Spells to End Trouble Overcome In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL

[foxesstone]

How do I make my sister in law who absolutely hates me and competes with me do a 360?

I mean, I'm never going to get rid of her, and I wish she'd realize that and stop acting like the queen bee but she doesn't.

What can I do to make her love me and instead of seeing me as someone to compete with as a family member to love?

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Mayasol,

Congrats!

[Miss Aida]

Hello, foxesstone ,

Put her in an influence honey jar: www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spell-kit-influence.html

And, please read the 4 pages on this thread for more ideas!

Take care

[pbg98pbg]

The story is lengthy. I'm embarrassed to be out here, to my self really .

My mother-in-law seems to take her son (my husband) for her husband and was jealous of me living in the house.

I know she thinks I used magic for us to get married, but I did not. We got married for 3 main reasons. He was more eager than me. I was terrified. Getting married doesn't mean the relationship will work out.

She took my husband from me. We were doing good. Then she started telling him "not to come inside me" and a whole bunch of other stuff. If he starts saying he misses me and is coming to see me (due to a spell) she may feel that she has to "react" towards me again. If I use magic to put us back together and she is in his life, she may do worse regarding me. My goal is to make my husband and her stop talking. Either I have to do that, or to make her think the world of me so she will love the fact that we are together.

Anyway...

Is there someone or something that can help me to get my mother-in-law out of the way?

Can I get rid of her and be sure she wont hold conversations with him about me once I do the come back to me spell?

Can I make her think the world of me so that she will be happy for us to be together if we reconcile?

Can I just get rid of her and let the universe handle the how, but be sure she will talk to him about me?

If there are any spell casters, or conjure doctors out there I would really appreciate if you have some advice or a work phone number that I can have. I will accept her gone in any fashion.

Sorry if I broke a rule, sorry if my question is stupid. Forgive me. Just want some advice. I am open to any and all onions and suggestions. professional or otherwise.

There is a lot more to the story but the keyboard is so stiff it is hurting my fingers and wrist.

Now I am in a foreign country without my husband and step son. Please help.

[Miss Aida]

Hello, pbg98pbg,

I usually give spell work advice BUT because this is so complicated and you're not sure what to do, I suggest that you contact a reader and rootworker to help you with this matter.

This issue requires a reading first and foremost. Then, the rootworker can perform spells for you (on your behalf) and/or have you also perform spells.

Find readers here: http://readersandrootworkers.org

Wishing you the very best

take care

[kimmygirl]

Hello
I need some help in dealing with my husbands extended family,because of them we moved way across on the east coast and now they are at it again. my .husbands health is at stake,please ,is there a candle spell that I can have the church burn for me to be done with these people, I dont want my husband back in the hospital again. And this time not come out alive. Please,please.
Thank you for all the responses

[Miss Athena]

Hi kimmygirl,

I am sorry you are going through all of this.

I have merged your post with the appropriate thread. In the future, please do not start new topics like this when they already exist on the forum.

Please read through the posts in this thread, as others here have gone through what you are going through and have been given good advice here. If you still have questions after reading, you can ask them here.

I wish you the best of luck.

[kimmygirl]

Oh I'm so sorry. Thank you .

[Miss_A]

Hey everyone, I am new to this site.

I am looking for some help/advice, me and my sons father have been broken up due to his crazy mother who does " 21 division" she always caused us to fight and the main reason why we are not together anymore, she want me to be out of the picture for good. I had done a cleansing bath because I was told she had put a spirit on me that discredits me as a person and as a mother I am not sure if it worked or not since I am very new to this all. I know he is angry with me and I would like to know what I can do to bring him back to me so we can be together happily as a family with out his mother interfering I do know he talks to other females most likely messes around with some.. which saint would help me in this situation ? any advice is helpful, thanks in advance !

[Miss Athena]

Hi Miss_A,

I have moved your post to the correct thread on troublesome family members, as this is the more appropriate location for your situation.

I am sorry you are having so many difficulties with this woman.

21 Divisiones is a Dominican spiritual practice and we cannot speak to that here, as this is a forum for the practice of hoodoo. However, you can employ several hoodoo spells to get her to back off.

You should put her in a mirror box, to return her evil back to her. Do a little search of the forum for mirror boxes and you will find great advice on how to construct one for her.

