I anointed a photo of my intended "target" with 3 different oils (Come to Me, Reconciliation, and Return To Me). I wrote our names on the back of the photo 3 times crossing each other and I wrote what I wanted to happen around that. I placed it under a red glass encased candle.
I also carved what I wanted to happen in the top of the candle and then I dabbed a little of each of the three oils on it.
I've been praying over it and saying what I hope to be the outcome.
Its been burning perfectly for the last 3 days. No trace of wax, soot or anything. The flame is a perfect flame -- its looks good.
Now I'm just wondering should I make the first move & contact him or should I wait for him to contact me? I was also considering having a friend call and invite him to my upcoming birthday party to see how he'd respond.
He's very very stubborn and we had a nasty breakup. He cheated on me, made me look like a fool and I slashed his tires :-/
I'm super forgiving, I love him and I'm over it and ready to move on. But, me slashing his tires was the ultimate to him.
Its been exactly 57 days of absolutely no communication--I'm pretty sure he misses me, because I've had access to his Facebook and every now and then he'll post these sad status updates that are obviously about me.
I called him a week or so after the initial fight to apologize for everything, but I denied slashing the tires, although its so obvious it was me. That phone call was just a huge argument and didnt accomplish anything.
I then bumped into at a t-shirt shop about 2 weeks after that and we talked for about 10-15 minutes. This time is was more peaceful, no arguing. I asked him if I was that "disposable" to him and he said no. But he just won't get over the tires!
I friend requested him on Facebook 2 weeks after that and he denied me
Any ideas, thoughts or suggestions?