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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby Simpleme » Thu Jan 28, 2010 8:45 pm

Is there a certain color ink I should use to write on the petition paper? And how many times should I write our names?

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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby Turnsteel » Thu Jan 28, 2010 8:58 pm

well, I do not know what spell you are doing as there is no one red candle spell, but since this sounds like a love spell I would use red ink, write his full and complete name nine times,turn the paper 90degrees and write your full name nine times so it crosses and covers his. Fold that toward you over whatever personal concerns you are using.
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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby jwmcclin » Thu Jan 28, 2010 9:00 pm

HailDiscordia is correct, there are many skull candle spells and the one you mentioned and CopperFox discussed is one of many.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby Tabbylove17 » Thu Jan 28, 2010 9:36 pm

Make sure you take some stuff with you so you can continue your work when you go home!
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby jwmcclin » Thu Jan 28, 2010 9:44 pm

ConjureMan is correct...relax...let go of the energy and enjoy
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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby Simpleme » Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:03 pm

jwmcclin wrote:HailDiscordia is correct, there are many skull candle spells and the one you mentioned and CopperFox discussed is one of many.



I''m using the Red SKull Candle Spell to bend him to my will. Using his personal concerns, licorice, calamus, essense of bend products, follow-me-boy,etc..

Yes, it is a Love Spell
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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:25 pm

It doesn't always matter what color ink you use. Red is preferred for love spells and often used, but a pencil is used just as effectively. The trick likes in *your* ability to bring power to bear to the situation. Trust the power of your roots, and your ability to focus them towards your objective. If you have red ink use it as HD described, if not simply use pencil.
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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby Turnsteel » Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:34 pm

ConjureMan wrote:It doesn't always matter what color ink you use. Red is preferred for love spells and often used, but a pencil is used just as effectively. The trick likes in *your* ability to bring power to bear to the situation. Trust the power of your roots, and your ability to focus them towards your objective. If you have red ink use it as HD described, if not simply use pencil.


Personally I prefer to use a pencil with no eraser over inks, but the color can help some people focus.
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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:41 pm

Absolutely. I agree. Color symbolism even when it comes down to inks can be a great tool for focus.

Good to see a fellow pencil user ;-).

Though I will say I do like using the magical inks made by LM from time to time.
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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby kmew1315 » Thu Jan 28, 2010 11:29 pm

I have a red pen that I use for petition papers for love work. What I like about my red pen though is that it was actually given to me by the person I'm doing the spells on so it has extra meaning to me rather than just a red pen.
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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby Simpleme » Fri Jan 29, 2010 2:27 am

kmew1315 wrote:I have a red pen that I use for petition papers for love work. What I like about my red pen though is that it was actually given to me by the person I'm doing the spells on so it has extra meaning to me rather than just a red pen.



Ok. So I just did my first ever conjure/mojo, firstever Red Skull Candle, my first of anything. I went well, I waited until he was asleep and burned the candle. It burnt bright and smooth ,no problem, except for the 1st 30 minutes it was slow and tough to burn.

When I was done I pinched out the candle. Is that the correct thing to do? Can you blow it out also? I thought blowing it out would be bad so I pinched it.

Also for the petition paper below the plate, i wrote it from his perspective. Is that correct? For example, I tony want chris to stay and live with me......, Tony is the target...
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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby Turnsteel » Fri Jan 29, 2010 2:40 am

Hello

Simpleme wrote:When I was done I pinched out the candle. Is that the correct thing to do? Can you blow it out also? I thought blowing it out would be bad so I pinched it.


Never blow out a candle used in spell work unless you are forever done with it.

Simpleme wrote:Also for the petition paper below the plate, i wrote it from his perspective. Is that correct? For example, I tony want chris to stay and live with me......, Tony is the target...


