To Cause One Who Spurned Me to Love Me So I Can Get Even

[gingerly88]

I've recently been in contact with my first "boyfriend". We were very young at the time. He treated me poorly, but I was so smitten with him, I allowed it for too long. Eventually I broke up with him. We became rather good friends, but at times would re-visit the sexual side to our relationship. Then about 8 yrs ago fell out of contact as I stopped talking to him.

I can't help but feel like I want him now to feel just a hint of what I was feeling when we were together. He had never really tried to get to know "me", but I think if he had, he may have felt differently. Maybe not, but I was hoping there was something that might trigger feelings in him to desire to know me better, possibly feel some remorse for the way he acted, and maybe develop a crush on me. Anything really just to give him a little taste of his own medicine.

I wouldn't mind us fooling around again, but I'm pretty sure I could never have a "real" relationship with him as I'm pretty jaded over our relationship in the past.

Any ideas as to what may work besides a honey jar? He's been sending me a lot of messages for us just getting back into talking. He was recently divorced so he may be a little vulnerable at this time. I don't want to be "horrible" to him. I just want him to feel "smitten" with me so we can have a little fun.

[ConjureMan Ali]

You can easily work some conjure to get him to be smitten with you and attracted again. While you can work magick like that, I've yet to see anything that can really change the nature of people. You can help being be more open, more caring, more interested etc, but deep down they will remain the same person. While you can rekindle your relationship with him, be ready for him to still not want to get to know the real you. He may just be interested in the physical gratification. That being said, you can work a moving lodestone to draw him back to you, while working a honey jar, and dress yourself with kiss me now oil and follow me boy oils if you guys meet in person.

[starsinthesky7]

Do an attraction spell kit, or Kiss Me Now, and when you feel he is attracted to you again, get a red penis candle, or a free standing red candle. I would masturbate to his picture or the thought of him (do not use porn or any toys). If you are menstruating you can include this too with your vaginal fluids, and I would put this on the candle. Also, you could work a male figure candle. Either way I would dress with some kiss me now, follow me boy, come to me, and some bewitching. Cubeb, catnip (a must), calamus ,or controlling oil (which is a MUST in this case), damiana, and cardamom seeds are some good herbs to use in this case.

You don't have use all of the oils listed or all the herbs. Actually I would just use a few because that candle will go up in flames LOL. For the petition, that you want him to be sexually aroused every time his around you. Also, he might be scared so I would do something for courage. Dont be afraid to get into his thoughts with a skull candle dressed with the same herbs.

Here's another way, to keep it simple. Get a red jar candle, penis candle, or free standing candle, and dress it with your vaginal fluids and/or menstrual blood. Oils/powders: fire of love/come to me/follow me boy and the herbs: Cardamom Seed, damiana, and cubeb berries.

Write his name and then the command "desire me"from base to wick. Also, rub your vaginal fluids from base to wick. Put all 3 oils (just a little ) int he palm of your hand and stroke up the candle 7 times. Here, I like to think about stroke his penis. Then roll the candle in the herbs. These herbs are going to need to be grind into small pieces, or even powder if you do enough work.

Then you would write his name, 7 times, and then turn it 90 degrees to the right, and then write your name 7 times. You can do this with a pink or red pen. Then I would circle the names with "love me, desire me and only me" You can change this to whatever you want the target to do.

Here are some more spells: http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html#red

[gingerly88]

I had done a quick candle spell on him using what I had around stating my desire for him to feel remorseful ect. I talked to him the next day & he apologized many times for how he had treated me. He also surprised me by remembering a lot more about me than I thought he ever paid attention to. Even down to little details. His mom was also on his FB page going on about how sweet she always thought I was & how she loved me..ect. (LOL) He also showed some desire to come see me (he lives 6 hrs away) as soon as a couple weeks, BUT he is still (understandably) upset about his soon to be ex-wife (papers were just signed) and he still has the desire to see her but she refuses to see him. He kept telling me how much I reminded him of her which I'm not sure if that's in my favor or not. I'm wondering if there is anything I can work to speed up his healing process so he may focus more on me? I want him to feel he missed out now that I know he realizes he was a jerk & never had given me a real chance.

Stars- I also used one of your spells recently so thank you for submitting those. I just need to make another order to Lucky Mojo for some more supplies.

[starsinthesky7]

When it comes to something like healing...you dont want to speed up the results. Besides if we all could speed up the results we would. As long as he is healing that is all thats important. I would even compel him that he does not need her anymore and does not want to see her.

[gingerly88]

How would I compel him? Do I just state it in my intentions or add it to my petitions? I just want to make sure I have all necessary supplies before I make my order complete. Cool, thanks again!

