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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by selenitepower » Mon May 14, 2018 2:56 pm

Thank you Sister Jean. I will follow your advise. I read on the forum that sometimes when we make it too specific it can become difficult to bring into existence? I would love to know your view on this because I was quite specific and then I cut it down to true love with a handful of qualities so that I don't cut my chances of bringing this man into my life.

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When you did your spell did you make a petition with the qualities you are looking for? Also I read you put the lovers card on your vision board. Isn't the lover card also indicative of choices? Maybe this is why you are getting ex's and past love interests coming through. I am new to spellwork so can't give much tips but this is something that crossed my mind when I read your post.

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loabeliever » Tue May 15, 2018 10:33 am

selenitepower- Hi! thank you for your reply, and omg. I never thought of it that way ...Interesting point. I never really used tarot in the past - so i wanted to try something different but hopefully someone who is more experienced than us can clarify,. I never knew the lovers card represents Indicative choices... Thank you for sharing! I am now thinking if i should revise the layout or remove the lovers tarot. Tonight is a new moon so i already plan to cleanse and revamp my alter to give it that extra boost of love but ya Lets see what the professionals advice. Thank you again Selenitepower ! wishing you all the best in your spellwork:)

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by RevJames » Tue May 15, 2018 12:03 pm

Loabeliever -

I'm a little unclear as to why/how you did a honey jar. Usually honey jars/sweetening works are done when you have a particular person in mind, and from your posts it sounds like your trying to attract someone completely unknown and new.

You want to look for products and works with the key words of "attracting a new/unknown lover" such as Come To Me - http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html - the page states "but they are[/]may also be employed to attract a new or unknown lover, to draw him or her to one "out of the universe," as it were."

Other products w/ works that may be of interest:
http://www.luckymojo.com/lookmeover.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/bewitching.html

Not love specifically but, attracting:
http://www.luckymojo.com/magnet.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

As for the ex's that are still popping up - I would suggest doing another cut and clear working. Another very important aspect of cut and clear work is said on the C&C page in Ms. Cat's personal story (which I highly suggest you read if you haven't! http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html ) - "and we no longer see each other or stay in touch via email or telephone". Don't just sever the energetic ties, as it were, sever all of the ties to these men, don't allow any connection. Be it via social networking, phone, email, etc.

Also on the C&C page is this spell which seems to fit your situation perfectly: "A MAGIC SPELL TO DESTROY YOUR PAST CONNECTION TO A LOVER OR FRIEND AND DRAW A NEW AND BETTER LOVER OR FRIEND TO YOU IN THE NEAR FUTURE (THE CUT A[N]D CLEAR SPELL)" (I would work this on the most recent relationship, to cut and clear any fresh wound and connections)

As for a tarot card that jump out at me:
Knight of Cups - a "knight in shining armor", arrival of someone to "sweep you off your feet" - Knights = Oath = Commitment - Cups = Emotional/Love

I hope one of the many works on these pages helps guide you to your new love and good luck!
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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by Sister Jean » Wed May 16, 2018 9:36 am

Thanks, RevJames!
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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loabeliever » Wed May 16, 2018 10:30 am

HI RevJames ,

Thank you for taking the time to reply to my post,Sorry i didnt specify what the honey jar was for-The honey jar is just for myself, so its the center vocal point of my spell work. Its a sweeten jar for all things i want, Its a general honey jar with general petition such as: Let my money be sweet to me, let my lover be sweet as honey to me, let my family be sweet to me, I am sweet and loving to myself.

My petition for love is worded as "My husband", "My true love", "The one god created for me" . I never specified a person. As for the cut and clear work, i have read Miss. Cat's story - and will do it again as you advised, but what i meant by feeling bad for rejecting men that keep popping up inlcuding my exes is not because we are in contact but more because i just feel bad ignoring an acting cold towards people i have no interest in. I blocked all my exes from social media and my phone but ya.

I have attraction, magnet, come to me, and love me bath crystals that i will use. I appreciate the recommendations you made i will take a look at those products as well.

As for the tarot card , thank you for sharing, do you think i should keep or remove the lovers tarot from my vision board? I wonder if thats whats causing all the exes to pop up..

Thank you again!

