keep up with the break work , it's great that you had a clean burn !
Take care

Newbygirl · Unread post by **Newbygirl** » Fri May 26, 2017 3:32 pm

Thanks rose star!!! So I guess my next question is with the BU candle when should stop burning them? So far it's been 5 days and I'm on my second set. I put pictures of them separately from each other, wrote their names opposite each other on the top of the candle and then with parchment paper wrote their name on opposite sides and taped it to the bottom of the candle. Clean burn should I stop after this set and let it manifest

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri May 26, 2017 9:10 pm

Hello, Newbygirl ,

Don't stop burning them

keep the momentum going

Take care

Newbygirl · Unread post by **Newbygirl** » Sat Jun 10, 2017 11:31 pm

Been burning BU candles for about 3 weeks. Got a reading and said the work was working but not in the way I wanted, the girl was just more annoying and childish. I added some extra "uufftt" jar work to it last week and still burned 3 candles. Just found out she's preggers. I'm scared now because with the candles and extra "uufftt" I don't want to hurt that innocent baby or in fact hurt her. Also, judging from social media they seem like they're in love but I will say this, all of my candle sets have burned clean. What should I do?

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Jun 11, 2017 11:31 am

Hello Newbygirl,

If you are worried about her unborn baby, you could switch from Break Up vigil lights to Separation vigil lights. Separation will help cause them to separate, but without any fights or nastiness.

http://www.luckymojo.com/candle-separation.html

It's up to you whether to keep working or not. Maybe you could set a time limit on how long you're going to work before giving up, such as "If they're not broken up in a month, I'm done." So you don't go crazy.

Take care.

nocturnalworker · Unread post by **nocturnalworker** » Wed Jun 14, 2017 3:42 am

i ordered some break up candles but they came with no instructions.

Any advice on how to proceed?

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Jun 14, 2017 10:29 am

Hello nocturnalworker,

I believe that most Lucky Mojo vigil candles come with a prayer glued on the back. Did your candles not come with that?

If not, you can find more information if you scroll through and read the four pages of this thread, and you can also look at this page:

http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

Take care.

nocturnalworker · Unread post by **nocturnalworker** » Wed Jun 14, 2017 11:45 am

Mine came with nothing on them.

I went thru that page and it wasn't very clear on what I should do

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jun 14, 2017 9:40 pm

Hello, nocturnalworker ,

The easiest way is to just write a petition paper and put it under that candle.

Take care

nocturnalworker · Unread post by **nocturnalworker** » Thu Jun 15, 2017 3:10 am

Miss Aida,

Being my first break up work. Could you explain how to do this petition paper?

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Jun 15, 2017 9:44 pm

Hello, nocturnalworker

You can find that information by searching the forum

Here's 14 pages of information

petition-papers-and-name-papers-questio ... 21039.html

Take care

HappyLove · Unread post by **HappyLove** » Wed Nov 21, 2018 8:17 am

Hmh...my englisch understanding not always the best :-/

On the glass candle is written "cleanse yourself with a hyssop bath and recite the 51th psalm"

This is for the time after the spell, or is it meaning, that i should recite the psalm every day?

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Nov 21, 2018 8:32 am

ZeroMagic ,

It is ok if English is not your first language, we are here to help and will explain the best we can. The washing with hyssop and reciting the Psalms is done after you light the candle and start the work. You wash off any sin or negativity off of you. After you pray over the candle each day for break up, I would then wash your hands with a tea made of hyssop and recite the Psalm. So to clarify, you would take a whole bath the first day when starting the candle, there after, use a tea ( small amount) of water to wash your hands clean after praying over the candle.

JamieDean · Unread post by **JamieDean** » Tue Apr 16, 2019 2:01 pm

How do you dispose of your break up candle glass?

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Apr 16, 2019 2:43 pm

Hello JamieDean,

As with candle glass in general, you can clean it and recycle it.

Good luck.

Mswhunter118 · Unread post by **Mswhunter118** » Fri May 24, 2019 7:58 pm

I couldn’t be happier! I ordered a BU candle from LM and started burning it last Sunday night, during the hour of Mars. It burned clean (a little gray at the top andvsime of the glitter but nothing to speak of) and finished Thursday morning. Right before that, it cracked! No breakage just crack. I had a feeling that would happen because the wick moved from the center of the glass to the edge but I’m one who doesn’t mess with the candle once it starts burning.

What I’m going to do is let it manifest, then do some skull and hot Foot Powder work if necessary. Sound good?

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat May 25, 2019 5:43 am

Mswhunter118 ,

Some workers (myself included) continue work till we have the manifestation, meaning I would burn another candle on them, while I also work a break up spell on them such as a break up jar or a lemon break up spell.

Mswhunter118 · Unread post by **Mswhunter118** » Sat May 25, 2019 8:14 am

Thank you Jay! I will try those spells as well