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Hot Foot to Send Away and Cut Contact with My Own Ex

Unread postby Powhattan » Fri May 07, 2010 9:19 am

Greetings Everyone,
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My son's father and I still live together, even though we are no longer a couple. When we first separated he asked if he could stay until he got himself together. I said ok. It has been years and he is still living in the house. Every time I asked him when he was leaving he would become very nasty and tell me that he will leave when he gets ready. We never have gotten along and I have tried to work with him for the sake of our son, but he is difficult to get along with, along with not wanting to pay bills. His name is not on the lease, so I am trying to keep this as amicable and quiet as possible so that the management office does not find out about our arrangement.

To make a long story short, he is unemployed and his benefits has run out. He met a girl online and is staying out of state with her for the time being. The problem is that he meets girls and then if there are any shortcomings in their personalities he is ready to book and come back to me. He became very nasty with me and threatened me if I did try to stop him from coming back. He accused me of trying to keep him from seeing his son. That is not the case. I had a conversation with him yesterday and I told him to make it work with her because she is willing to help him and I cannot pay all the bills and feed him too. He does not have any money. When he was at the house paying the utility bills he paid just enough to keep the service on. Now I am stuck trying to pay all of these bills in addition to my rent.

He told me that we was coming back and he was not going to let me know when. I know time is of the essence here but I would appreciate any help because I do not have any where to move and this is not working for me. I just want him to leave, I get along better when he don't live together and I am willing to work together on behalf of our child.
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Re: To Remove Ex-Boyfriend From My House

Unread postby chy clayton s » Fri May 07, 2010 10:37 am

Um, have your landlord change the locks and get a restraining order....

Order a FWP candle burned at the Church.

Then cleanse the apartment, yourself, and your son of him - I'd use eggs and take them far away and throw them at a tree for disposal.

Then get a doll baby and hot foot him, as well as spreading hot foot sachet powder across every possible entrace to you complex (with complete focus on him not being welcome.

After that - I would consider hiring a aair rootworker for help.
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Re: To Remove Ex-Boyfriend From My House

Unread postby Powhattan » Fri May 07, 2010 10:58 am

Thank you Chy for your quick response. One question: what is a FWP candle?
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Re: To Remove Ex-Boyfriend From My House

Unread postby Powhattan » Fri May 07, 2010 11:00 am

I thought about using a spell to bring them together so he would not want to leave her too.
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Re: To Remove Ex-Boyfriend From My House

Unread postby Katie_Did1111 » Fri May 07, 2010 11:13 am

My instinct says Hot Foot the bastard into oblivion first thing, and lock the psychic doors behind him with heavy-duty protective work. Getting a reading is of course well-advised before beginning work, particularly against nasties like this.

In many states, you can't just change the locks on someone even if you're the only person on the lease; it's considered an illegal eviction. (Unfortunate in your case, but this protected me from becoming homeless at the whim of my abusive, resource-draining ex; it all depends on the situation.) However, you *can* take him to court! So check the laws in your state.

May I also recommend calling a domestic violence hotline? Regardless of whether or not he has become violent YET, you *are* being abused and you seem to understand that he's never going to change; he's only going to get worse. If you're worried about them sending police to your home, call them on *67 or from a pay phone. Tell them everything and find out what your options are-- I promise you have them. Restraining orders are another tricky thing to deal with, but I managed to get one because in my case there were assualts, and they can help you determine what you need to do regardless. (Not sure about your location, but if you happen to be in L.A, I can actually tell you *exactly* where to start.)

You deserve a happy, peaceful existence without some scum bleeding you dry, and your son deserves a mother who can be 100% healthy and present for him. As much as you, as a good person, don't want to keep him from knowing his father, he is honestly better off growing up with a strong mother who didn't tolerate disrespect than seeing his father treat you this way and internalizing this as a model of how to treat women.

Finally, you might need to consider simply moving to a new place yourself. Does that seem unfair to you? It IS! It's totally disgusting what he's doing to you. But your safety and well-being are the most important thing. There's nothing else.

I can't imagine going through this with a child, and I'm amazed by your strength. Best of luck.

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Re: To Remove Ex-Boyfriend From My House

Unread postby sweetie » Fri May 07, 2010 11:32 am

I agree with Katie_Did. Not only does he take your energy and time to deal with when he's around but he's blocking good things from coming into your life-- he's got to go or you've got to get away. If you've got a big burly friend or cousin, now would be the time to invite them over for dinner-- or to sleep on your couch-- every single time your ex shows up at least until the legal work is done and the hotfoot takes.

