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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Fri Mar 02, 2012 12:29 pm

First, you posted in two areas of the forum, and i have merged your posts into one thread, because both posts dealt with the same question.

Second, if he is ignoring the children, he has more problems with the family than just having a mistress. Frankly, i am not sure it is possible to break them up, nor that breaking him up with the mistress will bring him home. Things may have gotten a bit past that possibility now.

I mean, you can try -- but if he has already moved out, is living with her, does not come by to see the children, does not help with the children at all, and is suing for divorce, then you need to face that square on and take control of what you have, namely the legal right to child support and possibly alimony.
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Unread post by ladydawn » Tue Mar 06, 2012 12:10 am

you could use a figural candle as him surrounded by a circle of 8 white candles dressed with fiery wall of protection, pray and state in the petition that he is immune to the charm of every woman but yourself.

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Unread post by Madame Pamita » Tue Mar 06, 2012 1:10 am

I would start working on myself - wearing Bewitching, Look Me Over or Follow Me Boy - if you aren't already. If you're the crown jewel, who cares about flashy rhinestones!?! :)
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Unread post by fergi660 » Tue Mar 13, 2012 10:53 am

It is not fair, that he can have a life with someone else, and I do have to deal with the health issues of my sons with no help. everything is so depresing and unfair for he to enjoy of his life without considering the damage he is doing to his children. just because I do have to concentrate on my kids, on helping them, on caring for them. He have the job and the time to be happy as he have told me, and what about us. I am not the only parent. he must realized that, and may be is right that I will not bring him back home, but a if he thinks more on the kids and less on himself that will be a plus. Having a new commitment and re-doing the same with another woman? men like him are very damaging, no one stop them to do bad. at least I want him not to be an easy with someone else.

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Unread post by ConjureMan Ali » Wed Mar 21, 2012 6:44 am

Stop falling into depression or caring about what he's up to. Sure it isn't fair, but it also isn't fair to beat yourself up or work yourself up over someone who obviously didn't value what he had. Instead of worrying about him, worry about doing right by yourself and your children. You get yourself a good lawyer and make sure you are financially taken care of so that that job of his goes to paying for you and the children. Get yourself a Court Case honey jar on the judge to get him to side with you and dust all the papers with the powders.

Let's see him have fun when his income is going to go to pay for you and the kids.
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Unread post by Mama Micki » Wed Mar 21, 2012 7:42 am

Do a Cut and Clear to help you break your emotional ties to him so you can think more clearly. If you live in the US, make sure that you fully cooperate with the agency in your state that collects child support. They will go after his wages, bank account, and any other liquid assets he has.
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Unread post by MissMichaele » Thu Mar 22, 2012 10:11 am

I agree with my colleagues here. You have allowed emotional pain and exhaustion to narrow your focus down to one trifling barracuda. Look up and see all the other allies in the material and spiritual world, and work to sweeten them to you.

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Unread post by fergi660 » Mon Mar 26, 2012 6:09 am

Thank you Lucky Mojo family for your support. I understand everything that you recommended to me. He told me that he will not help me with money because everything he has is debt. He is a contractor and is very difficult for the attorney of my state to track his pay check. Although I know he makes good money. He is also hiding his assets; his mistress and mother are helping him in this because he is transferring the properties he owned to them. He is also faking loans under Notary from his brothers and mother. Believe me if I can earn by myself enough money to pay for my children needs; I do not bother him or feel so desolate. My children are on a waiting list of 4 years in the Mental Health Department to receive help. I can tell you how bad are the social services; people remain indifferent, to your problems. I can let his mistress to enjoy for everything that rightfully should be for the caring of my children. After all. I am just one more woman going through an unfair divorce, and having the entire burden in my shoulders. I do not know how I am going to do it. God helps me. I know that lucky mojo have ethics, but believe me; sometimes trying to break up a relationship like this one is totally justified.

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Unread post by happy in pink » Thu Mar 29, 2012 1:17 pm

Hi an updated. Haven't spoken to my boyfriend since early january. They are no longer together, but he is not contacting me. what has gone wrong? If my jar spell has worked, what do i do with the jar, has the jar spell worked against me, is that why he is no longer contacting me.