You have done a cleansing bath, which is great, but you have not talked about doing a cleansing of your home. Use Chinese Wash for this, and it can clear away any spiritual gunk that is lingering in your home.
http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html

You should follow that up with protection, to keep any more spiritual messes from hitting you. Here are a couple of pages for spells and talismans that can keep you protected:
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protection.html

Once you have set yourself up to clean away her mess and protect yourself from future attacks, you can work on bringing him back to you. Search the forum for Reconciliation advice and you will find a lot of very useful information.

If you do wish to appeal to a particular saint, Saint Martha the Dominator has been very helpful in subduing misbehaving men. Her thread is here:
saint-martha-spiritual-supplies-questions-and-answers-t5462.html

And products to work with her are here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-saint-martha.html

Please read through this thread as well for more helpful advice on dealing with problem family members.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[Cortana]

Why hasn't there been an "I dominate my MIL" or I dominate my in-laws" line of products made? It seems like such a timeless issue.

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Cortana ,

Because the Domination products will cover these areas

www.luckymojo.com/domination.html

take care

[gg18]

Hello!

I am needing advice on which products/spells to buy to sweeten my ex-boyfriends family.

My boyfriend and I recently split and his family has been behind the whole reason of him not coming back. They keep feeding him shit and by the looks of it, I don't think they've genuinely accepted me from the start. His family and I were civil while him and I were together, but since the split, they don't even want to hear my name. Him and I have a beautiful 10 month old baby and would love to be in good terms with his family. Especially considering the babys 1st birthday is coming up.

Sidenote: I am already working on a honey jar on my ex boyfriend and seems to be working slowly, but surely.

[Sister Jean]

Hello gg18,

That great that you've started a honey jar, that was going to be my first suggestion. Burn light blue candles on top dressed with Peaceful Home oil. It also sounds though that backing up this work with some Stop Gossip spells could benefit you as well:

http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

One other idea would be to sprinkle Peace Water around, if you can get to a space where his family members walk around (like a living room):

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

Good luck!

[gg18]

Hi Sister Jean,

Thank you for your quick response.

I started a honey jar for my ex-boyfriend, but not his parents. What herbs can I purchase to make a honey for them?

[Miss Aida]

Hello, gg18,

Here you go!!

www.herb-magic.com/love-herbs-mixture.html

Take care

[fleurfairy]

I didn't see this problem in the thread, so I thought I would ask. I need helping dealing with my mother-in-law. She's actually very nice to me and always has been, so I feel lucky compared to some other posters on here that have nightmare in-laws! My main problem with her though is that she is incredibly overbearing and nosy - constant questions about our personal lives. My husband and I are in the process of buying a house and she mentioned to me that she was going to contact the realtor of the seller so that she could go see the house. Completely inappropriate things like that. I guess it doesn't help that I'm a very private person and don't like to let people in to my own thoughts and feelings. My husband usually tells her to back off, but I don't want him to constantly have to take up for me against her nosiness and smothering. Is there a spell that could keep her at a safe distance? I was thinking Fiery Wall of Protection....but maybe there's something better?

[Corvus]

Hello everyone
I believe this thread is the most appropriate one under which to post with my questions. Like all of the problems addressed here on the forum, mine is complex. I wish to decrease the amount of control my MIL has on my wife. Some time back, we moved to the state where my in laws live. Before, I had no idea quite how enmeshed my MIL was in the lives of her kids. She is a gossip, medldler, and truly passive aggressive. Rules via quilt. My first thought is Inluence products and sweetener work for my wife. I like an equal and loving relationship and have no interest in dominating her. The MIL, on the other hand, needs to back off. I was thinking stop gossip blended with something else. I welcome your thoughts and recommendations.
Thanks
Corvus

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Corvus ,

Your ideas for your wife are great!

If you are asking abut blending oils, you may want to blend it with a domination type oil

Here is a webpage that lists the oils such as: Do AS I Say,, Commanding, etc

Then, you can choose what you think is appropriate for this situation

www.luckymojo.com/domination.html

Wishing you the best

take care

[Beautifuldiaries05]

I hope I am placing this in the right form as I am new to this. I would like to get back with my ex but his mother is always in our business. She is the main cause Along with me to have this relationship go south and end. He still have majority of his things in my house at this time. I would like to see if I can get a break up spell between him and his mother and also get him back even if I have to get real voodoo dolls. Can someone help me please we been together for 2 1/2 years and was engaged until a week ago.

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Beautifuldiaries05 ,

Oh y God. I am so sorry. So very sorry. You must be devastated

If this were me, I wouldn't try a break up spell between mother and child. What was mean to be between the 2 of them was meant to be

Instead, I would think about just souring their relationship with a vinegar jar.