Abusers don't like it when you have a social network, because it makes it harder for them to keep you off balance when there are people watching (people who can also reassure you that you are not a crazy person and that he's a jerk.)
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Re: To Remove Ex-Boyfriend From My House

Unread postby chy clayton s » Fri May 07, 2010 11:52 am

Fiery Wall of Protection

http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... vices.html

Fiery Wall of Protection glass vigil candle set on our altar
To keep the house safe, to protect people from enemies.

8" tall; orange wax; includes fixing the candle with herbs and oils, your petition, and prayer, plus a candle report mailed to you.
Please state your petition(s) in the comment field when you order. $17

For the immediate need while you sort out what to do next.

There's also a great spell kit - http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-fiery-wall.html
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Re: To Remove Ex-Boyfriend From My House

Unread postby jwmcclin » Fri May 07, 2010 1:37 pm

Cleansing and protection are appropriate. Also take the advice above and identify a reader to see what path to take... You definitely deserve a peaceful home where you and your child feels safe.
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Re: To Remove Ex-Boyfriend From My House

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Fri May 07, 2010 7:15 pm

You should get a reading, but hold your hand when it comes to hotfooting him. Personally, I think a hotfoot should be reserved for a more extreme case. It is easy to be harsh, but it is not always the right thing to do. This is the boys father and you want to consider before you cut the ties between father and son.

A reading will help determine if a hotfoot is the correct action or if another angle is advised.

In this particular instance it would be more wise to move him away, then work legal route to get him to pay child support. The courts will ensure that he starts getting on his feet and starting to act like a real father. Work Court Case conjure to help yourself in that angle. Again the reading can give you more indepth methods on how to go about this.
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Hot footing an ex whom you rent from?

Unread postby QematetSau » Thu Jan 12, 2012 11:08 am

Hey everybody,

I'm renting from my ex. A crazy alcoholic that is getting crazier everyday. At the time of initial renting he wasn't crazy. He doesn't live in the premises but stays about 3 minutes from me. He's abusive verbally and physically. The issue is I can't move out until March because he's refusing to give me back my rent money for this month and my original deposit money. I don't have the luxury to pack and leave and not get my money. I have managed to report him several times, and I'm getting a protection order against him as of today.

My question is can I hot foot him now and rent from him for a couple of months? I just want him away until I leave. I will then get him out of my life for good with a Black Walnut Bath.

I have hot foot powder, essence of bend over, controlling/compelling oil, protection oil, powder, and bath crystals, and van van oil. I have this handy until I order more recommended stuff.

Thanks...
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Re: Hot footing an ex whom you rent from?

Unread postby QematetSau » Thu Jan 12, 2012 11:31 am

I also have Florida Water.
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Re: Hot footing an ex whom you rent from?

Unread postby MaryBee » Thu Jan 12, 2012 12:38 pm

If he is physically abusive to you, it doesn't matter if he's the landlord, call the police. He needs to go to jail if he's threatening you. That said, if you want him to stay away from you I wouldn't hot foot him; if he's a crazy alcoholic it could make him even more restless and irritable. Lay down Protection powder at the front and back of your place, praying that all danger stays away from you.
I'd make a doll baby of him and bind its' hands and feet together so he can't hurt you, and put the bound dolly in the corner facing the wall so he can't go anywhere. When you're ready to move, untie the dolly so he can give you your money. Get a copy of all lease papers and have them ready to show to cops or judges in case he fights it.

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Re: Hot footing an ex whom you rent from?

Unread postby QematetSau » Thu Jan 12, 2012 1:03 pm

Thanks MaryBee!

What herbs should I put in the doll baby besides Irish Spring?
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Re: Hot footing an ex whom you rent from?

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Thu Jan 12, 2012 3:28 pm

A hot foot sends him packing. What you need is a Fiery Wall of Protection to keep him away from you and to keep your protected.

Follow this up with Pay Me work.
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Re: Hot footing an ex whom you rent from?

Unread postby QematetSau » Thu Jan 12, 2012 3:47 pm

That makes more sense ConjureMan Ali. I'm glad I had ordered a FWP spellkit and still have it. Thank you!
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Help removing ex husband away from my kids and myself

Unread postby Faith14 » Sat Feb 04, 2012 8:48 am

Long story short my ex husband is abusive. i have 3 small kids from him. I had a restraining order on him but it expired- didnt know i could renew it. He is an evil man. My divorce just went thru. i have been able to keep him away from my kids for 2 yrs. He pays me not a penny in child support in 3 yrs. At this point I dont care, I dont want his money. Now that the decree is in he's harrasing me on seeing the kids. How do i get him to forget about me and my kids and leave us alone. I want him far away. Absolutely no contact, nothing from him. I have pics, info, but no personals on him. well may have one shirt in storage but not sure.
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Re: Help removing ex husband away from my kids and myself

Unread postby Mama Micki » Sat Feb 04, 2012 10:12 am

See an attorney and find out what your legal rights are. Court Case products will help you in that area.