[starsinthesky7]

Get a compel candle. I think lucky mojo calls it compel and control. Use that one

[Devi Spring]

Compelling is formulated to get someone to give you something that is owed to you from them - like paying back a loan or making good on a promise. Commanding is to lead someone forward, like an Army commander. Controlling is to rule someone by taking charge of their will.

[starsinthesky7]

The Lucky Mojo candle combines these as Command-Compel-Control.

See http://www.luckymojo.com/candle-command ... ntrol.html

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[ConjureMan Ali]

Since you are really focusing on having him be smitten with you so you can fun, simply keep working with Follow Me Boy, Kiss Me Now, and Fires of Love work. Keep the heat up on the spells, get cinnamon involved as an herb since its great to turn up the heat on love work. If you are worried about his ex wife, work a moving candle spell and get him to move towards you. Annoint with Follow Me Boy and Kiss Me Now. This will keep his mind focused on having fun with you and will draw him away from his concern about his ex.

[Devi Spring]

starsinthesky7 --

Thanks for pointing that out.

[gingerly88]

I appreciate everyone's advice. I have been doing some work as I found a LM candle I didn't know I had & have been using the fire of love, come to me, & follow me boy. Kiss me quick is on my to buy list. This is actually working EXTREMELY well.

He never acted like he liked me in the past & he's been so incredibly different, it's amazing. One thing is tho, I'm enjoying it so much that I find myself being super swoony over him & I don't want to be the one making too much contact. I want him to follow me not the other way around. LOL! and he HAS been, but I get like that..any advice on what I can do to give myself more self control? I don't mind having feelings for him just don't want to be overkill. I want to be somewhat cool.

[gingerly88]

As an update...I started using candles and many spells on him..I cannot tell you how well they worked! It took time but when I look back, I am just amazed! I started having deeper feelings for him than I thought I would. I did a freezer spell for his ex & she never talks to him. I did many spells to have us have a relationship & for us to even one day have a baby.

Right now, he is sleeping in the other room & I am holding our baby. I guess I really didn't turn the tables on him, but he did feel he missed out & desired to know me better.

So glad for all the help I found here. I do need some more advice on keeping things "hot" between us, but I'm pretty happy right now.

[supernova]

wow , this is really wonderful.
thank you for sharing your success with us. congratulations and that you will always be happy.

[desiresofheart]

Congrats! Thanks for sharing and thanks to Lucky Mojo for giving us products to move things in our favor.

Happy Hoodooing!

[Dr Johannes]

supernova,

Just sew one of his hairs (from his head) into each of your underpants and he will be hot enough for a long time.

Consider lighting some Stay With Me incense each new moon, just to keep his mind on the right spot.

//Dr. Johannes

[catherineyronwode]

To cause someone who spurned you to love you so that you can get even:

Cover a red penis or vulva candle (as appropriate to the situation) with you sexual fluids, dust it with Return To Me Sachet Powder, and let it dry.

Set it on a metal pie plate and around it dribble a thin ring of honey, sorghum syrup, maple syrup, or molasses. Dust Return To Me Powder on the sweetener.

Speak words of love aloud to your ex (as represented by the candle), and make all kinds of promises. Burn the candle in sections for at least 3 days, but preferably more, talking and crooning to it as it burns.

When he does come back, take whatever is left of the candle wax, pour a small amout of Florida Water Cologne on it, take it out of doors and set it on fire,

[LittleWitch2020]

This info has been amazing! I'm glad I read this.

Starsinthesky7, you are the best! Your patience and compassion was awesome.

Starsinthesky7 did a perfect job explaining things. I don't know if this spell has a name. But, I'm on it!
As soon as my finances come off vacation (lol), I'm ordering those oils!

A lot of us are learning and we are so eager to learn. However, we have jobs and families. At times it's hard to read a 9 page thread. Not because we are hasty. We all need a helping hand. Think back to when you 1st started out... Starsinthesky7 was perfect! Patient helpful and eager to help.

I can't wait to work these tricks and see his smugg expression turn into an expression of eagerness... To please lol.

This knowledge I just gained... Worth 10 trillion million.

Thank you
Little Witch2020

[catherineyronwode]

LittleWitch2020 --

You are so right. A lot of us have jobs and families and we post here to help newcomers like you, hoping that in times to come, while we are busy doing other things, or after we have left the forum, or even after death, some newbie will take the time to read what we wrote and learn for it.

I am very glad that you found the posts by Starsinthesky7, made nearly ten years ago, to be so helpful to you. She was a wonderful moderator who made thousands of posts here while she was in graduate school, and she is doing very well in her career these days. Much love and respect to her!