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Unread post by NotDorianGray » Sat Mar 13, 2010 5:04 am

Just keep your petition simple and to the point. It can read something along the lines of "I want to remain calm about this situation," or somehing more complex and detailed. It's up to you. Just make sure that it gets your point across.

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sat Mar 13, 2010 5:43 pm

I would recommend keeping the petition to the point. I like to keep them to a single sentence or two, and definitely not longer than a paragraph.
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Re: Spells to Stop Thinking of, Loving, or Dreaming of an Ex

Unread post by Dr Johannes » Sat Mar 13, 2010 10:35 pm

Take a good cleansing bath. Make sure you wash the back of your head with cold water each night and each morning.
If this does not do it, then take a raw egg. Rinse it in cold water. Pray over it that it should remove any thoughts, feelings and negative energy. Then rub it counter clockwise around your head, in a spiral downwards, several times. You may also start about 15-20 cm outside and cleanse the "aura".
Dispose of the egg by breaking it on the inside of your toilet. Flush three times. Then cleanse your place using a Chinese wash with a few dashes of ammonia.

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Unread post by ConjureMan Ali » Sun Mar 14, 2010 8:20 pm

I actually prescribe a similar practice for my clients who have difficulty with intruding thoughts. I have them take cleansing baths aimed at the intrusive and negative thoughts. I think the egg cleansing for the thoughts is a great idea.

Of course I was taught that when you remove the condition you want to put something back I would probably follow up the cleansing with anointing yourself with Tranquility to keep yourself calm, Wisdom of Solomon, or even a love oil to help you in the situation. But that's just me.
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Unread post by kmew1315 » Mon Mar 15, 2010 9:04 am

Johannes wrote:Take a good cleansing bath. Make sure you wash the back of your head with cold water each night and each morning.
If this does not do it, then take a raw egg. Rinse it in cold water. Pray over it that it should remove any thoughts, feelings and negative energy. Then rub it counter clockwise around your head, in a spiral downwards, several times. You may also start about 15-20 cm outside and cleanse the "aura".
Dispose of the egg by breaking it on the inside of your toilet. Flush three times. Then cleanse your place using a Chinese wash with a few dashes of ammonia.

Tranquility Products does not remove repetative thoughts.
This may sound like a stupid question, but I'm seriously wondering - do you mean counter clockwise as if I was above looking down on my head? Because counter clockwise could be two different directions depending on which way I'm looking at my head from.
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Unread post by Dr Johannes » Mon Mar 15, 2010 2:31 pm

Don´t look in a mirror. :-)
Just imagine you are the root doctor doing it to a client.
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Unread post by kmew1315 » Mon Mar 15, 2010 5:15 pm

Top of my head or forehead?
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Unread post by lunatrix » Mon Apr 12, 2010 5:43 pm

Hello.

I just ordered products and scheduled a reading for tomorrow.
Here is my situation and any advice is much appreciated.
Thinking about not performing a honey jar until I get my reading tomorrow, even though my divinitory practice points to a favorable outcome with Hoodoo.

On March 8th, 7 days before I was supposed to move to be with my fiance(we were to be married April 14th), he called me on the phone and said he just could not do it. Didn't see it coming. There was a big deception over money we were using to set up housekeeping and he looked me straight in the eye and vowed he was going to prove to me he would make it right. Of course the next day he called everything off via phone!I scrambled to cancel the lease, find new tenants and secure a place to live. He has been non communicative.

He owes me money for the deposit on the lease. I've given him several opportunities and he has not come through on every one. So I just sent a certified letter that if he does not pay me by a certain date, I will be taking him to small claims court.

I want reconciliation. He just started a new business that I helped birth and it is going like gangbusters. I am just starting to get over being
VERY PISSED and crying all the time. He treated me like gold until the last minute...like a hit and run accident. If you met him, you would think he was the nicest person in the world.

So I ordered a honey jar reconciliation, return to me candle, reconciliation spell kit, and a pay me now candle along with some various saints.
They won't arrive until later this week,but I have everything I need to perform a honey jar ritual now.
Don't think there is another woman in the picture, but you never know...it was a long distance relationship. I still have my engagement ring.

