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Unread post by beautiful » Thu May 19, 2011 12:55 pm

What magic root work can I do to find out if he's cheating on me?
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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Thu May 19, 2011 1:47 pm

You can just simply get a reading or through some kind of divination such as a pendulum. But I would opt for the reading. A simple 10 minute reading will do.
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Unread post by miziluvhoodoo » Wed Jun 01, 2011 8:58 am

Hello! I need a few oils that will attract men for sexual encounters. Plus, an oil that will keep my bf faithful to me. I know that it's wrong for me to be cheating on my bf, but I'm young and I want to explore my options. So, if anyone has any recommendations, it will be appreciated. Thank you!
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Unread post by Devi Spring » Wed Jun 01, 2011 10:03 am

Kiss Me Now will reel them in for casual sexual encounters. If you want them to spend money on you too, then add some Cleo May in there. Look Me Over will help you get a good deal of extra attention in all circumstances. And of course you can add some Fast Luck into the mix.

Stay With Me will help keep him faithful. And Follow Me Boy will help make him cling to you and want to be around you all the time ... although if you're trying for encounters on the side, you may not want him trying to stay too close to you.
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Unread post by jwmcclin » Wed Jun 01, 2011 10:15 am

I was thinking along the same line (ref: last paragraph) Devi Spring. miziluvhoodoo, you are asking for two things and may not get the one without the later. You have to be cautious here. But it is possible go for it...
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Unread post by miziluvhoodoo » Wed Jun 01, 2011 11:54 am

Thanks ladies! I'm aware of what you said. That's why I'm going to focus on one task @ a time.
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Unread post by graceful5658 » Sun Jun 05, 2011 4:29 pm

i have a boyfriend but him and his wife does not sleep together does he love me or useing me?

i really need to know what to do in this situation. I need help

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Sun Jun 05, 2011 7:37 pm

I recommend that you get a reading from AIRR (http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers) to answer your question. You can certainly request a 10 minute reading, a Yes/No reading or a complete reading on the situation.
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Unread post by Miss Tammie Lee » Sun Jun 05, 2011 8:27 pm

I second the recommendation for a reading with a Member of AIRR:
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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Sun Jun 05, 2011 8:29 pm

You could also sign up for a chance at a FREE reading on our weekly Radio Show. There are threads around here that give the details on how to sign up. No guarantees that you will be picked, but we do free readings and give rootwork advice for about 4 people each week.
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Unread post by Miss Bri » Tue Jun 07, 2011 7:57 am

Graceful, yes, get a reading hun that will give you the information you need quickly and also help you figure out where to go from there.
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Unread post by hapinys » Fri Sep 30, 2011 10:23 pm

Hi all, My BF wants to have a more lover/friendly relationship with a man (who already has a gf/possibly wife). He likes my friend - she likes him, they chill a little but she wants more of his time as he does hers, but he has to run hm to his gf/wife. What should she do? I know she doesnt rrreeeaalllyyy want them to breakup/divorce she just wants to spend more time with him then she does now......
Any suggestions???

I can only think to break them up (but that will cause stress/problems - However, if he's already stepping out on his gf/wife there already IS a problem in my opinion). He told her he has never done this and he seems very reserved and such a gentleman. Surprisingly she'd have to jump HIS bones - he seems so shy lol. Anyway, what do yall think?

Bottom line - she's gona want to see him and spend more time with him - I know her!!


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Ohh....maybe she can have LM to burn her a seperation cdl....just so they seperate - so she can spend time with him...and then a FMB candle..idk....just brainstorming.

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Unread post by mumma » Sat Oct 01, 2011 1:38 am

Sorry to be harsh but ... she doesn't sound like avery nice person since he's already with someone. And what makes her think that if they do 'spend more time together' that he won't end up doing it to her too? Sounds like a jerk to me.

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Unread post by duchess » Sat Oct 01, 2011 4:22 am

Hi hapinys,

You are kind to want to help your friend but there is a reason that many rootworkers won't break up a married couple unless it is strongly justified in God's eyes. That's asking for a whole heap of trouble. Just because she wants something or someone, doesn't mean she should have it or that it is good for her.