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by RevJames » Wed May 16, 2018 11:28 am

Loabeliever -

Ahh I think I understand what your saying about your honey jar - something akin to "A JAR FOR SWEET WISHES" as mentioned on the honey jar page. Thanks for explaining ^_^.

I guess what i'm not understanding is that if you don't have contact with these men from your past - why do you feel bad for rejecting them? You mean you feel bad for the past rejection? Either way I would still work another cut and clear as you still seem to have emotions for these men and you don't seem to want them. I understand feeling bad about it, and especially the "what might'ov been" but like the C&C page says, they obviously didn't serve you, or your highest good/potential. Sometimes doing a work once isn't enough, which is why when you are given a working by a rootworker they sometimes tell you do work it over multiple day, weeks etc. You mention multiple men, perhaps set a schedule where you can work a cut and clear working on each person that seems to be "popping back up" in order form most recently dated, to the one you dated further back in the past. That way by the time you get to the oldest love, you'll probably have forgotten or moved passed those "bad feelings" for the most recent, which is probably the hardest to let go of.

As for the men that come in that you have no interest in but still feel bad for rejecting, You might wanna look into maybe Healing - http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html - or Tranqulity - http://www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html - products to help sooth that inner turmoil. You may even look into Crucible of Courage - http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html - to help give you the courage to meet these new men without the fear of negative feelings should they not measure up. "Crucible of Courage [...] will set the scene for having a discussion with someone which you have been putting off due to anxiety about the outcome." or in this case, anxiety about the situation of letting them go easily to begin with.

Make sure you use the bath crystals in a beneficial order, like telling a story - "Love me" is one product that is again for a specific person, one you already have in your sights. - http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html - "that is, they are not used to attract a new or unknown lover."

Magnet/Attarction (general drawing, with emphasis on love - to bring you opporunity to meet new men) -> Come to me (darwing, love specific - for when you go to meet these new men, or when you go "out with the girls") -> then Love Me (Love, specific person - for when you meet someone you wanna "lock down")

The same goes with your tarot vision board layout: Knight of Cups (arrival of a man) -> Lovers (having a relationship) -> Maybe 4 of Wands/10 of Cups (Marriage) -> Ace of Cups (Your cup runneth over, love in abundance)

If none of this seems to help in the long run, it might be a good idea to get a consult from someone at AIRR (Maybe Cat since she did your reading and knows your situation) and see what might be best for you to do. http://readersandrootworkers.org/

Hope this cleared things up!
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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loabeliever » Wed May 16, 2018 1:05 pm

RevJames!

Wow., you broke that down really well for me, thank you ! I can now see where i am going wrong or misguiding my spell. The anxiety is probably something thats causing the most hurdle in my progess, i need to tweek a few things for sure. I will first start with cut and clear and do the love spells after without the love me products.

Thank you so much for answering my questions again.:)

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loabeliever » Mon Oct 01, 2018 7:33 am

Hello LM family I had something very unfortunate happened this morning and wanted to see if you guys can share any thoughts I made of sugar jar for myself and on my way to work this morning I dropped it I made it last week I’m really bummed out not sure what this means please share your thoughts

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by JayDee » Mon Oct 01, 2018 10:51 am

loabeliever ,

Generally if something breaks it means the work did not hold or someone broke through it, or it took a hit for you. This case it seems it did not hold. Dispose of the sugar and recycle the glass. Start over. I do not know the petition but I would review it and that it broke and determine the reason based on petition.
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Unread post by loabeliever » Mon Oct 01, 2018 1:14 pm

Thank you for your reply JayDee. It was a sugar jar for myself to be more sweet and kind to myself and others. For self confidence and kindness. I will remake a new one on the new moon. Thank you so much

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Unread post by JayDee » Mon Oct 01, 2018 2:31 pm

loabeliever,

Because your work was personal work to improve and work on yourself and it broke, it indicates you will have a break, ie not be so nice coming up. I would cleanse yourself and wear a good oil like tranqulity to be calm. Pray the lords prayer along with 23 Psalms asking to be kind and patient to all. Recreate the jar and be careful moving it!
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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loabeliever » Mon Oct 01, 2018 7:37 pm

Thank you again JayDee for your insight. I will cleanse and continue to protect myself- by next Monday I should be able to gather my materials to redo the spell on a new moon. Appreciate you :)

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loveremains » Sun Oct 14, 2018 7:23 am

Do I need to keep the communication open to make love spells work? Would the target be affected but refuse to initiate communication if we haven’t talked for a while?
Thanks a lot.

