How to Undo Love Spells I Cast on My Ex So We Can Move On

[tag227]

I combined a series of spells to make my Ex boyfriend come back to me, and I must say I've learned my lesson the hard way.

The Background:

I had been dating a man for 4 months -- never met any of his friends or family. This of course made me quite suspicious, especially since he has met my friends. So on inquiring about this, he kept responding that he had just moved to Houston (about six months ago) and had not made many friends.

This was followed by fights over the fact that his Ex kept posting "hugs & kisses" all over his wall on facebook. Truth is she did not know he was not single, and I asked him about it, and he told me he did not want to tell people. One thing lead to another, and there was a lot of tension between us.

The last straw was about a week ago, when I had a car accident and he did not show up to see me afterwards, stating that it was not logical to be there as my family was there. I realized he really didn't care and then broke it off with him.

After this, being a stupid girl, I started work with St. Martha, used Luckycharms Call me now Spell, and combined it with Psalm spells and of course Cat's Oils.

The second day I got a call back from him, and he was in deep pain, and I needed to rush him to the ER. He is right now in the hospital, and with all the days of my taking care of him, nothing has changed. He is still the adamant jerk he was before, and that's not changing. He still tells his family he's here alone, when in reality, I've been taking care of him. And now he's still flying to Vegas to spend the weekend with his parents even though it may be injurious to his health, against my advice and the doctor's orders.

Moral of the Story

When Cat kept stating "You can bring a man back but you can not change his nature" --- I finally get it!!!!! Cat you are soooo right. Your products are wonderful by the way!

You can bring someone back, but it doesn't mean they'll be good to you or that you will be happy. -- I've become too tired looking after him, and I no longer want to be with someone so ungrateful.

Now my question is this:

I need to move on.

Are there any successful spells you guys know of that has helped you meet a soulmate or a spouse?

I'm not looking for lovers anymore, and would love to settle down, so a successful spell to bring a true love (in my hopes my spouse will be that), and to keep him?

Thank you all!

[Literarylioness]

tag227

Are you ready to be with a soulmate? I ask this because most people are not. They state they want to find the right partner for them, but they continuously thwart their attempts.

Having stated that, clean yourself up with a 13 herb bath or a jinx removal kit to get rid of all the gunk from the bad ex. After you have cleaned yourself up, then start working on finding the right guy.

The Come to Me Spell kit is great for attracting the perfect partner, as is cat's spell that attracted her husband, Nagsiva. It is called the Lodestone and red candle spell to attract new love. This spell can be found here: http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html#candlelove

Good luck!

Mary

[tag227]

I am indeed ready for my soulmate. I've done a cleansing ritual and will take a 13 herb bath soon.

As for Cat's spell --- I did that spell twice now. And it's powerful --- I have had results both times, but it keeps bringing the same person back into my life! The second time, I asked for My soulmate & True Love & husband and then this one keeps popping into my life.

Should I do a Cut & Clear or is this just Karmic Destiny?

[keeperoftherubyshoes]

Hi tag,
I'm pming you.

[Literarylioness]

tag227

You should do a Cut & Clear AND a black walnut bath to get rid of the ex then.

Mary

[MightyAphrodite]

I got the clarity I needed to break up with my boyfriend last week. However, we have a 2 year history of on again, off again dynamics.

I've done some simple love and stay with me candle magic on him throughout our relationship. He always responded positively to it. But there were also times when he was being awful, and I broke up with him, doing Cut & Clear work. That would keep him away for weeks or a couple months, but then he'd come back promising me the world and I would take him back.

Although I believed his expressions of love and devotion, something felt off, and I recently did some prayer for clarity work and also some work with St. Michael to protect me from evil. All hell broke loose as a result, as I discovered he was cheating and lying to me. He accidently showed me his sexy emails to another woman (oops!) Then I spoke with her and holy cow, did my eyes get opened. (Thank you St. Michael for forcing the truth to be revealed.)

I'm thinking to do another cut & clear spell, but maybe I need to do something to clean up past love work first? I'm not sure why my cut & clear work didn't fully stick before.* Yes, I took him back those times (mea culpa) but I don't want to be vulnerable to letting him slither back again, promising me all the things on the good side of my cut & clear list.

