Spells to Bless Strengthen Assist Love Relationship or Marriage

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat May 06, 2017 11:07 am

Hello Dani1993,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum.

I'm sorry to say it, but this lady gave you flat-out bad advice. Freezer spells aren't used to strengthen a love connection, they're used to freeze someone *out of your life.* So you're right to want to undo it. Take the spell out of the freezer and let everything thaw out. Pray over it as it thaws (you don't have to pray the entire time it takes to thaw) that everything in this spell is frozen no more, and your target is released from the spell's effects. Take the remnants to a crossroads.

Then, start fresh with a honey jar, to sweeten your husband toward you and strengthen your relationship:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Good luck to you.

EssaelBosch · Unread post by **EssaelBosch** » Sat Jul 15, 2017 5:00 am

I met my current partner six months ago and during that time, though we were very close, it was never an official or exclusive relationship. Last month he met another woman and said we would no longer be able to be involved (understandably, and that was as we had agreed to start with). However, after two dates with this woman, he realised that he didn't want to be with anyone else and told me as much. We talked about it at great length and as a result we are now in a loving, committed, and monogamous relationship. A happy ending, if not with some pain woven in because I did lose him for a while and that hurt a lot.

We are very happy together but I am insecure (and I admit totally irrationally so) and in the back of my mind I am still worried about losing him again. Can anyone recommend a working to protect a relationship from negative influences, both from outside and inside a relationship (my current need for regular reassurance is becoming unhealthy, though he is very understanding about it). Maybe something that also works to strengthen and purify a current relationship? It is against my general principles to work in any way which would influence anyone (or even myself) against their will, so I wouldn't want something that would be to "keep us together", because relationships can naturally fail and you wouldn't want to be unknowingly trapped within a failed/unwanted relationship. I just want to protect what we have and reinforce it. Thoughts?

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat Jul 15, 2017 9:26 am

Hello EssaelBosch,

If you don't want to influence anyone, not even yourself, that's your business, but that tentativeness isn't a part of hoodoo. You could work a honey jar for you and your partner, to keep the two of you sweet toward each other, but you may view that as influencing your will and his. So it's up to you. You can read more about honey jars here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Take care.

EssaelBosch · Unread post by **EssaelBosch** » Sat Jul 15, 2017 9:33 am

Sister Jean - I do understand my hesitation is defeating the object somewhat. It's not a concrete rule, but a guideline I like to stick to at least when it comes to matters of the heart. I have done a Honey Jar working before to ease tensions in a shared house, so have some experience with it. Using one does seem like a solid idea, so thanks!

JAD82017 · Unread post by **JAD82017** » Mon Jul 17, 2017 8:48 am

Hi,

This is my first post here but I've been following/reading everything I can for awhile now. I've bought from lucky mojo twice as well. Anyways, I'm in need of some assistance and was wondering if anyone had some advice? My boyfriend and I were in a relationship for 11mths, everything was great but then life began to get in the way. He was juggling multiple jobs, having issues with living conditions, his car, etc. I'm juggling being a single mom and work. We don't live in the same city which makes it difficult as well :/ We we're doing really great but last week we split up. I'd like to hope we just need a break and to figure life out. We agreed to still stay friends and we do have a gathering/wedding to attend together in a few months so I was wondering if a honey jar would be appropriate? I'd like to reconcile and while I'd love to pick up where we left off I know it's best that we take things slow and figure our obstacles out before jumping two feet in again. I began a honey jar but I didn't pay attention to the moon phase and it was waning when I began it. Should I start another jar? Can I use the items I have in this jar in the new one? A picture of us, his hand writing & a condom we used. Again, I'm not looking to jump back into love, I want to do things right this time and take them slow, work through our life obstacles together. Any help you can give me would be appreciated. I have Come to me oil and Returm to me oil on the way & I have pink and red candles I burn on top of my jar. The candles leave very little wax which I'm hoping is a good sign despite me creating it on the wrong moon phase. Should I just wait until the new moon to begin praying on the jar I already have created or will it get confused? Thanks so much for any help/advise you can offer me!