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sat Apr 07, 2012 12:25 am

I would do as Madame Pamita said. And you may want to work with some follow me boy, and possibly tie him to you. In addition, perhaps you can do some skull candle work with betwitching work, follow me boy, and come to me work where he is constantly captivated and only has eyes for you.

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Try using menstrual blood in your work as well even on your candles as its very powerful.
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Unread post by Devi Spring » Sat Apr 07, 2012 6:12 am

I love using menstrual blood to dress candles! It's a really nice way to pump up a working of that nature.
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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Mon Apr 09, 2012 4:33 am

You can dispose of the contents of the jar in the crossroads, or you can dispose of it in the river asking them to be carried away from each other.

You need to get a reading to see why he hasn't talked to you. And you may want to get some reconciliation work started in the meantime. Just because you break up a couple doesnt mean that they are going to come to you.

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Mon Apr 09, 2012 6:55 am

Exactly starsinthesky7...the next step would be to work some attraction, come to me, follow me, to get that person to favor you as a suitable partner.
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Unread post by Mama Micki » Mon Apr 09, 2012 7:37 am

My advice is to do a Cut and Clear and move on. He is doing you a favor by not contacting you; now you can focus on healing yourself and eventually finding someone better. Be thankful that you did not disrupt your life for him.
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Unread post by BHgirl333 » Wed Apr 11, 2012 6:49 pm

starsinthesky7 wrote:I would do as Madame Pamita said. And you may want to work with some follow me boy, and possibly tie him to you. In addition, perhaps you can do some skull candle work with betwitching work, follow me boy, and come to me work where he is constantly captivated and only has eyes for you.

http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/bewitching.html

Try using menstrual blood in your work as well even on your candles as its very powerful.
Starsinthesky, I'm new to this forum but have been reading it for a while and love your suggestions. What kind of skull candle work can you suggest specifically? I'm thanking you in advance.

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Unread post by girl08er » Fri Apr 13, 2012 9:27 am

So things are starting to show improvement now. He's pushing his move out date further and further back and has been saying more often that he loves me. But I still have the problem of a love rival at work. He has admitted some developing feelings for her and I want to stop this before it gets any further. What do I do?

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Unread post by JackieLove » Fri Apr 13, 2012 11:07 am

look for the topic on freezer spells.

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Unread post by Joseph Magnuson » Fri Apr 13, 2012 11:17 am

The links JackieLove is speaking of are located here:

-- ICE BOX AND FREEZER SPELLS in the Hoodoo and Conjure Tradition http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

-- Freezer Spells: Questions and Answers freezer-spells-questions-and-answers-t8676.html
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Unread post by JackieLove » Fri Apr 13, 2012 11:29 am

thanks for putting in the links Joseph :)

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Unread post by girl08er » Fri Apr 13, 2012 11:54 am

So I would do one in her name. What herbs are best to freeze out a love rival?

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Unread post by Joseph Magnuson » Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:48 pm

girl08er: This is from the link I provided, I would read that first:

"3) Pray over and add an appropriate selection of cursing and silencing herbs (e.g. Red Pepper to make their lies burn in their mouths, Alum to silence their speech, Poppy Seeds to confuse them and make them lose their paper work or miss their appointments). "
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Unread post by girl08er » Fri Apr 13, 2012 1:03 pm

I read it, I just remained confused on which ones to use in this case.

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Unread post by Joseph Magnuson » Fri Apr 13, 2012 1:24 pm

Well would you mind telling us a little more about her. Or their relationship now? Does she get sweet on him? Tell lies about you to get him to favor her? Does she sweet talk him or command him with things she does?
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Unread post by girl08er » Fri Apr 13, 2012 1:33 pm

Well she tells me she has a thing for him, but that she won't try anything while I'm pregnant. But I do know she also practices witchcraft and stuff too. She also makes herself really available to go do things I can't being pregnant and having our other child at home.

