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Unread post by Edward T » Thu Oct 26, 2017 9:14 pm

Hello Temont. Try using a Hotfoot spell kit on her.
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-hot-foot.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html



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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sun Oct 29, 2017 12:17 pm

Hello, Temont,

You got some good advice here.

I would wok with what I have also.

So, what do you have? You have the fact that he's figuring things out

I'd be using Clarity products and King Solomon products to ENHANCE what has been crossing his mind.

First thing I would try to get into his head? The lady is a tramp. LOL

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www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

Wishing you the best

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Unread post by hairwire » Fri Nov 03, 2017 11:18 am

I'm jumping on this thread, because I have a very similar situation.

Without going into TOO much detail:

Former housemate - got involved sexually. He has since moved in with his girlfriend and he has been crying about how he's made a mistake but "needs to make it work because he needs stability".

My main concern is for his welfare. He is emotionally and mentally weak and I feel that this woman, now that she has him where she wants him, is controlling his life. A secondary desire is for him to feel like he COULD come to me if he wanted, but he is not free to do so, even though I feel he wants to.

I have been working a platonic honey jar on him for some time and it has been working well. I don't want him to allow himself to be isolated by his partner (because that is what she has been doing).

I did work a break up spell and I feel like it has worked slightly, in that he has admitted to me he's not truly happy but is kind of trying to shoe horn it in if that makes sense.

I want to work a walking candle spell and possibly hot foot her. I have been thinking about this a lot, and because he has moved in with her I am concerned it could cross wires, simply because he is quite weak - I understand that my intent is on her, but any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Main question - just hot foot, or goofer her? I cannot stand her, she has been ridiculously cruel and bitchy to me and would be quite happy to see her in vast amounts of discomfort, but do not wish death upon her as she has a baby (not related to him - it's seriously very complicated). The child is innocent.

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Fri Nov 03, 2017 7:27 pm

Hello, hairwire

Have you offered him to come stay with you? That would be my first move.

But, Goofer is a little harsh. I would go with Hotfoot and it won't "cross wires" if you state your intention and name her into the spell

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Unread post by Scorpionwitch » Mon Mar 19, 2018 5:49 am

Hi everyone!

I've posted on here in a few different threads and one of them was about a young girl who had been throwing herself at my boyfriend. I've pretty much taken care of that issue, but I just found out that the root of the problem is probably more likely a guy that my boyfriend (who I'll call "M" for the sake of this) is acquaintances with and often works with. I'll call the acquaintance "K" to try and keep things easier to follow. I apologize for how long this will be but here's some back story:

M is a musician- he works different contracts with different shows throughout the year and is currently on a national tour with a large production music and dance show that was created by a couple of his friends (who like me very much and are currently having me house/ dog sit for them while they're on the road for the next two months). K is also a musician who does the same thing that my boyfriend does for work and is also currently on tour with the same show. K does not like me and never has despite the fact that I have never done nor said anything to offend him and the fact that M and I are very compatible and happy together in our over two year relationship. His reasons for not liking me are simply because he thinks that M should be with a girl that is more attractive than me and "more on M's level" (meaning a girl that is a professional musician/ singer/ dancer. I am a musician/ singer on the side and I dance for fun/fitness, but my full time job is as a sound engineer- so we all technically work in the same field, I just don't work the same shows as they do any more and I'm not on stage). I could live with the fact that K doesn't like me because after knowing him and seeing his behavior over the last couple of years, I'm not overly fond of him either- though I always try to be polite and friendly. But K also has a tendency to try and push other girls onto M and tries to get M to cheat on me or leave me for one of these other girls on their shows (which is how the issues with the girl that I've mentioned in past threads even became a thing). M has not acted on these attempts and I'm pretty sure he'll stay faithful to me anyways and sees all these attempts as "Oh, I should be friends with the people on my show because it makes things easier", but this is ridiculous. It's not any of K's business who M is in a relationship with- M doesn't even like K all that much as a friend. He only hangs around and is friendly with K because they work together pretty often and run in the same friend circle and it's easier to not have drama between the two of them when they're working or when the whole group of guys want to go do a boys' night.