I'd have no problem Hotfooting (or worse!) an abusive ex. I'd also recommend a 13-herb bath to get rid of negativity, then a Fiery Wall of Protection spell.
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Re: Help removing ex husband away from my kids and myself

Unread postby Faith14 » Sun Feb 12, 2012 11:10 am

whats the closest thing to dume. i want this man to wish he were dead. hes back to trying to take my kids. he is making my life MISERABLE. he is evil and manipulative and i want him to lose EVERYTHING. health, money, all family and girlfriend, property, mental stability. everything.
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Re: Help removing ex husband away from my kids and myself

Unread postby MmeOpproah » Sun Feb 19, 2012 8:56 am

I'll be watching this thread with interest. I'm in exactly the same situation but I don't just want him to wish he were dead, I want him actually dead.
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Re: Help removing ex husband away from my kids and myself

Unread postby Mama Micki » Sun Feb 19, 2012 3:39 pm

Be sure that crossing work is justified. If you are skilled in reading, do it yourself. If not, contact a member of AIRR.

Crossing is a general bad luck formula is cross him up. Damnation makes his life hell. Confusion or Inflammatory Confusion will mess with his mind. DUME is "Death Unto My Enemies." You decide what is appropriate or ask your reader.
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Re: Help removing ex husband away from my kids and myself

Unread postby Miss Tammie Lee » Sun Feb 19, 2012 6:52 pm

AIRR:
http://readersandrootworkers.org
Court Case Workers of AIRR:
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/C ... ff_the_Law
See this link:
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/C ... _Break_Ups

This link is the one that will help you the most and will keep you on the right track and keep you out of trouble. Don't go "off" in the court room and don't do anything stupid or illegal.
I mean this with kindness of heart. Have courage and conviction and stick to it! See that third link and contact one of those Members of AIRR to help you, ok?

http://www.luckymojo.com/archangelmichael.html
Take care, both you and your children and anyone else who reads this who needs help with abuse and the courts. Keep in mind that every single community in the United States has battered women's shelters for you, programs to help and counseling to encourage and move forward.
Most-- importantly CALL law enforcement if there is imminent danger.
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Re: Help removing ex husband away from my kids and myself

Unread postby Faith14 » Thu Feb 23, 2012 7:43 am

thank u everyone for all your advice. oh its most defiently justified work. im actually being 2 kind.
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Re: Help removing ex husband away from my kids and myself

Unread postby wendy2black » Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:56 pm

I am also watching this thread because I am in a similar situation. But I don't wish him death because I don't want that to come back on me or something.

I can't trust him. He never wanted the child, yet when he married he said he was a better parent than I was because he was married. The union did not last one year. He blamed the break up on him having to pay me child support, then he wanted to give up his rights so he won't have to pay child support, and now he's trying to come back.

My child does not need instability. Yes I am a single parent from the beginning, but it is consistent. I believe he has a motive and I am not going to let him hurt my child if I can help it.

I am seeking legal counsel.
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Hot Foot to Send Away and Cut Contact with My Own Ex

Unread postby Mel Casey » Mon Nov 03, 2014 6:17 am

I have a situation that an ex fling has been trying to sabotage me by contacting me asking for money via text, mailing threatening letters to my address. I am wondering if I should work with banishing or hot foot products ? She live in another state, therefore, I don't have physical contact with her to use sachet powder. What can I do to get her to stop contacting me via phone, email, mail. Any information will be appreciated.
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Re: Hot Foot to Send Away and Cut Contact with My Own Ex

Unread postby Miss Aida » Mon Nov 03, 2014 8:23 pm

Hello, Machito ,

Yikes.

First of all, if she's threatening you via United States Post Office, I believe that this is a Federal offense. Please take the letters to the post office and ask for the Manager. You can file formal complaints. And then also take to the police.

I would go with Hot Foot Candles and banishing candles.

You might want to consider a run of them to insure that she stays away.

I hope this helps.

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Re: Hot Foot to Send Away and Cut Contact with My Own Ex

Unread postby Mel Casey » Tue Nov 04, 2014 6:00 pm

Do you suggest a banish candle ritual ? or a hotfoot candle vigil ?
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Re: Hot Foot to Send Away and Cut Contact with My Own Ex

Unread postby Ms Melanie » Wed Nov 05, 2014 1:31 pm

Hi Mel Casey,

I think what Miss Aida was saying is do 3 of each Vigil in a row.

Hope this helps!
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Cut Ties - Get Over it - suggestions

Unread postby JustTool » Tue Mar 07, 2017 5:43 pm

I have a strange situation and I'm actually going to a real live rootworker in a couple of days, but like, right now at this moment it's just on my mind.