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Unread post by Miss Bri » Fri Apr 13, 2012 3:11 pm

Because they work together its tough-they have access to one another on a daily basis and they can most likely communicate with each other freely.
You could freezer her out, you could work a hot foot or inflammatory confusion type spell on them-the first to get her to re-locate and get physically away from him, the latter to cause a big misunderstanding between the two of them that would create bad feelings, mistrust and no communication whatsoever. You could also work to draw her to another lover while simultaneously encouraging a final break between her and him-one way to do that is with a 4 candle moving candle ritual. I would recommend that you get a reading with one of the members of AIRR to determine what the BEST scenario would be for your situation.
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Unread post by Dr Johannes » Fri Apr 13, 2012 3:15 pm

If he is getting feelings for her and you know she is a practitioner you migh need to protect your man from Love spells besides working on her directly.
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Unread post by girl08er » Fri Apr 13, 2012 3:41 pm

Well I'm happy to say he got a new job today that is far away from her. But I am wanting to protect him and cause them to pull away.

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Unread post by Miss Bri » Fri Apr 13, 2012 4:06 pm

Oh that's great! Well most likely they will start to pull away naturally now that they do not see each other, but see my above remarks for more options.
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Unread post by girl08er » Fri Apr 13, 2012 4:26 pm

I am taking it all into consideration

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Unread post by girl08er » Fri Apr 13, 2012 4:40 pm

Plus I've had many readings done, all stating that they see this working out in the end, and the 3 that have dates said august. And I had a couple done on him and they came back saying she doesn't show up in his cards or in his star reading(i think that's what the second one was). I just can't help but get frustrated with myself for not feeling as much faith in this as I feel I should.

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Unread post by Joseph Magnuson » Fri Apr 13, 2012 4:54 pm

girl08er wrote: I just can't help but get frustrated with myself for not feeling as much faith in this as I feel I should.
If that is the case, and you truly do fee this way, perhaps you should do as suggested above and get a worker to take on this work for you. It may be much more successful.
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Unread post by girl08er » Fri Apr 13, 2012 7:30 pm

I put that wrong. I know I can get done anything I put my mind and energy to. My frustration is in my being a perfectionist and always wanting to push myself further, like with my level of faith in this case.

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sat Apr 14, 2012 3:08 am

First off hire a rootworker.

If you are pregnant, and afraid she is going to get ahead, the BEST thing is to have the rootworker do the majority of the work. Furthermore, you need to cleanse and protect your man. I would suggest making a doll for him and conducting a bathing at the very least you can do an egg cleansing with his picture.

You can search the forum on how to do that.

Then you need to do some protection on him. Www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

Personally, I would work some fidelity and binding work on him.

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Since you are pregnant and not menstruating...put some of your vaginal fluids into his food and drink.

As for the other woman, you need to construct a baby doll blinding and binding her hands and feet. I would then put her in a mirror box so that she cannot keep hitting him with magic.

I would have an I can you can't candle for you to always get ahead and a essence of bend over candle burning for to her to be bent to your will.

Working with saint martha may help you...if you like to work with saints.
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Unread post by girl08er » Sat Apr 14, 2012 2:00 pm

:/ well they came out and said they are together today. I'm still doing my work tho.

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sun Apr 15, 2012 2:15 am

You can use a red skull candle.
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Unread post by BHgirl333 » Sun Apr 15, 2012 1:13 pm

How would I use menstrual blood in a skull candle?

I think you meant a skull candle. I'm about to put in my order at LM and will add a red skull candle. I read about sticking needles to make him think of me and I'll be ordering Follow Me Boy powder and oil.

Thank you in advance for all your help. I had an amazing conversation with Catherine yesterday and really look forward to learning more about this.

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sun Apr 15, 2012 2:02 pm

You can simply put the menstural blood on the candle, or you can put it on the name paper.
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Unread post by BHgirl333 » Sun Apr 15, 2012 2:07 pm

Brilliant, thank you. So that I get it all done correctly, I'm using the red skull candle to influence his mind? Do I wright anything on the candle? What oil should I use? I've controlling, compelling oil. I am buying follow me boy and bend over from LM. What herbs would I stuff? How about petition paper?

Again, thank you so much in advance for all your help, starsinthesky7.