I would have carved that into the skull candle personally, since you wrote it from his perspective, and petition papers have yourpetition on them.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby gingerly88 » Fri Jan 29, 2010 6:06 am

yes, conjureman..you are correct. I have just about finished what I wanted to do & will just let go & enjoy the rest of my time. I appreciate all of everyone's tips. I have gathered quite the assortment of personal concerns so I am quite content. Thank you all!
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How can I make someone think of me??

Unread postby jancy » Fri Jan 29, 2010 6:08 am

How can I make someone think of me?? Anything simple.
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Re: How can I make someone think of me??

Unread postby Turnsteel » Fri Jan 29, 2010 8:34 am

We're supposed to simply ignore repetitive questions and ones that can be solved with a forum search but your new so I'll let you know, in the top right hand corner of every page is a bar that says search, use that. Also posting the same topic twice in the wrong category and with little information won't really help you. Basically read the forums and do a search before posting,odds are you'll find your answer.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby HeactesHeart » Fri Jan 29, 2010 9:06 am

Hey Sweet Girl,

This is now your mantra "Fun,Fun ,LOVE,Fun,fun fun !"

I just made that up . Do you like it ? ; )

Really,Listen to ConjureMan ,he is so on target, relax and have fun.

Oh and remember you got people praying for you too !

Take Care Kiddio.

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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby Simpleme » Fri Jan 29, 2010 11:16 am

HailDiscordia wrote:Hello

Simpleme wrote:When I was done I pinched out the candle. Is that the correct thing to do? Can you blow it out also? I thought blowing it out would be bad so I pinched it.


Never blow out a candle used in spell work unless you are forever done with it.

Simpleme wrote:Also for the petition paper below the plate, i wrote it from his perspective. Is that correct? For example, I tony want chris to stay and live with me......, Tony is the target...


I would have carved that into the skull candle personally, since you wrote it from his perspective, and petition papers have yourpetition on them.


Actually, I carved it on the skull of the candle also, and wrote it on the petition paper as well. And yea, I pinched the candle out, I didn't blow it out.
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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby Simpleme » Fri Jan 29, 2010 6:09 pm

As I mentioned earlier, I starting my Red Skull Candle Work last night, and then morning when the target woke up he had a headache that has lasted all day. We live together, and I did it last night while he was sleeping.

I'm wodering could this had been the result of the spell? Because he certainly good his sleep, it wasn't like he was tired.

Would Love some feedback.

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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby CopperFox » Fri Jan 29, 2010 6:21 pm

I wouldn't worry too much about the headache. While it is possible his headache was conjure-related....you'll never know, so don't allow a negative feeling to attach itself to your work. From what I understand, you are seeking the upperhand in the relationship; I presume you have his best interests in mind? Of course you do...

If you see a pattern of him having physical ailments that coincide with your conjure work, he may be resisting you on some level. Until you take note of a DEFINITE pattern, just accept it for a run of the mill headache. If you have access to a spiritual soap in a cleansing formula -- sandalwood / rosemary would be perfect -- you can offer to give him a friendly shower...which could lead to the number one home headache remedy.

As the hippies say: make love not war; there's no better means to bring a man under your sway, dearie.

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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby gingerly88 » Fri Jan 29, 2010 9:26 pm

Thanks Coco! You're a sweetheart..I do like the mantra & I appreciate your prayers. Lots of love & blessings to you. :)
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Re: Red SKull Candle Spell

Unread postby jwmcclin » Fri Jan 29, 2010 9:30 pm

Like that saying CopperFox.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby skyme714 » Sat Jan 30, 2010 10:16 pm

Hello all,

I did read a lot about skull candles and how to work them. I know white for healing, red for love etc.

But I still cant figure out what color and what oil to use for my situation.

My target many years ago set his mind to be with that woman.. they are not really together as a family, he comes and goes..but always comes back to her. No matter what happens in the present, his mind was already set in the past to be with her, thats the path he had chosen. I need him to re-chose the path and change his mind about it. Thats why Im using skull candle to change his mind. But what color?
Black - to break them up?
Red - to be with me?
Im not sure either one.

