Spells to Stop Thinking of, Loving, or Dreaming of an Ex

midnight12 · Unread post by **midnight12** » Thu Nov 26, 2015 10:17 pm

Hey, Miss Aida!
Thank you so much for your reply!!
I definitely would've loved closure with him- he's the only man i've ever felt this connected to. Even when considering relationships I had with my husband and my first love (both of which I had been with for 3-6 years each), he just “knew” me in ways no one ever had. We've mutually shared psychic moments before during the short time we'd known each other. He wasn't shocked by this and neither was I at that moment- but, looking back at it now, this is certainly not a connection that just happens everyday. We literally, mutually felt like we had known each other forever. The spells I performed were three honey jars (each with a petition paper and love drawing herbs), one only had the petition paper and herbs, another jar had his picture, and the last jar had his fluids. I burned red and pink candles on each of them, alternating. Several times, I saw the wax spell out the letters love and saw many wax hearts formed. One of the last times, I saw what looked like him laying on my chest- which ironically, was the way he was laying on me the last time I saw him. I also did a 7 day red candle spell on his picture, and lastly I did a white candle spell to have him show all the feelings he had for me (ironically this was the night before the last time we saw each other). I never added any of my fluids or personal effects to any of the spells, only my name on the name paper. Maybe I unknowingly bound myself to him just using my name on the petition paper?

After receiving a reading that told me the other woman had a hold on him, but that he did really care about me, I disposed of everything in the trash. I wonder, if he is indeed thinking of me, could that psychic link we shared earlier pick up on this, bringing residual feelings to the fore? I literally can feel when he's thinking of me because I can see him somewhere in my mind's eye at that exact moment. Its very strange to explain. I had signs of the same nature when I was working on the situation- seeing the color/make/model of his car, his name everywhere, hearing songs we both like, and hearing/seeing weird things that were pretty overt, like words/statements that seemed coded just for me to pick up on.

Back in October I did the full cut and clear spell (after disposing of all spell work) and felt excellent after for weeks. I didn't think about him much, and had felt rid of him but here I am over a month later now and feeling just as lovesick as I did before. I'm definitely going to take your advice and do the bath as well as an additional cut and clear! I will say my heart is throbbing for him- its so hard to understand why the cut and clear worked well one minute and is now having no effect on me the next. Maybe if he is thinking of me, its reignited this psychic connection we had earlier on?

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Nov 26, 2015 10:49 pm

Hello, midnight12 ,

it's a very strong possibility.

Let's see what happens...

Good luck!

Ev96 · Unread post by **Ev96** » Wed Dec 16, 2015 6:11 am

Hi,

This is really long but I feel I need to explain what has happened.

Basically, I used to date a guy who I still work with to this day - we started dating in March/April this year. Everything was amazing, he made loads of effort, we were with each other a lot and we told each other a lot of stuff. He was suffering with depression (before he even met me) but when we got together I didn't know or notice it, until it got progressively worse to the point of him not wanting to go out, not texting me back etc and I took it personally (I maybe should've tried to handle it better but I'm not 20 yet so I struggled). Still, I did everything I could including mental health research, buying him herbal medicines etc. and we were still together for a bit. Anyway we mutually split in the summer, but were still seeing each other for each month that passed.

Anyways, I wanted more again and for things to be how they were, not just random kinda hookups after nights out etc. So I did some love spells over time, not all at once. I did a phone charm contact me one which worked and he text me one night and a red candle spell with 7 pins, and one or two other ones along the way which I can't remember off the top of my head.

So, since about October, the energy between us has only been getting worse and worse, until now when it's horribly bad. We ignore each other in work, and when he looks at me it's definitely not with affection but almost more disdain.

The only way I can describe it is a massive energy shift, like the opposite to how it was naturally when we got together with no spells involved. Maybe the love spells have backfired, or the love has gone to me instead of him and therefore I'm pushing him away. He is on my mind 24/7, I'm not sleeping until like 3am every night and it's bothering me so much how much he seemingly hates me now.

Do you think I should cast a cleansing spell on myself and/or him to get rid of all the negativity?