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Jul 17, 2017 11:13 am

Hello JAD82017,

Not all spiritual workers do their spells by the moon phases, so I don't think you need to trash this jar just because you started it during the waning moon. Just keep working it. And I like the idea of "keeping the flame alive" in a steady but gentle way while you two take the time you need and get your lives back in order. This sounds like solid work.

Good luck to you.

JAD82017 · Unread post by **JAD82017** » Tue Jul 18, 2017 4:05 am

Hi Sister Jean,

Thank you so much for your reply! I burnt a free standing candle on top again last night (I'm going to do M,W & F) and it was a clean burn, steady flame for the most part but sometimes when I would speak to it, the flame would rise up. Is that normal? Also, we spoke last night. I initiated it because I needed confirmation on whether or not we were still sharing a hotel for the wedding we are going to. His reply was "yes ma'am" and nothing more. I'm slightly disappointed in his reply but I guess it's a good thing since we'll be spending 3 days together. Finally, I had a reading done and the woman that did it said that there was hope & suggested that I write "Return to me" on a pink candle for 7 days. I know you said not all spiritual workers do their working by the moon phases but I was wondering if you think I should do her suggestion according to the moon phase and whether or not that should be on top of my jar or something completely separate? Thank you so much for your time!

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jul 18, 2017 6:29 pm

Hello, JAD82017,

Yes, flames rising when talking to it does occur frequently.

As far as your second question, this is entirely up to you. We can only guide with suggestions and choices.

What does your heart say? Use your intuition!

Take care!

JAD82017 · Unread post by **JAD82017** » Wed Jul 19, 2017 3:17 am

Thank you!

JAD82017 · Unread post by **JAD82017** » Thu Jul 20, 2017 7:06 am

Good morning,

Sorry to bother again! So, last night I got this overwhelming urge to create another honey jar. I have no idea why and for some reason I felt like I should reuse the items in my original honey jar- combine them if you will. So after about two hours of prep work and the strangest feeling of being led to do this jar, I finally completed it. I wrote our names 7 times each in a tic-tac toe board type fashion. I wrote my desire without lifting my pen in a circle around our names and then I placed two pictures of us together inside that paper, our full names and birthdays on the back of both pictures. I put personal items (a piece of his boxers, two items of his writing-one of them saying I love you- & a used condom) in the center along with rose petals and ginger. Folded it towards me then tied a rubber band around it because it wouldn't stay folded. Placed honey on top of it along with two pink hearts, one with his name and birth, the other with mine, both magnetized. I put a blue candle on top for communication (Wednesday being good for communication workings too) and was planning on doing an orange tonight to open any road blocks. I'm not trying to force him into loving me, I'm just trying to keep the flame we had alive until our lives are settled and less hectic.
Now, like I mentioned before, I had this overwhelming urge to create this new jar. I had asked in a previous post if I should make a second jar due to it being the waning moon when I created my original jar and I was basically told no, moon phases don't always matter so I had decided to just keep the original then last night I felt like I was being pulled to create the second. I did everything I mentioned above, glued a picture of our hands intertwined to the inside of the lid then closed it. I meditated and spoke to it as if I were speaking to him. Then I decided to decorate the jar on a whim. I took silver and gold glass marker and started writing the qualities I want in our relationship (happiness, communication, etc) and put some stickers on it I had found from Valentine's Day. It FELT right last night, all of it. The blue candle burned down and left very little wax I felt like it was successful. However, I woke up this morning and I was emotional. I want to chalk it up to the anniversary of my friends death but I'm not sure, I can't decide if what I did last night was right or not? Also, I can't remember if when I wrote my petition I went through and crossed my T's and dotted my i's... If I didn't would that screw the whole thing up? Can I go back to look or would unfolding it screw it all up? Thanks for reading. Any and all help is appreciated!

Waspqueen28 · Unread post by **Waspqueen28** » Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:03 am

My partner and I of 5 and a half years are getting married in a couple weeks-August 5th 2017. I am thrilled to marry him, he's my best friend. I am feeling a lot of anxiety, though about the wedding day and days leading up. We are hosting all our family and friends on the off grid property we have been caretaking for the past year. It's beautiful out here, but for some it will really be roughing it. We don't have an inside space, just a tent. We live in Western NC which tends to rain like crazy on most summer afternoons. I'm wondering if there is a spell or blessing I can do to encourage good weather.

