Spells for Disrespectful Disobedient Troubled At-Risk Children

[Terra Rising]

Curious1,

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[Hazel e]

I have a daughter recently turned 18. She has offers for scholarships to college. However she's wanting to run and fight people smoke weed she's just not focus. I met a man and had a boyfriend Culloden in October things aren't working out but he refuses to leave my home.

[Terra Rising]

Hazel e,

Hello and welcome to the forum. I moved your post here so you can read more about finding help with your daughter. I noticed though you posted under the thread for the radio show. If you would like to receive a free reading on the air, you need to copy the form, fill it out, then paste it under the thread. The full instructions are posted for every show. Just select the date you would like to be on.

Please read this thread for helpful advice on how to get your daughter on the right path. If you have any questions afterwards, please use the quick reply on the bottom of the page and we will be happy to help.

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[LovelyLiz]

Hello All , Bare with me I know this will be a long post. But there is so many Intermingling parts here I need to break down so that hopefully someone can give me some guidance.

1.I am a 26 year old single mother to a 4 year old baby girl. My daughter has had temper tantrums and has been very difficult since she was going on 2 years old. She is sassy and hard to control, she yells and won’t listen to me. I know she is capable of being calm but most of the day consists of her yelling and throwing stuff and making everyone at the house annoyed and anxious (I live with my Sister, mother, and dad).
Most of my time was spent on working, therfore when I get home and try to discipline my mother will yell at me and tell me I have no right to do so, she will belittle me in front of my daughter and take her away from a time out (when and If i can get her to take a break)

2.I have been in a relationship for the past 14 months, I was not used to going out or even going to the mall because my daughter is very difficult to deal with. My bf was obsessed with me the first 6 7 months of our relationship but got overwhelmed with my daughters tantrums in public, and my consistent crying and complaining because everytime I go out without my daughter to have a “date night” I get home to my mother calling me a whore and a bad mother. He thinks I need to get out of this house because they don’t respect me or see me as an adult. I agree...

3. We had spoke about moving out together multiple times, and everytime we would be about to pull the trigger he would get very distant and cold. Just two days ago he told me it’s because he can’t commit to my daughter. He said I am committed to you but your daughter scares me... her tantrums and how disrespectful she is to you will make me run for the hills if we are living together. He also confessed to me that he likes my family but when I invite him over he would rather not come to avoid any tantrums my daughter is having and how bad the energy gets when it happens. He also confessed to me that he does not invite me over to his parents house , because of the same issue and that he doesn’t think his family should have to deal with the scenes she causes. He told me I have some growing up to do, I have to leave my parents nest and take control of the relationship with me and my daughter. He says he is willing to wait but as of now we can not take a next step and now he feels distant and cold again.

;. I have started a Honey jar with my daughters hair, as well as some herbs for calming her down. I am burning White candles with “energetic purification oil” blue candles with “peace and tranquility and peaceful home oils” and pink candles to soften up her attitude. I have also tried some discipline work, with no luck because my mother is interfering.

I would like to know, If there is another spell or work I can do to have my mom ease off, My daughters attitude to change, my BF to warm up to my daughter and see us as a family

and for me to get the right resources to move out.

Any feedback would be appreaciated. Thank you

[MissMichaele]

LovelyLiz, I would go straight to Influence or even Do As I Say on your mother. You might even put her name in your shoe, but if you do that, wrap it around a pinch of sugar and a few flecks of basil. You could do the same for your daughter if necessary.

Here's a simple spell to work on your daughter. If she enjoys bath time, get her some bath crayons. Dab the ends of them with Peaceful Home and Influence oils, and say a prayer. Present them to her at bath time, and be sure you say, "Can you draw a heart?" "Can you write 'I Love Mommy'?" Thus she completes the spell with her own hand.

[Terra Rising]

LovelyLiz,

I moved your post to this thread because it seems in line with your situation. Heading forward, please do not create new topics. Instead, use the search bar in the upper right hand corner. If you read through a thread and still have questions, please use the Quick Reply at the bottom of the last page to post a question. It takes a lot of time moving things around in the forum so we appreciate the effort to keep things orderly.