Moreover, and I say this for your benefit, unless you are incredibly experienced you could be setting yourself up for some difficulties by wading into this situation.

If you are asking what she should do, or what you can do on her behalf--my recommendation is to help her find a man who is free and clear of entanglements and who is worth her time. If you are going to have candles set for her, I would recommend King Solomon's wisdom and/or Clarity and then help her draw someone who is really free to be with her.

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Unread post by hapinys » Sat Oct 01, 2011 4:29 am

I understand. Unfortunatly such is life & this stuff happens everyday, but I know she doesnt want a relationship. Its just a fling, but she/they want this fling 2 last. Having said that im sure she'll have LM to burn something 4 her. He could either be a jerk or just a unhappy man or neither which is y he's straying in the 1st place. No one knows wats really going on.........


I have a friend whos WIFE has been cheating on him openly for 5 yrs of a 13 yr marriage. He is an AWESOME DAD, person, christian man. Truck driver, hard worker, bread winner,etc.......wife Is obviously a whore. He's ONLY there because of his kids......until recently when he's now deciding 2 file 4 divorce. Sure in the past 3 yrs he has stepped out his marriage for obvious necessities.......however my friend whom ive know for 22 yrs if FFFAAARRR from a jerk. He's just a man whos been trying 2 keep it together for his 3 children...until recently (this being the last straw) when his wife ran off again with her ex and emptied out their life savings and get this.........she left n the middle of the night 2 weeks & has not returned........not even for her own kids. I say THAT 2 say....dt b quick 2 judge.......never know what goes on behind closed doors....

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Unread post by hapinys » Sat Oct 01, 2011 4:38 am

Thx.....thats more of a decent.....non judgemental response. I understand completely.....i will share this with her......lets see what she does : ).

Thx again, Hapinys

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Unread post by duchess » Sat Oct 01, 2011 4:51 am

Dear hapyinys,

I apologize if I came off as judgemental because that was not my intent. What I was trying to point out is that from a rootwork perspective it is far easier to start from scratch (ie draw in a new love) than it is to get something so complicated involving so many people to turn out for the best.

Regardless, I hope both of your friends find happiness.

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Unread post by hapinys » Sat Oct 01, 2011 5:25 am

No Duchess my response was for Mumma.....I actually liked your response. Thx again : ).

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Unread post by awlookatmenow » Sun Dec 25, 2011 7:36 pm

I go with this guy and he live with his ol lady I dont want him to leave home I just found out he is messing with someone else to what spells could I do to keep him from messing with other people besides me amd his ol lady. Oh I dont know this female name either.

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Tue Dec 27, 2011 5:56 am

If he is messing with you, while he has a girlfriend/wife, and some other female...why do you want him?

To me, you are wasting your time! BUT that is just me, and maybe you like having to share him with other women.

I guess you could do a freezer jar, and ask that it freezes all women away from your target besides you and the other main woman.

Or you could do some stay with me work for you him and her.

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Unread post by FoxGlove » Fri Dec 30, 2011 3:05 pm

Hi, everyone! I enjoy reading this board, but this is my first time posting! :D

So, here's the situation:

About 8 months ago, an old college friend/lover started contacting me on Facebook. I was reluctant, at first, to talk to him as much as he wanted to (I'm married, and so is he), but he pursued HARD -- contacting me every day, repeatedly asking if he could call me, etc...

Well... eventually, I gave in and started to really enjoy the attention. :oops: Things heated up into a very erotic... friendship (online only, though). I thought we were both having fun, but then on Oct. 28, all that stopped, very abruptly -- and we'd been very close the whole month of October, oddly.

He still calls me and initiates contact (not as often -- maybe once every couple of days now) but it's all just totally friendly and platonic. I can't figure out what happened -- all the sexy seems to have gone out of our relationship and things seemed to have cooled right down. :(

I should also mention that we had a small disagreement at the end of Oct. about something sexual -- something he is very interested in and I'm not. :(

Anyway, long story short, I'd really like to just get back to the way things were -- what do you suggest?