K likes to stir up drama and has done so professionally as well as between other couples as well. He also likes to try and play "matchmaker" with people who are working on the same shows that he performs with. For example, he encouraged a guy that a friend of mine was seeing to cheat on her and then date a girl on the show they were performing on (both girls are lovely and didn't deserve what happened) and then K also encouraged this guy to keep seeing my friend while he was dating the other girl. Not to mention, K has a girlfriend himself so it's not like he doesn't have other things to occupy his time and attention. He just likes to act like a 12 year old girl :| .

Most of M's friend circle is friends with K- some of them because they don't realize what a slime ball he is and others know it but overlook it because he's a good musician and they think he's fun to drink and party with.

I'm at a loss for what to do. My usual plan of attack with someone who is trouble is to bind/banish and/or hotfoot them but I'm super lady-hearted and don't want to ruin someone's career in the process. I've looked at some stop gossip spells as well but I don't think he's gossiping about me and trying to turn M away from me that way- I'm pretty sure his method is trying to get a bunch of drop dead gorgeous performer girls to throw themselves at my man because... then M will see that he deserves a hotter girl than me :?: . The friend circle is too big to effectively put them all in a vinegar jar against him and as I said, M isn't really all that fond of K anyways. I found another thread where someone suggested a mirror spell to reflect back any attempts to hurt a couple that I'm going to try but I feel like I should do something else as well. Also one more tidbit to consider- I'm usually very good about doing regular protection, reversing, and uncrossing work BUT based on K's Instagram activity, I'm pretty positive that he's friends with some people who are into some brujeria. I don't think he'd go to that level to mess with a couple that he has no emotional ties with, but I can't know for sure. Suggestions anyone?

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Wed Mar 21, 2018 8:25 am

Hello Scorpionwitch,

If you have qualms about hot footing or banishing this person (which is exactly what I recommend you do), have you considered doing a freezer spell?

http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html
general-freezer-spell-questions-and-answers-t8676.html

See what you think and let us know if you have any questions.

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Unread post by Scorpionwitch » Fri Mar 23, 2018 9:42 am

Thanks Sister Jean,

I've been doing some reading through the forums and I'm not finding an answer to a question I have in regards to the practicality of a freezer spell. If I have to pull the spell out of the freezer, does it undo the spell? I'm asking because the place that I'm currently living is temporary (I'm house-sitting until the second week of May) and as I am not in a position to buy a home any time in the near future and will most likely be moving around pretty regularly over the next couple of years finding a decent place to rent. Also, if I end up with a roommate who is very firmly opposed to or afraid of any type of magical workings, I may not be able to perpetually have a freezer spell going without them either throwing it out or freaking out about what it is.

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Unread post by Lei » Sun May 20, 2018 9:57 am

The issues are: brother's lack of ambition and motivation, lazy gf who is influencing and using him

My 25yr old brother is the youngest and lives at home with just my mom. Mom will retire next November and it was always understood that brother will inherit the house with the stipulation he will live with and care for my parents - my dad passed away so now it's just my mom. It's a nice home worth under 1mil - we're not well off, just happened to buy when prices were low.

My mom pays his car insurance, food, house, mortgage bills etc. He pays for his gas and personal expenses. He's graduated from college 2 years ago (he started dating her a few mths before graduating), and since then has only been working 2 or 3 days a week. My mom works full time, she does double shifts sometimes on her feet all day, has to come home to cook, clean, do his laundry, shop for groceries for him etc.

Before getting with her, my brother was ambitious. He graduated college and wanted to back to school for business. He took all the extra prep courses to be eligible to get accepted into the program for Sept 2018. Now he spends all his time with the gf or playing vid games. He just told us he doesn't want to go to university anymore. He used to be close to us and now he's distant. He doesn't even speak to anyone even when we all meet up for dinner or are in the same room. He's just silent and moody. He doesn't reply to text messages or calls from anyone.