I need him to let go of that plan and build new, with me. He loves me, so I dont have to convience him to love me. But I have to change his mind, to let go of his commitment he made to himself to be with her and step on a new path with me.

Same question for oils, which ones to use?

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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Sat Jan 30, 2010 11:18 pm

Situations like this require a reading. We can help point you in the right direction like telling what each skull candle is good for, but you already know that. The reading will tell you the core issue and how to address it. You can easily work a black skull candle to break them up, a red skull candle to draw him to you, but the reading might indicate that his past hurts need to be healed, or that he needs to rid his feeling of obligation to this woman. These matters make it more difficult than simply telling you to use a red candle. Get the reading to find out what the best course of action would be.

In a complex situation like this, I would probably use a general white skull candle with a combination of Compelling and Return to Me products. Or you can work it in two parts, a black skull candle with Break Up products to end the last affair, and a red skull candle with Come to Me and Return to Me products to bring him to you.

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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby skyme714 » Sat Jan 30, 2010 11:40 pm

Thank you, ConjureMan! I did contacted a worker about getting a reading, but I guess I will have to wait (on her end).
I guess meantime I will do more simple spells just to prevent of them hitting it on.
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Re: Using the skull candle

Unread postby skyme714 » Mon Feb 01, 2010 12:55 pm

Can I have 2 skull candles burning at the same time (not the same hour, but the same week)?
One for him, one for rival, and to one give ideas to come to me, and to another to give her some thought.
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Re: How can I make someone think of me??

Unread postby adam283 » Mon Feb 01, 2010 4:42 pm

There are many ways to make someone think of you, what I did personally was to make someone dream of me and dat was to place a red skull candle anointed with LM oils over a pic and carved the dream into the skull of the candle then burned it at night while they were asleep.... there are a ton of dif ways to accomplish this, it just depends on what rout you would like to take.

is this someone you are involved with or wish to be involved with? depending on that answer is what rout you would wish to take, and to be honest getting a reading on the situation would be the best way to figure out which is the best and most powerful rout you can take.... LM also has a ton of spell kits you can order.
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Red Skull Candle

Unread postby blovinglife » Wed Feb 03, 2010 1:59 pm

Hello, I lit a red skull candle the other day and was wondering if anyone could help me.. It was for love and reconciliation work. I also put a piece of the individuals hair on it. The candle started out fine and after about an hour the flame was extremely high and melted through the top of the skull in about an hour. It burned a hole through the entire middle out (leaving the sides and face) Wax did drip everywhere but it wasn't tears. It was just all the wax because it was burning so fast. I also saw a lot of black smoke while it was burning.
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Re: Red Skull Candle

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Wed Feb 03, 2010 2:39 pm

Various candles actually burn in different matters and should be taken into account when doing various work with them. The divorce candle for example always seems to peel outward which is great symbolism, but unless you feel it is a clear sign should simply be taken as the normal burn of a candle. The skull candles are make with a lot of wax so you can expect lots of drip and flow, and they *do* tend to burn right through the center. For further illumation consider performing or getting a reading to find out if your spell is effecting your target.
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Re: Red Skull Candle

Unread postby jwmcclin » Wed Feb 03, 2010 6:10 pm

blovinglife was this a LM red skull candle? The reason I ask (and I know everyone's experience may be different) is that I use them periodically and have never experience that result.
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Re: Red Skull Candle

Unread postby starsinthesky7 » Wed Feb 03, 2010 7:43 pm

Ive experienced this and it can be due to difference reasons. I advise you get a reading about your work.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?....UPDATE

