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Unread post by RainbowsOfAvalon » Fri Oct 06, 2017 8:00 pm

Thank you thank you Miss Athena! That's exactly what I needed to know. Now I have the right place to start, and... I'll post my results :)

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by dreaming_rose » Thu Oct 26, 2017 11:45 am

I got a reading that advised me to peacefully break apart a toxic friendship that my partner has. I am instructed NOT to use any type of anger-inducing products! It is supposed to be a peaceful separation, so I can't use any tried and true anger tricks like Conjureman Ali's frying hot pepper name papers or shaking a vinegar jar for them. I'm going to do a moving candle spell and send his toxic friend away into a bucket of river water and then out into the river system, and move my partner's candle closer to me and our love.

I have separation and break up products, and I am ordering hotfoot and banishment.

My partner is going on an extended vacation with his friend for about a week; is it best to do the moving candle separation and have it done BEFORE they go on their trip, or DURING the trip when they are constantly together?

Doing it when they are together makes it easier to hide my working and it may hit harder/faster since they'll be together and it may spark reasons to end the friendship, but doing it ahead of time may build up energy to hit them when they are together. What timing would you folks recommend for this spell? While they are together or apart, and while they are awake or asleep?

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Sister Jean » Fri Oct 27, 2017 8:58 am

Hello dreaming_rose,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum. If you would like to, you're welcome to introduce yourself under the introductions thread.

If you want to facilitate a peaceful "break up" between these two friends, do NOT use Break Up products! They're formulated to cause explosive fights with a lot of drama and anger. Use Separation products instead, and even Banishing oil on the candle signifying this friend, to create a situation where a peaceful yet clean break can happen.

If it were me doing this work, I'd start it now, before the trip starts. That way the energy can be going when the trip begins, and set them up to maybe have some heart to hearts during the trip that will end the friendship. If there is a good way to throw a bad friendship into sharp relief, it's traveling with that person. And I think you could do the spell when they're awake or asleep, you call.

Good luck!

P.S. You asked a variation of this question in another place on the forum and I deleted it. It's against forum rules to post the same question twice. If you do so again you're likely to end up with a board warning. Thanks!
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Unread post by Trinibrownin » Sun Oct 29, 2017 4:50 pm

I bought a LM break up candle and it completely shattered after a clear and clean burn. Should I be worried?

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sun Oct 29, 2017 6:33 pm

Hello, Trinibrownin ,

I am sorry but you are in the wrong subforum and thread.

This type of question is supposed to be in the candle divination thread

We are not supposed to give candle interpretations but I will break the rule just this one time (because I am excited for you):

EXCELLENT ! That is great success with the candle!

OK, remember, in the future, please post in the correct subforum and thread

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Unread post by Trinibrownin » Sun Oct 29, 2017 6:45 pm

Thank you so much Miss Aida!!! I will remember.

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Unread post by dreaming_rose » Mon Oct 30, 2017 8:56 pm

Sister Jean,

Thank you for answering my question about when the best time to work the spell is, and for the heads up about Break Up oil! I didn't know that Break Up products were formulated to cause a lot of drama. I'll definitely stick to cast off evil and separation, and hotfoot for the person I'm trying to get rid of.

I'd posted that other question in the thread specifically for banishing oil since I thought it was more appropriate there, but I'll be more careful in the future.

Does anyone have any advice on if there are jar spells or other ongoing works for separation that are more peaceful than anger-inducing? The moving candle spell obviously will only be done one time and I'm hoping to supplement it with another spell for when they are together.

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Tue Oct 31, 2017 6:15 am

Hi dreaming_rose,

Have you read through the posts in this thread? It is devoted to less dramatic, more peaceful separation so you will likely find your answers here. Continuing to work a break up jar with Separation vs. Break Up products appears to be in line with your goal.
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Unread post by Paymetoday » Sun Nov 05, 2017 5:20 pm

I'm a little confused on which product I should buy. I don't know if break up or separation is a better fix for my situation. My bf has an ex wife whom he has 2 children with. They "broke up" 2 years ago. He hasn't gone back there to live. Yet this woman is still in love with him and endlessly trying to pursue a sexual relationship with him. I just found out that she's giving him money and when he's been going over there to see his sons theyre sleeping with each other. I am fed up with this woman. It has been years and she still refuses to leave my bf alone. Even her children tell me about this endless pursuit she's on.