I worked with a healer a while back and she thought a relationship with him was a mistake. I had gotten to the point where I was just emotionally drained by the whole situation with him, and I just wanted it to be mercifully over with, and I thought it ended as good as those things ever can.

The "break-up" happened. I wanted him gone. He went. He was gone a long time.

Then he contacted me. I was not thrilled to hear from him. Then, I felt bad for being kind of a rude witch, so I apologized for being an a-hole, and asked if he needed anything, and the interaction was very strange (different than it used to be) and it's because he has a new relationship and it's pretty serious. But, he said he missed me, missed what we had, and I started to remember that at one time we were very close.

So I agreed that we could be friends (which is different for me, because I'm one of those people who has trouble with any kind of relationship and it's take me so long to get over friendships, relationships even when they have run their course).

Oh, and he told me loved me, and I guess I love him also, but the situation is not feasible.

So, then I felt pretty good about stuff, sort of, and then I get an email from his girlfriend who tells me to leave him alone, as if I'm the one who instigated it.

All these interactions happened over the internet. I got slimed via the internet, and now here I am sitting here thinking that if I won the lottery, then I would go snatch him away from that troll he is with now (because he would come, I know it). I'm pretty sure that there is no way in this life it's ever going to work out short of a miracle, and I do not want to feel like this.

And I was doing just fine! I was done. Now it's all fresh pain and I can't stand it.

So I was tempted to do all this kind of negative work on them, and even started preparations, but I don't want to do that, not really. I want to be ok with me, so that whatever is going on around me does not affect me. I spent Sunday with Psalms.

He has a lot of issues, and sucks at all the grown-up aspects of life (like paying bills) but he has something about him that I liked, but there is just no way. So, yeah, unless I win the Powerball, I just don't see it happening. So, the practical thing has been done, and now I'm sitting here missing him even though it doesn't have a snowball's chance in hell. What about a coffin spell on me so I don't have to feel like this? It sucks. Put me in the coffin.
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Re: Hot Foot to Send Away and Cut Contact with My Own Ex

Unread postby natstein » Wed Mar 08, 2017 8:00 pm

Hello Just Tool,

I would not recommend putting yourself in a coffin. That really is a terrible idea as you would be symbolically killing yourself. I would recommend a Cut and Clear spell (http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html).

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Re: Hot Foot to Send Away and Cut Contact with My Own Ex

Unread postby JustTool » Thu Mar 09, 2017 8:03 am

thanks for the suggestion. y'all are a serious bunch around here. :)
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Re: Hot Foot to Send Away and Cut Contact with My Own Ex

Unread postby autumnmist » Fri Oct 13, 2017 7:54 pm

Good evening,

I would like to banish my ex lover away from me and my thoughts away from him.

My ex lives literally across the street from me. He is abusive, cruel, and a meth addict (iv user). We have been lovers since 2014. He is the only man my son knows. He has some hold on me and caused me such insecurities (I understand I allowed this). I trully want nothing to do with him. I dont want to think about him. I don't even want to speak his name.

I cannot move at the moment (which is always my first response, to run but I cannot afford it).

I want him to move. I want to feel free to open my windows and not see him, to allow my children to play outside and not have to worry about him talking to them or influencing them, to walk to my mailbox and not worry that he will be there.

I know he is interested in a new lover, which is great and trully helps my cause (although I'm almost sad for her and her child but that is not my concern nor do I even know her).

I have done a clear and cut spell, buried the good in my yardn burned the bad and buried at the cross roads. I dont know what else to do. I have a poppet and his concerns, i think this could be used but I'm not sure.

I dont necessarily want him harmed (I believe with his addiction, he is already miserable and will continue to be, he is in his own hell). I just want freedom! I want him banished from me and my children. He is not their blood nor is he healthy for any of us.

I thank you from the bottom of my heart and hope everyone is safe from the fires.

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Re: Hot Foot to Send Away and Cut Contact with My Own Ex

Unread postby Sister Jean » Sat Oct 14, 2017 4:54 pm

Hello autumnmist,

I would suggest you take two steps to act against this problem:

Work the Hot Foot Spell Kit against your ex and also sprinkle Hot Foot powder where he will walk through it (mix it with local dirt so it will be practically invisible):

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

Next, take a walnut bath to cut him out of your life forever (no, it won't hurt him):

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
(scroll down)

Good luck!
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Re: Hot Foot to Send Away and Cut Contact with My Own Ex

Unread postby autumnmist » Sat Oct 14, 2017 8:32 pm

Thank you very much. I have been trying to banish him from my life since I found out he was an addict (not my life style nor do I want it around me and my children). It always works for awhile but then he comes back and every time a little closer.

I will do these! They need to be done.

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