Unread postby gingerly88 » Thu Feb 04, 2010 9:23 pm

I wanted to update everyone who was helping me out while I was staying with my target love interest. And I also have a question as to what work would be best to keep up on after I returned home?
I've been back from my target's since Sunday. I had done much around his home including dressing his matress, sheets, & laundry as well as washing his floors & annointing his walls & adding my fluids to his food (which my sexual fluids worked like a charm!..he wasn't even done eating & told me as soon as he was finished, he was going to have to take me to the bedroom..which was very unlike him)
I tried to tie his nature..with one string, I left behind (oops) & the other I accidentally threw in the wash (ugh!).
Anyways, Conjureman had advised I hold off a little, give time for things to manifest & enjoy myself...best advice! Our last couple of days were wonderful & I could tell he was a lot different than he had been.
Without making this too long, over the course of the next several days after I left..he's been texting that he misses me..that he was smelling me on his sheets (heehee...oils)..that it smelled beautiful & that it made him sad I wasn't there with him...
he has been also texting me that he hasn't been doing certain things he likes to do because it reminds him of me & makes him sad & that he has been trying NOT to think of me..I guess these are good signs.
I got my LM order after I returned home & decided to dress my candle on my honey jar with some Stay with me oil..I figured it wouldn't hurt.
Now I want him to invite me back for an extended stay & continue to miss me & think about me. I want him to eventually ask me to move in with him & continue to heal from his divorce as he sometimes wihdraws from me & has apologized because it's still hard to "be completely intimate"...what would be the best work to do for all this? I know I should still give things time to manifest but if there is something I should be working, I don't want to miss an opp to do so...
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Thu Feb 04, 2010 11:52 pm

I'm glad to see everything worked out for you. Relaxing is the best advice in any type of spell work. There is a psychology and even biology to literally letting go of your spells that helps them to manifest better. I'm glad it helped.

Now that you are home, you can keep the pressure up. You've acheived having him fall for you, making him miss and want you so use that confidence going forward.

Keeping working with a combination of Healing, Love Me, and Come to Me conjures to get him closer to you. His divorce is still huge and you need to be a source of healing for him. This will bond him to you better than any spell. You can use Come to Me to overcome that last gulfs of distance between the two of you. Keep working your honey jar while working on healing him so he remains sweet to you. Get a reading to find out when the best timing would be to move the spell into the Marriage stage.

You can start adding elements of Stay with Me to your spells. You have all the personal concerns you'll need for this. The reading can tell you when to start working on conjure aimed at getting you two to move in together, you don't want to rush this, especially after a divorce..

What I'd do is create a Stay with Me honey jar with elements from your old honey jar to keep the passion and romance going, but now with elements of committment. You can anoint a Queen Elizabeth Root and John the Conqueror Root, name for each of you, then bind with a bit of red string and place in the honey jar to join the two of you. Add in a bit of committment herbs and work that for a bit until you get the green light to do other conjure.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby gingerly88 » Fri Feb 05, 2010 2:15 pm

Conjureman~thanks so much. That sounds like excellent advice & a lot of what I was thinking so I'm glad to see my intuition was kind of in tact..
Now when you say to create a stay with me honey jar with elements from the old jar..would that mean taking part of the insides of the old jar..adding it to a new jar with what you suggested & my new personal concerns I obtained during my trip?..If so, do I dispose of the old honey jar or work them both still?
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Fri Feb 05, 2010 10:55 pm

Simply pour the old honey jar into a new jar with your new materials.
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Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby mabel » Sat Feb 06, 2010 8:26 pm

I noticed that since I started on the red skull candle, I have been having fights with my ex whereby he has threatened to cut off all ties with me. I read somewhere that red skull candle can also be used to severe ties with someone thus I am kinda freaked out as instead of winning him back, I have sabotage it. Should I stop doing this spell now? :?
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby jwmcclin » Sat Feb 06, 2010 8:28 pm

Maybe you should take a cleansing bath and continue your work.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby mabel » Sat Feb 06, 2010 8:29 pm

Thanks jwmcclin. I did take the cleansing bath constantly since I started on this spell but still..... :-(
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby jwmcclin » Sat Feb 06, 2010 8:37 pm

Have you had a reading on this mabel? What type of cleansing are you doing? You may need some strength as well. I followed the 13, 9 and 7 day herb baths and they worked wonders.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby mabel » Sat Feb 06, 2010 8:42 pm

Thanks Jwmcclin, I did have a reading done and it seems like healing is needed to mend the hurts I've caused him before moving any further......any idea what are the healing work/spells one can do?

