Love Me or Die Jack Ball Spell Questions and Answers

Conjureangel · Unread post by **Conjureangel** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 2:51 pm

Can you use an alternative to hair in the love me or die spell?

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 8:36 pm

Hello, Conjureangel ,

I am confused as to how this topic got over to the Intranquil Spirit page.

I am moving it over to the Jack Ball subforum

Here's a few examples: Hair, nail, semen. But I prefer to perform the spell exactly as Miss cat instructs.

Take care

jessicamendesr · Unread post by **jessicamendesr** » Mon Jul 06, 2015 10:31 am

I have a question. I do not have his hair, and I am not seeing him anymore. Can I use pieces of a teeth brush that I have in my house and he already used?

natstein · Unread post by **natstein** » Mon Jul 06, 2015 12:55 pm

Hello jessicamendersr

You could use that, particular if no one else has used it and is has not been washed. It will not be as strong of a connection as the hair would be though.

Peace~

Nathen

TickleMeSilly · Unread post by **TickleMeSilly** » Tue Sep 01, 2015 9:02 pm

Hi

If this spell was to be done on a woman, would the caster still use a JTC root or instead use a Queen Elizabeth root?

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Sep 01, 2015 9:11 pm

Hi TickleMeSilly,

If I were doing the spell (I am a woman), I would use a Queen Elizabeth root.

http://www.herb-magic.com/queen-elizabe ... small.html

If you are a man, you would use John the Conqueror.

http://www.luckymojo.com/johntheconqueror.html

Hope that makes sense.

Good luck.

TickleMeSilly · Unread post by **TickleMeSilly** » Tue Sep 01, 2015 10:02 pm

Hi miss athena

Thank you for your reply! Sorry sometimes the instructions gets tricky where it seems like its a woman performing this spell on a man she would use the JTC to demasculinize him. Most spells seems like its for a woman to get back a man so that's where the products gets confusing.

So if the person was a man and he would perform the spell to get back with the woman, he would use the JTC root? Sorry if im asking the same question just want to make sure.

Thank yours

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Sep 01, 2015 10:03 pm

Hello, TickleMeSilly ,

That is correct

Take care

TickleMeSilly · Unread post by **TickleMeSilly** » Tue Sep 01, 2015 11:17 pm

Thank you so much Miss Aida

TickleMeSilly · Unread post by **TickleMeSilly** » Sun Sep 06, 2015 10:35 pm

HI sorry one last question. The spell calls for "it" to be moisten with urine when needed. Does it mean I wet the red flannel bag with the root inside? Or actually open the flannel bag and wet the whole root itself with Urine?

Thank you

Papa Newt · Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Mon Sep 07, 2015 2:42 am

Hello TickleMeSilly,

Looking at the Love Me or Die Jack Ball Spell it says to thoroughly wet the paper you wrote on, and wrap it around the root before wrapping it up in red thread.

Best of luck.

TickleMeSilly · Unread post by **TickleMeSilly** » Mon Sep 07, 2015 9:14 am

Hi

Yes I understand u must wet the paper then wrap it around the root. I'm talking about for afterwards.

"Carry the prepared root in a red flannel bag and moisten it with your urine when needed."

So do I wet the whole red flannel bag or do I open the bag and wet the prepared root that's wrapped in the red yarn?

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Sep 07, 2015 11:43 am

TickleMeSilly ,

Wet the bag, that is a method of feeding it. Never open it once its sealed ( of course their are exceptions to the rule) but this working is not one of them.

TickleMeSilly · Unread post by **TickleMeSilly** » Mon Sep 07, 2015 12:09 pm

Hi j82

Thank you for your answer and help. I had a feeling it was to wet the bag only but I just wanted to make sure.

Thank you again!!!

TickleMeSilly · Unread post by **TickleMeSilly** » Mon Sep 07, 2015 11:51 pm

Hi sorry

2 last questions I swear. Does it have to be red sewing string or can a red ribbon be used? The sewing string is so brittle.

Lastly, after the 7 knots, does the string have to be left out of the bag or does it have to be tucked in?

So right now I have my root wrapped with a red ribbon in 7 knots and the remaining string is hanging out of the bag, then I closed the bag with the string that's from the bag and tied that around the red string. I been using that string to swing the bag around.

Is this ok? Sorry I just want to make sure it's done correctly. Thank you and I won't ask anymore questions regarding this.

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Sep 08, 2015 8:53 pm

Hello, TickleMeSilly ,

Please contact an AIR member for magical coaching.

http://readersandrootworkers.org

Use a red thread as instructed.

I would leave the string out

Take care

snow · Unread post by **snow** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 2:08 am

Can I use our photos since i dont have acceess to his hair?

Edrin · Unread post by **Edrin** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 7:48 pm

I wonder, what truly justify this spell? If anybody could enlighten me.