I don't want to cut all ties with him and do separation type things because my feelings are still there for him, but I need to get rid of all this energy surrounding us.

I don't know what to do, but it's draining me so much.

Any help is greatly appreciated. Thank-you.

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Dec 16, 2015 8:58 pm

I recommend that you move on. The situation has been unfulfilling for you for a long time. A man who wants "random hookups" is not worth your time.

Consider a Black Walnut bath spell to rid yourself of recurrent feelings, and then a run of three Love Drawing baths to draw in new love. You can do it.

Ev96 · Unread post by **Ev96** » Thu Dec 17, 2015 4:15 pm

Thank-you so much for your reply. I still feel like there are a few things left unsaid that are bothering me, but the way things have gone between us, I don't feel right now like I can open up to him like I used to.
You mentioned the black walnut bath spell? Do you know if there's a link to the description of the spell? Or how long it takes people to become effective?
Thank-you

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Dec 17, 2015 7:07 pm

Hello, Ev96,

Yes, there is: www.herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html

The timing? Only Spirit knows the answer to that. Magic works differently on everybody

I hope this helps

Wishing you the very best

Spiritbrialisa · Unread post by **Spiritbrialisa** » Mon Apr 25, 2016 5:10 pm

My soon-to-be ex husband has stolen money from me, after all I have done for him (including going to bat for him when someone tried to scam him, getting nearly $8,000 dollars back for him). I knew he was an asshole sometimes but to be honest, it hurts so much that he could burn me this way. I taught him how to drive, how to write a check even...I also feel like a dummy for being so giving, but that's beside the point.

When I threatened to tell his military leadership, he threatened me to basically keep my mouth shut or else. So telling them or the authorities is NOT an option for me. But I honestly am living somewhat in fear.

The money isn't everything, but I am stunned someone could be so evil after everything. I was flabbergasted. I didn't want to try a revenge spell (scared of those), but I desperately wanted him to at least reap what he has sown. I spoke to a root worker (I didn't get a reading, just told her a quick rundown of the situation and threats, etc), and her advice was that he's not going to give the money back, to keep my mouth shut and don't tell on him and let him go about his business and don't try a revenge spell because it won't work on him. SO, I took her advice, I think it is sound advice.

She suggested candles to burn to keep him away from me.

Now I am just at a loss and having a very hard time wrapping my head around this and moving on. What I really wanted was someone to give me was at least some comfort in knowing that he will at least reap what he's sown...or at that some way I could do something to get the universe to restore the same amount of money that was stolen in another way or from another source. Just some piece of hope that wouldn't leave me feeling like a giant loser in all this. I am honestly at a loss and having trouble letting this all go.

Is there anything I can do to feel better at least?

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Apr 25, 2016 6:08 pm

Spiritbrialisa --

You have asked for advice about this situation before -- in the Cut and Clear Vigil Light thread, and also in a thread on how to have casual sex with no emotional attachments. My advice it that you do a Black Walnut Bath and a Cut and Clear spell for your own good.

When you seek out a reader, you will be given advice. It is not productive to come here and tell us that you wanted "someone to ... give [you] comfort." Readers are not professional sympathizers. Take the reader's advice or leave it -- that is your choice -- but we cannot change the advice that was given to you. If you want another reading, then hire another reader! That is fine too -- it's like going to a second doctor for a second opinion. Just don't start in on "shopping for readers" -- that is a waste of your money and your time.

Basically, as i understand it, you don't want to curse him, but you wanted to hire a reader to tell you that God will curse him for you. I advise you that few readers will pretend to be God or to speak for God. Therefore, i think you should pray your desire to God yourself. I advise the following selected verses of Psalms 109:

Psalms 109

King James Bible

1 Hold not thy peace, O God of my praise;

2 For the mouth of the wicked and the mouth of the deceitful are opened against me: they have spoken against me with a lying tongue.