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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Sat Feb 06, 2010 8:50 pm

You always want to do a cleasing bath before any work so as to not bring any residue into your own spellwork. Its just a good idea. If you guys are fighting that means you are allowing the arguments to happen. Don't sabotage your work by fighting with him. If you've got a red skull candle going, simply smile serenely and let him fight himself out. If you don't give in and fight back he'll eventually blow himself out which in turn weakens him and gives your spell more space to take hold of. If you used a red skull candle for the purposes of love you are fine.

One thing to consider is that if passions are already running high and you've been advised of healing work then perhaps you should target your work towards bringing about peace, healing, and reconciliation. Get a reading, follow the advice of the reader.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby thelightfantastic » Sat Feb 06, 2010 8:59 pm

I think you just need to relax and let your spells manifest already. If you obsess over your work and what you're doing or didn't do, odds are you don't have to worry about anything because nothing will happen. You said on another thread that you only did this skull candle spell about a week ago which, again, isn't really enough time to tell if anything has gone horribly wrong or right just yet.

Anyone can tell you that reconciliation work is very hard and it's going to seem worse before it gets better. That's just the nature of the beast. If you freak at every sign of what you think is an obstacle, you're going to be in for a long and bumpy ride. Trust in your work and do NOT antagonize your target. Even if they pick a fight - walk away.

I suggest you do some tranquility work on yourself and try not to think about the spells you're doing.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby Zoe » Sat Feb 06, 2010 9:21 pm

I've read a lot of posts about love spells on this board and I've come to a conclusion: if you're in love with someone and trying to win their affections, it's best to have a root worker do the spell on your behalf. You need someone to take it out of your hands b/c if you do it yourself you will obsess about it/be tempted to change your course in the middle of it/etc. From what I've read you need to just do the working and then let the chips fall where they may, but I don't think someone who is desperately in love can do that.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby starsinthesky7 » Sat Feb 06, 2010 9:38 pm

Before starting any love work,besides getting a reading, its important to do love uncrossing work for the relationship as well.

I want to know where you read that the skull candle can cause someone to "freak out" and sever ties with you. I think that bit of information that you have had about this spell is WRONG. Perhaps OTHER work needs to be done BEFORE you do this spell along with anything else you are going to do. In addition, it has been recommended to you...when you asked about menstrual blood, and it "didnt work" on your ex...that you needed to get a reading.

Another thing Ive noticed about people that are in a sense of desperation is that they want to push the work along by testing the client such as asking them why they dont want to get in a relationship with you again, obsessing over the client by constantly calling them or looking them up on face book, forcing yourself on to them by wanting to come over all the time when they dont owe you anything, or starting unnecessary arguments. Targets do not just get mad for no reason so its gotta be something you are doing OR he could just be plain resisting the work.

However, I can tell you are obsessing over your work, and really you do not believe in spellwork, which I can tell from other posts you have made. So perhaps spellwork is not for you...and you need to hire someone.

In addition, you have done two spells that have failed due to your obessesive, and lack of patience has caused you to have two spell failures. But it seems like he just might be that into you, and this guy just might not be mean for you. So I would recommend a clear and cut and move on.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Sat Feb 06, 2010 11:14 pm

Zoe, while your advice is most wise, it brings up an important point. The reason why it may be a good idea for people to go to rootworkers for love work specifically is because they are too invested or obsessed with the results. However, the difference between a competent magician or rootworker and a person who'll dabble is that the competent conjurer has the mental discipline and fortitude to let go, relax, and trust their work. The hardest part (seriously harder than getting right materials etc) is learning to let go. It requires a person to have complete focus and willpower. Once they acheive this they are on their way to becoming competent rootworkers.