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 8:13 pm

Hi snow,

The instructions for the Jack Ball state that you wind the roots around the hair and name of the target. A photo would be a much weaker substitute, as hair contains your target's DNA and a photo does not. I would not make a short-cut like this and would try to get his hair.

Good luck.

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 8:14 pm

Hello, Edrin,

I don't have a personal justification because I don't use this spell

But, if you make the person sick, and have the opportunity to make them better, then this is the spell for you. Or, it can be used like: "If I can't have you than nobody can"

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... iejackball

This is a very coercive spell.

Take care

Edrin · Unread post by **Edrin** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 9:04 pm

Miss Aida, that's precisely the question. That question was something that was burning on my mind. If I could use it and had the opportunity to nurse back my target, fair enough. But if I got her sick and it takes another person to be by her side and yet, unable to do anything for her - sounds like magick murder to me. Not unless, some form of contact has been established and I know I am within a text away if she gets into some serious trouble.

Oh well...

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 9:17 pm

Hello, Edrin ,

The good news is that you think things through and ask questions.

These are tough decisions sometimes. That's why it takes us rootworkers a little time to decide which spells are appropriate and ethical for the case.

Sounds like you have the logic to be a fantastic rootworker!

Take care

Edrin · Unread post by **Edrin** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 9:51 pm

Thank you Miss Aida, don't make me fly through the roof. We know the truth is I am not in a suitable emotional state to do any spellwork.

Innocence · Unread post by **Innocence** » Mon Dec 07, 2015 4:12 pm

Does this qualify as enemy work or can it be worked alongside other love spells? Thanks!

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Dec 08, 2015 8:57 pm

Hello, Innocence ,

No, it's not enemy work.

Take care

maryjanemojo · Unread post by **maryjanemojo** » Wed Jan 13, 2016 8:58 am

Could one do a variation on this that is more like Love Me Or Cry? Rather than die. The idea would be misery if not love rather than death. I wonder why it has to be so severe. TY

Innocence · Unread post by **Innocence** » Wed Jan 13, 2016 9:33 am

Love me or cry sounds more like what the Intranquil Spirit does. If a person went to the length of using Love me or die they probably have suffered enough at the hand of the target to want to exact revenge.

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jan 13, 2016 8:23 pm

Hello, maryjanemojo ,

I agree with Innocence

Take care

FairyGodWitch · Unread post by **FairyGodWitch** » Sat Apr 02, 2016 10:27 am

I had a reading done by someone from AIRR and was told to bind my husband by any means . He said that he may leave but it isn't in the process of happening . My questions are , How do you nurse the man back to health ? Will he be obsessed and easy to dominate? and lastly , How do you dispose of it properly?

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Apr 02, 2016 9:42 pm

Hello, FairyGodWitch,

I am sorry but I have no idea how to answer your questions.

Your first and second questions are a continuation of your reading. You would have to ask your reader.

Your last question, well, I have no idea what you are asking.

Also, if you are not asking about Love Me or Die jack Ball Spells, you are in the wrong sunforum and thread.

Take care

FairyGodWitch · Unread post by **FairyGodWitch** » Thu Apr 14, 2016 6:18 pm

I guess I should have left that part out about the reading . what I meant was , how do you nurse a man back to health after he gets "sick" from the love me or die jackball ? and after he is nursed back to health (free of the "sickness") and if he chooses to cooperate by loving me , will he be easy to dominate ?

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Apr 14, 2016 8:27 pm

Hello, FairyGodWitch ,

You would go with healing: www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

And then when you are finished, immediately have a love altar ready with candles and supplies.

I don't know how easy he will be to dominate. Your reader can tell you that.

Wishing you the best

take care

emmagreen · Unread post by **emmagreen** » Mon May 30, 2016 10:15 pm

What is such big happened?

sonoros · Unread post by **sonoros** » Wed Aug 03, 2016 12:43 pm

Hi, I wanted to see if hair was entirely necessary for the Love me or Die Jackball? He is an ocd man who shaves everything except his eyebrows. I am aware of the consequences, as he will either love me or gets sick in which case its my responsibility to nurse him back to health and have tried all other methods beforehand including hand making and using a penis candle made from a mold of his actual penis. This has been a 7 year dance of him and I with him admitting that he does in fact have feelings for me but he is hesitant to actually commit. I am a relatively patient person and have even done three uncrossing spells just incase there was something/somone causing interference. I was considering using a copy of his signature I have as my taglock and petition by isolating it digitally and making that repeat nine times. I was wondering if that would work and if not if a picture would be a welcome addition? I am still learning hoodoo so any advice here would be welcome. I firmly believe that if you cannot hex, you cannot heal if you cannot curse, you cannot cure and am prepared for either outcome of this spell.