Furthermore, my family stresses me out a lot. I am wanting to feel at ease, supported and relaxed on our wedding weekend. Around my family I tend to feel dumb, irresponsible, and little. Hoping to show my family the beautiful life I lead and not fall into the guilt ridden role I tend to hold in our family.

And one more thing! (Sorry) I'm supposed to start bleeding on our wedding day. I tend to have VERY painful periods, and crave alone time during them. Any blessing to encourage a pain-free, meaningful, grounded and more extroverted period?

Thanks a million!

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:24 pm

Hello, JAD82017

These questions are impossible to answer without a reading

I'm sorry

But I can answer your last question: don't open up the petition paper.

Just try to have some patience and don't second guess yourself

Yu can always add a second petition paper to it

take care

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:30 pm

Hello, Waspqueen28 ,

Congratulations!

You could always petition one of the Saints for assistance

www.luckymojo.com/patronsaints.html

Again, congrats!

Waspqueen28 · Unread post by **Waspqueen28** » Sun Jul 23, 2017 4:04 am

Thank you Miss Aida! When one petitions a saint, what do you do? Pray to it? Make an altar? Light candles? Something else?

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Jul 23, 2017 11:57 am

Hello Waspqueen28,

Praying to a saint and creating a small altar dedicated to them on which you light candles is customary, but the offerings and altars can vary according to whom the altar is for. So, figure out who you're going to work with, and then learn about that particular saint.

Take care.

seekinginsight · Unread post by **seekinginsight** » Wed May 16, 2018 8:12 am

Greetings,
I regret that I had an affair last year. I'm working things out with my spouse. I've cut off all contact w/the other person. I'm giving my all to address this situation: I'm getting weekly therapy. I've built a relationship w/a local Baba; I consulted a local conjurer to do protection work & trust work; my spouse & I have built ancestral altars so ancestors can bless our efforts.I'm doing salt baths & hyssop baths, etc. There's progress. but there's one major issue that worries me:

Independently of each other, w/my therapist & my Baba each clarified that my affair was an outlet from the co-dependency in my marriage. My wife is an amazing go-getter. I realized about 2 years in the marriage that she has a learning disability that hinders her writing. She's so smart that people in her community either didn't notice or said "she's smart so she'll be fine." So she got no specialized help growing up. She's been able to get several degrees w/this disability. But in her current program, it's catching up w/her. Her department is a mess, the profs don't support the students, & the semesters are very short. It got so bad that over the past year & a half I composed her papers for her since her anxiety & disability hinder her writing. This is unsustainable for me, both in principle (I'm a teacher too!) & personally, because it's a serious imbalance.

The problem is that my wife will not acknowledge this work I've done, or admit that this "help" has taken an unhealthy turn. If I bring this up, she says I don't give enough in the relationship anyway & that I really don't want her to finish the program, that I'm jealous of her potential success. The therapist & the Baba each said she's holding on to these accusations to avoid facing herself, dealing w/self-doubt, feeling like she owes me, etc. It's so bad that even my mother-in-law is worried & called my mom about this. That's a big deal because the learning disability's genetic. My father-in-law used to do my mother-in-law's work in her grad school program too. THEY DIVORCED PARTLY OVER THIS IMBALANCE.

What spells can help my wife face herself on this matter? or reveal to her that I want her to succeed, but if I keep doing this for her, it'll work against her in the long-run? What can I do on my own behalf? It's so dispiriting being accused of not caring even when I'm doing the work she won't do for herself. I do NOT want to cheat anymore. I want us to face this, grow & heal together. thanks for any insight!

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat May 19, 2018 10:57 am

Hello seekinginsight,

This sounds like a very complicated situation, and I think a good first step would be to get a reading to find out what would be the best course of action. You can find readers here:

http://hoodoopsychics.com/
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Take care.