3 They compassed me about also with words of hatred; and fought against me without a cause.

4 For my love they are my adversaries: but I give myself unto prayer.

5 And they have rewarded me evil for good, and hatred for my love.

6 Set thou a wicked man over him: and let Satan stand at his right hand.

7 When he shall be judged, let him be condemned: and let his prayer become sin.

8 Let his days be few; and let another take his office.

11 Let the extortioner catch all that he hath; and let the strangers spoil his labour.

14 Let the iniquity of his fathers be remembered with the LORD; and let not the sin of his mother be blotted out.

15 Let them be before the LORD continually, that he may cut off the memory of them from the earth.

16 Because that he remembered not to shew mercy, but persecuted the poor and needy man, that he might even slay the broken in heart.

17 As he loved cursing, so let it come unto him: as he delighted not in blessing, so let it be far from him.

18 As he clothed himself with cursing like as with his garment, so let it come into his bowels like water, and like oil into his bones.

19 Let it be unto him as the garment which covereth him, and for a girdle wherewith he is girded continually.

20 Let this be the reward of mine adversaries from the LORD, and of them that speak evil against my soul.

21 But do thou for me, O GOD the Lord, for thy name's sake: because thy mercy is good, deliver thou me.

22 For I am poor and needy, and my heart is wounded within me.

23 I am gone like the shadow when it declineth: I am tossed up and down as the locust.

24 My knees are weak through fasting; and my flesh faileth of fatness.

25 I became also a reproach unto them: when they looked upon me they shaked their heads.

26 Help me, O LORD my God: O save me according to thy mercy:

27 That they may know that this is thy hand; that thou, LORD, hast done it.

28 Let them curse, but bless thou: when they arise, let them be ashamed; but let thy servant rejoice.

29 Let mine adversaries be clothed with shame, and let them cover themselves with their own confusion, as with a mantle.

30 I will greatly praise the LORD with my mouth; yea, I will praise him among the multitude.

31 For he shall stand at the right hand of the poor, to save him from those that condemn his soul.

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Fri Jul 01, 2016 12:33 pm

Hi everyone,
I am involved with someone and have been for awhile. While this person is completely single , I have suspected that they may still be hung up on the last girl they dated . Revently I found out that he is still in love with her. They don't see eachother and she's moved on and moved very far away.

This has really been preventing us from moving forward and Id basically like this person to focus their attention on me and stop being so obsessed with this girl. They aren't involved so I don't know if a full breakup spell is required? I just want him to stop being in love with her and let her go, and focus that energy and attention all on me. I'm not sure the best approach given that they haven't dated or seen eachother in over a year. I was thinking maybe a vinegar Jar to sour his feelings towards her? I have a photo of Both of them and his personal concerns but none of hers.

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Jul 01, 2016 12:41 pm

Hi Olivialeigh,

I have moved your post to the appropriate thread. Please read through the posts here as I am sure you will find something to help your partner cut his emotional ties to his ex. Cut & Clear would be a good way to go, as it is designed to do just that.

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

If you still have questions after reading, feel free to post them here.

Good luck.

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Fri Jul 01, 2016 1:01 pm

Hi miss Athena, I thought cut and clear was only for yourself? I wasn't aware I could cut and clear two people from eachother that weren't aware of it or wanted it.

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Jul 01, 2016 6:12 pm

Hi Olivialeigh,

Ideally, it is used for oneself but it can sometimes be effective on another person or by proxy. I have seen it be effective that way, but that is not to suggest it will work in this case. It is worth trying, though.

You can find ideas in this thread and if you still have questions, ask away.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Sun Jul 03, 2016 6:13 am

Thank You Miss Athena! I will certainly try it. What harm can it do. I guess I will use his personal concerns in the candle to give it some extra kick and for it directly to him. Sadly I do not have hers but maybe this will be enough.

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jul 04, 2016 2:04 pm

Hello, Olivialeigh ,

Continue your vinegar jar also.

Every 2 months, deploy it and start another one until he is completely soured to her.

You can even perform skull candles on him and keep telling him what a piece of shit she is. www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html

Wishing you the best

take care

Luckyyone · Unread post by **Luckyyone** » Wed Aug 24, 2016 8:09 pm

Please forgive me if this is not on the correct thread...

I'm getting a little movement... And I'm happy but recently I've been a lot more impatient and wanting his affection. I miss his affection so much, he was so affectionate towards me and now I have no idea if he even misses me.

