Spells to Bless Strengthen Assist Relationship Marriage

[Sister Jean]

Hello Dani1993,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum.

I'm sorry to say it, but this lady gave you flat-out bad advice. Freezer spells aren't used to strengthen a love connection, they're used to freeze someone *out of your life.* So you're right to want to undo it. Take the spell out of the freezer and let everything thaw out. Pray over it as it thaws (you don't have to pray the entire time it takes to thaw) that everything in this spell is frozen no more, and your target is released from the spell's effects. Take the remnants to a crossroads.

Then, start fresh with a honey jar, to sweeten your husband toward you and strengthen your relationship:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Good luck to you.

[EssaelBosch]

I met my current partner six months ago and during that time, though we were very close, it was never an official or exclusive relationship. Last month he met another woman and said we would no longer be able to be involved (understandably, and that was as we had agreed to start with). However, after two dates with this woman, he realised that he didn't want to be with anyone else and told me as much. We talked about it at great length and as a result we are now in a loving, committed, and monogamous relationship. A happy ending, if not with some pain woven in because I did lose him for a while and that hurt a lot.

We are very happy together but I am insecure (and I admit totally irrationally so) and in the back of my mind I am still worried about losing him again. Can anyone recommend a working to protect a relationship from negative influences, both from outside and inside a relationship (my current need for regular reassurance is becoming unhealthy, though he is very understanding about it). Maybe something that also works to strengthen and purify a current relationship? It is against my general principles to work in any way which would influence anyone (or even myself) against their will, so I wouldn't want something that would be to "keep us together", because relationships can naturally fail and you wouldn't want to be unknowingly trapped within a failed/unwanted relationship. I just want to protect what we have and reinforce it. Thoughts?

[Sister Jean]

Hello EssaelBosch,

If you don't want to influence anyone, not even yourself, that's your business, but that tentativeness isn't a part of hoodoo. You could work a honey jar for you and your partner, to keep the two of you sweet toward each other, but you may view that as influencing your will and his. So it's up to you. You can read more about honey jars here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Take care.

[EssaelBosch]

Sister Jean - I do understand my hesitation is defeating the object somewhat. It's not a concrete rule, but a guideline I like to stick to at least when it comes to matters of the heart. I have done a Honey Jar working before to ease tensions in a shared house, so have some experience with it. Using one does seem like a solid idea, so thanks!

[JAD82017]

Hi,

This is my first post here but I've been following/reading everything I can for awhile now. I've bought from lucky mojo twice as well. Anyways, I'm in need of some assistance and was wondering if anyone had some advice? My boyfriend and I were in a relationship for 11mths, everything was great but then life began to get in the way. He was juggling multiple jobs, having issues with living conditions, his car, etc. I'm juggling being a single mom and work. We don't live in the same city which makes it difficult as well :/ We we're doing really great but last week we split up. I'd like to hope we just need a break and to figure life out. We agreed to still stay friends and we do have a gathering/wedding to attend together in a few months so I was wondering if a honey jar would be appropriate? I'd like to reconcile and while I'd love to pick up where we left off I know it's best that we take things slow and figure our obstacles out before jumping two feet in again. I began a honey jar but I didn't pay attention to the moon phase and it was waning when I began it. Should I start another jar? Can I use the items I have in this jar in the new one? A picture of us, his hand writing & a condom we used. Again, I'm not looking to jump back into love, I want to do things right this time and take them slow, work through our life obstacles together. Any help you can give me would be appreciated. I have Come to me oil and Returm to me oil on the way & I have pink and red candles I burn on top of my jar. The candles leave very little wax which I'm hoping is a good sign despite me creating it on the wrong moon phase. Should I just wait until the new moon to begin praying on the jar I already have created or will it get confused? Thanks so much for any help/advise you can offer me!

[Sister Jean]

Hello JAD82017,

Not all spiritual workers do their spells by the moon phases, so I don't think you need to trash this jar just because you started it during the waning moon. Just keep working it. And I like the idea of "keeping the flame alive" in a steady but gentle way while you two take the time you need and get your lives back in order. This sounds like solid work.

Good luck to you.