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun May 27, 2018 11:10 pm

Hello seekinginsight --

In addition to consulting a reader, preferably an astrologer, to view the long-term prognosis, i would suggest some simple work around these ideas: Clarity, (King Solomon) Wisdom, and (Crucible of) Courage. Simple white candles dressed with these oils -- small candles, even tea lights -- with suitable orayers for the marriage, such as Psalms 45, would help.

Best of luck to you.

mizznana002 · Unread post by **mizznana002** » Fri Jul 06, 2018 2:09 pm

Hey everyone,
I just had a question I'm having a situation where I'm trying to fix my relationship with my significant other but I had a little fling(no sex) with his best friend while we were together and he is now becoming suspicious and having dreams about it. I dont want him to find out from the friend or anyone else and I dont kjow oh if he knows but how can I magically keep this a secret and keep him from finding out?

Miss Nikki · Unread post by **Miss Nikki** » Sat Jul 07, 2018 8:36 pm

Greetings, mizznana0002.

I recommend stop gossip. Stop gossip does exactly as its named. Here is the link to Lucky Mojo’s stop gossip products:

http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

Good luck!

Miss Nikki

seekinginsight · Unread post by **seekinginsight** » Thu Aug 02, 2018 9:09 pm

Thank you, sistajean and catherineyronwoode for your suggestions. I'll share a brief update as it may help others.

I followed your advice & consulted a reader. The baba, therapist & reader each said this a pivotal time where the marriage can be rejuvenated IF my wife chooses to join me in reconciling. The reader, who is skilled in astrology, clarified what's at stake. My wife married me partly to avoid facing certain issues in her life since she thought I could fill in those gaps (including her educational process). She doesn't understand that she's been tasked with disrupting patterns that have troubled her family for generations. She started sub-consciously running from this well before I met her. Her ancestors are looking to bless her (& anyone else in the family) financially, health-wise, etc, for stepping up to do this. As it stands, she still can't see what she'll gain from facing herself and, by extension, her family's long-term struggles. Either she can approach this in an affirmative way or she can run from it only to run smack into it.

My challenge is to accept that I cannot "fix" this; only she can do it. I am supposed to stay consistent in working on myself (keep praying, keep doing my baths, and getting help) & give her the space to "grow" as her ancestors want her to do... or not. It's difficult knowing things could go either way. But I won't be the excuse for her not stepping up. I love her & want to show respect to her ancestors. So i'm doing my best to fellow the guidance I'm receiving from several sources.

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Aug 05, 2018 9:54 am

Hello seekinginsight,

Thank you for keeping us updated on your situation, and for following the advice of the professionals you have consulted. I hope you back up this knowledge with the spellwork suggestions that Miss Cat gave you.

Take care.

purplekisses · Unread post by **purplekisses** » Fri Oct 05, 2018 8:52 am

Hello everyone,

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we've had ups and downs and sideways, but we love each other and always find a way to resolve our issues. I've posted about him before a loooong time ago during a time he got super angry at me and I freaked out. Since then we've gone to couples counseling which has helped us a lot!!!

I should mention that he is a Scorpio (I'm a Capricorn woman), so his emotions can get on the intense side with anybody. He is definitely not abusive, but what scares me is that he will get fed up and leave me (hello, abandonment issues!). He says he's not going anywhere but I still worry sometimes. We were doing really well lately until last night/this morning. He's an asst coach and was upset I didn't attend a game last night even though I'm attending another one tonight, and have been to several this fall so far. I also didn't think I would make it in time last night after getting off work and would've had traffic. After he ignored some calls and texts from me he called and I apologized for not communicating more about it. Not sure if he's accepted this apology but at least he spoke to me..right?

My question is how do I manage his moodiness whenever it strikes to keep us moving forward? I started a honey jar on him in May and put a couple rose petals in it from a bouquet he got for my granny. I can't remember if I put some of his hair in it, but I have more pieces of his hair that I could add. I usually burn a white candle dressed with Reconciliation oil on top of this jar. I've also dressed a white candle with Clearing & Unblocking oil too. Can I add something else? Any advice would be appreciated.