Then, I would make a honey jar for you and her.

And return to me for you

www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html

I wish you the best success with your spells

[RockaBilly1981]

I've been having trouble with inlaws forever. They've treated me poorly in the past, and my partner is in denial of their "true selves". What spell can I cast to show their true colors to him, and everyone else.

[Sister Jean]

Hello RockaBilly1981,

I'm sorry you're having trouble with your in-laws. I think a helpful move would be to work a skull candle on your partner to help him see these people for who they really are. Get a white skull candle and dress it with Influence and Clarity oils. Then carve SEE FAMILY CLEARLY on it, and load it with your partner's personal concerns. Light it while your partner is sleeping, and tell it to think how and what you want them to think. Leave the candle burning with a picture of your in-laws right in front of it, so it's "looking" at them:

skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

In the meantime, put all these jerks into a mirror box so their bad deeds are reflected back onto them:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Be well.

[Cupcakes and dreams]

Hello everyone I have posted about this situation before but I wanted to post again because I wanted to get some information on what I should do. My brother has been dating this girl for years they are now married. I think he was forced to do it. but she is Satan herself! If she can't control a situation, she will do anything to make it go her way. she is very nasty she has been nasty to a lot of my family members and also controlling towards my brother. Her own father wants nothing to do with her.. she has not let me see my niece and nephews for over 3 years because she's very spiteful. I've never done anything to her but been nice to her. I also think she has a spell going on with my parents and my other brother because they still go over there.

She has threatened me several times.
I have been nothing but nice to this girl and I am sick of her. I want her to go away and my brother is under her command because when she's mad at me he'll get mad at me and he won't talk to me either. I have done nothing to neither one of these people. I even talked to a psychic about them amd the lady stated that she is very bitter and I remind her of what she doesn't have. And that my brother just follows her. She said if I make a friend of her, it will stop. Nope. I tried to be her friend for years and I'm not going to keep being disrespected. I want to do something so she can see how she's acted towards me like a mirror spell. or I want all the negativity she sent me to bounce over to her she has threatened my cousin's. I don't like her and I want her to go away. What can I do to make her leave me and my family alone. Now the part with my niece and nephews I have cried and I mean for years and I'm done crying. my nephew acts funny towards me he doesn't call me, he doesn't even speak because of things she's said to him I want to make her go away and leave my family alone.

Any suggestions would be great. Thank you

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Cupcakes and dreams ,

I have read your other post and I have a few questions:

#1-Are you talking about the same person as you were before?

#2-What kind of threats did she make to you and your cousin?

Take care

[Cupcakes and dreams]

Hi Miss Aida how are you. Yes it's the same person. I apologize for posting about the same thing. She has made threats to fight me and my cousin. Saying that she will see me when she gets back in town. Just a mean person

[Cupcakes and dreams]

Hi all, just posting for any suggestions. This situation is still going on. Thank you for any ideas.

[Sister Jean]

Hello Cupcakes and dreams,

I'm sorry this is still going on. You actually posted a great suggestion in one of your earlier posts, and that is to put this horrible person in a mirror box, to reverse back onto her all the hurt she has caused you:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Follow that up with some Hot Foot work, to get her to go away:

http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

As for your brother being under her command, try out this spell that I posted in a post just above yours:

posting.php?mode=reply&f=49&t=2363#pr376175

Good luck to you.

[CheekyZauberin]

Hi,

My boyfriend's mother is a nasty woman. She is selfish, unkind, and honestly, not all there. Recent events have lead me to see how truly toxic she is - she turned on me, started talking badly about me, called up my boyfriend and yelled at him about me. She calls him multiple times a day to badger him about one thing or another, and if he dares to tell her he can't talk, she gets furious and calls again later to yell at him some more. She recently refused to help me in a very bad situation, and even refused to see her baby grandson. She then told everyone who would hear that she wouldn't allow me to treat her badly. She also has decided I am a gold digger. I did absolutely nothing to her!!
My boyfriend and I are in a place where our relationship may not survive, but as we have a child together, a clean break will not be possible. Since I will not be able to remove her from my life completely, I need some ideas on what work I can do to keep her nastiness as far away from me and my kids as possible. I'm not sure if I should do a honey jar, freezer spell, vinegar bottle? Something else entirely?

Thank you!
xoxo

[Miss Aida]

Hello, CheekyZauberin,

It is so difficult to work against family bonds.

So, my suggestion is to work around it

First, your honey jar idea is excellent!

