by gingerly88 » Mon Jan 04, 2010 5:28 am
I recently ran into an old boyfriend..we started talking & quickly fell for each other.
I did a few candle spells to help things along & they went amazingly well. He was going through a divorce which will be finalized on the 14th of this month. He asked me to move in with him, told me he was in love with me, begged to come out to visit me (lives in another state), told me I was the best thing in his life & was way better than his wife had ever been...(we knew each other since we were 13 & he was NEVER like this before). He continuously sent me texts telling me how everything made him think about us & he couldn't wait for us to be together & that he thought we were "meant to be".
He came out this past weekend for my birthday & immediately I realized things were VERY different. he was distant & depressed. We had moments where he would be affectionate with me & call me sweetie, the next he would be telling me that he was hung up still on his wife & might want to try to fix things with her.
His soon to be ex wife plays a lot of games with his head & wanted him to completely change. she's aware of my presence in his life now so I'm not sure if he COULD even work through that. He had been telling me weeks before he was relieved & so excited for the divorce to be final so we could be together. He promised to come out in another 3 weeks & had requested off of work, but after how the weekend went, I don't think he plans on doing so anymore & he may even use that time to go try to see her.
I didn't realize how "heady" he is. Should I be doing a skull candle? if so, which color? I really wouldn't mind for us to be married ourselves. I think he planned on asking me this past weekend, but things changed so quickly..
I need any spell suggestions for keeping her away, not sending letters to him anymore, no calls ect.
I need him to stop thinking about her & start thinking of me again. I want him to keep his promise of coming out in 3 weeks & of us moving in together. I would like him to think of marriage with me...