My concern is the certified letter will throw off any reconciliation work(which I have not started). He should receive the letter Wednesday.
Should I start now or wait until my reading?

Thanks for your help...this almost leveled me.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Mon Apr 12, 2010 6:06 pm

Wait for your reading -- but, dear, don't be surprised if you hear things that would not lead you in the direction of a honey jar.
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Unread post by lunatrix » Mon Apr 12, 2010 6:11 pm

Thanks Catherine. Sounds kind of bad to me...who knows? : )
But I will heed your advice and WAIT.

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Unread post by lachina » Wed Apr 14, 2010 11:21 am

you could start taking some baths to take off the negative energy. i would suggest doing that before your supplies come in or you get the reading, they are very soothing and i would recommend them pronto

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Re: Spells to Stop Thinking of, Loving, or Dreaming of an Ex

Unread post by lunatrix » Thu Apr 15, 2010 8:55 am

Thanks for the replies. Got a reading and am proceeding on a course of action.
My biggest issue is to let go of obsessing and keeping my thoughts positive...that is the real rub!
Any advice on letting go and trusting is much appreciated. This always seems to be the hardest part.

When I work for money or something else...no big deal, let it go.
But when it comes to love ...especially when you are the woman scorned(hell hath no fury ya know),
it is a bit of a struggle.

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Unread post by MightyAphrodite » Thu Apr 15, 2010 12:40 pm

I understand how hard it is to stop obsessing. It's wise to work on that as a symptom of it's own, because you're right, it helps the bigger work if you can let go (and make you feel better!)

The answer depends some on where you're going with the relationship in general.

If you're moving towards ending your relationship, then Cut & Clear will help you let go of your feelings towards him.

If you think you might keep your relationship, then look into products to help you cleanse and heal. I really love the Healing oil! When I'm obsessing or getting emotionally stuck, I'll carve my name & intention into a 4" blue candle (color for healing) dressed with healing oil. Sometimes I use Crucible of Courage if I'm afraid to let go. I haven't tried Tranquility yet, but that would probably be great in this same way of using mojo to support your emotional healing process.

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Unread post by lunatrix » Thu Apr 15, 2010 2:42 pm

Thanks Mighty Aphrodite(love that screen name). I am definitely need of healing over this situation.
Any thoughts on what I can use in the meantime before healing oil and blue candles arrive?

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Unread post by MightyAphrodite » Thu Apr 15, 2010 3:01 pm

lunatrix wrote:Thanks Mighty Aphrodite(love that screen name). I am definitely need of healing over this situation.
Any thoughts on what I can use in the meantime before healing oil and blue candles arrive?
Do you have any mojo supplies on hand?

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Unread post by lunatrix » Thu Apr 15, 2010 3:23 pm

Not many. Usual "household" items.

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Unread post by MightyAphrodite » Thu Apr 15, 2010 9:11 pm

Salt water baths are cleansing, so you can start there. You can also bless a tea light candle (even if you don't have oils yet) and light it in prayer.

Also, ANY kind of a home cleanse (with the intention to move out energy) will probably help. Besides the obvious of putting away any upsetting objects/reminders, wash your sheets and give your home a good dust/sweep/vacuum from the back of your house, moving negative energy out the front door.

You've been through something traumatic. Try to take it easy and collect yourself. When your supplies come you can do some more elaborate rituals, but your healing process starts now. Take care.

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Unread post by lunatrix » Fri Apr 16, 2010 8:43 am

Thank you..will do it!!!!

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Unread post by deewany » Wed Aug 04, 2010 7:13 pm

Hey all,
I was just wondering, can i do any ritual/spells etc for this guy who really needs to forget his ex/his past with her and move forward in life. He is stuck to the past, and can't seem to move on. For his own good, and for his own future, i want his past burden to be eased. I care about him a lot. And due to this, our friendship even ceased.. What can i do for his sake? I have already got a reading an instructions on how to restore my friendship with him.

Please gimme some ideas.. Thanks..