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Unread post by JayDee » Sun Oct 14, 2018 7:33 am

loveremains,

You do not need communication for love spells to work, however, its a lot easier when you are lol. IT seems to beg the question, why are you doing love work on someone you dont speak with? It is possible with stubborn people not to communicate. IF there was a fight, consider adding reconciliation to work, reciting pslams 23 and 32 together to return them to you. Use Balm of GIlead buds to help ease the past hurts. A great product to get someone to speak again is deers tongue herb, use it with the intention to make them communicate. Tobacco is also another herb used to make people communicate, puff the smoke into a photo of the target, telling him what to do. Puff the smoke into a skull candle to make it talk put deers tongue herb on the mouth of the candle. Take tobacco with mercury oil and yellow wax write a petition for the person to contact you, fold the paper up tight, then kneed soft wax and tobacco together around the petition as you pray fo them to communicate with you, to talk with you. Make a ball and let it dry. Keep it next to the form of communication you are using ( phone for call or text, computer for email or PM, mailbox for letters).
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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loveremains » Sun Oct 14, 2018 8:43 am

Last time we met, I showed him my interest, but he didn’t follow up with me. Although we didn’t fight, I feel it’s a bit awkward to start talking to him again. I’ve had readings done and was told that he was attracted, but didn’t want to commit. We haven’t talked for a long time so I’m thinking maybe I should break the silence...
I did use deer’s tongue and mercury oil. Thanks for the great suggestions!

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loveremains » Fri Oct 26, 2018 6:00 pm

Despite positive feelings from the work and dreams I had, I made contact after four months just asking how he’s doing, but haven’t received a response. I’ve been working on him for almost a month now, and I’m feeling really frustrated and depressed that he didn’t even reply. There’s never been fight between us. In readings, I was told it’s his nature not wanting to commit. Other than moving on, what would you suggest in this situation? Should I not contact again after a few months?
Appreciate your thoughts.

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by JayDee » Fri Oct 26, 2018 6:10 pm

loveremains ,

The reading indicated he is not the commitment type, you cant make a leapord change its spots. It is his nature, you cant change a persons nature. A selfish person will always be selfish. You can work on them, can minimize it, but its still them. I know how you feel and have been their with a lover in the past who was a great match, loved em, but at the end of the day they will never change and I learned. I cut and cleared and moved on. This post is about getting new lovers, if they not responding it seems they not taking the bite. Its often suggested to set a rime frame work that time frame and stop thereafter. Reason? because you can get pulled into this endless trying without real change in situation, I know people 10 years deep on an ex and still struggle to let go, yet its been 10 years!!! I am sorry buy my best advise is move on and cut and clear to find a new person better. IF you wish to keep working on them, try follow me (boy or girl) attraction and come to me. There is a spell in cats book using cat nip with whisky and 3 7 knob candles to draw a lover ,it may be worth a try. But set a time frame and stick to it.
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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by Sweethoney » Sun Nov 04, 2018 11:08 am

Hello,

I have a question about attracting someone I like but who barely knows I exist! I do have his picture and name but nothing else.

What would you suggest I do in this scenario?

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by JayDee » Mon Nov 05, 2018 7:38 am

Sweethoney,

A honey jar with his photo and a description of the person. Use come to me oil and love drawing products including herbs such as rose petals, juniper berry, lodestones.
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Unread post by Sweethoney » Mon Nov 05, 2018 10:34 am

Thank you so much! I will get started with it soon. I did a simple red candle spell with some herbs. It burned steadily and clean, nothing left on the glass holder except for remains of the herbs in what looks like a faint heart shape (or is it my mind being fanciful!). I have a bar of catnip soap under which I have his photo and a petition.

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by JayDee » Mon Nov 05, 2018 5:40 pm

Sweethoney,

Sounds like a nice start of items. Catnip is great to draw a male lover. Simple spells are still powerful spells never underestimate a candle and a strong prayer!
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