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Unread post by girl08er » Sun Apr 15, 2012 4:19 pm

Well I'm not sure, but he's made a point to tell me he loves me, but doesn't love her yet. And he has already slept with me while being in a relationship with her and doesn't intend to stop or tell her. He isn't too serious about her their relationship and has started talking about the possibility of us being together in the future.. I feel that my stuff is working slowly but surely.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Sun Apr 15, 2012 6:51 pm

BHgirl333, to learn about how to use skull candles for many purposes, please see this thread. You want a red skull for him.

Skull Candle Questions and Answers
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Unread post by girl08er » Mon Apr 16, 2012 7:36 am

So he started dating a girl a couple days ago because we had a fight. I had done a freeze out spell on her right before that. But he's started to talk about the probability of us ending up back together. And we're still intimate every night. It's like a switch turned in his mind where he knows that what we're doing would ruin his relationship if she found out but he is willing to take that risk because it is me. And he's very open about what he's up to with me and what he's feeling and thinking.

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Unread post by jamsaugustine » Sat May 05, 2012 3:25 pm

The husband are chatting online that time his meet woman. That are interest or emotional, his does not control having sex. There are filling online sex woman and enjoyment.
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Unread post by lilavenger » Fri Jun 01, 2012 5:56 am

This is the most convoluted mess I have ever been in. My problems started 4 years ago, when I met my son's father. He had moved from another state to where we are both living now. He left an ex gf in that state. We had a good relationship until he told her about me and sent a pic (stupid right), ever since then it has been hell on wheels. We started a cycle of break ups and make ups. Every time he was close to me, with the I love yous and I want to marry you..we would start a new round of fighting for no reason. Fast Forward to 2009, we had a son. But she always seemed to keep her claws in him. He couldn't get rid of her. Then I started having weird dreams like bad things happening to me and my family. I was getting burning sensations in my left foot and my stomach all the way up to my mouth. I went to a lady where I live that is a well known wiccan and she told me that it was the ex-gf she was jealous of me and the relationship that my son's father had. During this time we had broken up and she got him to go bck with her. So I was like wtf, just leave me alone! She gave some a spell and some herbs and finally I was able to get off whatever was put on me. Some how she manage to get him to move her to where we live. This is the weird part, even though she wormed her way in between he and I, he would still come to my house saying I love you, I want us to be a family, I want to marry you and I'm like idiot that is not going to happen with you living with her! He said I told her that I don't want to be with her but she won't leave. And of course I didn't believe him. Eventually she and I met, after he came to be crying that she trapped him with a baby but he still wanted to be with me it just will take time b/c he was not working but going to school full time. She confirmed that he told her that a few times, but that he was not going to leave his family. As if my son is not his family and that she didn't get him to leave us for her. HA! After that I knew she was doing something to him and us. I have told him I think we are being voodooed. He laughed it off, b/c they live in a one bedroom apt and there are no signs of her doing any work. Well I had a talk with the wiccan, and she felt that someone was working for her. That's where my problem comes in. How can I fight back if she isn't the one actually doing the work? What can I do to shield me, my family and him? They are both of African descent, from Ghana. I have been told by a voodoo practitioner that Ghanians practice a strong voodoo called Palo, and they have strong protector spirits. How can little ole me compete?

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Unread post by Doctor Hob » Fri Jun 01, 2012 9:15 am

You will very likely need some help of your own. If the people involved are from West Africa, they are likely working in the methods of one of the African Traditional Religions. Check out the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers. They are a group of skilled, ethical workers, a number of which are familiar with the ATRs. 

http://readersandrootworkers.org

I wouldn't think of this as a love conflict right now. You should concentrate on protecting yourself and your child. Once you are secure, you can sort the man out.

You need to cleanse, and then protect. You can use the 13 Herb Bath to cleanse yourself, and then use Chinese Wash to scrub out your house. Once that's done, you could use the Fiery Wall of Protection spell  kit to get some defenses in place. This should get you into a good place, so that you and a professional worker can deal with whomever is working against you. 