Edward T · Unread post by **Edward T** » Fri Oct 05, 2018 9:55 am

Purplekisses
I’m happy for you that things have reconciled with the two of you. Relationships do need maintaining. The honey jar is great. I would add any personal concerns of his into the jar to strengthen it, ( hair) is perfect.
I would also suggest doing more contact work with him, fixing his food,( lunches, dinner, cookies.) this in addition with the honey jar will be great. I would suggest reading this book Hoodoo Food.
http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoofood.html
Best of luck to you. Edward T

purplekisses · Unread post by **purplekisses** » Wed Oct 10, 2018 5:15 pm

So my bf and I don't live together. (I'm moving into my own place in a month and will be closer to him though.) I've made attempts to cook for him this week, but he's barely speaking to me. He just replies to my good morning texts. I just talked to him for the first time in 6 days and he doesn't sound interested in talking to me. He's good for doing this and I hate it because I get scared he's going to leave (abandonment issues I have). I also don't know what to say or do to fix things either. I've just been giving him space.

I know this Venus retrograde could have something to do with it all and sadly it doesn't end until after his birthday. (Ends Nov 16, his bday is the 15th). Does anyone have any other suggestions? I've had a mojo bag for him for several months and fed it again a couple days ago.

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Oct 10, 2018 5:36 pm

purplekisses ,

A honey jar to sweeten him to you, you can feed him the honey too, also feed your period blood when you have the chance, of crouse pray and petition over it. Deers tongue can be used to make someone talk. Love powders used on him as well as oils like come to me, follow me boy, love me, fiery love oil. Catnip is a great item to make him crazy about you. You can make a bath with it and soak then use the water to cook or make a drink for him. A skull candle to influence his thoughts, or figure candles one of you one of his with lodestones to draw him to you with the honey jar are also great ways to draw in.

Grgiegrl · Unread post by **Grgiegrl** » Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:21 pm

Hi. I’m new to this. I am looking for advice to bring my boyfriend closer to me. Have him open up more to me like he has done in the past. I also want to keep him faithful and to keep others hands off of him and vice versa. Any help with spells would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Nov 19, 2018 10:11 am

Hello Grgiegrl,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum; we're happy to have you here!

To help keep your boyfriend faithful, I'd recommend Lucky Mojo's fantastic Stay With Me products. If you visit the following page, you will find instructions on how to use them:

http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

To have him open up more to you, and be more communicative overall, check out the spells talked about in this thread:

spells-for-more-communication-between-l ... t4483.html

Good luck!

Grgiegrl · Unread post by **Grgiegrl** » Mon Nov 19, 2018 2:08 pm

Thank you. How long do these spells last? Is there a waiting period for them to begin like 10 days or so and how long do they last? Also, is there a way I can stop him from going on vacation? He is supposed to go away in February. Can I stop him from going?

RevJames · Unread post by **RevJames** » Mon Nov 19, 2018 3:29 pm

Grgiegrl -

How long will they last, how long till they begin? This can be variable. This link about "HOW LONG SHALL I WAIT FOR REAL MAGICK SPELLS TO WORK?" - http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html#11 Should help explain part of it. When it stops working, you do it again or try something else. Nothing lasts forever.

As for spells to prevent travel, I suggest you check out this forum topic - "Prevent Lover or Spouse from Relocating, Moving, Travelling" - prevent-lover-or-spouse-from-relocating ... 14237.html with over 160 posts on the topic, I'm sure you'll find something there!

Good Luck!

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Nov 19, 2018 3:31 pm

Grgiegrl ,

There is no specific time frame of when it will start. How long or fast matters based on your ability, talent, use of authentic items, prayer, Gods will. Gods will above all. There is no specific lasting time either. It is situational, you will notice in Hoodoo we often say , "you need a reading" , why? because a reading will answer those questions for you, along with what work specifically to do for this situation. General tips are good but just like when you go to a doctor you dont want general tips you want a diagnosis and a plan, that is what a reading offers you. In general after the work watch and wait for sign from the work, signs are very individualized so pay attention. Then watch for movement and finally the manifestation of the work. Some cases it is instant, others it takes a few weeks, some a few months. A general idea to guide you is if no change after 3 mo start over or do another job. Here is a link to the other question you are asking, how to stop a trip.

spells-to-prevent-someone-from-moving-t ... 25394.html

sunchild · Unread post by **sunchild** » Sun Jun 23, 2019 2:35 pm

hello. forgive me if this is somewhat off topic but i wouldn’t know where to exactly post it. so i got a cut and clear kit that i proceeded to do on my ex back in february. well i saw him one more time after and ended up getting pregnant so now it seems that he’s going to be in my life longer than intended. when we saw each other it felt like a fresh start due to all the arguments but definitely a type of severed emotional connection. what work would you recommend i could do to maybe intensify a connection more stronger again? thank you to anyone who replies with feedback !