The girl is nearly 30 and doesn't have a full time job either. She graduated from college but opted to work part time and was also living at home. She got kicked out last Sept because she's lazy, and bad with money (her parents words). She doesn't cook or clean up after herself - when she comes over to my mom's house she eats and leaves her dishes and messes in the living room and walks out the door. Gf now rents a place and both of them are always together, spending money they don't have and going out to eat etc. He helps her pay her bills and buys her groceries because she can't afford it. Sometimes my brother uses my mom's cc to buy groceries to give to the gf. She likes to drink her starbucks and eat at fancy places and never has money for important things. She expects that he will take care of her. She wants to open her own business and expects that my brother will marry her and give her the money.

The gf is now pressuring him to move in with her and get married - obviously so he can help her pay bills and because she's older and wants to start her life. My parents were immigrants and worked all their life to give us and him what little they have. (My sister and I worked and bought our own homes with 0 financial help from our parents but brother gets everything for free).

My brother spends very little time at home, won't help around the house to even cut the lawn, plays video games or watches tv when not with the gf, won't get a full time job. He has become lazy and unmotivated just like her. The gf wants the house and my brother but doesn't want my mom to live there, and is making him choose between her or my mom. My brother was always fine with living with my mom till the gf came in the picture. My mom is independant and healthy so she wouldn't be in their way and is always polite towards the gf and treats her well.

I'm at a loss for what to do. I want him to wise up and help out at home, get a full time job and be motivated again. I think the girl is a bad influence and if he marries her, he's going to spend his life taking care of her lazy behind while she does nothing. She is trying to divide him from us, so she can keep him and use him to get a free ride in life.

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Mon May 21, 2018 12:32 pm

Hello Lei,

I moved your post over to this thread because it's more in line with what you're asking about. If you scroll up through this thread you'll find lots of ideas on how to drive away the bad girlfriend. I suggest you especially look into Break Up products for ending the relationship and Cast Off Evil products for your brother so he can break away from her influence:

http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

As for him regaining his ambition, check out this thread.

spells-for-personal-mastery-will-power- ... t8784.html

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Unread post by Nony65 » Thu May 24, 2018 6:44 am

Hi everyone,

I really don't know what to do; basically, my partner is friends with a guy who he's known for years, but this guy, in no uncertain terms, is a nasty person; all of my partners other friends think so. This guy even said, when given a years notice, he would be at one of our friends wedding, then pulled out in the last week because he "had" to work that night (a cash in hand job at a takeaway store which was his choice).

Quite recently, my mental health has taken a very bad knock due to my lovely grandmother passing away. I became very depressed. This guy, who only ever contacted me when he wanted something, messaged me to ask if lots of his friends could come over to mine and my partners place for games night, he never ever held it at his own, always someone else's house. I had to cancel after he pretty much forced the idea on me; and then he put a post on Facebook which I sadly misinterpreted and snapped at him. He knew I was unwell and called me a retard.

I then discovered he had been slagging me off to my partner in messages and mocking me because I had tried to make peace this year with a girl who hadn't been very nice to me and my partner. He said revolting things about me and I'm so annoyed my partner didn't say much. I messaged him straight away and put him straight and called him up on bad mouthing me. Sadly, because I didn't trust this guy, I found more messages recently he sent my partner on Facebook, "how's your mental woman" "she's nuts" "don't invite her round when we have games night, I might punch her in the face lol".

I saw just now this nasty piece of work is still friends with my partner. I want him completely gone from my partners life as he can't be trusted and continuously is horrible and uses people.

In a nutshell, I want him far far away from us, my partner to see sense and drop him as a friend (given he's also said disgusting things about our other friends), and for him once and for all to shut his mouth about me.

So I was thinking Hot Foot to drive this horrible guy away, what things though could I also use to help my partner see him for what he is and to drop him out of our life and something to silence him talking about me? Thank you!

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Unread post by Miss Nikki » Sat May 26, 2018 9:50 am

Greetings, Nony65.

I hope you are in good spirits. I’m sorry you are going through this situation. I recommend that you get a reading before you take any action. We have a lot of good readers at AIRR - http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ychics.com.

Also, use clarity to see the situation with a clear mind. http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html.

Here is information about hot foot - http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html.

In the future, please keep your posts short. Good luck!

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Unread post by catcat35 » Tue Jun 26, 2018 8:08 am

So my partner and I get along great.