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbaths.html#herbbaths
http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-fiery-wall.html

You can also go to the Crystal Silence League. Post a free prayer request, so that others can pray for you.

http://crystalsilenceleague.org

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Unread post by MissMichaele » Fri Jun 01, 2012 11:13 am

lilavenger wrote:We had a good relationship until he told her about me and sent a pic (stupid right),
He sent Miss Thing a picture of you? What the hell was he thinking? Especially being Ghanian and very likely growing up with serious magic?

From now on, wear an evil-eye charm at all times -- you know, those blue-eye necklaces, beads and things. There are many lovely variations on this theme that are less obviously magical charms, but they can be blessed to do the work!

And wear it proudly, so it just happens to show in any pictures that are taken of you from now on.

Meanwhile, it'll help protect you from anything she might still be doing with the picture your bf gave her.
How can I fight back if she isn't the one actually doing the work?
You'll have to protect yourself against the one who's actually doing the work -- and against the ex-girlfriend, who's giving the orders. You might want to hire a rootworker yourself.
I have been told by a voodoo practitioner that Ghanians practice a strong voodoo called Palo, and they have strong protector spirits. How can little ole me compete?
Palo is an Afro-Brazilian tradition, and if any Ghanians practice it, I'd bet they live in Brazil. But now we're getting into religious traditions, which are outside the scope of this forum.
Conjureman Ali and Dr. E know a great deal about these matters.

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Unread post by lilavenger » Fri Jun 01, 2012 3:23 pm

Thank you guys for your advice! I will be doing ALL OF IT. :) This has been going on for 4 years now and I am tired of it. And yes, he sent my pic b/c she asked to see what I looked like. I couldn't believe it that he was that gullible.

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Unread post by Doctor Hob » Fri Jun 01, 2012 3:35 pm

"Gullible" is one word, yes. "Stupid" also comes readily to mind...

Good luck to you. Keep us informed about how things are going.
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The religious background of Ghana is Christian, Muslim, and the traditional African religions. Their practices are heavily syncretic and you'll find that their magical practice is similar to the Yoruba and Congo.

They refer to magic as "juju" and have much in common with the technology of Afro-Cuban Palo and Afro-Brazilian Kimbanda. Practitioners of Obeah will also find much in common with them. The training of the priests in Ghana are similar to that of Paleros and Kimbandieros where they are taught medicine, magic, divination and mediumship.

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Unread post by sydneycakes » Thu Jun 28, 2012 1:48 am

hola everyone :)

im new here and need a lil advice! i had a love me candle set for me on misc in may and just received the candle report

i was told that the candle burned clear and left no wax residue, no soot or smoke on the glass but there were some scattered herbs stuck to the side of the glass and that a small ring of unburned wax was left at the bottom and that they are signs of possible distractions and some unsolved issues from the past that need to be dealt with, but nothing i can't move past. and that overall it looked like a successful candle burn!

I KNOW that the guy i had this candle set for is/was having a fling with this girl i know, and i see her has a distraction.

Ihad a separation candle set on them the other day.

I was also thinking of getting a road opener candle set for this situatiom as well to help with the issues from the past/obstacles? would this be a good idea?

my goal is to get this man to pursue me romantically. he is already attracted to me.

any other love candles i should have set?

any more advice, suggestions would be SOOO much appreciated as i am not able to afford a reading at the moment.

:) thanx!

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Unread post by aura » Thu Jun 28, 2012 3:28 am

Hi sydneycakes,

If you aren't already in a relationship with this man, then Come To Me until you guys get closer and Love Me + Follow Me Boy after that until the relationship is well cemented.

If you are already in a relationship with this man, then Fires of Love + Stay With Me is a powerful combo to amp up the passion and keep him with you.

Although Road Opener can be a helpful candle/product line, it can be a little touchy to use in relationships. It would be better suited if you were opening the road to a new romance that getting him to forget his past fling and other female interests. Perhaps you may want to consider a freezer jar to freeze out all the other rivals and competition for him instead.

