I wanted to be succinct, but a bit of background is needed if anyone is to help, so I will put my question first, and then fill in the backstory a little below, ok?
Question: Would Stop Gossip be an appropriate product to use, to prevent unknown people saying negative things about me to my target... if the things being said are not intended to be malicious, but are unhelpful to my aim? And further, is there a way to (remotely) stir up people around the target to actually give positive messages about me to him, to offset the damage that has already been done?
I have been doing some reconciliation spellwork on my ex-bf for about 6 weeks, and I am happy to say I am seeing quite a bit of movement, as he has started contacting me every few days, and letting me know how sad he is and that he misses me. (Not asking to come back yet though.) I feel confident things are heading in the right direction, but I sure am having my patience tested at how far I have yet to go! Lol.
He has never believed in the occult at all, and dismissed psychics as frauds... until after his mum died (which happened the week after he broke up with me). He recently told me in conversation that he saw a psychic for the 1st time ever then. This reader picked up on the death of his mum, and partially picked up on an issue with his daughter, so my ex wants to believe everything else she says is gospel. Unfortunately for me, she also said to him that he had recently ended a relationship (with me), and "don't worry about it cos it wouldn't have worked out anyway!!" (Thanks a pantload, lady.
I have had divination done on the issue of our relationship before he told me this, and the message given to me was consistently the opposite: that we were extremely well suited to each other, and that it was a beautiful relationship which was only temporarily derailed by an external issue (which is unconnected to me), and things could be gotten back on track. I am satisfied that the divination results are reliable (the most recent came from the wonderful Sindy Todo on the rootworkers association, and was very encouraging regarding our future together), so I am not worried about whether his psychic reader might be correct - I am sure she is not.
However he has taken her dismissal of me very much to heart, and that is a concern to me. I have a couple of theories as to why she might have said that, but I won't speculate since I don't know the lady or her reputation. My concern is - how can I counteract this? He has got the idea from her that it is pointless to try to be with me, since it would never work out! I am sure this resistance can be overcome in time, but I would really like to squelch that influence sooner rather than later, to prevent him coming down with the doubts over and over again.
My initial thoughts are that my options are:
- just rely on the love spellwork I am already doing to make him so strongly in love with me, that he will disregard what she said;
- try Stop Gossip to prevent a repeat occurrence (but it's shutting the gate after the horse has bolted, in the case of this psychic... whom he may never see again anyway for all I know)
- use a compelling / controlling work on him (perhaps with a skull candle??) to tell him what i want him to think on that score
- Ideally in my fantasy world, I would like to prevent anyone saying things like that to him about me ever again, and to actively have people around him (especially say, another psychic!) tell him that in fact he and I are meant to be, so he'd better get his butt into gear and fix his mistake lol
However I have no idea how or even if this is possible.
Can i please throw this out there, and ask people with more experience - how would you handle this?
Many thanks to you all.