I have access to his email and he's still trying to hit up other girls on this dating site. Why does it seem like he wants to come back but he's resisting and trying to hit up other girls? I'm wondering if I can do a cut and clear on myself only but I still want to work on him. When we were in a relationship, he was faithful and loyal but seems now like he really wants to talk to other women. I just need something for me right now, so I can let go a bit...

Miss Aida · Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Aug 24, 2016 10:18 pm

Hello, Luckyyone ,

Based on everything that you have said on the forum, you want him.

So cut and clear is not the spell for you.

I think you need tranquility to calm yourself down, have patience, and let your spells work.

www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html

I think this will help tremendously

Wishing you the very best

take care

sweetdiamond · Unread post by **sweetdiamond** » Sun May 13, 2018 3:07 pm

Hi - This is my first time posting, so forgive me if this is not the correct section: I have working on a man (my soulmate according to a reading) since January..through someone else without any concrete results . We have a great friendship ... and we are business partners. My reading with LM rootworker - states that a hex was placed on us to keep us from connecting romantically and that he realize on me for his spiritual and emotional support...while he sexually plays the field

... But I need more and do not want to wait around until he decides that he is ready for a relationship. I need help with releasing him from my thoughts and emotions while we manage our retail store, so that I can move on and meet someone and see where that goes .... But, I also want him to fall in love with me...with me, even though I believe he is... but in the meantime, I need my thoughts and emotions settled regarding this man. My reading with LM started the hex removing candle for me - I also have a phone consultation scheduled for later this month. If anyone can advise on what avenue would be best in this type of situation - I would appreciate it. Oh, I also started burning candles at home about a month ago - - -all burn with a slight fog.

Sister Jean · Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat May 19, 2018 10:53 am

Hello sweetdiamond,

So, you want your feelings for this man to subside but you want him to fall in love with you? I don't think you can have it both ways here. But if you indeed want to forget about him for the time being at least, read through the other posts in this thread for more ideas. Here are ideas for love spells you can do on him:

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

Take care.

sweetdiamond · Unread post by **sweetdiamond** » Sun May 20, 2018 1:38 pm

Thank You

Deliciousdonut · Unread post by **Deliciousdonut** » Tue Sep 25, 2018 9:49 pm

And I want to clear my mind and focus on me and getting me together and sticking to my diet, it’s just to much working trying to make this dead relationship work and some one tell me what candles I need to make this happen??

Edward T · Unread post by **Edward T** » Wed Sep 26, 2018 5:12 am

Hello Deliciousdonut.
Love the name!! Donuts are tasty. I agree with you that focusing on your self should be a priority. I have been in the beauty industry for 32 yrs. I know how important it is for a lady to feel good about herself. I would recommend getting a consultation with a hairdresser to see what hair styles will compliment your features. Then take a white candle with your petition and goals on what it is you want and dress it with the following oils. For you own self confidence, you can work magically with Crucible of Courage, Healing, Crown of Success, and other such formulas. To get others to notice you, you can do Look Me Over work.
http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-healing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/crownofsuccess.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/lookmeover.html
Then make yourself a vision board.
There is a beautiful person in everyone, so let it shine. Thomas K

Deliciousdonut · Unread post by **Deliciousdonut** » Wed Sep 26, 2018 2:05 pm

Thomas K, Thank you for my screen name compliment, and thank you for letting me know what I should get, I will be buying the items, I have one question do I wear some of the oils when I go out?