Stars brings up another great point. More often than not love work and reconciliation fails because of the person doing they work. They sabatoge what they are doing with their doubts, with their erratic behavior that works against the spells they put out, even by their overly emotional state. Declaring your undying love to a person then demanding them to return that effection is most off putting... My friends, trust your work. Committ to your spellcasting and let it go do its work.

P.S. that isn't to say that only incompetent casters go to rootworkers. On the contrary, people wise enough to know when they need help and when they can handle it on their own know when to do their work themself or go for help.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby kmew1315 » Sat Feb 06, 2010 11:23 pm

This brings up something I've been wondering. Let's say that I want a spell done and I go to a rootworker. That rootworker does the spell perfectly, lets the energies go, etc., but I obsess over it. Does that hinder the results in the same way? I'm not the one who did the spell so does my obsessing still hurt it, since the spell was done on my request and on my behalf?

I'm beginning to learn to not obsess, but you're right - that is the toughest part.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby starsinthesky7 » Sat Feb 06, 2010 11:41 pm

Short answer kevin...YES!! It will definitely affect your results in the same way. Especially if you are constantly emailing your rootworker and asking for "updates" or when you are constantly emailing complaining that the person has not been hit yet. Obsessing and overthinking no matter who is doing the work is not good. Another form of overthinking is getting readings done every day or even every week asking the same questions to see if the work has manifested. This is not hocus pocus magic where POOF you get what you want in an instant.

This is the misconception that people have when doing spells, and I agree with CM that you can tell who is dibble dabbling in magic, and think magic will solve ALL their problems. It is soooo hard to learn to let things go, and its something that has to be practiced. Obsessing and overthinking takes away from the energy of the spellwork, and it shows how much you have faith in the work that is being done by you and anyone else you choose to do the work.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Sat Feb 06, 2010 11:43 pm

Yes and no. You can definately work against the spells cast on your behalf by doing things that are deliberately contrary to the intention. If you are having love work done, but you refuse to leave your house, or you deliberately say something harsh to the target, or do work that may be contrary (like doing the IS when your rootworker recommended a softer approach) then you can effect the outcome of your rootworkers spells. If you obsess and doubt the rootworker you will create a barrier and block, but most professional rootworkers and conjurers are powerful enough to break through your negative energies. Bear in mind however that while you're negativity or obessing thoughts may not interfere with the spells cast on your behalf greatly they can cause a spell to manifest a bit later than it would have if you had supported your rootworker from the beginning. In the end, its their unshaking faith they are using to work the spells, not yours. No placebo effect or its reverse needed.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby starsinthesky7 » Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:02 am

I agree that the rootworker may be powerful enough to break through these blocks,however, that does not still give the invitation to still obsess over the work being done. The professional may be able to break through it, but its creating unnecessary negativity, and makes it harder for the rootworker to work through. And dont expect to have this mentality and expect it to still work. Constant negativity and overthinking can be a self-fulfilling prophecy meaning if you constantly think its going to happen...it probably will.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby kmew1315 » Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:14 am

Thank you.

For the most part, I think I'm doing good at letting things go and trusting in the outcome, but like everything else, there's still room to grow. I will freely admit that that was definitely my weakness at first. I've been told by my rootworker that I'm growing in my abilities, so I'm assuming that my ability to let the energies go is part of that. One thing I've definitely noticed. When I first started this I really wanted to know what was going on in my target's head because I wanted my results and I wanted them quickly. Now I still want to know what's going on in my target's head, but for completely different reasons. Not because I'm obsessing over when the results will manifest, but because I'm fascinated by this whole process. I want to know how this is working in my target. Is she dreaming about me? Is she thinking about me? Are things popping up in her life that remind her of me? Did she come across a piece of cheese shaped like me that's reminding her of me? That's the stuff I want to know, and I suppose that's mostly academic. This is definitely different than the obsessing though, because it's something I'm sure I'll find out eventually.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby starsinthesky7 » Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:38 am