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Unread post by thelightfantastic » Wed Aug 04, 2010 9:03 pm

You should follow the instructions the reader gave you and first work on restoring your friendship with the guy. As far as making this guy forget about his past or his ex, I think that's going to be a rather difficult working as a person has to want to move on to actually move on. If this guy sees no real problem with his behavior, despite the fact that living in the past is holding him back from the present, no spell is going to make him stop.
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Unread post by deewany » Wed Aug 04, 2010 9:23 pm

Thanks for the input.. I will work on restoring our friendship, that's for sure.. I am not asking him to forget his past so it will be an advantage for me, but he has addressed many times to me he realy wants to forget her, forget the past, as that's over, but he can't seem to, and he is no believer to Hoodoo etc, so i can't even suggest him do anything magic. But i thought i'd be able to help him ease his burden, get a clear mind and be able to move forward in life, wether it be with me or anyone else, but first his past needs to diminish. So he can open up his heart and mind..

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Unread post by thelightfantastic » Wed Aug 04, 2010 10:40 pm

I'm not doubting your motives for wanting to help but again, this guy has to want to change for any change to occur. If he's been going round in circles like this for years but taken no real steps to move on, he's not ready to move on. Obsessing and holding on to the past can be a way of life for some people. He may need to go get counseling to help him learn how to let go and move on.

I suppose you could work some Crucible of Courage products on him to give him courage to face this problem and to move on, but I get the feeling he may be using his past as an excuse to not make any commitments in the present.
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Re: Spells to Stop Thinking of, Loving, or Dreaming of an Ex

Unread post by deewany » Wed Aug 04, 2010 11:12 pm

Well, according to the reading i got, he is really deeply hurt from his past, and his deep feelings for the ex is the one causing him unable to move on..
On another note, he actualy left the country for 2 1/2 yrs after he broke up with her and only to finally return this year.. But as we got closer, a lot of things i do or say reminded him of his ex.. Well, i never knew her or him before, so i have absolute no idea how she is etc.. I dont even ask, when he's down he pours his feelings out to me, and i listen.. As time past by, we got more closer, and talks of his ex diminshed.. But suddenly, he used it now when when he couldn't have a commitment.. Well i thought it was an excuse as well, but according to the reading i got, it is genuine.. He still is unable to forget her n the memories.. But she is already married by the way.. And he says no ways in the world he would ever get back with her, but he is still not over her..

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Unread post by cabriellenil » Thu Aug 05, 2010 2:41 am

I'm with thelightfantastic on this one. You can do work to help your target with cleansing, healing, clarity and/or courage so that he can deal with his past, but you can't make him move on if it doesn't come from him. It sounds like these issues are deeply-seated and you'd want to consult your worker how you can tackle them - in fact, I'd hire the worker to do at least part of the work, after your friendship is somewhat restored/you're getting positive movements.
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Unread post by deewany » Thu Aug 05, 2010 4:03 am

Thanks guys for the input.. Yeh, my main focus is restoring our friendship, but when things r looking positive for that then i shall consult a rootworker to see what can be done for him, wether it be courage to help him, cleansing, healing etc.. Im just really worried about him.. He totally dropped the world and left, and he is finally taking one step now to build his life once again.. I just hope all goes well for him.. And am reali hoping our friendship will be restored..

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Re: Spells to Stop Thinking of, Loving, or Dreaming of an Ex

Unread post by maduro01 » Fri Aug 27, 2010 12:51 pm

Is Cut & Clear the best way for me to go, if my petition is a general request not to EVER, EVER, EVER cross paths again with anyone I have ever been sexually or romantically attracted to in my life?
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Unread post by thelightfantastic » Fri Aug 27, 2010 1:36 pm

If you want someone removed from your life permanently without any chance of running into them or anything, I believe the black walnut bath is actually a better choice. You need to be sure you truly want them out of your life though. It is my understanding that a cut and clear is the "nicer" version to break a link with someone - it simply cuts emotional ties to the person while they can remain in your life if you so choose.