What I want to know is what product to use to achieve to put an end to this relationship. Initially I was thinking "break up" because they are already living separate & I think maybe they might need to really fight in order to lose their attraction to each other since it seems to be never ending..... BUT then I was thinking maybe separation is better because on this thread I read Catherine say it has some healing herbs so it's good in cases where people have kids with each other... but because they live apart I don't know if separation is good for this...

Which line of products do the experts suggest for this situation?

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Miss Athena » Mon Nov 06, 2017 8:07 am

Hi Paymetoday,

What a messy situation. I am so sorry this is happening to you.

I do agree that Separation would be preferable to Break Up, as it is meant for a more peaceful parting which you would want given the involvement of children.

However, this lady belongs in a freezer spell to freeze her romantic attachment to him. Do a search of the forum using the little search bar in the upper right corner of the page and you will find information on how to construct that spell.

There is also a lot of useful advice in this thread on ending the ties between your partner and his outside lover:
break-up-my-lover-spouse-from-his-her-o ... 21851.html

You should also work on maintaining his faithfulness to you. I suggest a Nation Sack for this goal:
http://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html

I sincerely hope this helps. Good luck and please keep us posted.
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Unread post by Muneca_Doll » Mon Nov 06, 2017 4:26 pm

I definitely need those separation products and divorce candle too. In response to that divorce candle, I guess I will be doing some shopping at LM soon.

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Unread post by Soyeemoon » Fri Nov 10, 2017 7:20 am

I have looked at freezer spells that STOP someone in their tracks and have worked one on a different person that I have strong feelings has romantic intent(ie her intentions on him). That person is more like a nuisance than anything because Im not worried about her intent having any impact on him.


What I am looking for is to cool or wane his intentions on another person. I want him to change his mind on how favourably he sees her. Not to make them fight or anything passionately negative -just for her to be not of significance.
This person in particular however is an old childhood friend of my husbands. And back when we were very shakey in our relationship -he began to develop a crush on this person. It was brief a few months and he has admiration and respect for her. I want to DIMINISH that from him. I dont necessarily want her out of his life but I do want to put a halt on any romantic considerations on even to cool of the friendship considerably to aqquaintance level.
Or just fade away to nothing, the friendship just fades.

Ive tried looking in the forums but couldnt find anything for what Im looking for. Apologies if something like this is posted before but could use some advice.

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Fri Nov 10, 2017 11:14 pm

Hello, Soyeemoon ,

I have moved your post to the correct subforum and thread.

Please read the many page here. After reading, if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask

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Unread post by Soyeemoon » Sun Nov 12, 2017 11:41 am

Sorry it gets confusing which is the right subforum and thread. I couldnt find my post could you inbox me the link if you have a chance. If not thats okay too

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Sun Nov 12, 2017 1:25 pm

Hello Soyeemoon,

Your post has been moved to this thread, like Miss Aida said. Read up through this thread for more ideas.

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Unread post by Trinibrownin » Tue Dec 05, 2017 12:21 pm

Hi everyone,

One of my relatives is in a manipulative marriage. His wife is using the children as bait. He's tried to commit suicide more than once. He's told our family he's only in the marriage because he will lose his children. It's been months since we've heard from him. I prayed to saint martha to assist me in getting him out his marriage as amicable and mutual as possible. This morning, something told me to go to his wife's Facebook. There are no pictures of them together, but just the children. Is the a particular spell I should do to make the peacefully divorce?

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Tue Dec 05, 2017 10:33 pm

Hello, Trinibrownin

I am so sorry to read this

There are 7 pages on this thread. One of the posts is a wonderful spell by Devi Spring.