Please read through this thread for some ideas of work you can do to help your relationship with your daughter. I would also suggest both you and your daughter take some parenting classes/counselling. They are not a bad thing and most people should probably have them. I mean no one is born with the complete instruction book on how to raise a child. They will help you find the cause of the behavioral problem and fix it before it gets worse. Many classes are free and the counselling can be as well. Your work sounds good with the honey jar. If the honey is made with edible ingredients, try feeding some to her. Bathing her with a few drops of Tranquility oil could be soothing as well.
I'm hesitant to recommend any freezing work for you mom because you still need her help. I would recommend sweetening work for her to so she isn't so critical of you.

I'm going to be blunt here about your daughter. She is only 4. That is what they do. They test boundaries and respect is something they are just figuring out. If she was 10 that would be a different story. Since this BF isn't fond of your daughter, this should send up some red flags for any ideas about moving in with him. Men without children sometimes have unrealistic expectations for kids and this can lead to serious...SERIOUS problems. Like read the news for child abuse kind of problems. I would hold off on the moving in with him and focus wholly on correcting/mending the relationship with your daughter. I'm positive once you have that, other things will fall into place.

Please remember she is your daughter and that bond trumps all relationships. Hope this helps and I wish you the best!

[LittleSpaceAddict]

I am at witts end with my younger sister. She is 9 years old and thinks the world owes her everything. She screams at me and my parents, she refuses to do most any chores. If she gets her phone taken away, she screams at the top of her lungs and even smacks and throws her phone if it gets locked remotely from my mother's synced phone. She takes other people's belongings without permission. Shes constantly lying and blaming my son for her wrong doings. I try to handle her the same way I handle my own son (he is a pretty well behaved child) and things just never work out.
I am so close to moving out just to be away from her (I know how bad that sounds but I'm desperate for some peace).
Does anyone have any spells or anything I can do to help in this situation?

[Terra Rising]

LittleSpaceAddict,

Hello and welcome to the forum! I moved your post to this thread where you will find lots of products and techniques to suit your needs. Please do not create new topics, it is against the rules and takes time to move things around. There is a search bar in the upper right hand corner that you can use to find topics in your area of interest. You will discover we have just about everything covered.

If you have any questions after reading through these pages, please feel free to ask.

Best of luck!

[LittleSpaceAddict]

Thank you and sorry for creating a new one. I'm new on here and didn't even know there were any rules but I will keep that in mind for next time.
And I have read through the thread for this before posting mine and unfortunately, I feel nothing here would work with her. She is very resilient and strong-willed. Basically acting like she is her own parent. And my parents have grown so tired of her behavior that they have pretty much just stopped trying. So now when they do try to punish her (usually only when I point her behavior out to them) she doesn't want to have anything to do with it. When she is told to do something, she outright just says 'No' or 'I dont have to'. She's addicted to being on her phone and talking to this girl that is her same age that isn't much better. She's also done a lot worse things that I don't feel comfortable mentioning here.
My son has started saying that it isn't fair that she seems to get whatever she wants and he can't all because everyone just doesn't want to deal with her fits.
I'm just looking for something to help her calm down and start to listen better and behave.

[Terra Rising]

LittleSpaceAddict,

Peaceful Home and Tranquility products are mentioned several times on this thread and are what I would start off with. Battle of the wills in a family seldom solves anything and usually just leads to resentment. This is why the first step is usually to bring down the tension. Please check out the links below for more information. I know there are numerous other ways to use them mentioned on this thread. 6 pages is a lot of reading but worth it in order to learn what has worked for others in your situation.

Peaceful Home products: https://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
Tranquility products: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-tranquility.html

Hope this helps.

[Seekinglight]

My eight year has anxiety, OCD and ADHD. She becomes violent when her anxiety and OCD is high or is told no. She is manipulative and spiteful. She hits me and destroys things when she does not get her way.She hits, curses, threatens, terrorizes me and throws things at me and everywhere. She has trashed our home several times. She will apologize and be good for a while but will start the disrespect and hitting, kicking, threatening, and all out terrorizing me will continue when she does not get her way.

She acts like that at school too and to get her up and to school everyday is a struggle. She tries to avoid going to school almost every day and when she was doing online school, she refused to do the work. I try to set simple rules and boundaries and she bulldozes them and slowly wears me down until I cave.Her grades are so bad that she has to attend Saturday school or be left behind this school year. I do not mind taking her to Saturday school, but I am sick of her fighting me both mentally and physically. She goes to school sometimes and acts the same. She makes threats at school and tries to run away.