That said, I'm not sure if you can do a blanket petition to cover several different folks from your past. You may have to do a bath/ritual for each person individually.
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Unread post by jwmcclin » Fri Aug 27, 2010 6:29 pm

I agree with thelightfantastic....Black Walnut (found here) http://www.herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html is a good choice.
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Unread post by illey » Mon Aug 30, 2010 11:20 pm

Hello all! I have several questions I am hoping can be answered. If you can even only answer one, any help would be greatly appreciated!

1. I was doing some work on my ex but I've finally been able to open my eyes and see the situation for what it really is it. Now I really want to be able to get him out of my mind completely and never think about him again. I just feel I have wasted so much time and energy already but my mind is still on him so often. I would like to perform the cut and clear, but is that enough to quiet my mind and help me start thinking about other people and focusing my energry elsewhere? Or are there additional things I could do to help with my thoughts?

2. Related to the first part, I had a honey jar going for him. I would like to dispose of it at this point but I'm confused as the best way to do this since I no longer want the influence of it around. It seems like it should either be burned, buried at a cross roads or thrown into moving water. I've tried searching the forums but I've only found suggestions on how to dispose of a honey jar made in error, not one that you no longer wish to be active. Suggestioins, thoughts? Is it an option to do one thing with the contents (burn, bury, etc) and recycle the jar?

3. My self esteem has taken quite a hit this year and I would really like to recover it/make it better and help myself get to place where I can move on completely and find new love. I'm definitely putting myself out there and meeting new people/going on dates but I could use some more confidence and security in feeling like I'm doing the right thing/I deserve love. What products would be good for spiritual cleansing, self esteem boosting and moving on (and calming/quieting the mind, as with part 1). I have used 13-herb bath and found it helpful but that was before this final falling out so it's like I need even more. (I'm also getting some counseling also, so I'm definitely seeking help eveywhere.)

Thank you so much for all of your help forum readers! I appreciately greatly!

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Tue Aug 31, 2010 1:18 am

1.I would do the cut and clear which will deaden your feelings for him, and help you be able to move on from what you had with him. I would do some clarity, and wisdom work to help you clear and focus your mind on better decisions for other things.

2. If you are done with the jar, you can dispose of it in moving water to get it away from you, or at a crossroads (recycle the jar). You could burn the contents as well and put them in a crossroads, or moving water.

3.I would do some healing baths, and do some road opening work as well. To help yourself esteem you can do some john the conqueror work to help improve your personal power. It is great that you are willing to seek out counseling services. I think that will help as well. You can definitely use that 13 herb bath, but in your case focus on healing products too.
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Unread post by Bella_Dellanotte » Tue Aug 31, 2010 6:05 am

ultimately the will of the mind is more powerful than anything. you need to believe in yourself for any self esteem boosting stuff to work because even if you perform cleansings if your mindset is still negative you will still create more negative energy that will eat at you and you will have to be constantly cleansing. know and believe that you are better than anyone who has felt the need to put you down. put that intent into any cleansing and boosting work you do and keep positive thoughts in your head. focusing on the positive intent and making a mantra out of it that you repeat to yourself is as good as any spell. nothing matters but what you think about yourself and your self is not defined by anyone but you. get or make a protective energy shield around yourself to help deflect any negativity people throw at you, whether it's intentional or not

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Tue Aug 31, 2010 8:51 am

Back up the Cut and Clear with new activities, hobbies, and interests that you enjoy, where you will have the opportunity to meet new people. Don't just sit at home and think about the past. Get out of the house. Talk to people.
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Re: Spells to Stop Thinking of, Loving, or Dreaming of an Ex

Unread post by lunatrix » Wed Sep 01, 2010 12:22 pm

Yeah, this one is getting old for sure.

Still waiting for court, so I do not think it is wise to perform the black walnut bath until after
court is over. Hope springs eternal that this person will stop lying and I can file a dismissal.
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. But it is getting down to the wire.

My point(yes, I really have one :D )...I performed the Cut and Clear Spell from the spell kit, have been taking many spiritual baths,
and wearing the cut and clear oil. Unfortunately, I still am not over this person.

What would you recommend to do? I just received Road Opener oil.
This isn't a plea for reconciliation, but for me to have some peace of mind and move on.
After court, I believe much of this will dissipate, but until then, it is taking up way too much of my mind and energy.
This has been going on since March and am looking for it to be over soon.