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Aug 03, 2016 4:14 pm

Hello Sonoros,

A poster higher up in this thread posted the same question and asked if they could use a photo instead, and here is how Miss Athena answered them. I agree with her advice:

"The instructions for the Jack Ball state that you wind the roots around the hair and name of the target. A photo would be a much weaker substitute, as hair contains your target's DNA and a photo does not. I would not make a short-cut like this and would try to get his hair."

And seven years is a whole lot of time to spend trying to attract the same person. Have you gotten a reading on this situation? Since you say you've tried many different things and haven't any results, I think you could check in and find out what the heck is going on.

http://hoodoopsychics.com/

http://readersandrootworkers.org

Good luck to you.

sonoros · Unread post by **sonoros** » Wed Aug 03, 2016 5:43 pm

Thank you Sister Jean.

Yes, seven years is a long time and I am starting to feel a bit like the third daughter in The Black Bull of Norroway. I will go and a reading from an AIRR reader for a more indepth reading as the only answers I seem to be getting from my deck (Wildwood Tarot) is to finish school which will take another seven years (its a medical degree which is why I understand the whole one must learn how to hex to heal as I had to learn how to break a bone in order to set it.) Also the graveyard dirt I have came from a couple who was buried together. If I proceed if my reading indicates so that is, is that the right kind of dirt or should Istick to goofer dust?

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Aug 04, 2016 9:15 pm

Hello, sonoros,

It sure sounds like the RIGHT dirt to me!

Take care

Beterhalf38 · Unread post by **Beterhalf38** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 6:09 am

Hey
I want to do this spell, but reading this forum and reading what it's says on the spell or totally different, (I'm a woman) so do I use the JCR like the spell says put the slit in it ,like he is being pussy whipped,are do I use the QER and put the slit in it, just need to know in advance ,I'm ordering both roots just in case,let me know thanks

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Fri Dec 30, 2016 8:22 pm

Hello Beterhalf38,

I haven't seen anything on this site that says you use a Queen Elizabeth Root if you're a woman--that's totally wrong. Here are the complete instructions for the spell:

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... iejackball

Follow them exactly, and make sure you're ready to nurse this man to health.

Beterhalf38 · Unread post by **Beterhalf38** » Sat Dec 31, 2016 9:43 pm

Hey Sister Jean
Thank you ..I will follow them completely..

DC2R01 · Unread post by **DC2R01** » Wed Feb 14, 2018 8:25 pm

Hello everyone.

I’ve read through the topics and received my items from LM to make this “jackball.” I had two questions:

1) Do you moisten the outside of the flannel bag with urine or open the bag and moisten the paper mached ball of twine?

2) How often do you moisten this jack ball?

From reading through this thread it appears the outside of the bag should be moistened. How about how often? Thanks in advance. Also, happy Valentine’s Day to all!

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Feb 15, 2018 11:04 am

Hello DC2R01,

You are moistening the wrapped *root,* not the bag. The bag is just for safe-keeping. And according to the original recipe, you moisten the root "when needed." Read these instructions carefully:

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... iejackball

Take care.

DC2R01 · Unread post by **DC2R01** » Thu Feb 15, 2018 8:22 pm

Hello Sister Jean,

Thank you. I had come here after reading the luckymojo love spells link looking for clarification because I wasn’t sure what “Carry the prepared root in a red flannel bag and moisten it with your urine when needed." meant.

As in, if it meant wet the whole red flannel bag or open the bag and wet the prepared root. I was confused because from reading about mojo bags on the forum in general, I thought once they’re sealed they shouldn’t be opened.

Anyway, all that to say - I’m glad I asked instead of using the info posted above in this thread (from 2015) when the same question was raised, otherwise I’d have a wet bag to carry around!

Thank you once again.

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Feb 15, 2018 9:15 pm

Sister Jean is drawing a distinction between a mojo and a Jack. A Jack may be carried in a bag, but it is not a mojo bag per se.

NeedingLuck · Unread post by **NeedingLuck** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 4:26 am

What happens if you see the target shortly after?

She dumped me but wanted to stay as friends, but as friends in just constantly bailing her out with things like rent, and she owes me over 2000. She recently blocked me on social media and playing dumb and not knowing what I'm talking about.

I had the spell done by 7 of 8 hours ago? Saw her 10 minutes from writing this post. Does contact ruin it?

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Mar 26, 2018 7:45 am

Hello NeedingLuck,

There isn't anything on the page about Jack balls that says contact "ruins" the spell. Just keep doing your work. You can read more about them here.

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... iejackball

Take care.

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Fotunata · Unread post by **Fotunata** » Mon Apr 08, 2019 11:04 am

I read few threads since I found this forum, I learned quite a bit from especially doing spells from the different angles. For me root work is like going to war, you need ground support, air support, naval support and so on. I need to get the target in all corners. Sorry for the war analogy.

If I were to do this spell and the target is too proud to call for help, and his ego is so high up so I know he will not call me to nurse him back to health.