I recommend that spell

I hope all turns out well for him

Such a bad place to be in, poor guy
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Unread post by Trinibrownin » Mon Dec 11, 2017 2:02 pm

Thank you Miss Aida. I Just made a few purchases from LM for the separation spell. Are there any particular bible verses to that pertains to separation while handling the spell?

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Mon Dec 11, 2017 6:19 pm

Hello, Trinibrownin

Check out the prayers on his page:

www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

I read through them and they apply to this situation

Wishing you the best

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Unread post by Paymetoday » Sat Dec 23, 2017 8:14 pm

I’m not sure if this is the right topic for this post but it was the most pin pointed one I could find for separation products in general. I want to be able to separate from anybody who is into any form of criminal activity. I don’t want those types of people around me at all. This includes coworkers, associates even relatives. How can I separate myself from these types of people in their entirety?

Also because of the types of people they are I want to make sure that separation products won’t cause any type of ill feelings or malice. I don’t want any unnecessary problems or confrontations with anybody.

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Mon Dec 25, 2017 8:57 am

Hello, Paymetoday ,

Peaceful Separation is perfect for your query

You may also want a Run Devil Run freezer spell

www.luckymojo.com/rundevilrun.html

Wishing you the very best

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Unread post by Paymetoday » Mon Dec 25, 2017 5:31 pm

Thank you for your response miss Aida!

It just clicked to me that I think I ordered the wrong product! I ordered “seperation” should I have purchased “peaceful seperation” instead?

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Tue Dec 26, 2017 2:34 pm

Hello Paymetoday,

No it's just called Separation, so you ordered the right thing.

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Unread post by Paymetoday » Wed Dec 27, 2017 4:38 am

Okay perfect so I ordered the oil and the 7 day candle. Is that enough to do an effective ritual considering that I’m trying to seperation from a group of people rather than an individual. Can I just name their names on my petition paper underneath the candle?

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Wed Dec 27, 2017 7:43 pm

Hello, Paymetoday ,

Yes, you can do that

Also, please think about protection spells for yourself also

www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

I pray that all work out for you

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Unread post by Paymetoday » Fri Dec 29, 2017 5:53 pm

Thanks for the idea miss Aida,

I can burn a protection candle at the same time I’ll just have to wait for it to come by mail first. BUT I have another question about how to separate peacefully. I know that above you mentioned a freezer spell so I’ve been looking them up on the site & wanted to know how exactly that work. Would a freezer spell “peacefully” freeze people out of my life or is there room for drama?

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:42 am

Hello Paymetoday,

I think a freezer spell to separate you from these people is a good idea and should be relatively drama-free, considering you don't put any trouble-causing herbs into the spell.

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Unread post by Paymetoday » Sat Dec 30, 2017 1:52 pm

Thank you sister jean.

I tried to use this link http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html to find out what I could use for a “peaceful seperation” but couldn’t find any suggestions in terms of what liquid or herbs to use that would allow the people to be frozen out peacefully. I tried looking on the thread for this type of spell specifically but a lot of the ideas involves souring agents like lemon or pepper that can cause anger. What products would I buy to tailer this spell to be for a peaceful seperation like on this thread?

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sun Dec 31, 2017 2:25 pm

Hello, Paymetoday ,

Just do the freezer spell without any of the souring agents.

Powdered alum would be good to add to make them stop talking to you

Wishing you the best

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Unread post by vmadone » Sun Jan 07, 2018 7:42 am

Hello there!

Me and my boyfriend has been together for almost 6 years but somehow the love fizzled out. I mean I don't love him anymore. I have told him so but he cannot take it. He gone crazy. So, what is the best and fast spell to do to make us apart amicably?

I did a reading beforehand and it said that I dont love him and it is better to let him go. But it seemed harder than I thought.

Suggestion and help please. Thank you.

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Unread post by RevJames » Sun Jan 07, 2018 3:13 pm

Hey vmadone,

I think Cut and Clear products and workings might be what your looking for.