[JAD82017]

Hi Sister Jean,

Thank you so much for your reply! I burnt a free standing candle on top again last night (I'm going to do M,W & F) and it was a clean burn, steady flame for the most part but sometimes when I would speak to it, the flame would rise up. Is that normal? Also, we spoke last night. I initiated it because I needed confirmation on whether or not we were still sharing a hotel for the wedding we are going to. His reply was "yes ma'am" and nothing more. I'm slightly disappointed in his reply but I guess it's a good thing since we'll be spending 3 days together. Finally, I had a reading done and the woman that did it said that there was hope & suggested that I write "Return to me" on a pink candle for 7 days. I know you said not all spiritual workers do their working by the moon phases but I was wondering if you think I should do her suggestion according to the moon phase and whether or not that should be on top of my jar or something completely separate? Thank you so much for your time!

[Miss Aida]

Hello, JAD82017,

Yes, flames rising when talking to it does occur frequently.

As far as your second question, this is entirely up to you. We can only guide with suggestions and choices.

What does your heart say? Use your intuition!

Take care!

[JAD82017]

Thank you!

[JAD82017]

Good morning,

Sorry to bother again! So, last night I got this overwhelming urge to create another honey jar. I have no idea why and for some reason I felt like I should reuse the items in my original honey jar- combine them if you will. So after about two hours of prep work and the strangest feeling of being led to do this jar, I finally completed it. I wrote our names 7 times each in a tic-tac toe board type fashion. I wrote my desire without lifting my pen in a circle around our names and then I placed two pictures of us together inside that paper, our full names and birthdays on the back of both pictures. I put personal items (a piece of his boxers, two items of his writing-one of them saying I love you- & a used condom) in the center along with rose petals and ginger. Folded it towards me then tied a rubber band around it because it wouldn't stay folded. Placed honey on top of it along with two pink hearts, one with his name and birth, the other with mine, both magnetized. I put a blue candle on top for communication (Wednesday being good for communication workings too) and was planning on doing an orange tonight to open any road blocks. I'm not trying to force him into loving me, I'm just trying to keep the flame we had alive until our lives are settled and less hectic.
Now, like I mentioned before, I had this overwhelming urge to create this new jar. I had asked in a previous post if I should make a second jar due to it being the waning moon when I created my original jar and I was basically told no, moon phases don't always matter so I had decided to just keep the original then last night I felt like I was being pulled to create the second. I did everything I mentioned above, glued a picture of our hands intertwined to the inside of the lid then closed it. I meditated and spoke to it as if I were speaking to him. Then I decided to decorate the jar on a whim. I took silver and gold glass marker and started writing the qualities I want in our relationship (happiness, communication, etc) and put some stickers on it I had found from Valentine's Day. It FELT right last night, all of it. The blue candle burned down and left very little wax I felt like it was successful. However, I woke up this morning and I was emotional. I want to chalk it up to the anniversary of my friends death but I'm not sure, I can't decide if what I did last night was right or not? Also, I can't remember if when I wrote my petition I went through and crossed my T's and dotted my i's... If I didn't would that screw the whole thing up? Can I go back to look or would unfolding it screw it all up? Thanks for reading. Any and all help is appreciated!

[Waspqueen28]

My partner and I of 5 and a half years are getting married in a couple weeks-August 5th 2017. I am thrilled to marry him, he's my best friend. I am feeling a lot of anxiety, though about the wedding day and days leading up. We are hosting all our family and friends on the off grid property we have been caretaking for the past year. It's beautiful out here, but for some it will really be roughing it. We don't have an inside space, just a tent. We live in Western NC which tends to rain like crazy on most summer afternoons. I'm wondering if there is a spell or blessing I can do to encourage good weather.

Furthermore, my family stresses me out a lot. I am wanting to feel at ease, supported and relaxed on our wedding weekend. Around my family I tend to feel dumb, irresponsible, and little. Hoping to show my family the beautiful life I lead and not fall into the guilt ridden role I tend to hold in our family.

And one more thing! (Sorry) I'm supposed to start bleeding on our wedding day. I tend to have VERY painful periods, and crave alone time during them. Any blessing to encourage a pain-free, meaningful, grounded and more extroverted period?

Thanks a million!

