Before starting any love work,besides getting a reading, its important to do love uncrossing work for the relationship as well.
I want to know where you read that the skull candle can cause someone to "freak out" and sever ties with you. I think that bit of information that you have had about this spell is WRONG. Perhaps OTHER work needs to be done BEFORE you do this spell along with anything else you are going to do. In addition, it has been recommended to you...when you asked about menstrual blood, and it "didnt work" on your ex...that you needed to get a reading.
Another thing Ive noticed about people that are in a sense of desperation is that they want to push the work along by testing the client such as asking them why they dont want to get in a relationship with you again, obsessing over the client by constantly calling them or looking them up on face book, forcing yourself on to them by wanting to come over all the time when they dont owe you anything, or starting unnecessary arguments. Targets do not just get mad for no reason so its gotta be something you are doing OR he could just be plain resisting the work.
However, I can tell you are obsessing over your work, and really you do not believe in spellwork, which I can tell from other posts you have made. So perhaps spellwork is not for you...and you need to hire someone.
In addition, you have done two spells that have failed due to your obessesive, and lack of patience has caused you to have two spell failures. But it seems like he just might be that into you, and this guy just might not be mean for you. So I would recommend a clear and cut and move on.
Thank u St. Martha for everything you have done on my behalf.
Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!