Have what I need for court. This question is for me being able to let go,move on, and be open
to someone new who is not a Peter Pan man.

ms.cat's book arrives tomorrow and I hope to find some answers in there, too.

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Re: Spells to Stop Thinking of, Loving, or Dreaming of an Ex

Unread post by sassafrassblonde » Wed Sep 01, 2010 1:11 pm

Walnut bath. I do not think it will interfere with court proceedings, and may give you eveness of emotion when dealing with him. It's what I had to do.
I did the walnut bath, then cut and clear in that order. Same night.
Slept like the dead for 10 hours, and woke feeling way lighter of spirit, renewed hope for my future, and cleaned my house, top to bottom, then cleansed it. It took a whole weekend, I was exhausted, but it was soooo worth it.
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Re: Spells to Stop Thinking of, Loving, or Dreaming of an Ex

Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Wed Sep 01, 2010 1:19 pm

I would do some healing work on yourself to heal yourself from whatever happened between you and this man. Then I would do some things on a mundane level. Get rid of EVERYTHING that reminds you of him. I mean everything. If you have to get a bbq grill and toss all his stuff in the fire, then do so. I'm talking about pictures, things he gave you...everything. Give it away to someone else. Whatever you have to do. Next, I would recommend improving yourself such as start exercising, or just engaging in things you love. Get a hobby, and activity you enjoy with family and friends. And I would recommend going to therapy. When I broke up with my ex, it wasnt until I entered graduate school for counseling, and I had to get a therapist that it made me realize so much about myself. I am not sure why but speaking about it with someone, and having them reflect my thinking back at me...did something for me. Try it...and if you dont like your first counselor or therapist try another one....make sure its a good fit.

Hoodoo and rootwork is great, but sometimes you have to do other things to accompany it to help it work as well.
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Unread post by lunatrix » Wed Sep 01, 2010 1:57 pm

Thank you both.

Stars, this girl is doing it ALL.
Therapy, lost 50 lbs, hanging out with friends, exploring new things.
Well, the exercise thing needs work...a lot of work! But that's always been an ongoing battle.

Thank you for the recommendations...they are truly sound advice. Hoodoo is not the cure all, but it helps.
I need to get rid of his stuff. I just threw it all in the garage so I wouldn't have to look at it.Won't sell the engagement ring
and jewelry until after court...you never know what these boy/men will do.

I think healing work is definitely in order. Will search the site and see what I can start now...like tonight.

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Wed Sep 01, 2010 2:23 pm

Well good for you for losing 50 lbs, and all of that good stuff. It is going to take time to get over this man...but just keep doing what you are doing. I do agree with the above poster to do the wal nut bath as it will not effect the court proceedings. As for his stuff in the garage...get rid of it. Have a garage sell, or give it away to the goodwill, or a thrift store. You need to rid his energy from you. I would cleanse your house as well.

I would work with balm of gilead, and some healing oil/powder to help you heal from a broken heart. In addition, you might want to do some love uncrossing work as well.
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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Wed Sep 01, 2010 3:03 pm

... And the Black Walnut bath! -)

You're doing fine, and as one who has "been there, done that," i can tell you that you'll look back on this later and realize how much better things are now that it's over.
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Re: Spells to Stop Thinking of, Loving, or Dreaming of an Ex

Unread post by lunatrix » Wed Sep 01, 2010 3:07 pm

Well, it seems like the consensus is ...Black Walnut Bath!
And I've got them on hand : )

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Unread post by ngreen35 » Mon Sep 13, 2010 2:23 pm

Hello All,

I have been wrestling with a very difficult situation for over a year now, and I have decided to ask the forum for help.

I was dating a man for 3 years. The entire time we were together, there was one particular girl that I was absolutely sure he had a heavily involved relationship with because she popped up all over every aspect of his life. He would lie and tell me of course she is around she is a very close family friend and best friends with all of my sisters. He would deny having any interest in her except as a friend he'd known forever. I should mention he lives in the basement of his family home and all of his sisters still live at home, so she was over almost everyday.

