
As a person who is both a professional worker and has been a woman in love multiple times, i'd like to open the topic of "Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite" with the topic of READING. Readings come before rootwork..
My best advice: before rushing to throw roots on the situation, get a reading, and do it quickly, while the situation is still in play! You may do the reading and the work yourself or hire either part of it (the reading or the work) done for you.
You can do your own reading, using Bibliomancy, Cartomancy, Osseomancy, Pendulum Dowsing, or whatever system is fast, easy, and reliable for you.
If you do not do readings, then hire one done ASAP. It can be a quick reading of 10 or 15 minutes -- and you can get it by phone through an instant-reading site like Hoodoo Psychics at 1-888-4-HOODOO, if you are in a rush.
If you've had a fight with your lover and need a Reconciliation, then your reading will reveal that a Reconciliation spell is the right path for you. If it does not, you will have to rethink your options.
If you hire the reading done by a worker who will take on Reconciliation cases and if the reading indicates a green light for the conjure work and that the work is to be considered likely to succeed, then the reader-worker may take your case, and the job can work beautifully and may well result in a good mend to even a severe break.
Alternatively, the reader may teach you how to perform a reconciliation spell for yourself, and may give you a list of suggested spiritual supplies, prayers, and methods to work by. This is called magical coaching, and it is a good way to learn the art of hoodoo, by doing it yourself.
You can start by dressing simple household candles oils and praying over them. Here are the two most popular products we make for use in spells to get a lover to return:
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You may also choose to purchase a complete spell kit, with all instructions included, like this one:
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However, if your ex-lover is not right for you, a reading will usually reveal this -- and it may also reveal that doing a Reconciliation spell will not provide an end to the cycle of incompatibility, but will merely expend your time until the next fight or break-up, and the next, and the next -- until you finally wise up and look for a new, more compatible partner.
When this is the outcome of the reading, an ethical reader-worker will continue to be available provide readings, but will turn down the case.
When a rootworker turns down a reconciliation case, usually the client will seek out another reader, and another...
If you want to hire a reader or a rootworker, start with these two sites and look them over:
The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers (AIRR)
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/A ... ootworkers

Hoodoo Psychics at 1-888-4-HOODOO (HP)
http://hoodoopsychics.com

There are two pages at the AIRR site that are also very helpful if you are looking for a reputable root doctor:
Suggestions For Clients
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... or_Clients
Questions to Ask Your Reader, Rootworker, or Conjure Doctor
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ure_Doctor
Now, as a reader, it has been my experience that very often when i do a reading for a client that indicates that there is no hope for a Reconciliation (because he's with someone else and is happy), or tells me that the relationship is best left dead (because he's just not right for her), many of my clients refuse to believe the reading. This is why so many reader-workers are reluctant to deal with Reconciliation cases -- no matter how hopeless the reading tells us things are, a certain percentage of our clients will INSIST that we "do something."
In other words, the client (usually a woman in cases like this) ignores the reading, refuses to accept the divination, and tries to push or force me into ... taking her money for a hopeless task.
I say, "No." Other, less ethical, workers may allow themselves to be persuaded to take the money. They sometimes justify this by saying, "Well, she would have spent it with another worker, if i didn't take it."
Worst of all, there are quite a few seriously unethical workers out there who actively search for clients like this and will promise them "guaranteed results," with the predictable outcome that the client will get ripped off at each stage of the process from reading through working the spells multiple times, and the relationship will still fall apart in the end.

Finally, these books will help you -- they are filled with spells, tips, and techniques for just this kind of work!
So, having started you on a good path, by ensuring that you begin your work with a reading, let's get down to helping with spells.