Hello, Enjoy_the_Silence / Lauren --
We are attempting to respond to three ideas here:
1) You are expressing a belief in a world-view which includes the concepts of twin souls and/or soul mates.
Either people believe in the concept of "twin souls" and "soul mates" or they don't. It looks like some of us here do and some don't.
Among those who agree with the concept, some of us are careful to describe the relationship as invariably one that is symmetrical, not one-sided.
Among those who disagree with the concept, some have gone on to state that they believe the concept is untenable based on their own cultural training or on their own personal experience history.
Additionally, most of us here consider marriage to be a special state and since the man is married, we will not recommend that you attempt to break up the marriage.
This forum is not a suitable venue to argue either the cosmological issues regarding "twin souls" or the moral, legal, and religious considerations regarding the sanctity or status of marriage. We have stated our relative positions. Let's move on.
2) You have identified yourself as suffering from a severe medical condition. We hear that you are "depressed," and for us that triggers a social cue:
We are bound to not overlook your statement, but rather to guide you toward therapeutic medical intervention for the sake of your own health. We do not want people to attempt to substitute magical spell-work for MEDICAL diagnosis and therapy, and depression is a serious MEDICAL diagnosis.
3) We are here to help you select and use Lucky Mojo spiritual supplies and products in spell-casting according to the traditions of African American hoodoo folk-magic.
You have not expressed any familiarity with Southern folk magic or any interest in our supplies, but rather you are asking for "guidance." Later you said you wanted a "clairvoyant" reading or a psychometry reading on photographs.
In terms of spiritual guidance, clairvoyant readings, and psychometric photography readings, we always recommend the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers. You may contact individual members through the AIRR site:http://readersandrootworkers.org
We have also offered a few magical suggestions, but most of us have asked you to consider putting any plans you have about purchasing Lucky Mojo products or using hoodoo supplies in spell-casting on hold until you get the medical condition of depression under treatment.
We are consistent in this approach and you will find many other examples in this forum of our asking potential clients and customers to get medical assistance for depression before undertaking the purchase and use of magical spiritual supplies.
Good luck to you!