*I did novenas and black/white offeratory rituals, not the black walnut spell, since going out my front door naked isn't something I can do where I live (no back door or private yard.)

What are your thoughts?

[starsinthesky7]

Here is a link that is helpful
separation-spell-without-harm-t175.<a class="postlink" href="htmlhttp://forum.luckymojo.com/separation-spell-without-harm-t175.html

Your situation is slightly different but I would use the same products. In addition, I would use cast off evil and perhaps some separation products as well.

[NotDorianGray]

You can also symbolically cut the ties by carving his name into a candle and yours into another. Dress them with separation oil, then tie them together with a red thread. Place them atop a petition paper and light.. Then, as you focus on removing all ties, cut the thread with a pair of scissors and separate the candles from one another. Let them burn down and dispose of the wax and thread at a river or crossroads.

[MightyAphrodite]

Those are great ideas. I think that putting some cast off evil into my cut & clear work is the way to go. Along with the manipulative betrayal my ex was doing, two women in his life have been messing with me. I'll skip the awful details, but one forged a legal document in my name in an attempt to ruin my business. The other was cheating with him, knowing he was in a committed relationship with me, and she also did some cyberstalking stuff. I want to banish all of them from my life!

[NotDorianGray]

Cast off evil is good, but you may want to consider hotfooting at least the one who forged the document away from you. Don't forget to protect yourself. You can also protect your business, and I urge you to do that too. Best of luck!

[duchess]

Hello all,

Last fall I was working with a rootworker for a reconciliation with my ex. At the same time, I was doing alot of work on myself--healing, clarity, etc.... At some point I just decided he wasn't worth it, he wasn't good for me, and to let it go. I did a Cut and Clear on myself (highly recommended), alot of cleansing and unjinxing, road opening, you name it--it was the transformational conjure boot camp.
Since then, things have been dramatically getting better and better in my life, I've been learning more and more and getting better at conjure (thanks to Lucky Mojo!), I met a man I really like, and the last few months have been some of the happiest for me in a long time.

Until this morning. Last night I had an odd feeling that I needed to do some cleansing and protection (keep this up--don't do what I did and learn the hard way the things that can happen when you don't!). I cleansed my house, put down some more FWP, prayed to St. Michael, went to bed, had some uneasy dreams, and woke up with a weird feeling. And this morning I look out my window to see my ex walking straight past my house. Never happened, and not a coincidence. Without going into detail, I should have seen him or run into him long before now but by sheer force of will and an overpowering desire to move on, I have managed to avoid him.

Enter sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach. I had been dreaming about him the last week after not thinking about him for a long time (again cut and clear folks!) and I'm a true dreamer so I suppose I should have known. Yuck. If this is a sign of things to come, I'd really like to avoid one of those you move on, you get happy, and then the work hits them like a brick, scenarios.

Sorry for the long post--any advice? I have FWP, Van Van, hyssop, some blessing and uncrossing on its way, and a great relationship with St. Michael. My rootworker said that he had done some work on me (hence the desperation in me to reconcile) and when he figured out that I had gotten past the whole mess, he might try again. I'm going to consult with my rootworker today and get some more protection going but if you have any advice I'd be much obliged.

[Devi Spring]

I would just keep up the FWP until you can speak to your worker.

[kmew1315]

Interesting. This is the second thread I've seen recently where someone did a cut and clear on someone and then afterwards the reconciliation work started taking hold. So am I to assume that a cut and clear removes your feelings for the target but not the other way around?

And I know this isn't your intent, but I have to say that you are giving hope to those of us who haven't seen our work manifest yet.

[Devi Spring]

Cut and Clear works on YOU clearing YOUR feelings for a person - it has nothing to do with the other person directly.

[starsinthesky7]

A clear and cut Knew does NOT cancel the work you did for the person. It can still go into effect, but if you chose to cancel the work then obviously it would not work. This work tends to manifest because the petititioner tends to stop overthinking and making such a huge deal that the work takes hold.

[kmew1315]

This work tends to manifest because the petititioner tends to stop overthinking and making such a huge deal that the work takes hold.