[Miss Aida]

Hello, JAD82017

These questions are impossible to answer without a reading

I'm sorry

But I can answer your last question: don't open up the petition paper.

Just try to have some patience and don't second guess yourself

Yu can always add a second petition paper to it

take care

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Waspqueen28 ,

Congratulations!

You could always petition one of the Saints for assistance

www.luckymojo.com/patronsaints.html

Again, congrats!

[Waspqueen28]

Thank you Miss Aida! When one petitions a saint, what do you do? Pray to it? Make an altar? Light candles? Something else?

[Sister Jean]

Hello Waspqueen28,

Praying to a saint and creating a small altar dedicated to them on which you light candles is customary, but the offerings and altars can vary according to whom the altar is for. So, figure out who you're going to work with, and then learn about that particular saint.

Take care.

[seekinginsight]

Greetings,
I regret that I had an affair last year. I'm working things out with my spouse. I've cut off all contact w/the other person. I'm giving my all to address this situation: I'm getting weekly therapy. I've built a relationship w/a local Baba; I consulted a local conjurer to do protection work & trust work; my spouse & I have built ancestral altars so ancestors can bless our efforts.I'm doing salt baths & hyssop baths, etc. There's progress. but there's one major issue that worries me:

Independently of each other, w/my therapist & my Baba each clarified that my affair was an outlet from the co-dependency in my marriage. My wife is an amazing go-getter. I realized about 2 years in the marriage that she has a learning disability that hinders her writing. She's so smart that people in her community either didn't notice or said "she's smart so she'll be fine." So she got no specialized help growing up. She's been able to get several degrees w/this disability. But in her current program, it's catching up w/her. Her department is a mess, the profs don't support the students, & the semesters are very short. It got so bad that over the past year & a half I composed her papers for her since her anxiety & disability hinder her writing. This is unsustainable for me, both in principle (I'm a teacher too!) & personally, because it's a serious imbalance.

The problem is that my wife will not acknowledge this work I've done, or admit that this "help" has taken an unhealthy turn. If I bring this up, she says I don't give enough in the relationship anyway & that I really don't want her to finish the program, that I'm jealous of her potential success. The therapist & the Baba each said she's holding on to these accusations to avoid facing herself, dealing w/self-doubt, feeling like she owes me, etc. It's so bad that even my mother-in-law is worried & called my mom about this. That's a big deal because the learning disability's genetic. My father-in-law used to do my mother-in-law's work in her grad school program too. THEY DIVORCED PARTLY OVER THIS IMBALANCE.

What spells can help my wife face herself on this matter? or reveal to her that I want her to succeed, but if I keep doing this for her, it'll work against her in the long-run? What can I do on my own behalf? It's so dispiriting being accused of not caring even when I'm doing the work she won't do for herself. I do NOT want to cheat anymore. I want us to face this, grow & heal together. thanks for any insight!

[Sister Jean]

Hello seekinginsight,

This sounds like a very complicated situation, and I think a good first step would be to get a reading to find out what would be the best course of action. You can find readers here:

http://hoodoopsychics.com/
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Take care.

[catherineyronwode]

Hello seekinginsight --

In addition to consulting a reader, preferably an astrologer, to view the long-term prognosis, i would suggest some simple work around these ideas: Clarity, (King Solomon) Wisdom, and (Crucible of) Courage. Simple white candles dressed with these oils -- small candles, even tea lights -- with suitable orayers for the marriage, such as Psalms 45, would help.

Best of luck to you.

[mizznana002]

Hey everyone,
I just had a question I'm having a situation where I'm trying to fix my relationship with my significant other but I had a little fling(no sex) with his best friend while we were together and he is now becoming suspicious and having dreams about it. I dont want him to find out from the friend or anyone else and I dont kjow oh if he knows but how can I magically keep this a secret and keep him from finding out?

[Miss Nikki]

Greetings, mizznana0002.

I recommend stop gossip. Stop gossip does exactly as its named. Here is the link to Lucky Mojo’s stop gossip products:

http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

Good luck!

Miss Nikki

[seekinginsight]

Thank you, sistajean and catherineyronwoode for your suggestions. I'll share a brief update as it may help others.