Throughout the relationship, I would constantly have readings performed to ascertain how much bull I was being fed, and oddly enough, each reader and spiritualist (I went to a total of 9 different practitioners from varying backgrounds), would tell me a similar version of him not being interested in, but he enjoyed the attention and lust she threw at him. Every reader, also expressed in no uncertain terms that this girl was crazy in love with him, knew all about me, and was working on breaking us up, and making him her own. I was told she was feeding him things, cutting pieces of his very long hair while he slept, stealing articles of clothes, pictures of the two of us etc.

His family would try to reassure me nothing was going on, and the girl just had a crazy crush on him. We worked together for years, and one day after a two week vacation, he never returned to work, and essentially stopped speaking to me. Everyone was beyond confused because he never resigned and he was just given a raise before the vacation.

I assume it was some of her doing. He went missing for 9 months, but he would randomly text me every so often during this time to say hi which I thought was weird, and then he started asking if it was possible to come back to work and for us to try again. He eventually was allowed to return to work after much penance with the president, and we were friendly, but I did not trust him after the crazy stunt he pulled. He never told me during his missing in action time that he got this girl pregnant.

When I found out, via pictures he saved to a work laptop we shared, I asked him about it and he declared the baby was not his, he never touched that girl, blah, blah,blah. Baby was born, he then tells me it is his, but said it wasn't because there was another guy involved, her longtime boyfriend to be exact. So I have readings done across my nine readers again to see if the child was indeed his, eight came back with a no and one said a weak yes came up during the divination, but in my first conversation with this reader he gave me a strong no...I have been checking from the day the kid was born in August 2009-now.

I was also told this girl still works against me, and I am completely justified in some type of revenge. Here's my question...is there a way to expedite him finding out this child is not his?? She talked her way out of doing a paternity test, by calling the cops and saying he attacked her. He never pursued the issue again, and takes care of this child. He still pushes for us to get back together and I feel like once a scum bag always a scum bag so getting together is not an option. However, I am absolutely interested in this girl and her dirty little lie and her home wrecking ways to be made to face the music. :evil:

Are there any LM products that can get the ball rolling on this?

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Mon Sep 13, 2010 4:32 pm

You're probably not going to like my advice, but here it is.

Do a Hot Foot Spell followed by a Fiery Wall of Protection spell to get this woman out of your life.

Do a Cut and Clear spell to get this guy off your mind.

Let them build and live in their own world. It's not your problem.
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Unread post by IBube » Mon Sep 13, 2010 5:09 pm

I second what Cat just said. Sounds like you've given enough of your life to this situation.

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Unread post by ngreen35 » Mon Sep 13, 2010 5:33 pm

Cat,

Thank you for the sound advice, will do!!

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Unread post by Badgerwoman » Wed Sep 15, 2010 8:22 am

I emailed him yesterday and asked him to call me. He did. We talked about things, and he told me that things had been fizzling out on his side for a while, and that he desperately wants to keep my friendship, but that he just doesn't think he's right for my needs, romantically. Okay. I told him, quite honestly, that it would take some time for me to heal, and to expect not to hear from me for a while, but that yes, we could still be friends. What I told him was "I want you in my life. I love talking to you, I love listening to you ramble, whether it's as friends or lovers. And while obviously I'd like the latter more, I'll take what I can get." This was actually the most mature "break-up" I've ever been through. Nobody screamed or anything. He expected me to, I think; he kept saying things like "When you're done cursing my name," and stuff like that. *shakes head*

ANYWAY, what I'm wondering is if there are any tricks, powders, or anything to help me break the "romantic" part of things while keeping the friend. I'm not sure Cut and Clear is right for this; I've read the spell several times, and I'm afraid it would cut him out of my life for good, and that's NOT what I want. Black Walnut bath is definitely also OUT. But right now, a cleansing is in order, I think, and something to help me heal my heart. And maybe protect it, so that when we do start talking again, I don't fool myself into thinking he's into me again.