-- one more thing -- I'm currently working a honey-jar on him and using Follow Me Boy oil to dress candles inscribed with both our names. This always gets him calling -- but still platonic. :(

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Unread post by Vera » Fri Dec 30, 2011 7:27 pm

Read your post and gave me the chills. You are, in my personal opinion, playing with fire. Both of you are married, hopefully happy, why start something foolish. College romance is sort of fun but nothing serious as it is more of an experiment. He would have married you if you were the "one".

You need to concentrate and re-enforce your marriage vows vs. a college flame. It is all fantasy for both of you (guess he is the smart one by keeping his distance). Also, presume that you're in your late twenties...Me think....Not a fan of Facebook, never been on it, spend too much time on LM Forum. Do that instead, you will learn something valuable...

You need to do a cut and clear instead of a honey jar on some imaginary flame. Save your marriage, otherwise in a few months time, you will be posting on how to bring back your love of your life (husband) back into your life. Grass is never greener on the other side. :oops:

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Unread post by MaryBee » Fri Dec 30, 2011 7:28 pm

I'll bet you dollars to donuts that the man's wife found out about his activity with you, and that's what contributed to him cooling things off.

The Follow Me Boy is getting him to "follow you", but if you want to put the passion back you can add products like Fire of Love or Kiss Me Now. Either use the oil on the candles or dab it on yourself as a perfume.

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Unread post by FoxGlove » Fri Dec 30, 2011 9:22 pm

Thank you both very very much for your replies -- I really appreciate you taking the time.

Vera, I know I probably do sound like some silly 20-something, I'm actually -- considerably older. :P lol My husband and I have been together for 18 years, and, while we've had our ups and downs, I feel good about our relationship. I know it sounds weird, but he actually knows all about my online "buddy" -- and he's ok with it. (Aquarius... lol) He even gives me advice on the situation. My friend's wife... however, well, I feel really bad about that part. I guess I just justify it to myself by thinking that, after all, I'm not trying to take him away, or even have a real-life affair with him, I just like having him as a friend -- with that little extra element. He has told me that they spend a lot of time apart and their relationship is not very sexual -- but those conditions existed before I was ever in the picture.

Marybee -- I think you may be onto something about his wife finding something out (either in regards to me, online porn, or maybe even someone else?) because he did mention something about having to "be careful at home and change gears a little bit" -- whatever that means.

I'm not looking for any sort of commitment with him -- and some things he's said have given me pause (he's into some really kinky stuff). Also, for what it's worth, all my friends that know him dislike him. I know this all adds up to -- duh -- huge red flag. But -- something about him seems to draw me in and keep me coming back. After 20 years apart, we both still thought about each other... Anyway -- thanks for the suggestion -- will definitely try the Fire of Love products. ;)

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Unread post by Devi Spring » Sat Dec 31, 2011 9:20 am

"be careful at home and change gears a little bit" -- whatever that means
That's basically him telling you flat out that his wife's hackles are up about the situation!
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Unread post by loveofmylife » Sat Dec 31, 2011 4:07 pm

The wife knows and things are not smooth at home. take it from someone who is in the wifes shoes... it is emotionally & physically devastating

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Unread post by FoxGlove » Sun Jan 01, 2012 10:01 am

Thanks very much for all your responses. I really don't want to hurt anyone in this situation -- I don't have any ill will toward my friend or his wife and don't want to mess up anyone's happy home. I guess I'm just very open-minded about stuff like this and sometimes I forget that not everyone sees it the same way. I actually really care about him and feel a lot of affection for him -- so I certainly don't want to be the cause of anything bad happening with his marriage. I would really like to know how he realy feels about me and what his intentions actually are (for example -- is he trying to turn this relationship physical, is he already looking around for Mrs. #2? -- this is actually the impression that I get, although, if he is, it's certainly not going to be me, as I plan on staying married to Mr. #1!) Any reccomendations for figuring out his intentions?