When he hangs out too with his friend. It rubs off. The attitude, choice of condescending words and so on.

The friend does not like me because I took away his "wing" man. He speaks badly of me to other people, very bad. He encourages my partner to go out with him to get women. He sends him pornographic pictures and videos. He calls my partner names for being loyal to me. He bought girls to my partners house. Doesnt happen anymore but overall the guy does not respect our relationship and makes it difficult for me to trust when my partner when they are together.

My partner is his boss. It is difficult because I never see him anymore -- my partner doesnt put us together knowing how we dislike one another and he is always with the girls that he tried to match with my partner. So I cant get his footsteps, nor belongings.

Also I need my partner to stop discussing our arguments to others. Honey jar was done for my partner but hasnt changed him discussiong our problems to others. So I need help removing the friend from both of our lives and to have my partner keep our lives private. Thank you in advance

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Thu Jun 28, 2018 8:55 am

Hello catcat35,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! I'm sorry you've having to deal with this tough situation.

To help your partner cast off the influence of this friend, do some Cast Off Evil candle work for him, but also back it up by sneakily adding drops of the oil to his shampoo or body wash and praying over it. You can find those products here;

http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

As for keeping the private life private, you could try doing a skull candle spell on him. Use a white skull candle dressed with Influence oil, and sprinkle Alum powder across the mouth of the skull (the powder will stick to the oil). In a strong voice, tell your partner as represented by the skull that he is to keep his mouth SHUT about any arguments you have and keep your private life private.

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
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Unread post by catcat35 » Thu Jun 28, 2018 12:28 pm

Actually things got really bad. We arent speaking now. We got into an argument and kept getting worse. I broke things off when he said i was no longer a priority. I know he loves me and I do want him back. I have a honey jar for him. come to me oil from LM, hair, rose petals and cinnamon with names. I put pink candles friday, sunday and tuesday dressed with oil. I did it like 3 weeks ago. I need something much more powerful and I no longer have access to his belongings. Since we arent speaking anymore. All of have of him is pictures. All I have is pictures left. What is best to have him stay and stay faithful. His friend is throwing women at him.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Thu Jun 28, 2018 6:11 pm

catcat35 --

I am sorry to hear that the two of you broke up before you were able to do strong work to drive his bad friend away.

In my opinion, you lost, and if your ex said you are "no longer a priority," you should not try to get him back. He is a rude, stupid, and cruel excuse for a lover. Believe him -- you are no longer a priority for him, he said it to your face! -- and move on. He is not the only fish in the sea.

However, spells for getting someone to return -- and discussions about those spells -- are found here:

Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite
spells-for-ex-lover-ex-spouse-to-return ... -t650.html

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Unread post by Lykopis » Wed Jul 18, 2018 8:39 am

Hi all!

My little cousin has a situation where a guy she knows needs to GET OUT of her life forever. But he is also threatening to spread bad things about her around the internet and their mutual friends. Can I do a hot foot on him AND a sweetening so he goes away but doesn't spread bad talk about her, or will they counteract each other?

Thanks for any advice!

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Wed Jul 18, 2018 9:01 pm

Lykopis --

I would do a Hot Foot plus a Stop Gossip Spell. I would not bother to sweeten him.
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Unread post by Lykopis » Thu Jul 19, 2018 9:57 am

Thank you miss cat! I like the sound of that much better.

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Unread post by Nony65 » Tue Aug 14, 2018 10:16 am

I would like to Hot Foot my fiances best friend away from him. I'm not trying to sound like I'm justifying my actions, but in a nutshell, she got offended by something I did and turned on me aggressively. I wholeheartedly apologised and offered peace but she childishly ignored me after and acts passively aggressively towards me in our group- ignoring my messages, me, and passively aggressively sends hurtful remarks. She does it with such subtlety though the group don't see it except me.

She will be going to our wedding next year and I seriously don't want her there with this ridiculous negative childishness. I'd like to Hot Foot her away from the group and us. My Rootworker is in agreement and said he'd happily do this for me.