1. Can I add phrases to the spell, for example, "Love me, contact/call me so I can nurse you or die," will this change the spell?

2. Will white skull be an appropriate support to aid 'the love or die' spell? This is to influence his thought to contact me for help. (And I will back this up with vigil candles, if there's one at MISC)

3. There was this spell I think Conjureman Ali mentioned it, about red candle cubeds something like that with phrase "unable to resist", I could change to phrase to "unable to resist help"

4. As I mentioned above, I want to get the target in all corners, I can only think of 3 right now, will anyone suggest a spell anything.

Probably sound too much, but I also believe some targets are very hard to penetrate. Thanks much.

Blessings.

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Apr 08, 2019 3:13 pm

Fotunata ,

1. Yes, Love me ,contact/call me is different its mixed signals? Which is he suppose to do and which one does he not do and die? What if he calls but dont love you?
This is a very old and powerful spell, it is advised to stick with the spell as Miss Cat has outlined it.

2. You can always back up work with candles to continue the work or effect the work such as a skull to influence and a condition candle to burn to influence the person.

3. Conjureman spell is to break down resistance and lead the person to love, the spell using love herbs and controlling herbs to bring the person around with less resistance, it uses Follow me boy or girl oil to give dominance over the person. I would keep the petition to the purpose of the spell he mentioned which is love, " Unable to resist my love..".

4. Have you tried anything to get products on the targets body and hands, hoodoo is very hands on as well, candle go so far and do so much ,but getting into the work and getting it on them is powerful as well. Consider dusting papers, stealing a footprint, adding items to food he will eat.

Fotunata · Unread post by **Fotunata** » Mon Apr 08, 2019 3:53 pm

Jaydee,

Yes, I did use follow me boy and stay with me oil on the target. I added my menses on his food and drink. He's hard to penetrate to. He's leaving in two weeks halfway across the world in the middle of the pacific for work.

I'll stick to the spell. Thanks

What do you mean by condition candle?

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Apr 08, 2019 5:13 pm

Fotunata,

A condition candle is any candle that lucky mojo sells that address a condition like: Luck or love.

Have you tried sewing a pubic hair in his hat brim to make you on his mind, collect a personal concern and make a doll baby, or order a prepared doll from lucky mojo to use: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocattools.html#dolls

Fotunata · Unread post by **Fotunata** » Mon Apr 08, 2019 5:35 pm

Jaydee,

Thanks for the reply.

I'll go check the candle and get the appropriate condition candle. Thanks.

I sewn a pubic hair on his favorite hat. I have collected some personal concerns. I also made a boll baby from a shirt he worn, but the color was dark gray and I stuffed it with love herbs. I baptized it but I haven't been doing anything with it. Maybe re-baptize to activate it.

Actually, I ordered a black doll baby. I'm going to use it to his bestfriend cause she's the reason we're separated right now. He listened to her more than anything. She needs to go away, disappear, die. I did a reading about her being the blockage, and it was confirm. While waiting for the doll baby to come in the mail. I'll re-read the thread about it, or search for prayers, intention and petition.

Fotunata · Unread post by **Fotunata** » Tue Apr 09, 2019 1:20 pm

Hi again everyone,

Quick question: can you do honey jar along with the love me or die spell?

Thanks in advance.

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Apr 09, 2019 4:26 pm

Hello fotunata,

I wouldn't do that as a honey jar sweetens a person while the Love Me or Die spell sends them into an emotional frenzy. Two separate outcomes. I would pick one and focus on that intention.

Good luck.

Fotunata · Unread post by **Fotunata** » Tue Apr 09, 2019 4:49 pm

Thanks Ms. Athena, appreciate the response. I order some curios for the love me or die spell last night. I have to think this through cause this is a hard core spell. I'll definitely need a reading for this one. But I just ordered an email reading, I'm just waiting for the actual reading/report.

Thanks again.

hoodooTom · Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Mon May 25, 2020 6:21 am

I just got a request from a client to make a love me or die jackball. I've not seen anyway to do it in reverse. I always say for a woman to make a man love her, but I haven't seen the opposite. He wants a specific girl to want him. I wasn't sure how to go about it. I explained to him that I've went through something very similar myself months back and that he should think about it and after a weeks time, he got back to me and said he definitely wants to do it. Is there a "recipe" on how to make it for a guy wanting a woman?

Terra Rising · Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Tue May 26, 2020 12:40 pm

hoodooTom,

I moved your post to this thread on love me or die jackballs. Up at the top of this page Miss Athena answered this very question. Swap out the John the Conqueror root for Queen Elizabeth root. Keep the rest the same.

Good question, I was stumped too.

Best of luck!

hoodooTom · Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Thu May 28, 2020 4:03 pm

Thank you for your response. Its very much appreciated.