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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Terra Rising » Tue Sep 10, 2019 5:22 pm

Yvonnerogers61,

I'm a little confused about your situation and need some clarifications before we are able to recommend any products.

1. He is in your house but has a separate apartment of his own?
2. Do you need his financial support after the divorce?

My first impression would be to Hot Foot him right out of the house! But if you need him to support you financially after the divorce, Hot Foot would be the wrong choice and a peaceful divorce would be desired. Have you read through this thread to get some ideas on how you would like to work to make the divorce easier?
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by LostandConfused10269 » Thu Oct 24, 2019 12:51 pm

Hey all...I have a question, and if I'm in the wrong spot, please let me know!

My husband and I have been married 2 years, and together for a little over 3. I have recently found out some disturbing information about his infidelity (at least online and assumed that it hasn't been in person...yet) and I cannot handle it anymore. This has been going on even before we were married, and when confronted about it a couple of times, it was blown off like it was no big deal. He's had more than a few inappropriate conversations with women...and men about hooking up, and all sorts of stuff.

I'd like him to realize that our relationship is not meant to be, and to move on, but without breaking all ties. (We have a 10 year old daughter who thinks the world of him (His step daughter, my biological daughter). I'd like to remain friends.

Is there such a way to make him not want to be with me anymore?

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Terra Rising » Thu Oct 24, 2019 5:17 pm

LostandConfused10269,

This is a tough situation and I am sorry you are going through this. I would first start with Clarity for the both of you. He obviously needs some clarity figuring out what he is doing being married and continuing this behavior and for you to decide the best way to approach this without hurting your daughter. I would suggest two Clarity vigil candles, for for the each of you with the petition underneath or burned at the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church.

I would like you to read this thread to get ideas: mutual-break-up-easy-divorce-peaceful-s ... 11198.html
Please let us know if you have any questions after reading the thread. I would probably start with Separation products. It will separate you but can leave a friendship intact which is ideal with children. A prayer ideas and products can be found here: https://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html

One final note and I am going to beat Miss Cat to it, please change your user name. The name is sending a message to God/Universe that you would almost like to be lost and confused! Think of attraction magic. Like attracts like, I would change it to something like "Lucky_n_Love" or "HappyMamaBear". Something that will attract what you want.

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by LostandConfused10269 » Fri Oct 25, 2019 6:10 am

How do I change my username?

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Fri Oct 25, 2019 9:37 pm

Dear LostandConfused10269 -- welcome to the Lucky Mojo Forum

Requests for username changes can be made here:

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Please become familiar with the structure of the forum and post in the sub-forums and topic threads set aside for each form of discussion.

For instance, you posted in a thread about breaking up long-time marriages, but that is about an outsider to the marriage undertaking the work, so i have moved your post here, because this thread deals precisely with situations just like yours:

Mutual Break-Up Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
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There are eight pages of questions and replies in this thread, so please take time to read them and see what has previously been discussed -- and if you have further questions, just ask.

Best of luck to you.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Roxy123 » Fri May 15, 2020 4:57 pm

Hello Everyone!

I recently performed a cut and clear on my husband. I’m miserable in our marriage. We have children and he has almost nothing to do with them and very little to do with me. He comes and goes as he pleases while I’m the one that takes care of responsibilities at home. He lives his life like a bachelor and flirts with everyone he comes into contact with and this just isn’t how I wanted my life to go and the children deserve better. He’s controlling but certainly not physically abusive so I want a peaceful separation/divorce.

I feel like he’s not going to have anything to do with the kids in the end which is sad but I still didn’t think hot footing was the best course of action although now I’m not sure. I’ve tried to leave but he insists he loves me and wants me there, and I’m very empathetic so I’m having a hard time standing my ground. I’ve talked to him about how I feel and it’s like he doesn’t hear what I’m saying at all. He shows signs of narcissism so I think I’m his ego boost.

I’ve seen a traditional therapist and I’ve gotten better with boundaries but it’s still hard for me. Ideally I’d like him to leave so I can keep the kids in the house and keep their routine normal but I’m prepared to leave with them if I need to.

After the cut and clear he’s been a lot nicer to me. That’s the opposite effect that I was hoping for! I honestly feel like he senses something and he’s just holding on because his life is easier with me there. Does it sometimes take a few times with the cut and clear if one person is really holding on?

He’s never going to change - he’s always done just enough to keep me holding on so that I’ll keep taking care of things for him but I want out!

Any advice is much appreciated!!

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Miss Athena » Sat May 16, 2020 11:56 pm

Hello Roxy123,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum. We're glad you're here, although saddened to hear that your relationship is so unhappy for you.

I'm not sure why you chose Cut & Clear to help your husband agree to a divorce. Cut & Clear is used to cleanse yourself of your emotional ties to someone, not to end their emotional ties to you.

Since you want a peaceful parting, I suggest working with Separation products, as they help bring about a gentler ending to a relationship vs. Break Up products. You can state in your petition that he leaves your marriage and home. You can find Separation products here:
https://www.luckymojo.com/products-separation.html

I understand you do not want to use Hot Foot on him, but consider using Banishing instead. Like Separation, it is a less harsh formula than Hot Foot but can still help to bring about your desired result of him leaving your home. You can find Banishing products here:
https://www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html

I hope this helps and I wish you the very best of luck!
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Roxy123 » Sun May 17, 2020 5:42 am

Miss Athena,

Thank you so much for your reply! I guess I was confused on what cut and clear does but that explains why I’m not seeing the results I’m looking for. Should I use both Separation and Banishing? Or should I pick one?

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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Terra Rising » Sun May 17, 2020 6:43 pm

Roxy123,

You could use both. Separation for the peaceful divorce and Banishing to make him leave the home. You will find free spells using the products on the links Miss Athena gave above. You will also find a ton of spells on this thread so give it a good read through from the beginning. Many have been in the same situation. Start planning so he doesn't get the upper hand when he does decide to leave. A good lawyer will be able to help with this and ensure you get a fair deal.
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Re: Mutual Break-Up Create Distance Promote Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation

Unread post by Roxy123 » Mon May 18, 2020 3:30 am

Oh perfect! I’ll do both. Thank you both very much for the help!

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