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Unread post by BHgirl333 » Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:47 pm

I'd like to try the Spell with alum and lemon to stop communication between my guy and his on & off GF. Tried freezing her and she dropped out for a bit, now back again. She's never going to leave him alone, because he is the best guy she's ever had. So, my question is where do you store the lemon, once you are done. It's hot outside. It'll rot fast. Freezer isn't an option, because I don't want to freeze him out of my life. I'd very much appreciate your replies, Devi and ConjureMan Ali. Thank you in advance.

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Unread post by JayDee » Thu Jun 28, 2012 7:58 pm

Well if you read the freezer section that cat had made she explains this question rather well, you dont put his name you put her name, hence she is froze out, the alum silences her and the lemon sours her life. So the paper would either be her name written 3 times or a petition like " jane doe leave my love alone" ..etc. http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html
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Unread post by BHgirl333 » Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:14 pm

Thank you for your response. I really appreciate it. I still have the question about Devi's post.

Here's the original post from Devi that I got the idea from. She talks about putting two photos upside down with alum in between to stop communication between them. That is why I was wondering how to store this lemon. I froze the GF already but doesn't seem to doing much good. She is still there. I said, stay out of my life and leave my lover alone. Used her photo, wrote my command on the back crossing her name, 90 degrees, etc. Used my urine over the photo. Put black pepper and poppy seeds. I thought I'd use the one Devi is talking about. So, what is your advice on it? Or should I freeze the GF again this time with alum? Thank you for your earlier post.

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Postby Devi Spring » Fri Jan 27, 2012 2:38 pm
But their photos upside down to one another - meaning one's head is upside-down to the other. That way they cannot see eye-to-eye to speak properly. You can add some poppy seed to confuse communication, as well as some red pepper flakes to stir up anger between them, and add some alum to stop their tongues from being able to move. properly when together. You could put that as a little packet into a lemon that you've cut into two, which will sour them to one another.
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Unread post by JayDee » Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:25 pm

Devio will have to chime in on this one but my understanding from reading this post is that its not a freezer spell. You would not place them both in the freezer otherwise you freeze them both together out of ur life. Also the use of red pepper which makes things hot an angry, freezer spell focuses on the exact opposite someone being froze out not angry and out. Other then in the beef tongue, the red ppepper is to make their tongues burn when they speak against you in court. Lemons and other fruit items can be used in other spell work other then freezer spells. Lemons are common in use with break up spells, after you pin the lemon together you can put it in a jar of vinagar to sour, or jar of milk to spoil. You can bury it at a cross road to remove it, throw it in a running river to run her away.
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Unread post by theusurper » Fri Jun 29, 2012 5:19 pm

silly question, if you don't have the photo of her can i put the name.

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Unread post by BHgirl333 » Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:41 pm

There are so many schools of thought on vinegar jar and whether to put his name or phone inside or tape it to the outside. I did a vinegar jar with his hair and photo inside and all the rest that is usually recommended - nails, pins, sulfur, etc. Each time I shook it, he'd get really nasty with me. Don't know about them. I'm willing to try alum, but I'm also getting discouraged in terms of the break up work I'd done so far.

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theusurper wrote:silly question, if you don't have the photo of her can i put the name.
Yes, certainly.

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Unread post by sydneycakes » Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:12 pm

thanks for your advice aura! :) is there anything that can help with the past issues?

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Unread post by aura » Sat Jun 30, 2012 3:56 am

Healing and Cast Off Evil product lines can both help with past issues, but it's critical that the person with the issues also have a desire to work on them - if not it will take A LOT of work to make any dent in the situation.

A healing honey jar with wisdom herbs in it like sage and solomon's seal as well as healing a protective herbs like angelica, golden seal and althea could be a nice long-term working for you. You could alternately burn black candles with Cast Off Evil candles on Saturday nights and then follow it up with white candles with Healing & Crucible of Courage oils on Sundays.
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Unread post by kim4us » Sun Jul 01, 2012 11:56 am

I have an issues with my boyfriend baby mom. He goes and sees his child, and I know he is messing around with her again. We have been together for 9 years, but I have not had any problems with her until this year. He also acts very selfish now and controlling. What can i do to make her back off??? We were supposed to get married, but I know she has something to do with this, and I don't know where she lives....
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