What I want to ask though is (as I've seen lots of posts on here regarding people wanting to Hot Foot one person). Can Hot Foot be used to drive away one person from several people if that makes sense? And although someone else would be performing this work, would it be advised if I cleansed myself on a weekly basis with cleansing baths to rid any negative energy? Thank you!

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Unread post by JayDee » Tue Aug 14, 2018 4:12 pm

nony65,

Yes a person can be driven from a group in this manner. Similar if a bad family member is in a house. The issue is some may hold on longer then others and the work may take more time. Ask your root worker if you can sprinkle hotfoot powder where she will walk and touch items, if she is in the wedding dress a letter for her with it on it. LM can set break up candles and hotfoot candles which is a great mix, break up can be used for any relationship to end. I would cleanse during this period and wear protection such as fiery wall of protection to keep off any negativity. Also thinking of your situation, I would use stop gossip oil and slippery elm. I work in a situation where it can be catty and gossip , tide at work changes frequently. I put the oil on my bottom of my feet, I make a cross on the heal of my shoe and I put slippery elm in my shoe im wearing that day, a tiny pinch is all you need. It has been amazing where I go untouched and unbothered by the people, it has no negative effect on me.

Stop gossip Product: http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

Hotfoot: http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

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Slippery Elm Products: http://www.herbmagic.com/slippery-elm-bark.html

Devil Shoe String for protection: http://www.herbmagic.com/devils-shoe-strings.html

Chia Seed to stop gossip: http://www.herbmagic.com/chia-seed.html

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Wed Aug 15, 2018 8:05 am

Great suggestions from j82.
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Unread post by Lyndamarie123 » Sat Jul 11, 2020 7:35 pm

Hi I am fairly new, and right now there is a man that has come into my mothers life, and he is a liar and is still married to someone else. But my mother is like in this fog and she won’t listen to me nor my brother. She has distanced herself from her family and me and is like in this trance. Please there has to be something I can do to make them grow apart and eventually leave. It’s only been about a month so I hope I can do something now to get him to leave and help my mother to wake up.

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Unread post by RisenRaven » Sun Jul 12, 2020 1:26 pm

Hi Lyndamarie123, this thread will have lots of good ideas for you. You should read it and then post if you have any further questions. :)
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Unread post by Terra Rising » Tue Jul 14, 2020 9:05 am

Lyndamarie123,

Hello and welcome to the forum! In addition to RisenRaven's excellent advice on reading this thread for spell ideas, I would start off with Clarity products. This will help your mother see who this man really is and allow her to actually hear your concerns. I fear if you go straight into break up work when she still has feelings for him, she may keep going back. You could put a few drops of Clarity oil in her conditioner so it gets on her head. A drop on the bristles of a hair brush works nicely too. Dab some on your hands and touch her hair as you talk to her.

Clarity: https://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

Once you have used Clarity products on her for a few days, I would work to end the relationship. Break Up products are designed just for this purpose and you will find free spells on the following page: https://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

If they break up and he still keeps coming around, Hot Foot him right out of the picture.

Hot Foot: https://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

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Unread post by tnemesis76 » Sat Sep 05, 2020 5:01 pm

My ex (we'll call him A ) and I have two grown children together and have been in each others lives for 28 years. He has been in his current relationship for a little over a year officially (he was involved with her for a while before that when we were still together). Although we aren't together anymore, we have gotten to a place where we are close friends and are there for each other when needed.

Over the last year he has tried to break up with his current girlfriend (we'll call her R ) several times and has even attempted to move back to my place where I have given him use of the small camper out in the yard (so that the situation doesn't become even more complicated or the lines of the relationship we now have together become blurred). But each time he packs up his things and moves them here, he ends up going back to her after she begs and manipulates and promises to stop treating him badly.

They are highly toxic together and I know that he wants to be done with her because he tells me so and tells her so. While A isn't entirely innocent (it takes 2 to argue or let an argument escalate to out of control levels) her treatment of him has become increasingly abusive and degrading. She is apparently a sex addict and cheats on him all if the time. It doesn't matter if it is with strangers, her male friends, or his friends. She has cheated on him and then created situations where the 3 of them (her, A, and the guy she just slept with) hang out together, causing A to be humiliated when he discovers the truth.