You might also use sop gossip products to shut her up!

www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

Now, I am going to give you a link for court case because there's a beef tongue spell that I ADORE to shut someone up. Make sure that you use a lot of alum inside the tongue to SHUT HER UP !!!

www.luckymojo.com/courtcase.html

Sprinkle peace water around the house too (OR put it in a spray bottle and spray it around the house)

www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

I hope this helps. If they don't, you might have to get a little more aggressive but, for now, these suggestions have historically helped others in a situation like yours

Take care

[CheekyZauberin]

Thank you so much, Miss Aida!

[Mysticmama4]

Hello all,
I have a major problem with my mother in law. She visits every 6 months
To keep her greencard active...stays in our home for a month and a half and
Creates chaos. Sge is from the Middle East where the concept is that the wife should be a servant so to say, she wants me to act as her maid. She basically tries to take over, snarls at the food I make complains
How I take care of my kids, finds fault with everything I do. The first time she came almost 2 years ago we
Had a big blowout I stood up to her, worked hot foot products on her and she ended up leaving early.
The next time she came I tried to get along with her. I tried real hard
Because I figured being messy is just her nature. It went smoothly because she more or less watched her boundaries and I let her do what she wanted and I didn't complain.
But this visit now she's back to her evil ways. I was very kind to her. Made what she likes, catered to her, made an effort to get along with her for the sake of my kids and husband.
Yet she still complains about me! Recently she thought my husband was sleeping and
Was talkIng on the phone telling someone information about me, my kids, husband and
my household...what goes on. He woke up and there was an explosive argument.
I recorded the conversations and had it translated as they were conversing in Arabic. He was very angry about what she did trying to get members of the family to find him a new wife back home...he flipped out on her...but would not tell me what happened. I pretended I didn't know the whole story but
I let him know that I picked up on certain words and knew she was talking ill of me. She got mad that I found out and started telling him I'm no good to him or her and that he needs to find "a good Muslim girl"
He said no he doesn't want it but also tried to turn it around on me saying I told the kids to be loud and annoy her...I told him to stop trying to put the blame on me and That I refuse to be disrespected in my home. I read on this board about creating a honey jar for everyone but that really isn't an option so feel she is way to evil to the point I feel physically sick when she comes...it is very strange I always get health problems when she visits. What else can I do? Cast off evil? Reversing products? I have petitioned St. Michael for protection of me and my kids against any evil thoughts she may project out.
I would appreciate any advice you can give me, thanks.

[Miss Aida]

Hello, MysticMama4,

Oh my Gosh, how terrible for you. This looks like a nightmare. I m so sorry

You may want to try everything that I had recommended in a post above

spells-to-end-trouble-overcome-in-law-f ... ml#p380361

Also, keep up with the spells that have worked for you in the past.

Again, I a so very sorry for your endless nightmares

Take care of yourself

[Mysticmama4]

Thank you so much Miss Aida,
I will look at your linked post.
I am very grateful to you and for all the LM info that is available to read and study.
Thanks again.

[Cupcakes and dreams]

Thank you so much Sister Jean. I have hot foot powder and I've put her name in a bottle along with it. I just need to throw it in running water. Is that right? I was just concerned that if I do it, I'm sure the children will leave with her. Right now she wants to leave out of spite because she was reported to section 8 by me. She has been using them as a crutch for over 15 years and my brother works to the bone and she uses him and doesn't want to work. She even tried to kick him out because she thought he had something to do with it. I admit I wanted to tell the truth about her lying ways so I reported her. I know that's wrong but I didn't want to hurt her. I just wanted to get her back for her evil ways. I even texted her from an unknown number saying how nasty she is and how she has broken up our family with her negativity.
Since she doesn't know who did it, she came to my house and banged on my door and went to my cousin's house first causing drama. I heard that she's going to get the police involved because shes angry at the fact she doesn't know who it is. And shes getting them to investigate the unknown number i texted from. She's going around lying saying the person has threatened her which is not true at all. I'm wondering what to do next because I don't want to get in trouble because she's lying and will do anything to get her way. She also has my mom wrapped around her finger with this situation. This girl is evil. Is law keep away a suggestion? Thank you.

[Sister Jean]

Hello Cupcakes and dreams,

Yes that's right. But she may very well leave with her children, and I can't tell you whether that will happen or not. Have you gotten a reading on this situation? It sounds very complicated:

http://hoodoopsychics.com/
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Take care.

[Cupcakes and dreams]

Hi Sister Jean, I havent gotten a reading on it yet. Thank you for the link. I want to get a reading on it though.

Peace