She is in therapy and on medication. It does not help at all. Because of her behavior, I am also being made to have therapy too. I take their advice and it may work a few days but then it doesn't. I am extremely tired. Beyond sad. I love my child, but some days I don't like her.

I have had to hospitalize her a few times and they stabilize her and send her back home. I have asked for residential treatment for her and pleaded to get her in a facility, but I get excuses that she is too young, or they refused to sign off on it or they say there is no room or they just flat out refuse to recommend the care. They make me out to be incompetent or the villain. I am at the my wits end.

I left her father shortly after she was born before he started beating on me again.

I stopped dealing with her father not long after she was born because he beat me prior to me being pregnant and I did not want him to start again and do so in front of her. I didn't want my child seeing that and thinking that was okay.

I am having problems with my basic everyday life. I call out of work several times month because stress. My neighbors complain about the noise coming from my apartment. I am already in transitional housing and cannot afford to move until I can be able to find another job. I cannot look for another job until I get her behavior under control. I have no life. I only look forward to finishing school and she has stressed me out so much this week that I am having a hard time focusing on school. I need divine intervention.

I want to clear her angry and violent behavior, but I don't know where to begin. I want a peaceful, happy life with my child. I don't want to be an abused parent or person.

I know her problems won't be fixed overnight but I would like something that will help with the therapy and medication because she is slowly suffocating me.

Is there something that can be done outside of therapy and medication?

[catherineyronwode]

Your situation sounds ver sad and stressful. I am glad that you and the child are both getting therapy. I personally am not that much into medicating your children, as there are often dosage and dependency problems that arise from this. However, since you mention that her father was violent toward you, it may be that there is a genetic component to her violence that will be best served by medical means. But do keep trying to train her, using positive reinforcement, whenever you can.

That having been said, I would like to recommend a few magical herbal remedies, and also a Catholic saint (if you are okay with that).

Herbs For Tea

All-Heal (also known as Self-Heal)
Chamomile
Althaea Leaf
Lemon Balm (also known as Lemon Mint)
Hops
Basil
Fennel Seed

Herbs as capsules (powdered herbs):

Ginseng (very botter, so best used in capsule form)
Valerian (which smells bad enough that i recommend that you use it as capsules, not in tea)
Turmeric (also best administered as a capsule of the powdered herb)

Amulet:

Make a protective amulet for her. Talk this over with a root doctor if you are unsure how to make your own -- there are many forms that such a talisman or amulet can take, from many different cultures.

Saint:

Saint Dymphna is the Catholic saint of those who suffer from mental stress, anxiety, thought disorders, seizures, mental illness, and nervous afflictions. Pray to her, set her holy card near where the child sleeps, and ask for her intercession in your case.

[lovelygal]

Hello all,

I am a single mom currently going through a separation from the father of my son. However, I quit my job to take care of my son back in October since he does not start school until this upcoming August. The arguments between his father and I did not stop and I left our home. I still have no job, but luckily my mom is letting me stay with her.

When my son goes with his dad, he no longer wants to come back to me. My ex buys him everything and anything under the sun since he has a great income. I am very loving and affectionate and give my son all the attention when he's with me, but since we are at my moms, he doesn't really have his toys so its kind of unfamiliar territory and may get extremely bored.

With no income, I try the best that I can to entertain him with what I have, but still nothing wants to make my son stay with me. He stays crying for a really long time and says he doesn't want to stay with me and only wants his dad. It's CHAOS every time his dad drops him off.

I really don't know what to do at this point. I want my child to be happy being with me as well. Can you guys suggest anything please?

[JayDee]

lovelygal ,

I am sorry that you are having this trouble with your child. This can be very hard when one parent is flooding the child with toys. I would use peaceful home products to ease the house and fighting with your son. Make a honey jar to sweeten him to you and burn peaceful home candles on top of it. You could also do a do as I say or commanding on the husband to stop his lavish behavior, burn candles on him, then talk to him about his spending and see if you can use these products to get him to agree with you.

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Lucky Mojo information on honey jars: https://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
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Hope this helps!

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