Theres a fine line between wanting to know how things affect a target, and obsessing. If you are asking these questions all the time you have a reading (getting a reading week or 2 is obesessing), and/or constantly wondering these questions on a daily basis. Then you are obsessing and overthinking. But I mean just asking to keep touch on how it is affecting them is okay if you are getting the reading like every 3 weeks, but constantly wondering about it after the reading and on a daily basis...which proceeds by checking their facebook/myspace/emails, driving by their house, calling and hanging up...constantly asking a friend about them...that is obesessing. Like I said its a fine line.
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Re: Should I stop the red skull candle?

Unread postby kmew1315 » Sun Feb 07, 2010 1:01 am

Sounds like I'm in the clear. ;)
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby gingerly88 » Mon Feb 08, 2010 11:41 am

Thanks ConjureMan!...Just wanted to say that he asked me back out this next week. He just turned all of a sudden & has become very affectinate & could barely even wait for me to come this week. He told me he feels he's going to be a lot better after he got this last communication from his ex. He was telling me how he feels he didn't properly treat me when I was out there..not giving me enough love & all...and he even slightly started talking about me moving in..I know it's been on his mind with some of the things he's said.
I got my order from LM with my stay with me oil, powder, & crystals..I'll lay some tricks in his house while there, but mostly concentrate on him & letting things continue to manifest. I'll make up my new honey jar & use it while there. Thanks for all the great advice everyone!
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Mon Feb 08, 2010 1:52 pm

Glad everything is working out for you. Trust yourself and you'll work wonders. Keep us posted, we are all wishing you the best.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby theusurper » Mon Feb 08, 2010 2:03 pm

i was wondering about what often we can do any kind of spell, example, if i do the skull candle spell , after i see the result,i have to repeat the spell every month, every year or how often. is just curios.i'm planing to do the skull candle but i was thinking about that.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby ConjureMan Ali » Mon Feb 08, 2010 2:23 pm

There are certain spells that are recommended to be refreshed over a period of time. For example, the moving lodestone spell, if you end up in a committed relationship with your significant other it is recommended that once a year you take out your lodestones from under the bed, wash them off with whiskey and repeat the spell or at least rededicating them. Its always a great idea to keep certain spells going, but is not a must or hard fast rule. I know miss cat talks about how every friday she and her husband light their candle on their honey jar together and she's mentioned the washing and rededicating of the lodestone spell. Again, its a matter of personal preference.

A skull candle however is not one of those spells that need repeating unless you feel that you need to reinforce the effect. If you've got success with it you can move on to other things.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby skyme714 » Wed Feb 10, 2010 1:45 pm

I have a different skull question candle... I know it meant to put my thoughts in their head, but can I still work it if my target of this spell speaks different language than me?
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby jwmcclin » Wed Feb 10, 2010 2:51 pm

I would say yes, and learn to speak at least their language to communicate effectively.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby NotDorianGray » Sun Feb 14, 2010 10:35 am

Language doesn't matter one tiny bit. All words do is put our intentions into a form that we can understand. They're a scaffolding, they frame and hold up our intent. You're not putting words into someone's head, you're transferring an thought, an idea. It's universal. That person will, in turn, re-frame the thought into their own language. Speaking the same language, however, will give you an added connection with them, boosting your success rate.
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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby skyme714 » Sun Feb 14, 2010 10:45 am

Thank you, NotDorianGray, thats a good point! :)

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Re: Skull candle effects..why?

Unread postby cabriellenil » Sun Feb 14, 2010 11:48 am

I have a question for ConjureMan and everybody else here about using black skull candle for break-up - and I'm asking because I've had very little experience in doing 'dark' work. After I personalize the candle as my target, just focus on getting the thought across to him that he wants to break up with the other woman, etc.? What are some of the herbs you would use? I'm a little confused here coz I'm not sure how to go about it without 'crossing' the target.

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