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Unread post by Jinji » Sun Jan 01, 2012 10:19 am

Hi FoxGlove,

I would like to offer a different alternative, just a hypothesis from reading your initial post. That is, that your online friend has a fetish, which you don't share an interest in. You stated that he totally cooled down when you didn't express interest in the same thing, which is what led me this thought. Also, if it is his wife interceding, then why is he still contacting you at all? Ii think he is trying to tell you to "just be online friends now", since he barked up your tree but you didn't bark back, so to speak. Please let us know the outcome of any work that you might do and what LM products you used, bc I'm super curious. Take care.

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Unread post by loveofmylife » Sun Jan 01, 2012 10:34 am

Hi Fox Glove , Your flirty friend tells you that he and his wife are not sexual... RED FLAG !!! This may or may not be the total truth.
IMHO An affair either emotional,online or physical is still an affair and can cause deep wounds for all parties involved.

Perhaps look into LM compelling him to tell you the truth or LM cut and clear from him if his real intentions are unknown and you wish to stay married.

If I were in your shoes , I would have a reading done 1st before any work is really done since you stated that you wish no harm to anyone.

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Unread post by FoxGlove » Sun Jan 01, 2012 10:56 am

Jinji -- I think you may be exactly right. He definitely has a fetish -- out of respect for him, I'm not going to say what it is here, but, suffice to say, it's something that requires a willing partner and is far from socially acceptable. While, like I said, I consider myself open-minded and I don't judge him for it -- I also am not going to participate in something I'm not comfortable with. I can't tell you how many times I've been asked by him over the last eight months: "So, if you and I were married, would you do THIS? Would you do THAT? What would you do if I wanted to do THIS? (always sexual in nature)" To the point where I got annoyed and finally asked "why does it even matter what I would or wouldn't do -- we're both married and we're not going to be doing this any time soon." To which he replied that he was "just curious" and it "helps him to know me better."

Thanks for your comments, too, Loveofmylife -- I think I do need a reading. After typing this all out and hearing all your insightful comments, I realize that maybe I'm less interested in rekindling his attraction than in figuring out exactly what is going on and what his intentions really ar, and if he is even someone who needs to be in my life. Thanks again -- will definitely update.

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Unread post by Jinji » Sun Jan 01, 2012 11:32 am

Hi again. The other clue here is that you mentioned he has stated that he and his wife have zero sex. Well, if he's consumed by his fetish(es) or, paraphilias, as we say in my neck of the woods, I would assume his wife figured out the score long ago. If this is what's going on you would probably get much quicker results using some of the LM products to re-ignite your 18 yr marriage. There are so many good products that could work with that. Much "faster" than getting someone over a paraphilia, which, isn't impossible (I'm being optimistic here) , but extremely hard to "break". Thanks for the future update. I love closure when reading a forum.

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Unread post by FoxGlove » Mon Jan 02, 2012 3:40 pm

A quick update -- there's been movement here, to say the least. I haven't even started much real work yet as I just placed my LM order a few days ago (have been praying though, and the honey jar), but received a long email from him last night. Total shift of gears -- it contained an erotic story (fiction) he'd written (!). As soon as I logged onto FB last night, he was messaging me asking if I'd read it and what I thought of it. Total 180 -- he told me that he couldn't stop thinking about me and asked if we could meet up in real life. :O Now I have no idea what to think, and I just really wish I knew if his intentions were good or if I've bitten off more than I can chew. Anyone had much experience with the Chuparrosa products? What kind of effect might I expect with those?

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Unread post by Devi Spring » Mon Jan 02, 2012 4:05 pm

You're wondering if "his intentions are good"? Well, he's clearly looking to engage in a real sexual affair, most likely to play out some of his kinky interests. So whether that's "good" or "bad" depends on your perspective.

From what you stated earlier you're not interested in pursuing an in-person affair, correct? And you indicated that your husband is somewhat open to your involvement with this man, at least in the online context, so you do need to consider your husband and your situation. If you're not interested in an in-person thing, than you need to communicate that very clearly to him right away, and tell him exactly the boundaries that you wish to engage with him within.

If you're trying to get this guy to have real feelings for you and want to maintain an actual romantic relationship with deeper emotions and in-person sexual dealings, then Chuparrosa could work - though it's really more a sweet, fidelitous, earnest and long-term oriented love formula. So if you're NOT wanting a relationship, and only want a sexual relationship, then I would not use Chuparrosa, and go with stuff like Kiss Me Now to keep him more sexually oriented.