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
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Unread post by Miss Aida » Mon Jan 08, 2018 6:03 pm

Hello, vmadone ,

On one of these 7 pages on this thread, there is a TERRIFIC spell given by Devi Spring. I would suggest that spell

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Unread post by vmadone » Mon Jan 08, 2018 6:34 pm

Thank you RevJames.

I will try that method then. Hopefully it turns out well. :)

Thanks.

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Unread post by ravenmaven » Wed May 09, 2018 10:36 pm

Does anyone have suggestions for a peaceful but *powerful* breakup spell?

I'm polyamorous, and my boyfriend is dating someone who he loves, who loves him, and who I (non-romantically) love as a friend. However, for many reasons I need to break them up as romantic and sexual partners without souring the friendships we've made.

I have strong personal effects for both of them (semen for him, used underwear for her).

Thanks for your time!

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Fri May 11, 2018 8:09 am

Hello ravenmaven,

There are seven pages in this thread, and as a first step I recommend you read through all of them. You're sure to find something helpful to your situation. After that, if you still have questions, feel free to let us know.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Mon Jun 18, 2018 2:57 pm

Most folks think of this as a book filled with hard-hitting break-up spells, but it does contain some excellent information and spells for peaceful separations. Check it out:

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Unread post by Keira28 » Mon Oct 22, 2018 11:58 am

Hi all :)

I read most of this thread, but I would still like to ask you for advice.

I'd like to help a friend of mine to end a relationship in which she is no longer happy. She and her boyfriend grew up together. For her he became like a brother, while he still loves her a lot.

She would like him to take the initiative to leave her, not for cowardice (I know her well) but because she can't bear to make him suffer for the abandonment. She would also like them to remain friends (she still cares a lot about him) and help him find a new love.

My question is whether a Separation job is needed or just a Cut and Clear on both could be enough. I would be more inclined to make them both, I'm sure otherwise she would never decide to leave on their own initiative.

In addition I have thought of King Solomon Wisdom for her or Crucible of Courage to give her the determination she needs. Plus a honey jar to stay on good terms with him and Healing products if needed.

is this a good plan to act? Thank you very much.

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Unread post by JayDee » Tue Oct 23, 2018 1:09 pm

Keira28,

Separation is used to end a relationship with out the big blow up, where as break up has items to make them fight and cause discord and anger. I would use separation on figure candles moving them apart and moving him to a new female candle with come to me oil.

Cut and clear is used by an individual to get over someone and move on. Your friend can cut and clear her feelings and move on. the bf if he is open to hoodoo can do cut and clear. But it is not done for someone else.

Clarity products can help him see the truth. Look into skull candles and dress it with the oil and powder / herbs. Speak to the skull s its him telling him what to think and do.

Honey jar is a great kit to keep people sweet.
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Unread post by Allen5 » Mon Nov 05, 2018 9:55 am

Hello,

My interest is in ending a trauma bond / narcissism codependency. Does anyone have a suggestion on a candle that can be burned to end a trauma bond between two people who suffer from childhood dysfunction?

Thank you in advance.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Mon Nov 05, 2018 11:29 am

Allen5 --

Welcome to the forum. We ask new members to not start new topic-threads, so please clarify your question to help me determine the proper thread into which to merge your topic before replying:

1) Is your aim to cut off all contact between two people who shared a childhood trauma (and if so, were they both victims or was one a perpetrator or the ally of an adult perpetrator?)

2) Is your aim to heal or repair the difficulties experienced by two people who shared a childhood trauma (and if so, were they both victims or was one a perpetrator or the ally of an adult perpetrator?)

or

3) Is your aim to enable two people who happen to have shared similar traumas in separate childhoods to avoid falling into the codependent trap of reliving their traumas together?
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Unread post by Allen5 » Tue Nov 06, 2018 5:59 am

Hello,

Thank you for getting back to me.