Recently A found out R had unprotected sex with a mutual friend then had sex with A right afterwards when he got home and their friend left after staying long enough to visit with the both of them. She calls him names and screams racial slurs at him then uses emotional blackmail by playing the victim and getting him to feel sorry for her. She blames her behavior on terrible experiences that she has been through in her life and makes him feel like she will kill herself if he leaves her.

She has an 8 year old son that A has tried to look out for and she has even used her son as a tool to control A and keep him from leaving her. There is so much more but it would take forever to write it all.

Each time he leaves he swears that this time it is for good and that he is never going back but he always does eventually. He doesn't even WANT to be there anymore and he can't even explain how or why he has found himself emotionally handcuffed to this woman. Her behavior is esculating and she is becoming more and more desperate and unbalanced and I am genuinely worried about his emotional well being and starting to be concerned for his physical health as well.

Does anyone know of any sort of spells that might help to banish her from his life for at least long enough to allow him to get back to himself and break the codependance and psychological hold that she seems to have on him? He used to be strong and strong willed and would never allow himself to be disrespected or degraded like this. I barely recognise the person he has become since they got together.

I am not trying to force my will on him or break them up out of spite. I have done my best to stay out of it unless he came to me and asked me specifically for my help or my opinion up until this point because the situation is a awkward and tricky one given our nearly 30 year history and the bond that we share. But today I just had to watch him cave in again and go to talk to her, stating that he will be back in a little while, after sitting up with him most of the night listening to things that have disgusted and angered me and frankly broken my heart because nobody deserves to be treated like that.

He SWEARS that it's really over this time and like every other time before was starting to seem a little bit like his former self and was making plans to get back on his feet and get his life back in order until she figured out an angle that worked and got him to agree to meet with her.

Is there any spell that might help him? I have no plans to do any spellwork on him behind his back and will get his permission before hand. We have already touched on the idea and I told him I would see what I could find.

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Re: Drive Bad Person Away from Lover Spouse Friend Family Member

Unread post by Miss Athena » Sun Sep 06, 2020 11:36 am

Hello tnemesis76,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum. I have merged your post to the existing topic of breaking up a toxic relationship. Please do not start your own topic like this, as you will find through a search of the forum that we already have nearly every subject covered.

Also, please do not post in a solid block of text as it makes your contribution to the forum very difficult to read. I went through your post and separated it into paragraphs for greater readability.

Please read through the posts in this thread starting from the first page and you will find spells that can help you and your friend.

Good luck to you both.
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Re: Drive Bad Person Away from Lover Spouse Friend Family Member

Unread post by ConjureMan » Mon Sep 07, 2020 7:11 am

tnemesis76, your situation is quite complicated--you are dealing with a case in which normal break up may not be enough. Your ex has likely be drawn into a parasitic bond that needs to be broken.

If he's open to it, start with work on him directly. Get him a Cast off Evil mojo bag that he can keep on his persons, but hidden from her. He needs to strengthen his resolve. I would add some Crucible of Courage oil to dress the bag and his head.

Then you need to work on breaking the bond. This can be tricky, but take a photo of them together and using scissors cut them apart. Place them on an altar space, her on the left and him on the right. In between them place the scissors open and facing her.

Next get a black candle and a white candle. Write her name on the black candle and dress with Separation and Run Devil Run oil. On the white candle write his name with Cast of Evil oil. Set this in candle holders and then on top of their photos. Light and let it burn as you recite Psalm 52 addressing her directly. Also recite Psalm 27 for him.

Before the black candle burns fully down, burn her photo in its flame. Take the ashes and remaining wax from the black candle and dispose in running water. Take his photo, wrap around a John the Conqueror root (a small one) and add to the Cast off Evil mojo bag for him to carry.

Your situation is quite complicated and at some point you might consider a reading or consultation with a professional.

Good luck!

Cast of Evil mojo bag: https://www.luckymojo.com/mojo-1x-cast-off-evil.html
Crucible of Courage oil: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-crucible-of-courage.html
Separation Oil: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-separation.html
Run Devil Run: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-run-devil-run.html
John the Conqueror: http://www.herbmagic.com/john-the-conqueror-pieces.html
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