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by LovelyLiz » Sun Apr 19, 2020 9:03 am
Hello All , Bare with me I know this will be a long post. But there is so many Intermingling parts here I need to break down so that hopefully someone can give me some guidance.
1.I am a 26 year old single mother to a 4 year old baby girl. My daughter has had temper tantrums and has been very difficult since she was going on 2 years old. She is sassy and hard to control, she yells and won’t listen to me. I know she is capable of being calm but most of the day consists of her yelling and throwing stuff and making everyone at the house annoyed and anxious (I live with my Sister, mother, and dad).
Most of my time was spent on working, therfore when I get home and try to discipline my mother will yell at me and tell me I have no right to do so, she will belittle me in front of my daughter and take her away from a time out (when and If i can get her to take a break)
2.I have been in a relationship for the past 14 months, I was not used to going out or even going to the mall because my daughter is very difficult to deal with. My bf was obsessed with me the first 6 7 months of our relationship but got overwhelmed with my daughters tantrums in public, and my consistent crying and complaining because everytime I go out without my daughter to have a “date night” I get home to my mother calling me a whore and a bad mother. He thinks I need to get out of this house because they don’t respect me or see me as an adult. I agree...
3. We had spoke about moving out together multiple times, and everytime we would be about to pull the trigger he would get very distant and cold. Just two days ago he told me it’s because he can’t commit to my daughter. He said I am committed to you but your daughter scares me... her tantrums and how disrespectful she is to you will make me run for the hills if we are living together. He also confessed to me that he likes my family but when I invite him over he would rather not come to avoid any tantrums my daughter is having and how bad the energy gets when it happens. He also confessed to me that he does not invite me over to his parents house , because of the same issue and that he doesn’t think his family should have to deal with the scenes she causes. He told me I have some growing up to do, I have to leave my parents nest and take control of the relationship with me and my daughter. He says he is willing to wait but as of now we can not take a next step and now he feels distant and cold again.
;. I have started a Honey jar with my daughters hair, as well as some herbs for calming her down. I am burning White candles with “energetic purification oil” blue candles with “peace and tranquility and peaceful home oils” and pink candles to soften up her attitude. I have also tried some discipline work, with no luck because my mother is interfering.
I would like to know, If there is another spell or work I can do to have my mom ease off, My daughters attitude to change, my BF to warm up to my daughter and see us as a family
and for me to get the right resources to move out.
Any feedback would be appreaciated. Thank you