EXACTLY what I was thinking and why I was asking, lol. Almost makes me want to do a cut and clear on my situation just to make it manifest sooner. Seriously, though... I won't do that because I know it would just make things even more complicated, but I do struggle with letting it go even though I know it's going to eventually do its work.

[ConjureMan]

I'd advise against the using of Cut and Clear just to make things manifest faster. In love work especially, you want the binding and manifesting of the spell to be mutual. Being able to call upon your love for the person and using that in your spell is a great resource.

[freegirl]

Right... just think about it... I have noticed in my own life that sometimes a man tells me he loves me, has always loved me, a few years after our relationship has ended... but it no longer means anything to me. I can't go back in time and have him say it to the part of me that wanted to hear it, nor can I turn myself into someone who still has a heart open enough to him to care. It may well be that my very real pulling back of that energy inspired him to come forward but there's no way I can fake that... it's an unintended and somewhat ironic side effect of it being OVER.

I imagine "cut and clear" has a similar effect, and the only way it would end up being useful is if it sort of halfway "cut and cleared" your feelings-- enough to pull back but leave you something. But you know, I think if you go into magic HOPING it will work halfway, it just won't work at all. So-- best I think, tempting though it is, not to do Cut and Clear unless that's your actual intent.

[starsinthesky7]

Knew,
I know its hard to not overthink when you want someone back so much. Trust me I know. But doing the clear and cut is not the answer lol :p But you can just try to focus on something else you need in your life. For example, I remember when I was trying to bring some back I worked on my school work, and getting into a master's program. In addition, I remember just completely giving up. It was liberating, and I have given up for a month, and I remember just forgetting how it felt to just live. I forgot to go out with friends and enjoy being young. Funny thing is...I saw my ex boyfriend at the club, which was soo funny to me. And then BAM! all my work I had been doing for MONTHS had worked. I mean reflecting back then I was like gosh everything I did manifested. It just took time. I know its cliche, but you have to have faith, and you somehow you have dig deep for what you didnt know you had. If you truly believe that person will come back, it really doesnt matter how...when..why they will come back. The important thing is tht they come back, but you must remember to not forget about yourself.

[splitpea]

i had a haitian man,do some work fo me,to keep my boyfriend around so he gave me a doll,but now everything is terrible and i just want him to leave,but remain friends so my daughter can continue to have a relationship with him (its her father).. What can I do,i really don't want to go back to that person tht helped the first time...

[Devi Spring]

You can browse through the profiles of the skilled rootworkers at http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

[starsinthesky7]

I would get rid of the doll. You can burn it to end what you wanted, and then dispose of the ashes in the river or ocean to remove the influence. Then you need to follow up with some uncrossing work,and perhaps some peaceful home to get things back to being peaceful and get the negativity out.

I agree with Devi, definitely get that reading so you can get a better gauge on what you should do. But I would get rid of the doll, and cleanse your home and do some peaceful home, then go from there with the other recommendations given to you.

[ConjureMan]

You might want to get a rootworker'S advice on how to deal with the doll first. You don't want to burn up your boyfriend.

There is a way to dispose dollies and your reader and rootworker can advise you.

[Devi Spring]

I was just going to post that same thing, CM!

[starsinthesky7]

Oh true lol...I didnt think of that. So get some consultation before you do that, but you can burn it to end its influence if they say its okay.

[duchess]

Thanks Devi for the input! I contacted my rootworker and she said the same thing--just keep it up. I also annointed myself with some Crown of Success (I love this oil!) because it always makes me feel more grounded, centered, stonger, and able to do the things I have to do.

Kmew, the Cut and Clear was the right choice for me and my situation because at the end of the day it was what I really wanted and needed. It took me alot of work to see that. I cannot speak for other situations where the target comes back after cut and clear but my ex is incredibly selfish. It took me alot of work and healing (with the help of Conjure) to see that I deserved better. Is it possible that he could come back? Yup. He doesn't care about me or what I want and he probably misses all that loving energy. Which is why I am trying to enforce boundaries at the moment (magical and otherwise).

