Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers

[wintersong]

Ack sorry about that. I didn't even think about it when copy+pasting that product info.

And thank you! I wasn't sure if it was gender specific since some things seem to be

[luvmel]

I did my honey jar spell... but can I open the jar to add my ex personal... I have his finger nail... or should I just do a new honey jar

[Luckyyone]

I need some advice soon.
I moved in with my target 3 months ago, we had a bumpy road after that, my work worked though, he came back!! He moved in and everything was great until recently, he decided he wanted to move out... he took his clothes and left, well he left some clothes, his tv and couch. He’s gonna come back and get the big stuff this weekend. How can I work with all his belongings before he comes and gets them??
I have reconciliation oils, luckymojo candles and probly can get my return to me oil back (I let someone borrow it) I just need to work fast. I have a full bottle of stay with me, ive been annointing his doll from time to time with it. I have fire of love. I wish I can get an Airre reading but can’t until I get paid.

Thank u in advance

[Sister Jean]

Hello luvmel,

Yes you can open it and add the fingernail.

Take care.

[Sister Jean]

Hello Luckyyone,

I'm sorry your target moved out, that's hard. What you can do is use Stay With Me oil to discreetly dress his hard belongings (like the underside of the TV). I wouldn't recommend dressing his clothes with the oils because they will stain. Instead you can dust them with love sachet powders if you have them.

Good luck to you.

[Luckyyone]

I have a reconciliation honey jar on him already and before he went to pick up his belongings I put oil on all his hats, his tv and he stepped over follow me boy powders. I just don’t know what else I can do. His reconciliation jar tho, I kept putting candles and they all burn clean, so that’s something good. I’ve already picked up all his loose hairs from the bathroom, before he took his hats with him, I took hair from them, I kept one of his dirty socks, he had taken all his dirty clothes with him (most likely coz he knows I’ll try to do something, he’s caught me with things).

But his candles on the reconciliation honey jar, burn clean when I put stay with me oil on them, that’s good sign right?

Thanks in advance

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Luckyyone

Yes, that is a good sign

Wishing you the best


Take care

[Always_Hopeful1]

Hello, I am about to purchase the reconciliation honey jar spell kit next week to help get my ex back (Among other spell kits like come to me and love me)
If I do not have anything of his body like hair or clothes he wore because when we broke up I was so angry I threw everything away. I had his toothbrush which I'm sure would of been perfect.
Can I just use a picture of him instead? Will that work fine?

[Always_Hopeful1]

Also, should I use a picture of only him or will a picture of both us together will be better? It's a picture of us on our first date.

[Always_Hopeful1]

Continued question from post I made right above this one.....
Also, should I just use a picture of him or can I use a picture of both us together? Will that be better? It's a picture of both us together on our first date.

[Sister Jean]

Hello Always_hopeful1,

I think a photo will work fine, and if you have one of the two of you together that's even better!

Take care.

[Always_Hopeful1]

Sister Jean, thank you so much.

[Luckylady123]

I recently ordered and thoroughly enjoy Deacon Millett’s fabulous book Hoodoo Honey and Sugar Spells: Sweet Love Magic in the Conjure Tradition!! I highly recommend it and it is SO affordable!
I was interested in Miss Bri’s sugar love spell. I notice that it does not involve tasting the sugar.... I am confused as I thiught this part was essential??!! I realize it uses various oils so I am wondering if it is ok, in this case, to refrain from tasting in a sugar jar? Will the spell be weaker or just as effective?

Thank you Deacon Millett, Miss Cat & this whole forum!

[catherineyronwode]

Hi, Blackcattt0123 --

There are sweet spells that involve tasting or not tasting.

There are sweet spells that involve candles or no candles.

There are sweet spells that involve herbs or no herbs.

There are sweet spells that involve mojos or no mojos.

There are sweet spells that involve petitions or no petitions.



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[Combat18]

Dear community:
I have done a Reconciliation Honey Jar spell and well I finally found a formula that sort of works. I did the petition "forgive me, call me" However once she came back she would be frustrated with me over nothing and I did a love me to follow up to calm things down with "come to me, love me" , but didn't last. I did this several times and it worked, then she kind of ghosted. I finally had the courage to go see her and she told me that she is seeing someone else, but she was not upset with me and that she thought I was "really sweet to her and we are good friends, but it would never work between us because we grind each others gears." I was so broken hearted I went home and dismantled everything.
When does one stop this work? Should I just have kept working it? Did I do something wrong? -C18

[Sister Jean]

Hello Combat18,

I'm very sorry that you are broken-hearted and hurting. To answer your question, I would just listen to your intuition and the promptings of Spirit. If her words in this situation were enough to tell you that it's definitely over and the door is shut, then so be it. Work a Cut & Clear spell kit and move on, ready to find someone else someday.