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Unread post by Devi Spring » Wed Sep 15, 2010 8:24 am

If you target your romantic feelings in the Cut and Clear, rather than just ALL feelings, then it can work for your needs.
Definitely follow that up with Healing work for yourself.
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Unread post by ConjureMan Ali » Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:41 pm

Violet Leaves can also help with heartache. It is often a remedy that I recommend with great results along with Balms of Gilead. Brew them in a tea and you can bathe in it.
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Unread post by Badgerwoman » Wed Sep 15, 2010 1:18 pm

Thank you both very much. :)

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Unread post by Grizzly » Sat Nov 20, 2010 6:26 am

I was counseled by a Facebook online counselor with a reputation of a monk. Over a 6 month stretch, we became very close in private e-mails and I fell in love with him. He constantly told me how I enthralled him, he gave me a cuddly nickname and told me that he loved me. He later told me outright that my love was returned a hundred fold! :D

But somehow it came out that he had feelings for me among his people he counsels, and it alienated him completely and he asked his friends to tell me never to contact him again, as he is strictly a counselor (all of a sudden) and he posted on his wall that the fact that he had feelings for me was just a cruel rumor of someone who wanted to destroy his reputation! Needless to say, I am DEVASTATED! :( :( :(

I had never known heartbreak like this. I started cutting. I started drinking (I am a non-drinker) and taking overdoses of pills to numb myself. Together! :oops:

This man literally haunts me! I can't stop thinking about him and the injustice he did me. Not a second goes by that I do not think of him and I am sick of being misrable.

Please please please help me.
Is there any way to un-love? Or to make myself completely numb to any form of romance? He was the man of my dreams and there is just no substitute, so I want to remove my capacity to love, so that I will be apathetic to him...to be numb and not care about him anymore.

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Unread post by Turnsteel » Sat Nov 20, 2010 6:36 am

You need a good Cut and Clear. Cut and Clear is a conjure formulas designed to help people move on from things like this. Here is the link to the info page http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html I suggest you buy the Cut and Clear spellkit, it has everything you need to do a Cut and Clear spell to help rod you of your feelings for this man. You can find the kit here: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

Now that will help you get over him, but no conjure is going to remove your ability to feel love or make you "completely numb to any form of romance" Human beings are meant to love one-another, and it is foolishness to try and undo that part of you, that's simply the heartache talking.
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Unread post by jwmcclin » Sat Nov 20, 2010 7:13 am

Exactly, I think we all go through that feeling when our hearts have been broken. But the Cut & Clear spell can help remove those feelings and get you on the road to a clearer frame of mind. Another idea (some perform both spells in this situation), the Walnut Spiritual Bath http://www.herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html
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Unread post by Grizzly » Sat Nov 20, 2010 7:29 am

Thank you for the info, guys.

I had never been a "boyfriend" person. I'm a loner.
In 1994 I had my heart similarly broken, and I wrote a song in which I "cursed" myself never to love again, and you know what? It held for SIXTEEN YEARS!!! In all that time I had not fallen in love even once, not even a crush! I was just plain oblivious to romance. It was wonderful! If I could just mimic that spell again, I'd be good to go.

By the way, is there any other way of doing the spells you suggest? I am in South Africa, unemployed and living in a shelter....I can't exactly buy these kits. Is there maybe a similar "recipe" for it?

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sat Nov 20, 2010 5:01 pm

I would at least go ahead and do the walnut bath as suggested on the clear and cut website. You are going to have to purchase some supplies in order for things to be somewhat successful. In addition, you can take a lemon bath along with with the walnut bath. The walnut bath is the cut, and the lemon is the clear. You can purchase the walnuts form lucky mojo in the link above.
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Unread post by illey » Sat Feb 05, 2011 10:13 pm

Hi everyone,

I am seeking answers to help get over my ex. I have performed the cut & clear spell but still find myself thinking about my ex almost every day. I would love to perform the black walnut spell but I have no where to be naked while performing that spell. What else can I do to stop intrusive thoughts of my ex? I've met a new guy that I'd really like to be serious with also. I am seeing a therapist and on medication as well. I'd greatly appreciate recommendations.