Also, remember, this guy sounds like he's looking primarliy for an outlet for his kinks. If you don't share his kinks, then this is likely not going to be a situation that is really all that suitable for you. You say you tell him you're not interested in that, but he keeps bringing it up...well, that's because it's something he is really feeling compelled to do.

Honestly, I'd hold off on any more work at the moment until you get the details ironed out. Communicate with the online guy and communicate with your husband. This would be a REALLY good time to get a reading on the situation, too.

You may wish to do a protection bottle on your marriage, just so the situation hopefully won't cause more trouble than it's worth. It's one thing if you're in an open (to some degree) marriage, but remember that this other guy is NOT, and that's always going to cause all KINDS of unanticipated chaos. Don't let yourself &/or your own marriage be collatoral damage.
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Unread post by Mama Micki » Tue Jan 03, 2012 7:38 am

An old married guy once told me, "Marriage is like a hot meal. After a while, it's not so hot." I think the problem is your marriage has cooled down, and you're looking for some "heat". You find it exciting to talk to someone about "forbidden" sexual desires; if you didn't, you would just unfriend him.

This guy does not necessarily want face-to-face contact; you'd be suprised at the number of men (and some women) who just want to live their fantasies through porn, phone sex, and internet chat.

Either break it off or use him as a fantasy to make your marriage more exciting. Do not get sucked in by him.
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Unread post by FoxGlove » Tue Jan 03, 2012 8:44 am

Two things:

1. I think some of you are psychic. lol :)
2. I think the real problem here might be that I don't actually know what I want from this situation. :(

I mean, y'all are right -- I must be getting something out of this, I keep it going. Mama Micki, you hit the nail on the head -- obviously, there's some degree of titilation for me, as well, otherwise why keep talking to him? Well, we do actually share an interest in some of the tamer stuff. But still... I think what's happened is that this started out as pure fantasy and it did add some spice to my primary relationship (boy, did it... and that still goes on to this day -- I guess adding another person's very frisky energy to the mix sometimes does that) -- but now maybe I've caught feelings. Sigh. I know I can't be with this person -- heck, I don't even think I want to be. I'm just confused. Devi, you said it, too -- I don't even know what "good" intentions are, at this point. :(

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:59 am

Psychic? More like the voice of experience. ;)
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Unread post by Devi Spring » Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:33 pm

Well, I'd say lay off the love work on the guy, and pick up some Clarity work on yourself until you can figure things out and then act from that place of wisdom.
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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by loveofmylife » Tue Jan 03, 2012 4:47 pm

Devi Spring wrote:Well, I'd say lay off the love work on the guy, and pick up some Clarity work on yourself until you can figure things out and then act from that place of wisdom.
I want to 2nd that !!!!

I want to share this:
Again I will say this (sorry but in all fairness to his wife -their marriage) I have been and am fighting for my marriage right now. You may never know how devastating it is on the spouse that did not go outside of that marriage to engage in flirty fun, that becomes crossing the line to making choices that does and will cause direct and indirect harm.

You must consider your path and gain a new perspective ..please have a reading done before you proceed.. it may reveal what is veiled to you thru the act of fantasy and seduction. Clarity is needed.

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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by southern » Fri Feb 03, 2012 11:29 am

ive heard about having mixed in tentions but i dont understand what that means.If i have the intention of keeping one girl with me for a long term relationship possibly marriage and then have othe rintentions of bringing new love to me and sleeping around dating.will that effect the magic of the other? like if im doing magic to keep one and magic to bring more what does that effect.if anything.?

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Re: Spells to have marriage and still sleep around

Unread post by drjumba » Fri Feb 03, 2012 10:50 pm

First if I may ask, why would you want to do that? I understand you have the rights to live your life in any way you please but what about the others involved?

You want someone to be binded to you but you don’t have any intension of keeping and respecting that love faithfully.