Edward T · Unread post by **Edward T** » Wed Sep 26, 2018 4:46 pm

Hello Deliciousdonuts.
Absolutely, wear it with pride. May you have confidence and succeed.
Blessings. Thomas K

Deliciousdonut · Unread post by **Deliciousdonut** » Mon Oct 01, 2018 12:10 am

Edward T thanks again

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Oct 21, 2018 5:46 pm

Our radio show today, October 21st, 2018, contained a Black Walnut spell for removing ties to an ex that had some sort of spiritual hold on a woman. The show's archive-link is here, along with the chat log:

LMHRHour CHAT LOG October 21, 2018 The Master Key
topic91705.html

Mistycr · Unread post by **Mistycr** » Mon Jun 10, 2019 9:58 pm

My husband had a female friend that he had reconnected with around the time that our marriage wasn't doing so well.
He had started to develop feelings for her and she him, and they started to spend more and more time together and he told me he wanted a separation. At the same time, I worked on rebuilding our marriage using both natural methods and rootwork, as well as separation and break up spells for the two of them.
After 4 months, I'm finally seeing the work come to fruition and he's coming back to me slowly. He's not spending as much time with her and was becoming more loving towards me again. But the other woman was still around and she kept stirring things up and asking him to come out with her.
The other day, I saw on his phone some messages that she sent to him that she wasn't going to speak to him again after he called off a catch up they were going to have and she got angry. She's completely cut him off and they haven't spoken in over a week. From the messages, he got angry too, but he didn't want her to stop talking to him.
I just want to ask if I can do a cut and clear on him so that any residual emotional attachment he may have left will go away.
Or what can I do so that he can have a clean break from her?

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Jun 11, 2019 7:02 pm

Hello Mistycr,

I have moved your post to spells to help break emotional ties to an ex. You can look through the spells here and find something suitable to work on him, to break his attachment to this other woman. I think this will help you.

Good luck.

Safflower Smoke · Unread post by **Safflower Smoke** » Sun Jul 07, 2019 10:39 am

Hello everyone, and thank you for sharing your knowledge and tips.
I did a search, and didn't see anything on this topic, so I would like to ask:

Is there any sort of remedy/work that can be done to help ease the pain of unrequited love?
I am very attracted to someone, and would like to be in a committed relationship, however, this person does not feel the same way towards me. It was never said in so many words, but body language and actions tell me that this is the case.
It has been bothering me for quite sometime, interfering with sleep and everyday duties...just a sickening melancholy feeling. I do recognize the fact that it isn't going any farther, but I can't quite seem to get out of this gloomy mindset.
I don't want to do cut and clear work, because I do have to see this person on a regular basis for business reasons.
I seem to recall seeing an herb called "Heartsease" or similar, but I don't see it listed in the catalog.

Any suggestions are welcomed and appreciated.
Thank you.

JayDee · Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Jul 08, 2019 1:41 pm

Safflower Smoke ,

Cut and clear does not mean the person is gone from your life, rather cuts the emotional ties and clears the way to find new love. Also used is black walnut bath to get over love.

Black walnut bath: http://www.herbmagic.com/walnut-whole.html
Link to forum topic to stop thinking of and loving an ex, not an ex but the information would still be valuable: spells-to-stop-thinking-of-loving-or-dr ... t1798.html

Khi Armand ( Nov 17, 2010) stated on this forum topic to use Heartsease to get over a love, and further explains they are violets/ pansies. Here is the link: post56364.html?hilit=Heartsease#p56364

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Jul 08, 2019 3:16 pm

Hello Safflower Smoke,

I have moved your question to the correct thread on spells to stop thinking of or loving another person. We ask that you not start new topics on the forum, as you will see that we already have nearly every topic covered.

Although you wish to ease your emotional pain over someone who is not technically your ex, the principles in this thread still apply. Please read through the posts here for advice and ideas that can help you.

You can still use Cut and Clear products to remove your emotional ties to someone you still have to see daily. The goal here is to ease away your longing for this person, so you can engage in a more platonic fashion.
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Since this forum is for customers of Lucky Mojo to get help in using their products, we can't advise on the use of products sold elsewhere.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Starrkid24 · Unread post by **Starrkid24** » Tue Aug 27, 2019 9:02 pm

I’ve been seeing this man for over a year. I care for him very much, but am not long attracted to him romantically. I love the friendship aspect of our relationship and was wondering if anyone knows a way to end his romantic feelings towards me, but keep the friendship we have (and had before our relationship became sexual) intact.

Miss Nikki · Unread post by **Miss Nikki** » Wed Aug 28, 2019 8:10 am

Hello, Starrkid24!

I hope you are in good spirits! Congratulations on your first post, and welcome to the forum!