I followed your advice & consulted a reader. The baba, therapist & reader each said this a pivotal time where the marriage can be rejuvenated IF my wife chooses to join me in reconciling. The reader, who is skilled in astrology, clarified what's at stake. My wife married me partly to avoid facing certain issues in her life since she thought I could fill in those gaps (including her educational process). She doesn't understand that she's been tasked with disrupting patterns that have troubled her family for generations. She started sub-consciously running from this well before I met her. Her ancestors are looking to bless her (& anyone else in the family) financially, health-wise, etc, for stepping up to do this. As it stands, she still can't see what she'll gain from facing herself and, by extension, her family's long-term struggles. Either she can approach this in an affirmative way or she can run from it only to run smack into it.

My challenge is to accept that I cannot "fix" this; only she can do it. I am supposed to stay consistent in working on myself (keep praying, keep doing my baths, and getting help) & give her the space to "grow" as her ancestors want her to do... or not. It's difficult knowing things could go either way. But I won't be the excuse for her not stepping up. I love her & want to show respect to her ancestors. So i'm doing my best to fellow the guidance I'm receiving from several sources.

[Sister Jean]

Hello seekinginsight,

Thank you for keeping us updated on your situation, and for following the advice of the professionals you have consulted. I hope you back up this knowledge with the spellwork suggestions that Miss Cat gave you.

Take care.

[purplekisses]

Hello everyone,

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we've had ups and downs and sideways, but we love each other and always find a way to resolve our issues. I've posted about him before a loooong time ago during a time he got super angry at me and I freaked out. Since then we've gone to couples counseling which has helped us a lot!!!

I should mention that he is a Scorpio (I'm a Capricorn woman), so his emotions can get on the intense side with anybody. He is definitely not abusive, but what scares me is that he will get fed up and leave me (hello, abandonment issues!). He says he's not going anywhere but I still worry sometimes. We were doing really well lately until last night/this morning. He's an asst coach and was upset I didn't attend a game last night even though I'm attending another one tonight, and have been to several this fall so far. I also didn't think I would make it in time last night after getting off work and would've had traffic. After he ignored some calls and texts from me he called and I apologized for not communicating more about it. Not sure if he's accepted this apology but at least he spoke to me..right?

My question is how do I manage his moodiness whenever it strikes to keep us moving forward? I started a honey jar on him in May and put a couple rose petals in it from a bouquet he got for my granny. I can't remember if I put some of his hair in it, but I have more pieces of his hair that I could add. I usually burn a white candle dressed with Reconciliation oil on top of this jar. I've also dressed a white candle with Clearing & Unblocking oil too. Can I add something else? Any advice would be appreciated.

[Edward T]

Purplekisses
I’m happy for you that things have reconciled with the two of you. Relationships do need maintaining. The honey jar is great. I would add any personal concerns of his into the jar to strengthen it, ( hair) is perfect.
I would also suggest doing more contact work with him, fixing his food,( lunches, dinner, cookies.) this in addition with the honey jar will be great. I would suggest reading this book Hoodoo Food.
http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoofood.html
Best of luck to you. Edward T

[purplekisses]

So my bf and I don't live together. (I'm moving into my own place in a month and will be closer to him though.) I've made attempts to cook for him this week, but he's barely speaking to me. He just replies to my good morning texts. I just talked to him for the first time in 6 days and he doesn't sound interested in talking to me. He's good for doing this and I hate it because I get scared he's going to leave (abandonment issues I have). I also don't know what to say or do to fix things either. I've just been giving him space.

I know this Venus retrograde could have something to do with it all and sadly it doesn't end until after his birthday. (Ends Nov 16, his bday is the 15th). Does anyone have any other suggestions? I've had a mojo bag for him for several months and fed it again a couple days ago.

[JayDee]

purplekisses ,

A honey jar to sweeten him to you, you can feed him the honey too, also feed your period blood when you have the chance, of crouse pray and petition over it. Deers tongue can be used to make someone talk. Love powders used on him as well as oils like come to me, follow me boy, love me, fiery love oil. Catnip is a great item to make him crazy about you. You can make a bath with it and soak then use the water to cook or make a drink for him. A skull candle to influence his thoughts, or figure candles one of you one of his with lodestones to draw him to you with the honey jar are also great ways to draw in.