My brother who is the kindest soul is a full blown codependent and has been in a difficult marriage / separation /divorce with a narcissist. My brother suffered sexual abuse and she suffered abuse in her family as well (not sexual). She is very much like our father. They have been trauma bonded for many years now. Their foundation was built on security, escaping the abuse at a very young age. He lives his life in guilt. She is very dominating and he has always been fearful of her, just as he was of our father.

They have 3 children ages 29, 26 & 23 so he feels he can finally move forward, but I see the anxiety he feels and my sister & I don't know what to do. These adult children, whom I love dearly, not only live at home, they have no responsibilities, colleges paid for, cars paid for, gyms paid for. Completely raised like their Mom. Entitled. (We however, were not raised in that manner) My brother has always been at a loss even when trying to raise his boys as responsible adults. She is intimidating and controlling. He is in therapy now and has consulted with an attorney but is terrified.

My question is, what can be done to assist with a respectful peaceful divorce & help him heal from the severe abuse he suffered as a child. He wants to move on but her threats of "ruining him," and her saying that "he's nothing without her" " the family hating him," "how he will be alone," "she knows what's good for him," etc. make him question himself.

She went ballistic when he mustered up the courage to tell her that he was seeing a therapist. Her authentic response was... "I'm going to lose control over you, I know what's going to happen, you're going to see this shrink and leave me" rather than being happy or proud that he's finally getting the help he needs. This needs to end already. Peacefully!

I guess my questions are how does he

1. Heal from his abuse.

2. Free himself from her dysfunctional grip, obtain a divorce, and still be safe from her (She constantly intimidates him by saying she'll ruin him as well as the family will never forgive him)

3. Keep peace and remain a good father for the kids.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Wed Nov 07, 2018 12:34 pm

Allen5,

1) Therapy is important, of course. Healing baths or, if you cannot arrange those, a run of healing candles in his name will help. If you are Catholic, Saint Dymphna is the patron of those who suffered childhood trauma that has had lasting mental health affects.

2) Peaceful separation is the theme of this thread. We make a line of Separation products for this purpose and this thread is one of several where they are recommended and their uses described. I suggest that you read through the comments and spells given here, and click the links to get a good idea of the territory or scope of work offered in folk magic practices. Then, if you still have questions, just ask.

3) Use Peace Water for peace in the home. Being a good father is not a magical act; that would be best approached with prayer or social maturity.

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Allen5 » Wed Nov 07, 2018 6:50 pm

Hello,

Thank you so much for the advise and just listening. I will read through now.

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Ellina » Wed Nov 14, 2018 5:04 pm

Hi..i want a divorce, but know i will go thru a lot of pain and harrassment from my husband. I am going to ask for anything above the equity we paid in our house, because he has gained plenty from a home he rented, and jumped on my opportunity to buy my own home. I want him to have what he claims is his, as well as what i claim is mine..but want to be able to sell our house to maximum price so i have a chance at buying a home while he returns to his brand new home in texas. I think its fair. Gow do i msnage him wanting a clean divorce, being fair with me, and take off with his retirement, homes and money/debt while leaving my bank, retirement, and investments i own, in addition to what i can make extra on our house? Will the separation products, peace water and skull work? Do i need anything else? He is holding onto me but makes me miserable.

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by bythebeautifulsea » Fri Nov 16, 2018 5:03 pm

In addition to the work you mention doing above, I would do a moving candle spell with figural candles baptized for each of you (starting back to back and moving apart over 7 days). I would dress the backs of the figural candles in separation oil and the front of the figural candles in blessing oil. As you pray, I would ask both for a peaceful separation and that you each find your blessings apart from one another. I’m a little unclear on the housing situation you describe, but if you want to get him to Texas you could incorporate a map with the moving candle spell (so his candle is moving away from you and to Texas, where new blessings and beginnings await him). Hopefully others will more knowledge than I can fill in the gaps, as I’m sure there are many other layers you could add here. Your idea of using a skull candle with his personal concerns and appropriate herbs is a very good call. There are some exceptional archived episodes of the Hoodoo Rootwork Hour featuring truly inspired descriptions of powerful skull candle work you may want to check out if you haven’t already...

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