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Jun 23, 2019 6:01 pm

Hello sunchild,

I've moved your post to the topic on strengthening a relationship, as this appears to be what you are asking about. Please read through the posts here for advice and ideas that can help you.

And congratulations on your pregnancy! I hope this is good news for you.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

browneyes · Unread post by **browneyes** » Tue Jul 16, 2019 6:03 pm

Hi all! A few years ago I had a reading and the root worker saw that someone was working against me and my partner. She saw that it was his child’s mother that was working to keep us apart. At the time she had me take two copies of pictures of us, place them on each side of a glass of water and place it into a shoebox. This was to create a relationship where we both saw eye to eye. From my understanding it worked because things were so great with my partner and I. Well recently I moved out of my place into his and in this process the shoebox got thrown away and it seems all hell as broke lose. We barely talk and he is so distant all of a sudden. The lady who I received a reading from is no longer in the area and I can’t contact her. I’m just looking for help to get our relationship back on track. I will add that I’m 8 months pregnant and not willing to do anything that will jeopardize by baby. I just am tired of living in these circumstances and it’s super stressful especially being that I’m pregnant. Is there anything I can do Please help!

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Jul 16, 2019 8:51 pm

Hello browneyes,

Either reconstruct that spell since it worked for you in the past (although I am unfamiliar with it), or consider one of the spells in this thread on strengthening your relationship.

If you feel you have been crossed by someone else, you would also want to work with Uncrossing products for you and your partner. Make sure you cleanse your home with Chinese Wash and put up protection to keep any further messes from sticking to you. You can find these products on the following links:
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protection.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.

browneyes · Unread post by **browneyes** » Mon Jul 22, 2019 1:49 am

Thank you Miss Athena!

Could you give me the steps to use all three of these or would I do it simultaneously? Also, is it save for me to do while pregnant?

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Jul 22, 2019 11:19 am

browneyes ,

You would wash the house first with chinese floor wash, then take a spiritual bath to remove it and wear protection to keep it off of you. A mojo made with protection products is great, as is dressing windows and doors of your home. I would check with a doctor before putting on items or bathing in herbs or oils, what is safe for one person many not be for another IE allergic reactions etc. Psalms 91 is recited for protection you can do that 3 times a day.

gozlynn8 · Unread post by **gozlynn8** » Tue Jan 07, 2020 5:35 pm

I have no idea where to ask this question, this seemed to be the closest category.
I would like to know if there is spell work that can be done against someone to feel empathy and guilt for hurting you. I don't mean hurting the target the same way they hurt you, I want them to feel bad about the damage they did and try to make up for it.

FiachnaCybele · Unread post by **FiachnaCybele** » Wed Jan 08, 2020 11:56 am

Hi gozlynn8,

You can find a thread with spell ideas for causing someone to feel guilt or remorse here:

bring-out-truth-confess-admit-error-fee ... 3-300.html

Thank you!

ComeOnInMyKitchen · Unread post by **ComeOnInMyKitchen** » Tue Jul 07, 2020 8:02 am

Miss Cat,

If I may ask, what would you recommend for a married couple, each wanting their own variants in their individual hands, but both wanting the sex portion geared toward their marital bed, and more specifically geared toward healing/closeness through physical love after years of extreme outside stressors on their marriage? The marriage is stronger than ever after pushing through the fire as they say and thus the bedroom is more heated than before, so what seeds would be oriented to continuing that current momentum that hard won deeper spiritual closeness brings to the physical side of a relationship?

Outside of seeds, things like roses and red clover jumped to mind, but I wondered if there was something that stayed in the minerals/seeds/herb division concept. Juniper of course jumps right out from the above list of options.