Why would you go an extra mile to hurt someone that you love? I think for the fact that you want a spell that keeps that person to you; you should also be looking for a spell that will keep you to that person as well so your love can be a strong long lasting relationship.

Back to your answer. None of the spell will affect any other but it’s not good to misuse the good work of spells.
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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by DestinyAndFate1 » Sat Feb 04, 2012 7:52 pm

Its like the laws of attraction what you put out you will get back ten fold, so if you intentionally want to hurt someone it will come back on you... You should think about the other girls involved... :(

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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by catherineyronwode » Sat Feb 04, 2012 11:33 pm

There are a couple of spells you might want to look into. They are both listed and described in my book "Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic," so i am not going to copy them out here. i have not done this sort of work myself, as i prefer to work on behalf of those whose aim is spiritual honesty -- whether that means full-on monogamy or an open marriage in which BOTH parties are free to play the field -- but i pass them along as authentic old spells of the type you desire.

1) The three nails in coffee spell. This is very old-fashioned and although i have not used it myself, i have heard from more than one person that it worked for them.

2) The Mud Dauber nest spell. Again, i have not done this one myself, but there are a number of folks who have told me that they got good results with this.

Good luck!
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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by ConjureMan Ali » Sun Feb 05, 2012 12:08 am

I Dominate My Woman combined with Stay with Me have traditionally been used for men who want to keep a wife at home while sleeping around.

As a male root doctor I have a unique perspective that allows me to understand the male mind and therefore I am able to bring that into the love work that I do for men as well as the love work for women who sometimes don't get what their men are thinking. Given this experience let me impart some wisdom; what you seek is definitely within the realm of conjure as well as quite traditional. But I can also tell you that such situations often end poorly as any relationship based off of control, coercion, and dishonesty naturally does. I have seen it time and time again.

Instead, my suggestion would be to take a different route. Why not perform drawing work to draw to you a woman who will be comfortable and accepting of an open marriage, rather than trying to force someone specific into the arrangement.

Or you could do something revolutionary; actually be brave enough to put your entire heart to love a woman for all she is and find complete and total fulfillment in her that you don't even think of other women. I personally find the this more satisfying anyway.

Of course as a wise woman is fond of saying: "your mileage may vary."

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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by FoxGlove » Tue Feb 28, 2012 6:17 pm

Wanted to post a little follow-up for any who might be interested... First of all, had a great reading with Ms. Cat earlier this month and got a lot of insight into the situation. My friend is still in touch a lot, and things are still warm and friendly, but now they're JUST friendly -- which, honestly, I think is for the best. Thanks for all your good advice, LM board members! :)

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Unread post by Believe129 » Wed Feb 29, 2012 10:20 am

FoxGlove wrote:Wanted to post a little follow-up for any who might be interested... First of all, had a great reading with Ms. Cat earlier this month and got a lot of insight into the situation. My friend is still in touch a lot, and things are still warm and friendly, but now they're JUST friendly -- which, honestly, I think is for the best. Thanks for all your good advice, LM board members! :)
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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by Jinji » Sat Mar 03, 2012 6:38 am

FoxGlove,

Thanks for the follow up.
I really love to read how things have turned out. It's very considerate and also inspires me to make sure I do the same. Glad your friend is still just "friends".

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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by spirit » Sun Jun 17, 2012 2:01 pm

So this is a bit of a complicated situation....

I have a 5 yr relationship with a guy that I love deeply, however recently I did something out of character...

I met a gorgeous married Swedish man who is a bit older than me....we flirted all night (i did not know he was married at this time)...anyway he wanted to sleep with me but I didn't because

a) im in a relationship
b) he is married

but we did kiss and I was so attracted to him it was crazy!

Since then we have emailed briefly a few times.....and now my head is stuck on him...but since my last email a week ago i have not heard anything from him :(

I want to stay in touch, not have an emotional relationship but definitely want to see him again (just even to kiss him again) awful i know!!!!

So I have set up a pink candle under which I have put a photo of me with two photos of him wrapped in red thread in the hope that he will get back in touch and invite me out to see him or something! I feel awful that he is married as this is not the kind of person I am but I am so infatuated!

Advice please...is this stupid???