Starsinthesky's advice is great. Don't forget about yourself. Do some cleansing, love unjinxing, learn an instrument, write a novel. You will be better for it and your target will come back to a better happier person, right? You love this person and so naturally you want to be the best for them. If you know that it's you, strengthening yourself is only going to help you, right?

Actually, insert plug for LM's Crown of Success right here.

[goddessfindings]

I really enjoyed this thread, it was very relevant to me as I consider Cut and Clear--with great trepidation! My ex-guy was beyond selfish ( what is it with these guys) and I still don't want to cut things? agh! I can't wait to put in my first purchase....

[wraithklewn]

Hello All.

I have a friend thats asked me to do a cut and clear for them. In their case, they dont want the "bring new love" part of it.. just to remove spell-cast ties from their current partner.

How do i go about working this to what my friend asked?

[Mary Bee]

Cut And Clear is designed to remove your feelings about a person and bring a new person into your life, usually for romance.

If they want to only remove ties from their current partner, you'd be better off using a Break-Up Kit. However, if your friend wants to separate gently from the partner without fussing and fighting (which is what a Break-Up Kit will make them do) you'd be best off using Separation products.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

[aura]

Hi wraithklewn,

in addition to what MaryBee has already told you, from what I understand, Cut and Clear is a very personal spell and it isn't usually performed by someone on behalf of someone else: that someone else has to do it themselves. You can read more about this in the following threads:

cut-and-clear-on-anotherʹs-behalf--t6065.html
cut-and-clear-spell-kit-questions-and-a ... t8704.html
make-target-move-on-after-breakup-t9220.html

Blessings.

[Splitpea2]

I made a voodoo doll for my boyfriend to love and come back to me, which he did but now this relationship is at its worst and he has become very violent.

I want to know what I can do to break what I did so that we don't be together anymore.

I have tried kicking him out and leaving but he will not go.

Can someone please give me some advise..

[Fixerkitty]

Destroy the doll and dispose of the remains.

Also, Cut and Clear may help here.

Others may have more advice for you.

[Turnsteel]

Burn the doll and throw the ashes into a river.

I made a voodoo doll for my boyfriend to love and come back to me, which he did but now this relationship is at its worst and he has become very violent. I have tried kicking him out and leaving but he will not go.

Call The Police. Get ever attack on record, have pictures taken of every bruise and mark he puts on you. Do not rely on just magic to fix this, you need to take real world action.

[Splitpea2]

I have the ocean near me can I throw it there,and do I have to throw it in backward so it will be like no looking back?? I also wanted to know if I should bless the doll with holy water first so it can cleanse him so it can truly break and then burn it??

[syd_moonshine]

Hey there I'm new here and I have a somewhat complicated problem.. my ex and I broke up about two months ago and at that point I had just started getting interested in witchcraft. My friend (who is Wiccan) guided me through some basic love spells, taught me how to make a honey jar for him, and we cast a few communication spells during the last full moon. My intentions with these were to get him back (I wanted to be in a relationship with him still). They’ve been working so far (before he wouldn’t even speak to me, now we speak very often and we’re actually very good friends).

Now here’s my dilemma. I no longer want to be in a relationship with him, but rather, I’d like to begin working on a new love interest that seems a bit shy and unsure. My friend warned me to be careful with this, and told me that if I start sending out love spells and signals in different directions, eventually they’re going to collide and cause trouble. I haven’t cast any spells for my current love interest but I would really like to start, I just need some guidance.

I'm fairly certain this isn't enough information to help me but if anyone needs more info I'll gladly answer more questions!
Blessed be~

[Mama Micki]

Go ahead and do some work on the new person. Stop listening to your friend, who just will put doubt into your work. Follow Me Boy, Attraction, or Love Me may be appropriate for your situation.

[Miss Phoenix]

syd_moonshine, please keep in mind that this is a forum for Hoodoo and not Wicca; these are two very different systems. I agree with Mama Micki that it is ok move forward with the working for the man you desire, but I also agree with your friend to be cautious. Are you sure you know what you want? You were so convinced that you wanted the ex that you were willing to do magic to get him back and now someone else is drawing your attention and you want to do magic for them too? You might need to take a pause to determine what you really want. Maybe what you need is a reading to help give you some clarity and help you pick the right direction that you want to move in.