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Take care.

[Combat18]

Sister Jean,
At the moment it seemed like the right thing to do. Now I am kicking myself for doing that. I dismantled and burned everything. After she told me I wished her happiness and she told me she would see me around and I left. I wonder if I shouldn't have kept working it. She had tears in her eyes when said how sweet I was. However looking back this person is a disaster, but I am hopelessly in love with her. Looking back at the texts she was stringing me along, mind you she is married, but getting a divorce, but now this new guy, who I am now wondering if I was a rebound of a rebound. I am extremely confused having moments of hope and moments of despair. When I first met her, I thought to myself she is the one. But once we connected and I found out she was married, we started fighting all the time, we would separate and reconnect, but I am divided on what I should do. After years of this kind of spiritual work, sometimes I am very clear, this I am not. I am having a hard time hearing spirit. Thank you for your help and support though. -C18

[catherineyronwode]

Combat18 --

I feel for you. I suggest a Cut and Clear spell. If she is the right one for you, she will make her way back to you, but i see you making excuses for her dishonest actions, and think you can do a lot better for yourself.

Read more about Cut and Clear spells on this free web age:

http://luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Good luck.

[Combat18]

Miss Cat,
You are absolutely right! Thank you for this. I am going to take this advice and run with it. By the way your books and products and this forum have had an tremendous impact on my life and for the better. Thank you for all that you and your staff do!
-Brandon C18

[catherineyronwode]

Combat18 --

Thank you for the kind words, and best of luck to you.

[Ariavenus]

I am currently working my own honey jar for my lover I want to return / reconciliate with. I plan on going to two different root workers to also work this with/for me.

1) I am wondering if that is productive or contradicting?

2) I don't see how it could really be bad a bad thing? If anything I feel like it would help "back up" or "boost" the energy going into him/the situation.

3) Maybe I could have one do a return to me spell and the other reconciliation?

4) Although I feel the work overlaps overall?

Any input?

[catherineyronwode]

Ariavenus

1) Not recommended. See http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/S ... or_Clients about splitting jobs versus stacking jobs.

2) Why ask, then?

3) Sure, that is "splitting," and not "stacking."

4) In your mind it does. In my mind, it does not. A woman can reconcile with someone in bed with her. I woman can have someone return who is not her lover.

[Ariavenus]

Catherine yronwode,

Thank you for your input. I really respect your knowledge. I guess I have another question now.. I agree when you say they don't overlap, I've pondered it a bit more. I still need get a reading of my situation before I start work with someone else. Do you have an opinion on what should "come first"? Return to me work or reconciliation work? I read that link and also agree with you that it is different work.... so not to contradict myself from my previous sentence but I could "split" this work between two workers at the same time rather than "stacking" two reconciliation spells on two different workers?

sorry if its a little repetitive I just and to be clear!

I greatly appreciate your input!

[catherineyronwode]

I think you understand.

[Honeybeelight]

Hi there:

Can a reconciliation honey jar have a delayed "kick in"? I'm asking because the guy I was doing work on (and stopped) has reached out to me several times. Each time it was on some kind of holiday or day we met or something. I have, with one exception, been sweet but noncommittal. I have a few VERY good reasons for that, part of which is that the other woman in the picture came at me hammer and tongs with some really nasty curses. I'd also done a Cut and Clear and a whole bunch of Uncrossing.

When I stopped the work, I was told to bury it near a tree, which I did. A few months ago, a bee hive moved in. I love bees, but they couldn't stay where they were, so I called a woman who would remove them alive, carefully. (They are now living in a community garden). It only just occurred to me that the entrance to the hive was right over the spot where I buried the jar. So are the bees related to the honey jar, and could the honey jar be kicking in now that I've pretty much given up on it?

[catherineyronwode]

Honeybeelight --

The fact that bees moved in over your buried honey jar would be considered a sign or omen that the work is still "sweet." I would not call this a "delayed kick in" so much as a work that has not stopped working,.

When i want to bring a honey jar to a close, i never bury it, by the way. I take it to a river and wash it out by hand. This disperses it, and releases it.

[Honeybeelight]

Thank you, Miss Cat. I hope you’ll be pleased that I looked in your book first! I’ve been reorganizing my library and now it isn’t buried behind a million other things.

That was my gut sense, too. I don’t know what you’d call it, but bees are one of those animals that really speak to me. I grow lavender with no pesticides in my backyard for them and address them as “sisters.” That probably sounds corny, but it’s true. So when I saw carpets of bees that had died off on my birthday, I burst into tears, because I knew it was a bad sign, and when bees move in close, that’s a sign as well. Thank you. I have a reading scheduled on Wednesday with my favorite AIRR reader and I’ll ask him about the specifics.