Thank you in advance and I hope yall are staying safe.

P.S. The LMCCo. Free Spell of the Week series is so great! I am so impressed with all the work yall are doing around the forum/site/etc the last couple of months.

Terra Rising · Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Wed Jul 08, 2020 6:06 am

ComeOnInMyKitchen,

I am not Miss Cat but I will do my best to answer your questions. From what I understand, the sexual passion is going great but you would like to be closer spiritually. For that I would recommend Adam and Eve products. It will help bring about the ideal love in a marriage. As two individuals naturally made for one another.

As far as seeds go, have you seen the page called Hoodoo at a Glance? It gives a quick breakdown of herbs/roots/seeds and other curios listed by condition. https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooataglance.html

I hope this helps.

ComeOnInMyKitchen · Unread post by **ComeOnInMyKitchen** » Thu Jul 09, 2020 10:15 am

Miss Terra,

I apologize for a belated reply; busy days around here. You are always super helpful, thank you!

I’ve never used Adam & Eve products and will definitely seek that out. Maybe on a pink candle/sugar jar with some appropriate additions to back up the work of the hands? I read back through this thread when my post was moved to it and saw the ideas about sugar jars for a couple (without cutting and pasting, page 1 of thread about halfway down for reference of other forum users). Fantastic ideas there!

And I had totally blipped on the Hoodoo at a Glance page. I’ve been trying to read through all of Miss Cat’s Hoodoo Theory and Practice pages and so much info I guess I just hadn’t even thought about the at a glance page since the link for it in introductions. I use the quick reference in the back of HHRM pretty frequently, so I’ll make myself a note there about at a glance so I don’t forget again!

Thank you again for your advice and please stay safe.

Terra Rising · Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Fri Jul 10, 2020 7:21 am

ComeOnInMyKitchen,

You could use it on a pink or white candle. Another idea came to me. I would work ancestors from both his family and yours. Offering cold fresh water and a small white candle lit in their honor on Sundays is a great way to start. Working this way could lead to a deeper understanding. They can also give you insights to regarding your partner if things aren't going the way they should.

I'm glad you found it helpful. It can get confusing because many herbs can be used for multiple conditions. I'm not sure if all herbs are listed there but it covers a great deal of them. I usually click on the herb and read the description because it gives spells for small mojos/packets and what other herbs to blend them with.

ComeOnInMyKitchen · Unread post by **ComeOnInMyKitchen** » Fri Jul 10, 2020 5:19 pm

Terra,

Synchronicity! I just had some insight from an ancestor yesterday that aligns similarly with what you're recommending. It isn't at all a matter of things not going as they should so much as maybe an attempt to recoup "lost time" stolen by outside stressors. Not that time can be gotten back, but available time can be made of the utmost quality and that's nearly as good.

That's what prompted my original question as to which direction to go with choosing which seeds to include.

As far as your suggestion, one of the past problems/stressors included particular person/persons and asking for ancestral help keeping back that sort of person wouldn't have jumped to mind right off, but the minute I read your post very particular names came to mind who would be exceedingly helpful and I'd bet willing, so I'll certainly ask. Lined up with the other protective work in place, what a great suggestion to prevent any more interference with the quality time being built. I love that you always suggest things that just wouldn't have jumped immediately to mind! And agreed, trying to remember every use with herbs on the fly seems like a fool's errand. I totally do the same with the descriptions and admit there may be a few of the same descriptions saved off packets ordered from LM stuck in appropriate spots in my books.

Thank you again for your help.

greentea · Unread post by **greentea** » Mon Jul 13, 2020 9:14 pm

Hello LM,

Hope everyone is well and hanging tight in this crazy
situation with covid-19. if this is not the right thread to post the following question, my apologies and pls move it to the right topic...

In midst of what’s going on, meeting my man became a hardship due to this shelter in place situation, hence, our relationship seems to be needing a lift. Besides honey jar, fire of love spells (which i already have going) are there any love strengthen spells that we could incorporate in the coronavirus spell that Miss Cat posted above? Which Saint is appropriate to ask for a miracle for my man to initiate affectionate action to enhance our relationship despite our isolation due to the world situation?