Best of luck!

[syd_moonshine]

Miss Pheonix, what do you mean by "be cautious"?
Also, my friend told me that in order to start working on my new love, I have to dismiss the work I've already done for my ex. If there is a way to dismiss the love spells, but still keep working on him for a very close friendship, I think that is what I would like to do.
Also, is there any way I could get a reading from any of the people on this forum or would it have to be in person? If so, where would I be able to get one?

[Miss Aida]

Good Evening, Syd_Cautious,
Miss Phoenix most likely meant that you want to be absolutely sure of your intentions before casting a spell. Otherwise (when she said to "be cautious") you might hurt the feelings of the person you no longer want. Not fair! LOL
Many Forum Moderators are AIRR workers and/or Hoodoo Psychics. Just browse through the pages and see who you want.
For a quick reading: www.hoodoopsychics.com 1-888-4-HOODOO
Or you can go to www.readersandrootworkers.org
Hope this helps.
Have a wonderful evening

[crzblu3y3z]

I dont know if I am n the right spot to post this or not.
I had a reading and during the reading I was told that the man I love had work done on him or is possible bound to another women.
I was also told he would come back. (we are now broken up)

Now I was thinking... I had done 3 spells twice for a man I loved from MY past years ago. I am no longer in love with this other man. But I have not properly disposed of my spell products- in other words i will have the dolls (bound) and gri-gri bags etc... (I used another site) I was told I can send the old spell products back to be disposed of properly... (we broke up 3 years ago- so its time)

I almost feel because I hadnt disposed of this properly yet and unbound myself from this other man that the man I love now cant move forward with me.
maybe my reading wasnt so much as my love being bound to another women but me being bound to another man.

What are your thoughts on this? and is this normal or have you heard of people not being able to move forward in new relationships because they haven't finished spell work from and old love

Once these spells from my past are undone, do you believe that would help with moving forward with the man i love now? Will this help rekindle the flame we had last year?

Thanks.

[Susan Barnes]

Hi crzblu3y3z,

Go to:
http://www.luckymojo.com//layingtricks.html
to find out how to lay tricks and dispose of ritual remains in the Hoodoo Tradition.

Read: "Hoodoo in theory and Practice" a free online book by Catherine Yronwode. Read the web page, Laying down tricks and disposing of ritual remains in the Hoodoo tradition.

Get a reading by a reputable reader and rootworker here: www.readersandrootowkers.org
For a quicker reading: www.hoodoopsychics.com
Ask your reader for a reading and a magical coaching session. Tell them what you want and what you are trying to do. Be as clear as you can.

Many blessings to you!

[Miss Phoenix]

Hi syd_moonshine, Miss Aida hit the nail on the head with what I meant. Be sure of what you want before you start casting other spell work. In addition to creating hurt feelings, you might also have to deal with the mess of having someone want you and pursue you, but then you don't want them anymore. Love work can be tricky and you don't want to make a big mess for yourself. Be sure about what you want and then your intention and working can be more straightforward.

Best of luck!

[Ms Melanie]

I would most certainly advise that you do a cleansing on yourself as well. Bringing back an ex lover is a type of work that is going against their own will, even though you have had good results. You need to cleanse yourself from this type of work before you begin work on another person.
Also, your ex that you want to keep as a friend, stick him in a honey jar so that your friendship will remain in tack.

[QematetSau]

I would say that you need to take his spirit out of the doll before destroying it. I'm not sure if you need to throw it backwards but i would assume so. Someone with more experience can chime in.

Get help from the police but also do a binding on him. Cut a figure out of paper; name it for him; command it to not harm you; and, take the feet, hands, and head and fold them in; then, nail them into the center of the figure.

Make sure you talk to a battered women's advocate at the police station. They can help move the process along faster for you. I'll pray for your safety.

[Miss Aida]

Splitpea,
You can do that.
Additionally, all the advice given from our forum family members is sound, logical advice.
Good luck to you
And PLEASE be careful with him.