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Sat Feb 05, 2011 11:10 pm

You should give everything you have done time to work. You have several things going on here. I find healing baths are excellent when dealing with many issues. Have you looked into Lucky Mojo's line of Healing Products (http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html)
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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sat Feb 05, 2011 11:10 pm

Well I am glad you are seeing a therapist for your situation, and I hope that continues to go well for you.


Now I would recommend that you do the black walnut spell which you only need to be naked for the part when you dispose of the water, and doing the bath. If you cant be naked as most people have an issue with this, then go with a robe on, and go to a deserted crossroads or intersection...you dont have to actually get out of your car...just throw it out without looking back. Go LATE at night. You can throw it at a tree as well far from your home. Again, go somewhere dark, throw it at the tree, say the You are dead to me petition (located on the page) and keep on moving.

I would have a rootworker back up your cut and clear spell, and perhaps you need to do some healing work as well on yourself for this situation.
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Unread post by Darbla » Sun Feb 06, 2011 5:26 pm

I've been divorced for 3 years and I need to get over that old relationship crap. I know ideally I'd throw out the bed we had, but that's just not financially practical. So I'm thinking I can sprinkle it with some kind of purifying powder, and then after that's had awhile to work its magic then sprinkle on something else? So, with that in mind:

(1) I would appreciate suggestions for ridding the bed of any energies leftover from the old relationship.

(2) What would you sprinkle for the second part of this? Peaceful Home? Love Drawing? I don't have a specific somebody I'm wanting to draw; more like just put a good, happy, loving energy back in the bed (and the whole place, really) for ME if nobody else. Is there something else that's good for just all-around, all-purpose good feelings and happiness?

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Sun Feb 06, 2011 5:56 pm

I recommend a sage smudge to rid your environment of negative vibes. You can also wash all washable items with a cleansing agent like Chinese Wash follow with Peaceful Home/Love Drawing conjure. But to cover many bases, I was thinking of a series of Spiritual Baths (1) 13 Herb Spiritual Bath to cleanse, uncross and remove negative conditions such as bad luck, (2) 9 Herb Spiritual Bath to increase your wisdom, strength and personal power and (3) 7 Herb Spiritual Bath to draw luck in money, love, career etc etc... I have listed the aforementioned below.

Sage leaves are discussed/sold here http://herb-magic.com/sage.html and the bundle discussed/sold here http://herb-magic.com/sage-white-incense.html
Chinese Wash (http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html)
Peace Home (http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html)
Fire of Love (http://www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html) <includes links to many of the Love Drawing products>
Thirteen (13) Herb Spiritual Bath (http://herb-magic.com/13herb-bath-13.html)
Nine (9) Herb Spiritual Bath (http://www.herb-magic.com/9herb-bath-9.html)
Seven (7) Herb Spiritual Bath (http://www.herb-magic.com/7herb-bath-7.html)
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Re: Spells to Stop Thinking of, Loving, or Dreaming of an Ex

Unread post by illey » Sun Feb 06, 2011 7:23 pm

@jwmcclin - I performed the cut&clear back in september or so, so I was hoping that had been enough time. While it did seem to set events in motion to help me get over the guy, the thoughts are still there :/ I've done a few healing baths before, but none since the cut&clear. Would one be better over another at this point?

@starsinthesky7 thank you I've been working with this therapist for a while (not over this specific situation but for things in general) and I know its something that is often suggested in these situations. I may try to do the black walnut spell if I can wear a robe while disposing of the water. I live in an aparment complex so that makes it a little more difficult getting around in just a robe. I may be able to work with a rootworker in the future, money permitting. Maybe having a vigil light set would help?

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Unread post by Joseph Magnuson » Sun Feb 06, 2011 7:33 pm

jwmcclin:

That was an amazingly good and well thought out response! Very thorough! Thank you for the advice!

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sun Feb 06, 2011 7:41 pm

Yes a vigil light can help, and back up the work you have already done. You can wear the robe until you get to the place where you are going to dispose of the water. And if you cant go naked, then you cant go naked. The idea is to get rid of the remains AWAY from you. I feel like thats more important, and if you have to do some minor tweaking then thats fine.
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