I’m sorry about what you are going through. A doll baby/poppet is what I would do. We have a place on the forum where you can look,for answers. Here is the link:

general-doll-baby-voodoo-doll-poppet-qu ... t8946.html

Look at the forum before you ask questions. There may have the answer for you already there. Good luck!

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Aug 28, 2019 5:36 pm

Hello Starrkid24,

I have moved this conversation to the correct thread on spells to stop loving someone. You will see that we have nearly every topic already covered, so please do not start new topics as you did.

Since you want your partner to stop having romantic feelings for you, you could work the spells described in this topic area on him. Read through the posts here and see if there's something that speaks to you, then adapt it to work on him rather than yourself. Many spells can be worked either remotely or as a sneaky trick on a target that is not open to participating in the spell itself.

If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Sarah27 · Unread post by **Sarah27** » Sat May 23, 2020 9:01 pm

Hi guys, i just wanted to ask if anyone could give me some advice on a spell to do to help get over someone and heal from a relationship. Thank you.

W1nter · Unread post by **W1nter** » Sun May 24, 2020 4:54 am

Try a sweetening jar for self love

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun May 24, 2020 9:29 am

Sarah27

The classic hoodoo spell -- also used in the folklore of other cultures -- is to bathe oneself in an herbal tea of Black Walnuts. Another spell involves following behind the person cutting up and discarding portions of a fresh lemon and concluding by discarding the knife.

See this page from my free online book, "Hoodoo in Theory and Practice:"

CUT AND CLEAR SPELLS
http://luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

=====

W1nter

I understand the concept of self-love, but Sarah27 wanted to fall our of love. A spell of self-love does not invariably lead to falling out of love. It may be a good second step after falling out of love, but It is not the same.

Sarah27 · Unread post by **Sarah27** » Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:24 pm

Hi, catherineyronwode and W1nter thank you both so much for your response i really do appreciate it and you have both given me exactly a bit of both of what i needed. I am looking to fall out of love, heal and move forward whilst starting to again love myself more. @catherineyronwode do you offer any rootwork services by any chance?

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jun 04, 2020 5:23 pm

Sarah27 --

I am currently offering candle services and mojo bags. My shop makes and prepares hundreds of goods for spell work and we publish books and free web pages on spells. I prefer to teach at this point in my life.

If you need something different than what i offer, please try Hoodoo Psychics or the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers.

Good luck.

Sarah27 · Unread post by **Sarah27** » Fri Jun 05, 2020 8:29 am

Hi Catherineyronwode,

thank you, i am definitely interested in your services.

could you please guide me to where i can place an order for candles?

and do you also have break up spells?

I am so excited to of found you as i have been looking for a teacher.

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Jun 06, 2020 11:36 pm

Hello, Sarah27 --

Find all candles we sell and ship to you:

http://luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html

Find all candles services we set for you on our altars and for which we end you an emailed candle reading:

http://candleministry.com

Find all Break Up Products, including Break Up spell kits, here:

http://luckymojo.com/breakup.html

Good luck to you.

Graveyardhag · Unread post by **Graveyardhag** » Fri Jun 12, 2020 3:14 pm

I am hoping to get some advice on how to stop dreaming of an ex.
I am pretty certain it is some sort of spiritual tie, or something directed at me, as I certainly do not have any feelings for him anymore, I am not even really angry anymore although still want nothing to do with him. He is the father of my children. I suspect also that it's not just the dreams but also blocking other areas of my life from improving or me moving forward.

The dreams always seem to follow the same pattern of trying again. When they began they were very very violent (attempting to murder each other, throwing cars at him, that sort of thing) which I have dealt with, I did a lot of protection work and I had one glorious night of dreaming a dream I wanted instead of that nonsense and now it's back, though without the violence and I have had enough. I want it to stop.

I have uncrossed, I have cleansed, I have done reversing work, I have done protection work - the basics have all been covered.
So, what might you advise to get rid of all of this? On hand i have banishing oil, and I can order a cut and clear vigil candle through MISC if that is recommended. Would either of these be suitable to stopping these dreams, and hopefully removing anything else that's happening?
(I am not able to do the naked part of the black walnut bath so I think that would be unsuitable)

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Jun 14, 2020 8:50 pm

Hello Graveyardhag,

The posts in this topic include lots of spell advice that may be helpful to you, so if you haven't already done so, please read through them.