[Olivialeigh]

So I have a bit of a problem
I was dating a guy for about 4 months. While at first he seemed very affectionate, over time this affection seemed to wane a tiny bit and I began to notice he didn’t seem like the type to open up. I had a reading with Miss Cat about the relationship and signs seemed good although there were some indications of him being a bit concerned with money and status, but his attitude towards me seemed that he cared and liked me a lot. We went away on vacation 2 weeks ago and we seemed to have turned a corner. He was calling me his girlfriend and said he wanted to stay with me long term. These were good signs.

However he still seemed a little closed when it came to opening up fully so upon our return I decided to give this relationship a boost by performing a love me spell with a red couple candle, adding deers tongue (to get him to open up more) and of course the standard love me products. Love me, fire of love, follow me. crucible of courage (so hed have the courage to open up) which I performed a few days after we returned.

Heres where the confusion sets in. When we returned he vanished. Disappeared into thin air never to be heard from again! It had only been a few days when I performed the spell so I wasn’t that concerned at that point. However it has now been 10 days and not a peep. I realized that this guy was pulling a cowardly shade out (which mind you I NEVER SAW COMING). At the same time I began to start seeing very definitive signs. His name is pretty unique so when I began hearing and seeing it everywhere next to his birthday I realized things were in motion. And the signs seemed positive.

I texted him once to ask him politely to retrieve my personal belongings that I left at his home. I didn’t ask to see him, just that he mail them or put them somewhere I could pick them up. I never even got the respect or dignity of a response (And for the record he IS ALIVE as hes been quite active on facebook.

Now my fear is that this love me spell will work and ill have this jerkoff on my hands. At his point I don’t want him back, Id love an explanation but I know that anyone who acts this way is not for me. Suggestions? I have no clue what to do about this. I assume there is no way to change a spell after its done and deployed, but I don’t want him to love me and follow me. I just want an explanation and to move on.


thanks !

[Shantilly Lace]

Maybe you can do a break up spell with you, and then do another love spell on him to put his attention elsewheres?
I am just stabbing in the dark here. Maybe hotfoot as well. I am sure more knowledgable people will help shortly.

[BlakPrincessUK]

Hi Olivialeigh

Well that really is bizarrre isn't it ? I would first get a reading to find out what happened, you could also try asking him as well. Nut if you are absolutely sure that you don't want him back then cu and clear spell will break all emotional ties to him. There is also the black walnut spell which will absolutely kill all feelings you have towards him. The black walnut spell is much stronger and there is no rekindling the relationship once its performed. When you get a chance look through the threads.

The good thing is, these things makes us stronger.
Best of luck

[catherineyronwode]

Sorry to hear this happened. I would not say, though, that the love spell "wen horribly wrong." I would say that he saw it coming and opposed, feared, and fled from it. Sometimes we try to work on folks who are themselves shielded in some way or who may themselves be under a curse that prevents their ever loving another. It may be that others have cursed him in the past for his bad ways in love and your love spell set off the curse again.

A simple lemon bath or cut and clear bath would be sufficient. Bury the love spell remains in a graveyard.

[Olivialeigh]

Thank You Cat for clarifying.
I did not see this was moved to this forum so I posted this in a similar topic (reconciliation maybe? - Sorry about that!). Since I originally posted I decided that at the very least I would like an explanation from him. Love is probably not in the cards with this one, but an explanation and the truth I most certainly deserve

I think that is very interesting and probably extremely accurate where you say "It may be that others have cursed him in the past for his bad ways in love and your love spell set off the curse again." Do you mean that because he treated others poorly before and due to being cursed in some way he is doomed now to not be affected by love never getting to experience it? Sorry That is how I interpreted that. Please let me know if Im wrong.

Either way, thank you for your advice.

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Olivialeigh ,
Yes, it looks like this is what she is saying.
I would take her advice (Miss cat is THE expert) and take those baths.
Wishing you the very best
Take care of yurself

[tanchan]

I did honey jar love spell also for my ex, have mojo handbag, prayed to Santisima Muerte. I no longer want him. I want to attract new love. But I want to revenge also make his love life so bad and regret loosing me, tormenting his thoughts to think of me while I attract another man to fall inlove with. Please advice me. Thanks a lot.