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Sun Jun 17, 2012 2:12 pm

He probably has moved on to someone who will give what he wants. (Hint: more than a little kiss.) Burn your candle if you want, but your guilt about the whole situation will probably interfere with its effectiveness. It would be better to either work on your existing relationship or find someone else, who is single and available. When you decide, post again and we'll give you some ideas.
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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by spirit » Sun Jun 17, 2012 2:55 pm

Very much want him....even if just a fling for a while...i know i cant have him forever as he is married....
Also thank you for replying x

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Unread post by JayDee » Sun Jun 17, 2012 4:24 pm

I agree with the prior response, he probably moved on to someone willing to give what he wants. Yes you are willing now, but were not at that moment, hence blew it. Sure you can get it by working and contacting him, or count it as a blessing and a dodged bullet and move on. Morally I can tell you what id do but we can leave that out. Flesh will seek the flesh. Kiss me now and follow me boy are two good spell kits to look over.
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Unread post by Precise2 » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:08 am

Not a morally good idea cfonsidering the fact that he is married. Work on your prior relationship and move on. Your guilt will interfere and it will not work. Turn the the passion up in your relationship that might even work better.

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Unread post by spirit » Mon Jun 18, 2012 1:25 pm

But the crazy thing is...I don't feel guilty so how come my spell isn't working?

I even tried putting a bay leaf under the candle.....

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Unread post by Turnsteel » Mon Jun 18, 2012 1:33 pm

spirit wrote:But the crazy thing is...I don't feel guilty so how come my spell isn't working?

I even tried putting a bay leaf under the candle.....
Oh spells can fail for a number of reasons. I'd say you just simply are not meant to have what you want in this situation.

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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by 4leafclover » Sun Jul 15, 2012 2:36 pm

Hello all - what I am asking may be a little messy but here goes... ;)

I've been casually chatting recently with this guy on Facebook (I know of him, but not personally) for about a week now. He intrigues me and he's very handsome and would love the opportunity to get to know him more, exchange phone numbers, go out for a drink, etc. - unfortunately he has a girlfriend. I do not want to break them up, but I do want to the chance for us to hang out and get to know each other more...I just want to see what he is about. Since I prefer to work with candles, is there any type of candle work that I can do to gain his interest? I do not want him to cheat on his girl with me by any means, however, if there is a chance they are not meant to last I definitely don't see the harm. You may be wondering why I just don't ask him? It's pretty obvious and known he is in a relationship and because of the work he does I really feel if I give him my number or ask him out I will come across as a groupie and/or someone just looking for sex and that is NOT the case. To make matters even more complicated, although I do not know her personally either, his girlfriend is an associate of a good friend of mine as well.

Any suggestions? I searched the form and couldn't find any topics similar to this, however, if there is, please point me in the right direction :)

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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by Mama Micki » Sun Jul 15, 2012 4:13 pm

You could work with Attraction, which can be used to attract friendship as well as romance.
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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by 4leafclover » Sun Jul 15, 2012 5:18 pm

I thought about that, but since I don't have any personal items from him could I print out a picture and maybe use attraction oil and/or burn incense? Would that even be effective?

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Sun Jul 15, 2012 5:31 pm

Some have success with the simplest candle spell, while others cannot get results no matter what they do. Get a reading to see what your next step should be.
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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by 4leafclover » Sun Jul 15, 2012 5:42 pm

Good idea

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Sun Jul 15, 2012 5:59 pm

Look Me Over is another idea.

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Re: Spells for Adulterous Affairs and Extra-Marital Dalliance

Unread post by Babeinthewoods » Thu Aug 08, 2013 10:03 am

Hi:
I was wondering where to go from here. I like a married man and it seemed he liked me. No, I dont want to break up his marriage or mine. Whenever we all get together, the energy is amazing. He seemed so hot and heavy towards me back in November and then suddenly backed off. After he backed off, I started using the candles and oils. All it did was occasionally make him text me. I don't know why he suddenly became "cool". Although he still wants us all to get together; it seems He wont go any further than that. I want to know if there is any specific spell to make this into a physical relationship? Thanks a lot.

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