Thank you for any advice in advance.

Terra Rising · Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Wed Jul 15, 2020 7:06 am

greentea,

Have you considered working with a doll baby? This will help you influence him even though you are a part. Other than that it sounds like you already tried a lot of what I would suggest. A reading could help steer you in the right direction. It could also identify any underlying issues.

Doll babies for love work: doll-babies-for-love-and-healing-t29089.html

Professional readers at AIRR: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/

Good Luck.

greentea · Unread post by **greentea** » Wed Jul 15, 2020 4:38 pm

thank you Ms Terra Rising. I realize the coronavirus spell that
Miss Cat posted wasn’t on this thread. I was going to post my questions under the virus spell thread initially and decided this thread is more appropriate so sorry if that creates confusion.

I do already have a doll baby, a nation sack, skull candle spell, think of me box... lol. all thanks to LM and they were all working in different times. I also have had both phone and email reading with two different AIRR. Just not during this pandemic because it’s something that I probably know what the reading might be.. not anyone can do much about this situation.

Any suggestions on which Saints I can seek help from for granting wishes despite difficult times?

Thank you again.

RisenRaven · Unread post by **RisenRaven** » Thu Jul 16, 2020 9:06 pm

Hi greentea (nice username!)

There’s a thread here on choosing saints to work with deities-angels-spirits-saints-selecting ... t8058.html

and then after that there’s a section of the board that already has threads for nearly all of them and their supplies.

religious-goods-and-altar-tools-in-hood ... e-f23.html

Lucky Mojo also hosts this list of patron saints for various conditions and occupations https://www.luckymojo.com/patronsaints.html

Pyromancer · Unread post by **Pyromancer** » Thu Jul 30, 2020 3:30 pm

Sometimes due to this stressful situation people are pulling away, not because they want to, but because they have lost income, their home, or other things have been happening. I’m not saying that’s what’s going on with you, but I have clients that expressed this to me. One man I did a love jar for, his wife would not touch him for three years. Within three weeks of doing his spell she is back with him and loving and romantic. He had major money issues but spent what he has to get his wife back. Just do your spells and have faith

greentea · Unread post by **greentea** » Mon Aug 03, 2020 4:43 pm

Thank you Pyromancer. You are absolutely correct. What you said has reminded me that I should do a self confident spell on myself before continuing love work on my man. During these difficult times, I myself need some faith as well.

Zoya · Unread post by **Zoya** » Sun Aug 16, 2020 7:16 am

Hello,

This is my very first post to this forum and I have recently started reading this forum. I am in a bit of a confusion of where should I exactly start regarding my issue and hence this post. I would appreciate your help. I met my fiancé in December last year and he soon proposed to me in February. But ever since we have had a very bad relationship, and he broke up with me. I met a psychic who did a love spell on him and he has changed a little. But he still doesn’t treat me well. He is very stubborn, controlling, insecure, uses bad language, says hurtful things, is completely unfair, and I feel the relation is all about him as if I don’t even exist. I would like to do something so that he treats me well, doesn’t try to control me, cooperates with me, comprises with me, appreciates me, acknowledge my effort, understand me, listens to me, supports me, and overall be in harmony with me. Honestly, I would like to have some control or upper hand in this relationship as I have none. I am soon supposed to get married to him and I would like to have a happy, blessed and peaceful marriage. Please help.

May God Bless Everyone.
Thanks!

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Aug 16, 2020 3:43 pm

Hello Zoya,

You are in the right topic area for spell advice on improving a relationship. There are lots of ideas here so read from the first page and I'm sure you will find something that can help you.

However I have to weigh in here. You knew this man for only two months before becoming engaged to him, and within six months of that he has become controlling, disrespectful and hurtful towards you. Do you believe he will reverse that behavior once you're married?

If this were me, I would get a reading to determine what is motivating him and what my outlook for success would be in getting him to behave in a more loving and respectful manner. You can find reputable readers here, who can also advise on rootwork based on what the reading reveals:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/

I worry that you are only seeing the tip of the iceberg with him so please look after yourself. I wish you the very best of luck.