[Sarafina]

you should focus more on the new love tanchan.

if he did wrong by you, it will catch up with him. you wont move on if you're spending more time getting revenge on him instead of being calm and pleasant for the new person

good luck

[aura]

Hi tanchan,

I agree with Sarafina that you would do better to focus on attracting someone good for you than wasting your time on what's done and gone. You can Cut and Clear the old love as described on the product page here: http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

If you absolutely want revenge, then consider some of the spells in the forum thread here:
reverse-revenge-or-crossing-against-ex- ... r-t85.html

But if you really do want to undo the love spells you cast and move on (which is where you posted your question after all), then:
-dispose of the honey jar in running water, letting the honey, herbs and petition be cleared out and away. you can then recycle the glass
-either take apart the mojo so that you can re-use the hard roots and/or stones or burn the entire thing
-thank Santisima Muerte for her time and tell her that the matter is now closed and that you are moving on. Burn incense and a candle in thanks for her services.

[rootKeeper]

dear friend, it figures! doesn't it? chasers and cheaters are attracted to the hunt. now that his energy cannot wrap itself around you, he is stalking you! and yeah, i had that happen before in a different situation and place....wear plaid. i am not kidding. color works with roots and patterns like plaids confuse entities. its like semi invisib ility. also if you have mutual friends be careful what you say to them. things that get back to him sideways will only fire up his interest in you. with the plaid, heather is good to carry. picture faeries and their energy weaving a wall of fog or invisibility around you. if he doesnt "see" you or feel your energy, he will eventually pout and stomp off. of course if he becomes invasive, normal safety measures, document his presence if he crosses the line into violence or lawbreaking, or late night noise.
i believe other members may know of herbs and roots and charms to make you unseen. think silence and fog. good incenses that remind you of fog, also, use them at home to fumigate the house, i am thinking something with chinese wash, someone out there probably knows. as long as YOUR intentions are clear....if anyone knows something non-invasive to dissuade his obsession, ? i read in here about a skull candle with clarity oil on it, maybe to get him to see its over and he cant lie and slip in anymore.

[Pyromancer]

I have searched where to post this, and cannot find any other place except here. Forgive me if I’m in the wrong section. I have a BIG issue. I have been talking to a man in a Florida prison for over a year now. I strictly made it clear to him that I’m only looking for friends. He somehow thought that I was more than that, and would proceed to get jealous of my ex, and accuse me of having men around me all the time. He told me he paid somebody to track me, and look me up.

I have blocked him everywhere, and he finds loopholes to contact me. I believe he is very obsessed with me. He told me he is into spells. I had visions that he did something to me. He hired a worker to cast a spell on me. I saw what she looks like, and a red candle with his face beside it, and a black arrow pointing to me. I believe he casted a spell to cause me to obsess over him. I have never been attracted to him, and actually cut him off prior.

All of a sudden in the last three days I feel possessed like he’s in my thoughts 24/7, I am lusting after him, I unblocked him, and been talking. I know deep down inside this is not me, and something is forcing me to lust for him. He is flat out denying casting a spell. Saying he would never do that. Please help me on what I should purchase to get this off me. I already did ammonia and sea salt bath.

[Terra Rising]

Pyromancer,

Wow, it sounds like a really bad situation. Very serious too. These are the steps I would take:

1. I would start by strengthening your protection. Put up charms in your home and carry them on your person.

2. Uncrossing bath or 13 herb bath to take off whatever is on you. I would do at least 3 of them. If you still have lingering emotions, please try a black walnut bath to kill off any feelings for him.

Uncrossing Products: https://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

3. Place him in a Mirror Box spell. Find a friendly spirit in the graveyard that is willing to keep him bound up. If you find a police, prison guard or judge's grave, that would be fantastic.

Mirror Box Spell: https://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Here is a thread on how to break a love jinx or curse: break-a-love-jinx-change-love-luck-do-a ... tml#p37519

I would cease all contact immediately. Listen to your intuition. It has guided you well in life right? It's time to trust it again with this one.

Best of luck!

[Pyromancer]

Thank you so much. I will definitely get that 14 bath herb and do it all. If all fails the other things you mentioned