Since you have done uncrossing work already but these dreams continue, then you might be targeted by a reconciliation spell done by or on behalf of your ex. You might want to re-do your uncrossing work and follow it up with protection, so read through the posts in the following topic on how to protect yourself from someone throwing for you:
spell-casting-for-protection-against-sp ... t3222.html

You may also wish to consult a professional rootworker from AIRR (the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers), who can help to identify the source of this energy and give advice on how to address it (either through work you can do for yourself or work they can do for you). Find the directory here:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Graveyardhag · Unread post by **Graveyardhag** » Mon Jun 15, 2020 2:37 am

Hi Miss Athena, thank you.
I have indeed read through this thread, it is pretty much all people wanting to remove feelings however, and that's not my case. I am not entirely sure if cut and clear would work to remove those spiritual ties for example? Or if banishing would?

I just yesterday redid uncrossing (13 herb bath), did my whole house out with chinese wash and followed up with tibetan ghost purging incense. Protection is a daily thing. I do have jinx killer here I intend to do one morning this week as well. Have started adding uncrossing crystals to each load of washing.

I do go to an AIRR reader, and so far we haven't been able to pinpoint the source, they have me focusing largely on protection right now, as this isn't the only thing that's happened by a long shot and the last time ended up harming 2 children, so by all rights I really should be protected, but it's not stopping these dreams.

RisenRaven · Unread post by **RisenRaven** » Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:37 am

Hi Graveyardhag,

(Forgive me for being slightly off topic in this thread, mods,) but I wanted to say that your post resonated with me and I am praying for you. Have you considered posting a prayer request at The Crystal Silence League? http://crystalsilenceleague.org/

Or for the dreams specifically, perhaps some Tranquility could help? https://www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html

Terra Rising · Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Mon Jun 15, 2020 7:07 am

Graveyardhag,

I'm glad to hear you are already working with a professional. It can take a bit of time to find the root of the problem. Clarity is what I would be working with in order for you to find the meaning and cause of these dreams. You can dress a white candle with the oil and burn it before bed.

Protection is key here. It could be your ex or it could be something else entirely which is why I'm not jumping on the Cut and Clear to fix this. Sleeping with a pair of open scissors under your bed is traditional for protection while you sleep. You can find more information on protection from spiritual attack while you sleep on this thread: nightmare-bad-dreams-hag-riding-incubus ... t4207.html

Please keep working with the rootworker and seeking clarity. If you do wish to order a candle from MISC I would suggest a Clarity candle.

https://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

Graveyardhag · Unread post by **Graveyardhag** » Mon Jun 15, 2020 12:40 pm

Thank you RisenRaven, I appreciate that very much, To be honest no I haven't! I am not sure why not, I do post prayers for other things. I will get onto that.

Terra Rising, Thank you! I read through that thread before I ordered the tibetan ghost purging incense, as that and chinese wash were the most commonly written about work recommended and successes on there, I will get myself some new scissors today!
I do have clarity oil here, so no need for MISC for that one. I will begin that tonight as well.

Casteel344 · Unread post by **Casteel344** » Mon Jul 27, 2020 5:50 pm

Is it better to do cut and clear work at the new moon or full moon when it comes to ridding yourself of memories of past relationships. Also can I use cut and clear to free myself of thinking, dreaming, or loving all of my exes.

I have paper in my shoe by the amazing Mrs. Cat, but can I have some guidance on how to write a blanket petition to get rid of my feelings for my exes. Thanks yall.

Miss Athena · Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Jul 30, 2020 3:32 am

Hello Casteel344,

I would do this work during a waning moon. If you have more than one ex for whom you still have unwanted feelings, I would perform this spell for each of them individually. Your feelings are unique to each person and relationship, so I would be concerned that a "blanket" approach as you suggest would not yield good results.

I hope this helps. Good luck.